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I think I damaged my prostate from too much fappuing, and then going 3 weeks without it:
I had occasional soreness and a hard feeling in the gooch between my anus and scrotum since over 2 years ago. Asked a doctor about ti once and he just said it was sore from fapping too much, not a prostate problem.
However, before my last nofap streak I was feeling fine, but then yesterday noticed that every time I peed, it was harder to push out the last 2 pumps to completely empty the bladder after the main stream stops, and afterwards it still feels like I have to pee. No...
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>>16933373
Schedule a prostate exam with your doctor, if he/she doesn't find anything. Talk to him/her about Epididymitis.
You likely have either an inflamed prostate or epididymis.
Hope this helped, I'm someone who gets kidney stones often so whenever I feel pain in my groin I attribute it to that. I had Epididymitis a few years back though and it was similar to what you are describing.
Good luck, brother. Also, ease up on your dick. Poor guy has probably seen enough abuse. Get a woman to...
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>>16933464
>Epididymitis.
Epididymis is actually in the testes, and I don't have anything going on there like I feel in the prostate area.
>>16933464
>Get a woman to take care of it for you.
Not going to happen
>>16933475
If you are assured that is it the prostate you need to schedule a prostate exam ASAP. Even if it is at the god damn free clinic.
New age hippie bullshit isn't going to help you with this kind of problem anon.
>It would be pointless to see a doctor about again since I'm now on Medicaid, and the only thing they would do is say you're young, just wait and monitor it or give me some drug.
Make it clear you want the exam, I had to make it clear I wanted...
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Should i send my crush a message on facebook ?
Fantasizing about her is draining my energy and making me a delusional day dreaming
procrastinator
I am a loser 100% dumb ass creep but this girl has made me in able to function since i spend all day fussing about her
>>16933357
>should i message her on facebook
why? you say 'should' like messaging her accomplishes literally anything, and in the context it doesnt. are you talking about admitting your feelings? or just saying 'sup?'
if you think that having her reject you will fix things, sure ask her out, btu why not do it in person so you at least get that sliver of a maybe
>>16933357
no. Go mastrubate and then think about something else
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEAKJw8Cz1c
How do I know if a chick at work is into me or just being friendly? She has a bf of 5+ years too.
>>16933353
>She has a bf of 5+ years too
shes being friendly ding dong
>>16933353
>She has a bf of 5+ years too.
Anon...
>>16933480
yeah but so are the other girls but I don't have the same connection with any of them...I don't even have to question it with them...
I could use some help /adv/, I am mentally unstable, I need to know how to treat these with which medication plus the kind of doctor I see:
Social anxiety
Obsession
Obsessive compulsive disorder
Body dysmorphia(anorexic tendencies)
Eating disorder
Suicidal
Easily irritated
Aggressive
Low self esteem
Caffeine addiction(via pills)
Sometimes cannot sleep
I have lost about ten pounds in the last 4-5 days by starving myself and I really could use some help
See both a Psychiatrist and a Counselor.
Best decision of my life. Got me though a lot of the same shit.
Best of luck.
>>16933326
What kind of talking doctor?
>>16933321
see psychiatrist for all. rehab for caffiene if you're too puss to kick that.
A general question for STEMfags, particularly engineers: how incompetent does someone have to be to get fired from a staff engineering position making ~$75k to falling back on a job making ~$55k as an engineering technician?
If you saw this on a resume would you conclude that the individual must be incompetent? Or is another explanation equally probable? Should I hire this person?
Need more info. What field? Years of experience?
Sounds bad though.
>>16933316
idk man, depends a bit on how long you were at that first job and how you can play it off.
sometimes people get new jobs, tehy pay less, and they stay because they A) like it, or B) are too lazy to both work and apply for more jobs.
that being said, engineering is project based for the most part isnt it? so isnt it possible to say that the first job wasnt one you liked so much?
also is the value of the first job common knowledge? cuz unless oyu bring up pay idk how they'd know
>>16933338
Civil engineering.
Basically they interned, went to a different company, stayed a few years (they knew the boss's daughter which is how they got the job according to the rumor mill), got fired, got the engineering technician job that they're trying to move out of.
About 3 years experience.
I've been struggling emotionally and mentally for many months now. I suffer from depersonalization disorder severely. It eats away at me constantly. I feel like there is no me left. I feel like im going crazy. And ive been experiencing many synchronicitys and have been having intense spiritual encounters alot. I'm sorry for not explaining much but hopefully i gave enough information for someone to help me. in order to be understood i would have to type many pages about my life. i just wanna know what synchronicitys mean and if they are trying to let me know if i am...
