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I'm in high school and i'm a senior 18 yrs old. I've always been the timid type of person which I think is a weakness of mine. Whenever people make fun of me I just can't say a word, I just basically endure it but at the same time it makes me frustrated that I can't do anything about it. I've always been prone to taking insults and whatnot, but I'm at the point where I feel like I should just burst out to the person who says those things to me or even worse hurt them. Just recently this sophomore is getting on my nerves during class and would be constantly say things to me which I find annoying. I didn't do anything I just took it and let him laugh and the others around them laugh. I do call him an asshole though, but I'm still the one who's angry. I don't want people getting to me and I feel like a beta when I should feel an alpha, I mean, he's a sophomore for crying out loud. How can I be more assertive or confronting. I really want to get back at him and other people who tease me. It's just that it's not in my nature to do such a thing. Should I really step out of my way of saying rude things? I feel like I would feel better after doing so because my mind is intoxicated with thoughts of negativity of these people, and these thoughts always get in my mind and I can't get them out of my damn head.
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You are probably an easy target. Get /fit/, fizz your posture, and just look alpha without saying anything, and people wll respect you more.
>>16939271
that's one way
Tell him he is an insecure fuck for trying to make other people feel bad.
Either that or tell him to shut his cock holster and threaten to beat his ass it he continues. Then punch him in his stomach or solar plexus
So I'm meeting up with this female in a couple hours that I've never met. I've only talked to her on the phone , and I'm lowkey nervous for some reason. Any advice for keeping calm ?
I'm acting like a bitch.... Just need some words of encouragment.
Masturbate untill your dick falls off. The nervouseness will leave the body with your sperm.
For realsies.
Go get 'em tiger.
While online suddenly the screen went dark and the fans turned on high- making the same sound they do when it first tirned on high, but remained on and the computer would not respond. Unplugging and trying again returns to the same thing, and I comfirmed that the monitor is working.
Any idea what happened, and if there's a way to fix it if its just a part replacement?
Detail ! Does the boot screen show up ? Your OS splash screen ? Or just nothing ? Does it do something if you press del, F1 or F12 while turning it on ? Does it beep when you turn it on ?
>>16939205
Did you try turning it off and on again?
Nothing works, tried ctrl alt del, turning on and off etc. Motitors remain black
I'm looking for a parttime job, but I'm incompetent with zero self-esteem and zero skills. I do have a few places I'd really like to apply at, but I can't even set up a decent application. Literally the only good thing I can list about myself is that I'm eager to learn and gain experience. I've got half a motivation letter and half a resume. Both crashed and burned a month ago when I got to the part where I give the profile statement that is my 'sales pitch', and then I didn't even tell you yet how the rest is highly exaggerated.
Of course I have to start somewhere, but I can't start at all. Employers have zero reason to hire me, and I can't think of anything to convince them otherwise. I'm worse off already, because I'm a high school dropout (though back in school) in his mid-twenties with no work experience. Socially I'm that one guy who's okay but you don't want to get too close to, and practically I'm so clumsy that the folks at home don't even want me to help anymore.
All I want right now is find something to do in life, earn money to finance that lifestyle, and not feel like some sheltered pretty little princess whenever someone talks about work or responsibilities. I want to make that change, and I want to make it fast.
How do I become "worthy" to apply?
One more bump for the night.
There isn't really such a thing as being "worthy" of applying somewhere. If you want a job in a particular field then you need skills, and you can develop those skills on your own time and probably for less than you would think thanks to the wonders of the Internet and used tools. If you want to apply somewhere just go for it, write down whatever you can think of and apply, but don't forget to work on skills on the side. Also what anime is that pic from?
>>16939196
If you're actually a princess all you have to do is spread your legs.
So I was told that I'm almost two different people when I'm in a group or one on one. I guess I'm alright when it's just me and her but when we're in a group I'm an asshole. She told me she doesn't want to talk to me anymore because of it, I really like her but I feel mentally not right but I'm too afraid to look for help because of my job. I was brought up in an abusive house and I think I lack some social skills and can be mean to people I care about because of it. Thoughts?
Why would looking for help affect your job? You can do it after-hours without telling anyone right?
>>16939160
MIL
>>16939149
Honest question: what, in your opinion, gives her the right to judge how you conduct yourself? Is her personality any better than yours? She sounds like a very callous and judgmental person. Don't forget that women often become deluded into thinking they have a good personality because they get male attention.
Anyways, she doesn't like you back either, otherwise she'd try to help you. Nothing you do can change it. You will not find happiness around her. Just stop talking to her, and communicate as minimally as you can if she tries to reestablish contact.
