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is it possible that the cause of suicide is some other illness than depression?
>>16939699
Uh... yes?
Any psychological sickness that will delude the victim into thinking he's doing something else or otherwise the right thing while in reality committing suicide?
Also peer pressure.
There's tons. Use your brain.
>>16939731
after my suicide attempt i lived in mental hospital for 4 months and was diagnosed with MDD, but to me it seems i have some other mental illness
>>16939699
Yes, the illness of being human.
How do I netflix and chill?
There's a girl I like, and we haven't seen each other for a while. We never got to hang out alone, but I know there's a mutual attraction.
Would it be cool to invite her for netflix and chill? Or should we go on a real date first?
And if we do chill, how long do I wait into the movie to pull some moves?
This man needs some advice
>>16939706
he needs some game too
>>16939711
Well yeah, I'm a virgin so I need some kind of starting point right?
Pic unrelated. I'm in a really self-destructive mood and I don't know what to do. None of my friends are available for a chat and I don't want to worry my parents. I guess my question here is: can I get some validation and possibly some mindfulness tips? Thanks.
>>16939665
go to /soc/ and post nudes. get your cheap validation there.
>>16939665
Get a job underage scum.
I guess this board has really had its best time
im semi facebook illiterate and have a friend who constantly goes offline after not talking for a few minutes but the second I say anything to him he comes back online to respond.
is he manually making it appear like hes offline for me only every time he appears offline or is something else going on?
>>16939652
If he's on desktop then he just has Facebook system alarms so he sees when you send a message and closes the tab when you don't talk.
If he's on mobile he's obviously just turning off his screen if nobody is talking
>>16939652
No, he's probably using the messenger app on his phone like most people do. You don't just sit there logged on, new messages pop up like text messages, and you answer them as they arrive
theres also times where he will remain offline while responding. does that change anything that you guys have said? appreciate the replies so far
Is computer science a meme degree?
Will I be replaced by Pajeets in the next decade?
What should i study instead? Any good software or tech/math or even science degree that will not implode in my lifetime?
where are you taking cs classes that are just coding like yeah coding is stupid and easy it gets more complicated when it comes to algorithm and chip design quantum algorithms etc sounds like youre just dumb or not good at math
>>16939636
not really. everything is up for grabs at this point bby.
even engineering is tied to projects which have small lifetimes after which you'll be forced to compete with the younger crowds once you're kicked out. the dirty little secret there being that being older does hurt your employment chances in engineering.
as for computer science, if you don't already have a background with computers(more than just knowing how to torrent btw) it will probably be a waste and you'll be lost the...
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You should expect global competition in the future in every industry, no more hiding in inefficient economies. If you're world class you can stay at the top.
Indian's do have their own software to program though. They have their own companies that will need their own enterprise software, apps, websites, embedded systems etc.
Companies have enough work, they have backlogs of work to do stretching back years. If that somehow got done there would be more projects thrown out. The systems designed in a way that pushes for constant progress.
Don't...
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So, monday to friday this week, I was doing 12 hour shits, and got only about 3 to 4 hours of sleep each day.
Yesterday, when i woke up after about 15 hours of sleep, I felt like shit, had dizzyness, felt really cold and my back was in pain. I also had difficulty focusing, and my moves were slow. I couldn't stay awake for more than 5 hours.
I'm still experiencing the same symptoms right now, but to a slightly lesser extent.
Anyone know wtf is wrong with me?
If you're doing twelve hour shits, you should probably get that checked.
That sounds like you aren't taking proper care with your body. I know it sounds like a joke, but it can be valid.
When you are 18 years old you can take it all.
When you get older and don't start a 'healthy' life style, you can get in bad shape. Try to think about it.
If your symptoms will prevail after 7 days, seek medical attention. Hell you can have a simple cold .-)
>over working yourself
>over sleeping for 2/3 of a day
>no water
>no food
Gee I wonder why you felt like shit when you woke up.
What's wrong with my tongue?
Don't ever pretend to be the god that is Sky Ferreira, piece of shit.
Have you tried to... you know... keep it inside your mouth?
>>16939624
Nothing, but your right eye is fucked up.
Hello, /adv/. So here's the problem...
Long story short, met a cute traveling aussie over the weekend who's last night here is tonight. We all hung out already this whole weekend almost, but for reasons I am unsure if I should message him and say "hey want to go out for drinks tonight before you leave" although I want to because I can't tell if he's just generally uninterested now, OR if it's because I came off as uninterested and standoffish (which i tend to do when i get nervous around someone)... he might think I was disappointed in how...
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you're a woman, he'll be over as soon as you give the green light.
>>16939626
>you're a woman
see, anon, this is where a big problem is. Long story short, I promise there's a huge misconception with the whole mindset of that.
Girls can be seen as needy/desperate/annoying even if they are beautiful. That's what happened with my friend she was down to fuck one of the guys and they did but she wanted again the next night he was like ehh... then this morning the guys were making fun of her in the other room saying she was looking at him like...
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>>16939710
bby plz, we all know he'll come running over. just put on that pouty face daddy taught you and you'll have what you want :^)
So I went on 2 dates with this chick, and while I was a bit awkward (And wimped out of a kiss at the second one), we both seemed to genuinely enjoy it. She's way out of my league but she has (had) been expressing interest in keeping on meeting up and stuff.
