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I'm crushing hard on this girl at school (high school). She's a foreign exchange student from Denmark. I'm a beta 250 lb man who is also 6 foot 3. I have a kind of muscular build so it's not all fat but i'm still really chubby. I don't know what to do, i keep thinking of her nonstop. I do not have any classes with her so i have never talked with her. but we are doing the same sport (crew) so there could be a chance there. Pic related, it's her (I know, way out of my league). Please help bros
>>16936738
Best way is through friends, or mutual interests.
Try to find an excuse to talk to her in your sport thing, and try to be friendlier with the group she hangs out with, but don't just come up to her randomly never having spoked to her before.
Most importantly, be ready to fail, either way you'll have more confidence for the next girl, or you won't fail and have this one.
Also a word of advice, start talking to all people from all social groups (lowest losers to top jocks and cheerleaders), girls love a social guy, and as a bonus you'll meet lots of girls and be comfortable dealing with them.
>>16936738
>250 lb man who is also 6 foot 3.
you can make it bro
in a few years with proper training you'd be zyzz tier so dont worry too much just let this one go.
How do I forget her?
We were never in a relationship and she made it abundantly clear she did not like me in that way. For example, I see her openly crushing on a friend of mine (significantly more handsome than I, but taken), and being very social with him even though he doesn't reciprocate. I also see her scoping out one of her friends and acting similarly around him (they probably were or close to a relationship). Knowing how she is like around friends she seems to be attracted to it's clear she doesn't see me that way.
I also feel like I am making...
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bump desu
Ask yourself one question:
Am i worth being third place?
Am i worthy of having a reciprocal girl, one who also loves me for me? Once you answer that question with a healthy and confident yes, you will naturally start to move away from her.
If you're answer is no, continue to ask yourself why am i not worth a reciprocal relationship, unearthing core issues in your self esteem, continue this line of thinking untill you start to discover your healthy self esteem and take action.
And trust me Anon, you are worth it! She aint.
>>16936718
You are not now, and never have been in love with her.
You have been in love with the fantasy of her.
You don't know her. You have no connection to her. You have no real idea what she is like inside. All you know is that you saw a pretty girl one day and decided to fixate on that external package.
For all you know, if you DID catch her and get to know her, you might discover that she's a total bitch or total airhead or total crazy.
Does /adv/ has time for trying to fix somebody else's problems? not a topic about not being able to find a job...already sorted out but......
long story that I'd be sharing with you guys and I expect certain level for participating in this shit (I know that i shouldn't....given the kind of people that dwells over here, but fuck it!)
-> requirements to participate:
A) not being in a dead-end job with the minimal wage
B) have passed through college (arts degrees don't count you dumbasses)
C) being financial independent
D) being...
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