I want to call my baby Fantine. Is that too strange a name?
which country do u live in?
>>16939148
The UK.
I can totally see elementary schoolers call her fartine.
How do I deal with knowing that I'm going to die a virgin and that since I am too pussy to kill myself I am going to have to endure it for at least 20-30 more years
>>16939124
>there's nothing else in life besides sex
>and I never did it, so my life isn't worth a thing
It's just a wet hole
>>16939124
Determination.
Or go knock up a hooker.
Maybe a german could help
I wanted to do a professional University degree but it seems that this won't happen. I don't want to continue to work where i am now and need an advice what would be a good next step.
An other vocational training? Maybe IT or Biological
Keep working in automotive and try it again next year?
Gimme /adv/ whats next
Stoß
why a german?
desu vocational is the only step other than university? i don't like the idea of moving too far from what i know so if you know cars/mechanics stay close to that when you move laterally. no need to waste all that development you had.
>>16939407
German, cause maybe a german anon knows something. Maybe there's someone who knows a alternative to university.
Can someone give me a 101 on edible marijuana plz? i've been considering and i need to know as much as possible.
Thanks!
Kill yourself.
>>16939096
mmkay
just buy some from your local pot shop brah
My friend was caught up in court for a felony DUI about a year or two ago, something her work was not aware of. Due to some legislative issues and a good lawyer, she was able to get this downgraded to wreckless driving/a misdemeanor DUI (I'm not sure exactly which).
Work is sending her to Canada later this week, and she may be turned around at customs for said DUI. If she gets turned around, she will most certainly be fired.
The thing is, her felony DUI is still on the books for the next 3 years - if she breaks any law more extreme than a parking ticket, the full felony DUI will kick in, meaning months in prison and all of the bad things that go with it. If she completes that time, the records are sealed as a wreckless driving.
How boned is she?
Did 'your friend' disclose what happened to her to her employer? Because if she didn't, it's really her own fault.
>>16939062
She did not. And it really is my friend. I'm not this stupid. (read: stupid enough to get a felony DUI and especially not too stupid to not speak up when my involvement in a project means I'm putting at risk a project that would severely stunt the company's growth).
>>16939074
Then she's likely to get fired if she's turned away at the border. Hopefully she'll learn from her mistakes.
Should I go to the beach for spring break alone? I'm a 20 year old male, most of my friends already had their spring break so I have limited options on who to go with. Most people are not replying and I don't want to waste any more time so should I just go? Don't want to be alone but I have money just for this purpose
How about having a meaningful trip and doing something you actually like?
>>16939049
Like what? I want to get wasted, and florida isn't far from me.
Sure, go for it. Nothing saying you can't meet people down there.
I hardly seem to be able to cum while with a girl. I used to enjoy my sex life, hooking with different girls at bars or Craigslist and now on Tinder. I can't wait to get them undressed but I'm just not into it once we start.
Yeah honestly I think I'm at that exact same point. So you're not alone there. I would say it's mostly related to the fact that I have a hard time making emotional connections anymore and maybe I'm looking for that genuine emotional connection with someone before I can honestly enjoy my sex life again. The same may go for you
>>16939084
I had a sweet nerdy girlfriend who was really into and I ended up putting up a wall, one argument and just like that we split up. I ignored her attempts to contact me. I didn't want joyless sex with her so I go fucking around and still it's very rare I enjoy it enough to finish.
>>16939037
Sounds to me like you're no longer looking for casual sex I think you're ready to find real love
i killed someone and now i dont know how to dispose the body?
lol yeah right
>>16939036
Nice bait, made me reply. 2/10
i dont know what to do
(not native English speaking here)
My close friends don't have money, an income, a car and they are generally unsuccessful.
I'm more often annoyed when they tell me stories and stuff they gonna do. Am i like them, in a way? Do i have the wrong friends? Is it okay to think like that, or should the question alone show me, that there's something wrong?
I am 24 years old and own a two-story house, have a lot of money and never worked a day in my life. My best friend lives in the poorest neighbourhood in my city and works with welding for, sometimes, minimum wage.
I could not ask for a better friend. Friendship is beyond that, if you are not shallow.
>>16939045
inheritance?
>>16939060
Parents who teach me home economy, years of saving allowance and self-control, which failed a few times. I write "Protect me from what I want" on every single thing I own that can be written on.
Hey Mr. /adv/, how many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie roll center of a Tootsie pop?
>>16938963
Three.
about 350
>>16938963
One and a bite.
