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For people who have experience with this situation...
What's more desirable:
-being happy with what you're doing at work, but less happy about where you are (eg. small town compared to a larger city that you prefer)
-being less happy with what you're doing at work, but happy with where you are outside of work
Im happy with my work, but I had to move to another city where I have almost no friends.
In which situation from those two, are you now ? Or are you deciding ?
Personally, for me, work is important. I wouldnt do something I dont like.
>>16938030
I'm a final year medfag and choosing jobs now
Ideally I'm going to be doing something I like, in a place I also like
But should that not happen, I've got to rank other jobs, which presents me with the above dilemma
(Do I really want to be spending 12 of the next 24 months caring for the elderly, but in a place I like... No offense to the elderly, but it just takes a certain person to embrace the challenge they present)
>>16938042
I see. Well, if you ask me, anything gives you some experience. I did shitty jobs in my life, but in various parts of the globe and I learned many things about life, people and world.
I think if you look at it like discovering life and stuff, you are never going to be disappointed. You can care for the elderly for one year and then move on to another job.. you are free to explore the possibilities. Dont worry
I grew up in the suburbs, comfy place near a cul-de-sac, and so were my friends. We were a group of 5. We grew up together, we went to the ballpark together, we studied in the same place and some times in the same class, played on the streets.
And then we became 16.
Three of those guys started smoking, then became weed addicts, and the fourth didn't became because he had asthma and always felt bad near smoke. The guys who smoked slowly became dense and all they did was smoking and talking about weed, weed culture, stuff like that, yet we didn't lose contact. When I came to 4chan, they started talking about
>dude I need TOR to order things on the silk road
>dude do you know where can I buy kush
I just got the news (like 15 minutes ago, literally just made some calls to older friends) that two of them got killed by pushers and Kevin is missing.
Why the fuck people do that? 22 years old, dead. Because of a cheap trip that made them look like fat retards. Why? What's the logic on that?
Kids are stupid.
who's Kevin? The asthmatic?
>>16937979
Kevin was one of the addicts. Kyle (the one with asthma) said he's too afraid to go to any of the funerals.
how the fuck do you find girls that are gf material?
it seems that now the usual is
>chat up a girl
>meet up and fuck
>be fuck buddy for a few months
>she becomes your gf eventually
whereas I just want a girl that would be sweet to me, and eventually gf her and fuck
you don't
>tfw no gf
When you say "chat up a girl" do you mean you meet them on the internet first? Or in person?
>>16937909
I met my ex boyfriends all in the same way.
Common friends. Talked to them at some event. Exchanged numbers. Talk to each other through text for a bit, then went out for a coffee, then dated for a while, and moved from there.
I had sex with them after 2-6 months. We were already committed before that.
It's basically just in the way you play things. I never asked them to "come over at my place" before like a month into dating. They never spent the night over before a couple of months. We never got too sexual (sexting, nudes, whatever) before having sex. I knew them well and was really into them before we did anything.
How do I overcome literally crippling shyness? I'm 18 now, almost 19, half way through my 2nd semester of college, never had a friend in my life except for one time when I was 8 because of it.
I get don't really get "anxiety", it's just extreme shyness. It's getting worse, almost to the point that I can't talk in text chat in games (lel). I have no idea why this is happening.
Too shy to talk to people, too shy to be looked at, too shy to go out in public, etc.. I haven't left the house without a hoodie and sweat pants in over a year, except for once when I had to give a presentation for college, which was probably the worst experience of my life. After it was over, everyone was in one big group talking to each other and shit and I just looked like a retard standing in the corner using my phone.
I recognize that this is completely illogical but it just happens, I can't control it.
I don't WANT it to happen, I try to ignore it/make it not effect me, but it is beyond that level of effect. It is so strong it is just not something I can control myself.
I have no reason to be shy. I come from a rich family and drive a $125k car, I'm not ugly, not fat, etc (although I was until around age 15-16).
Is this even fixable, or is it just a permanent mental illness? I got my hormones checked and I had low testosterone, but I fixed that and it's high now with injections.
>>16937908
Since you've got enough money, why not consider some therapy? It can work wonders.
>>16937918
I don't want to wind up in a mental hospital though. Can't that also fuck up future job applications?
>>16937922
>therapy fucking up job applications?