Thing is, she is always busy and our plans often get cancelled. She has gotten to the point now where she doesn't respond and hasn't texted me in days. How do I text her out of the blue to tell her that I don't want to waste my time, or if there are feelings, that I cant get hints and that shes socially...
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>hasn't been texting me back
idk is she busy if yes the shes busy otherwise take the fucking hint
>>16939622
She is busy often, but I cant see why someone cant respond with an "I'm busy atm".
takes like 5 seconds. If not, and I take the hint, why is it that when we do talk, shes always wanting to spend time and shit?
>>16939640
how old are you do you guys have jobs is she playing games because people under 25 are annoying with that shit
Everytime my gf gets mad or feels shitty she takes it out on me and says some really mean stuff like how boring I am or how I should grow some balls or how pathetic I am. I used to defend myself and she would get madder. Now I understand that she is trying to tell me she is not happy with our relationship so I try to ask whats wrong and see if we can discuss it. Its just so weird how one day she tells me that she can't live without me and that she loves me so much and the next she says all these hurtful stuff. All I want to ask is your opinion on whether or not this behaviour...
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she's a woman. of course it's normal. she's probably even pms'ing. maintain logs on it and you'll probably catch a pattern that coincides with her vagina bleeding.
>>16939611
im afraid it will not last. sooner or later you will hate her for that. abandon ship
It not normal. Sure, people get in moods and angry, but that doesn't give them the right to be cunts to others for no reason. Bottom line is she is immature and unwilling to communicate what's wrong.
So I'm with a girl right now who is married on paper but they are seperated. Shes in a fight with CPS also. That case is the reason they are still married. Recently her husband found out about is and is throwing a fit and doing all this shit to make her life hell. All my friends whom I love to death and trust tell me I need to just break it off. So I guess I'm just asking for your advice on the subject. Please be kind... What do you all think? I'll give more info if asked. Thank you.
You should stick around man, do you want her image of men to be ruined? Her husband won't do anything. If she's a good person you'll see it :)
>cucking yourself by dating a single mother
Not even once.
>>16939566
If you think this could be the one, stay.
If not, go.
Love is worth fighting for. And he needs to get that they're separated.
Hey /adv/
Okay so I have a crush on my best female friend. But now Idk what to do. I really don't think she likes me back and idk if I should tell her how I feel Bc a few months ago she was telling me how she didn't want her close friends liking her Bc she thought it ruined the friendship. However, I think she has her suspicions I like her. I myself have never had a girlfriend and she herself was experimenting w another girl a year ago. But her close friend told me taht she's not looking for anyone rn. What do I do? If I ask her out and it's a no,...
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this is really life it will most likely ruin the friendship tell her how you feel if youre fine maybe not really talking to her again as a close friend then go ahead otherwise find someone else youre not as afraid to lose
>>16939553
>Okay so I have a crush on my best female friend.
>I really don't think she likes me back
>a few months ago she was telling me how she didn't want her close friends liking her
>However, I think she has her suspicions I like her.
>I myself have never had a girlfriend and she herself was experimenting w another girl a year ago.
of course...
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>>16939562
Hm yeah idk if I should ask her out, but how do I stop liking her yet keep in contact everyday Bc her and I talk everyday
My brother and sister blame me for the finances that my parents went through. They had to pay for my hospital bills when I was 12 and 18 for attempted suicide. I try to say that it's because I was raped when I was 8, but all they say is that it's in the past and I need to get past it. It's not fucking fair, it still affects me. Sometimes people make little jokes like, hey "my name" might go stalk you in the parking lot, like at my work. I'm fucking 20 and I WOULD never do that, I despise people that do that. BUT IM BEING PAINTED FOR SOMEONE THAT...
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welcome to being a man, princess
>>16939550
why I imagine rape must be a very traumatizing experience, why exactly do you want to kill yourself?
>meet Chinese girl at uni
>become good friends
>i help her with english and biochem she helps me with ochem
>she walks with me to every class if i leave early she does too
>finally get nerves to ask her out
>"oh no thanks anon"
which is fine except nothing in our relationship has changed which no only confuses me but kinda makes me sad as well, what's going on here
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by an azn no less. the EASIEST girls to get.
Nothing to be confused about, you're friends that's what friends do. You can continue being friends just try to find another girl to date
>>16939589
she leaves her other friends to walk with me its weird shes like a little puppy and always has to be close or something also grabs my arm a lot this isnt a normal friendship i have a lot of those already it's not the same
How do you wipe your ass? Everyone says front to back but back to front seems so much more natural for me, but I'm getting kinda tired of shaving my asshole hairs
>>16939526
Thats the kind of problems even people on /adv/ arent prepared for my fucking god just wipe till its clean it doesnt matter HOW your ass got clean just THAT its clean (aslong said procedere is done hygenical)
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>>16940011
In some cases it does matter. If you have a vagina and wipe back to front you risk getting severe vaginal infections.
For guys, generally, it doesn't.
>>16940059
I can confirmed its bad for girls to do this.
