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Hey guys, what's my move here? A cute girl from my school saved a pic of me. I know it's super subjective, but is she into me or not necessarily? Do I say anything to her about this?
>>16936398
maybe shes making you into a dank meme
>>16936431
Well, it was a flattering picture, so that would be okay.
>>16936398
Wierd... just by opening an image in the browser, you're downloading it in your browser's cache
What's an entry level manual labor job that doesn't require me to be an athlete to do?
>>16936388
all of them? You just need to be a soulless drone.
I know I could barely keep up at some of the manual labor jobs I've had Its like why cant we just slow all this shit down why does it have to be so stressful
>>16936410
Even trade jobs?
Anyone else here /terrifiedofintimacy/?
and/or how do i become not that
>>16936386
I think I am. That or I dont want to be in a relationship because I like to be alone alot. I cant tell which, ideally Id like a girlfriend who I hung out with 2 times a week.
>>16936992
i used to be ok with being alone, but not so sure now
hadnt wept for a couple of years(grief) but have cried myself to sleep for almost a week now
starting to lose motivation for basic things and interest, feeling pathetic
i really do not want to burden someone else with my problems
I don't believe in god or spiritual things in general. I spent a lot of time reading religious texts and books and I just can't get into it. I've accepted that I'm an atheist/agnostic and I can live with that.
The whole idea of hell still creeps me out though. I was raised in a religious household, but I never really thought about hell the way I do now. Just the thought that a place of eternal torment might exist, gives me the chills. I find the idea completely ridiculous and disgusting, but it still scares me for some reason.
How do I get...
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Hell was created to manipulate people's decisions. When you die, your body decomposes and those particles eventually spread elsewhere.
Hell is the same as being promised 72 virgins. We both know it's a lie told to dumb people to complete someone elses agenda.
Hell on earth.
There are few atheists or Christians today that believe in a literal hell, unless your a career criminal who harms people for a living op I really wouldn't worry either way.
>>16936381
Listen to Alan Watts
I was diagnosed with depression five years ago. Three years ago my doctor stopped prescribing me antidepressants.
Recently I've been feeling like shit again (no motivation, little care, sleeping a fuck ton). I remember being the most unhappy during the spring and throughout the summer. I looked through my journal entries and I found it to be consistent.
>Do you guys think it's just a coincidence my cycle of depression in the spring months or could it be Reverse Seasonal Affective Disorder?
>inb4 "we...
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as someone with seasonal affective disorder, there's no such thing as seasonal affective disorder.
Sometimes shit is the worst during February/early march due to the "buildup" of the lack of sunlight, but never past march.
take vitamin D regularly. if it helps, you have SAD. But if you're the worst in summer, it's something else.
>>16936435
sorry, disregard that I suck cocks: no such thing as "*reverse" seasonal affective disorder.
I hate the summers to op. Have to struggle trying to find a job and eventually give up and feel like shit all summer long. When fall comes around classes start and I don't feel so bad. I fucking hate this cycle. It started in middle school and now I'm in college. Sam's shit every year
Dupes, hobbies, etc
>>16936338
Do you even cry?
Do you main R.Mika in SFV?
>>16936338
Stop seeking attention you faggot.
I'm in a pre-development stage of making a horror film (filmed in one location). In short it's about a person (Marc) who is on the verge of breaking point due to weeks of being watched by an unnatural looking man (called The Man Outside) through the window, and only Marc can see him.
I always liked the idea that The Man Outside would never physically harm Marc, but focus groups and questionnaires suggest that The Man Outside should hurt him.. Purely because it's a horror. Even my own friends think it sounds boring. This annoys me. There's more than...
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The idea is cool, but ultimately you cannot do a whole horror movie with that idea, there has to be some sort of escalation.
If you really want the man to be harmless, I suggest you escalate by making Marc increasing paranoid and delusional. Provide some auditory hallucinations, eventually visual.
You'll also need a way to end it in a way that is satisfying for the audience. Marc can end up hurting himself, or someone else in his delusion.
Good luck
That sounds boring as shit, you should be ashamed of yourself
>>16936306
this. there NEEDS to be death and violence
I've been with the same girl for a long time, wondering if I'm missing out on something if she's the only girl I ever sleep with. She's gorgeous but sometimes I wonder what else is out there. Am I limiting myself? We were each other's first, and I don't know if it's bad if she's my last.
It's a personal issue, as sex isn't a necessity
I can't read your mind
You're not missing out on anything. If you both truly love each other, that is the question. Sex is just one of the things you can do without anyway.
Not sure if this answers you question but, I met my fiancé at 18, I'm 21 now, turning 22 in a few months, and we're still together, still very happy, and the sex is still fantastic. We don't have as much time now with school and work, but we find a way. I've personally never once in these 3 years asked myself if I've missed out on anything (all that late teens early 20's bullshit like partying and stuff). I'm just not that girl. I think that as long as there's immense love in the relationship, good communication, honesty and respect,...
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