Really OP? Therapy is always one hundred percent confidential Jesus dude
Also nobody's going to put you in a looney room for being shy for fucks sake
Legally, you can't be committed unless you're an obvious threat to yourself or somebody else
Any ex-fat anons here? I lost ninety pounds over the course of eight months which was nearly half my body weight by starving myself. People couldn't believe me when they saw me. The most dramatic loss happened over the summer so when school started back up I looked super different compared to when they last saw me at the end of the school year.
Did you lose muscle mass?
>>16937905
Didn't have any to lose honestly.
That was a terrible idea. But well, at least it worked.
>Be me
>Be 18
>My mother is 60
>My father is 50
>My brother have Pervasive developmental disorder and is highly autistic
>Because sometimes I act weird I may had ADHD or Asperger's syndrome
>Even if I have some friends I'm seen as "the stupid guy of the group"
>Every week-ends my brother came back to the house
>My week-ends are completly empty and most of the time I stay in my bedroom because I hate my brother
>My socials ties with the opposite gender are completly empty
Is there any hope for me ? How can I get out of this nightmare and this curse ?
This is your mother's fault for having you at 42. That is way too fucking old for a woman to be having children.
Do you exercise? Get ripped.
>>16937889
I know, Idk what they were thinking when they made my brother and me.
>>16937890
I was doing some tennis every saturday's morning but I recently stopped. Currently we're doing basket with my class.
I'm not sure if this is the best place to ask but i'll shoot.
I recently changed my entire desk around and got rid of the audiosystem i had before, it was a 2.1 system, a 3.5jack conencted from my laptop to the reciever, the reciever had a cable to the subwoofer, and the speakers were connected to the sub.
I want to get rid of the sub because it took a little too much space and i got sick of all the cables.
my idea is to connect a sub-dac to my laptop, and then connect 2 speakers to the dac.
however, i don't know too much aboout audio so i'm wondering whawt type of speakers i should look for.
I am also trying to get into videoediting, so i'll need somewhat accurate speakers, but that are also good for casual listening.
any advice related to my post is appreciated
This board is for normies who need dating advice. I suggest you try /g/.
>>16937911
I think he's better off on reddit. /g is a bunch of cs grads and when they don't understand or have patience for the question they call out >not ur tech support fag
>>16937854
there is so many things wrong with what you just posted...
>be me, 19
>Family on mothers side has a history of balding
>Brothers are 22 and 26 and they've both started already
What can I do to delay it guys? Ive already got off Creatine what else?? I'm legitimately quite scared.
My ex is a hairdresser and said that castor oil helps as long as you still have hair
Go to /fit/s fraud general they talk about this shit all the time since roids speed up balding, medications they take to prevent or slow it and whatnot, dunno off the top of my head because I haven't had to use it yet
This is entirely solvable.
Figure out where your hairline is on the Norwood scale. If it's an NW 1 - 2 you can use minoxidil (applied topically) and 1 percent Nizoral shampoo. This will allocate collagen and prevent further loss of terminal hairs: it might also thicken your hair and help with regrowth, if you're lucky.
You can also take 1mg of finasteride or dutasteride every other day: this WILL work, but may affect your sex drive.
Take cold showers, use reef coconut oil, don't roid or use aroma raise inhibitors, and don't style your hair so it's "pulled back." You'll be fine.
Hey /adv/
There's this total qt3.14 that I want to get to know, though I'm not sure how to approach her. Any ideas?
Ps. I've got terrible anxiety problems so it's hard for me to approach someone like her.
>>16937847
You will get zero help from here.
>>16937860
Probably, but I've been surprised on here before
Women dig confidence. If your anxiety is holding you back I'd book in with a professional counsellor to help you with you anxiety issue.
Once you've dealt with that everything else will fall into place.
I have had surgery a few Months ago. Doc gave me Tilidin. Had some Leftovers. Wanted to try them. I took 400mg 11 hours ago.
Because of the Naloxon i took some Pantoprazol too, so i dont need to puke.
Now Im shaking , im totally dizzy and freezing, i have no power in my muscles anymore and i have the feeling i need to puke.
I cant call the doctor!
Im now drinking like 5 liter water in hope to piss out the rest in my body.
I am really scared at the moment and would like someone to stay with me.
please.
I'll stay online and wait for answers
>>16937841
>I took 400mg 11 hours ago
You'll be fine mate, but you're going to feel like shit for another 12 hours or so. More in next post.
It's going to take some time to get out of your system. Don't drink 5 litres of water in a couple of hours, it takes the salt out of your system and can majorly fuck you up.
