Just sounds like your standard attention whore that isnt into you at all desu senpai

>>16935320
get that rusty sword cleaned up op, sounds like your in for a bumpy ride

That's not how greentext works.

stop being insecure and think more before you spill out personal stuff

>>16935304
i tend to do that too, anytime i have a problem i feel the need to talk about it to a lot of people, even people that i'm not really close to and probably shouldn't know about that stuff.
I guess that if you feel the need to talk about some personal stuff, you should just stick with talking about it to your closest friends, the ones you can trust and that actually care, not your casual friends from school/work etc. that probably don't even care and won't help you.
try to think "do they...
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>>16935350
Not OP but I have this problem. I end up spilling my guts to older women because I simply don't have any close friends.

>>16935289

This sounds like a really horrible situation that will only get worse if you move in together. It's going to be a burden on the rest of your life.

What are the positives to this relationship besides "she's nice and we get along well?" There should probably be a lot more to it if you're willing to anchor yourself to this the rest of your life.

Is it an ex boyfriend or ex husband? Does he know you two are seeing eachother? I've known quite a few baby-daddies who have purposely caused problems for baby momma's new family... not paying child support, taking baby momma to court for no logical reason (To the tune of around $1500 every time, almost every time right before the Christmas season), and making unexpected visits to the house to cause trouble/drama. If she can't support herself and her kids, and their father does not contribute, you will be picking up the slack for baby momma and baby daddy. Doesn't...
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>>16935303

I used to have a huge fear of driving and wouldn't drive anywhere besides work and back home. My parents didn't really teach me how to drive well and what I did learn I taught myself. When I started dating here, she would ride with me for 3 hour trips just to learn how to get to her place. She was very patient with me and I appreciated her for that, and I looked over her problems because I had my own. Now that I can drive better her problems seem way more apparent than they did before.

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Also, I don't know if I kind of downplayed it here, but I don't think it's just "normal feelings after going through a breakup". I'm a 20 year old young man who needed to ask his mom to hold his hand and calm him down for 2 hours the night it happened, and even last night I sat silently with my mom for hours before I could sleep. And I'm usually very independent... This just is REALLY rattling me. I've never been this constantly anxious/scared before.

Please give me advice?

Bumping out of interest, I've had this happen to me before and it just sucked for a long time. Hope you find someone with better advice, OP. Breathing is all I've got too.

>>16935234
Marry a rich dude

>>16935234

There's literally only one option, and it's get a job.

Get a fucking job you lazy piece of shit

>>16935220
if you really loved someone the feelings will not go away that easily if not ever. Im in a similar situation but the break up was a year ago. You have to exept that you still have feelings

atleast you had a relationship with that person...

>>16936293
>at least you had sum1

Topkek, virgin

What do you need? can you ask someone else to do it for you?

>>16935137
Pegasus?

>>16935145
Groceries. None of my friends know how to cook, let alone how to navigate a grocery store. They wouldn't be able to find half the things on the list, and a third of what they did buy would be wrong. I literally had to teach one of them how to cook rice and spaghetti.

Half a joint? If you can, smoke 4 or 5 full hits and put it down while leaving the joint re-lightable. You're a lightweight, no reason to waste the weed since you'll just green out.

Drink lots of water while you smoke. Being dehighdrated is awful

>>16935147
Alright, I'll try 3-4 hits. Thanks for the adv. any more words of wisdom?

>>16935165
Not really, just enjoy yourself. You probably already did huh

all you can do is try to do the best you can. it's not a completely negative thing. that you're comparing yourself as critically as you are is basically your ambitious side. do you want to lose that too and become a drone?

>>16935161
I don't want to be a drone. And you're right. I am ambitious. I hate myself for being a fuckup and basically stalling my life when I could have my Bachelor's degree already.

I compare myself to other people all the time too. I hate it and wish I didn't but it's so ingrained a pattern of thought that I can't help it. I think low self-esteem is at the core of it. I wish I had some advice.

Are you asexual?

If not, then why care if some random girl thinks so?

Because of the way I act and make jokes sometimes people will think im gay, tho I'm a 90% convinced heterosexual. Screw people's opinions.

>>16935088
Don't know man when I was in highschool there was no such phrases like asexual.

>>16935088

Nice copypasta

>>16935086

An alpha doesn't give a shit about this, or waste his time thinking about it. He treats the other person like a human being, and doesn't feel the need to argue, because he's above it, and it doesn't matter.

At most, he acknowledges that everyone has some troubles and the best we can do is our lives to the fullest, helping out if we can.

Shit, at least that's how I'd deal with it. Nothing good comes out of people that try to convince each other who has it worse.

>>16935099
Wow, that's a good answer, thanks, anon.

Don't argue, but don't pretend you don't care either. If you have any strong opinions express them, but don't try to justify yourself all the time. If she does or says something that bothers you tell her.

Your friend should kill himself if he ever referred to anyone as bae unironically.

What does that mean and how do you pronounce it?

your friend is a faggot

No.

Depends on the situation you're in. Sometime's its a drastic response to a temporary bad situation, other times its a way to avoid a slow and painful death.

>>16935019
No, it's great for removing weak genetics from the gene-pool.

>>16935007
>I can literally count on one hand the people that don't seem miserable, like the kid has ruined their life, but they're begrudgingly trying to pretend it hasn't happened. They all seem so unhappy. They have no free time, no money to do anything, even the people with older kids seem to not do anything but kid-centric shit.
It sounds like you're judging whether their lives are 'ruined' by manchild standards. Yes when you have kids you no longer have time...
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>>16935007
Kids are cool man. Change your whole perspective on life.. They see things differently, without all the constraints adults put on themselves.

>>16935007
Why is anything a good thing? If you can talk your way out of that you already know the answer.

Children are part of the life cycle of a human. This is like asking why a maggot needs to become a fly. Every part of your being is wired to want children and to enjoy them when they are around. Maybe you don't like other people's children, but ask any parent and they will tell you that THEY hate other people's children as well.

You will like your own children. You will like raising your own...
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YOU DON'T LIKE KPOP? BEGONE WITH YOU, HEATHEN

alternatively, maybe you should not have racemixed with an Asian

>>16934969
She's half-thai, so...

>>16934982
with the darkie jungle Asians, worst type of asian