So I was told that I'm almost two different people when I'm in a group or one on one. I guess I'm alright when it's just me and her but when we're in a group I'm an asshole. She told me she doesn't want to talk to me anymore because of it, I really like her but I feel mentally not right but I'm too afraid to look for help because of my job. I was brought up in an abusive house and I think I lack some social skills and can be mean to people I care about because of it. Thoughts?
Why would looking for help affect your job? You can do it after-hours without telling anyone right?
>>16939160
MIL
>>16939149
Honest question: what, in your opinion, gives her the right to judge how you conduct yourself? Is her personality any better than yours? She sounds like a very callous and judgmental person. Don't forget that women often become deluded into thinking they have a good personality because they get male attention.
Anyways, she doesn't like you back either, otherwise she'd try to help you. Nothing you do can change it. You will not find happiness around her. Just stop talking to her, and communicate as minimally as you can if she tries to reestablish contact.
Anything
>>16939306
Thank you, I know it will be hard to move on, but I can do it.
Just don't talk to her anymore. Might be hard but will work out