>>16937841
>>16937853
Tilidine is a synthetic opiod, like Tramadol. Neither of them are great for getting high on, instead of the "clean" feeling hit you get from morphine, you get a bunch of wierd side effects too. Tilidine is quite an uncomon drug, the side effects can be pretty horrible, which means a lot of patients will suffer in pain rather than take it, which defeats the object of prescribing it in the first place. I bought some in south africa because it was all I could get my hands on at the time, and it's only mildly better than clucking. The reason they use it there is it has a much lower abuse potential than other opiods.
Anyway, you haven't gone over. The maximum daily dose is 600mg in a non clinical setting, so you've not done any damage. Are they retard pills like the ones in your pic? With 12 hour modified release pills you generally absorb 50% of the whole dose within the first hour, then the remaining 50% over the next 6-8 hours, so you're through the worsr of it by now.
There isn't a whole lot your doctor can do to reverse the effects at this point. Cyclazine won't help the sickness, nor wil Domperidone, and Naxalone would make you feel a hundred times worse (trust me on that one, I've been there before). Also if you tell him that'll be the last time he gives you anything stronger than a paracetamol. Just sit it out, you'll be fine tomorrow. Make sure you do your research next time.
A good friend at Uni and I both do a few of the same subjects, he's a good guy only he's lazy as fuck and would rather play vidya than work on assignments/homework until the last minute.
Right now we have a coding assignment due tomorrow, which I've slaved away on all week to finish, while he played video games.
Now unsurprisingly he's having a lot of trouble completing it in one night and he's asking me to send him all my code.
I'm just ignoring him, because there's no way i'm doing this.
I can't help but feel like I might be a little bit of a shit friend for not wanting to do this, his attitude to work really pisses me off.
I'm thinking of just telling him how it is, he needs to get his shit together and stop fucking around, because i'm not going to carry him through our shared classes.
How do you deal with people like this?
>>16937830
I think this situation is common in every students life. It depends on how close you are to him and how much you value his friendship. Try talking to him saying that it bothers you or go full cold turkey and don't give the code and after that find someone else for the assignment s
>>16937830
Friendship is a give and take.
I'll assume you are first year, the question is could you see yourself in his position at some point down the line? At that point you may need his help in a similar situation.
I'd say it depends on him, if you wanna be friends with him, maybe help him out. Otherwise don't reply till the date is passed
>>16937875
>>16937915
I should clarify these are individual assignments and he's in his final year and i'm in my second.
I'm glad to help when he needs it, if he's trying but having trouble. But when he puts in zero effort and then expects to be given everything at the last second that's where I draw a line.
I also don't want to get fucked by the teacher for him being caught plagiarizing .
I dunno if I should but a fat milf wants to suck my cock. Should I go for it or should I have higher standards?
in return she pays your tuition
What good have standards done you so far? Next week I'm taking a train out of state to give my virginity to a 220 pound whale. Whatever, it's sex isn't it?
Go for it op. All day long this board screams at girls to lower their standards but those same guys won't do the same thing
Post a picture of her
is couchsurfing a good way to fuck random bitches who come at your place?
i think sex is pretty much 》implied
>>16937791
not really. its easier to just date a girl. theres so many sleazy guys on couchsurfing trying to do that shit that most girls are really on guard now.
if you do bang a girl on couchsurfing your risk of stds is through the roof too
>>16937791
>is couchsurfing a good way to fuck random bitches who come at your place?
No.
>i think sex is pretty much 》implied
No.
>>16937791
You're pretty stupid, man.
I'm an 8th grader and i'd like to get a pussy boss. this is not a joke can someone tell me how to get laid?
>>16937788
premium shit post m8! I r8 it an 8/8
XD
>>16937789
Thanks boss but still can someone tell me how to get that pussy bro?
>>16937792
when mum and dad are gone tell her to ride her bike over so you can give her a ride ;^)
Is a broken egg sharp enough to damage the rectum? I want to fuck with someone by shitting an egg on their floor at a party in a few hours and I'm not good enough to do it by sleight of hand so the only option is to go with the real deal. On the other hand, I don't want to bleed to death out my ass in the name of mocking someone who thought that humans laid eggs until he was 21.
Get a fake porcelain egg or some shit you retarded fucking nigger, of course it's dangerous
>>16937815
That wouldn't break on the floor. I want it to pop out then crack, I want this guy to know that I shoved a real egg up my ass and carried it around for a couple of hours just to make fun of him.
Unless your ass is that loose any movement will crush it in you're ass. Sorry bud but great idea tho