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Im off to google. It may help other anons if they knew what depersonalisation disorder was.
Inb4 talking down to other anons
Im not. Fuck you sjws
Stay strong
Synchronicity is sort of synonymous with destiny.
Otherwise put as meaningful coincidence.
Its bullshit. Then again is believing in luck or god.
Spiritual encounters are a part of DPD.
They shouldn't mean anything. Or at least I don't think so. Just like the dream like surreal existence you feel.
See if you can get your hands on antidepressants.
Namely SSRIs (depression and anxiety drug) and Naloxone and naltrexone (opiate receptor blockers), anti seizure drugs and tricyclic antidepressants (nasty side effects).
I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL IN THIS FIELD
>tfw poop anxiety
Anyone else like this? I mean, I know everybody shits and it's a perfectly natural thing in life but I cannot shit in certain situations. It took until I got to college for me to really get over my anxiety of shitting in a public restroom and that was only because I figured it was better to shit around people that I didn't have to deal with than around the people I live with. But I can never shit in friends' bathrooms if the bathrooms are close to their rooms and I can't shit if people I don't know will...
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>>16933290
Do research on it and figure out where to get help.
In Japan when toilets were new women would flush constantly to drown out the sounds of using the restroom. Now it's fairly standard for public restrooms to have a sound machine as part of the washlet.
So maybe try flushing a lot?
>>16933290
laying toilet paper in the water prevents noise quite a bit. you can also simply use an enema / anal doucher to clear out your system every morning. this is helped by taking fiber pills. taking ones specifically made for gay men to make anal cleansing easier would help.
basically you take these pills and they make your bowel movements super solid. then you wake up, put the nozle up your ass, shoot some water up there. wait about five minutes at most, then release the water and poo from your system. this...
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>>16933290
pro-tip: never visit India.
I slipped in the grass and fell, my wrist caught the edge of a fireplace ring and got cut up a bit. The cut wasnt deep at all and didn't bleed really at all, but its gunna look like I've slit my wrists.
What do I say so that people that approach me and ask about them don't have the impression that I may cut myself?
>>16933280
Tell them that. If it's one cut on one wrist I don't think people will assume you are cutting automatically.
>>16933280
you are over worrying. unless you have some histor yof this nonsense grown rational adults dont think 'HURR DURR WHY YOU SO DERPRESSED ANON?'
they just say 'ow howd that happen'
you say 'oh, i cut it on my fireplace'
they say 'what? how?'
you explain. thats it. a few people might make note to keep an eye out, but most wont care.
i think you worry way too much
Put a band aid on it you worrying little cunt
This question may not be appropriate for this board.
I'm a physics major, and I have gotten two fairly prestegious internships - one at a national lab, and one at probably the best school in my field of physics.
The good thing about going to a national lab is the fact that they have a very good retention rate for interns. I don't have the exact numbers but its ~3/4. The pay is very good, and they sometimes pay for your grad school, if you continue working with them.
The internship with the university gives me the opportunity to work with my first...
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Pick the safe route. You know your options better than we do. Pick whatever is safest. If it has a good retention rate, go for it.
1 bird in hand is better than 2 birds in the bush.
this is the time for you to stop being a smart guy and go with your heart
I would go with the first, but it's ultimately up to you.
ive been living my life veiled by a load of shit. All my friendships and relationships are fake. The only time I feel real is when I'm with my girlfriend. What do I do? Should I just tell everyone and restart or should I just deal with it?
op bumping
time for op to an hero
>>16933243
>I fucked up my life
>I have all these friendships and a girlfriend who I care about
Yea, OP. Sounds horrendous. Maybe you should stop being such a mopey piece of shit and acknowledge you probably have it better than the vast majority of people in this world. Improve on the relationships you already have. Don't go out of your way to destroy them and start anew, just make it apparent to your current friends that you feel like you are drifting...
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So this girl started hanging around my group (mostly guys) and she has a boyfriend that doesn't hang with us. One day he did, and he had extremely aggressive body language although she says he's fine with us. I really doubt that's true, mostly because any guy knowing his girl is hanging with a bunch of dudes is gonna be very concerned.
I just kind of worry that we're making their relationship worse. Any advice on action we should take?
Who keeps inviting her? Ask his intentions or tell him to cut it out
>>16933241
We aren't hitting on her or anything, we treat her like a friend.
>>16933244
So in other words youre the one inviting her op?
no judgjng
>>16933226
I feel for you. When they came back from the hospital I had no doubt whatever that the bavby was mine. But I can't help feeling they gave me back the wrong wife.
>>16933226
It is entirely possible that someone switched your kid, after giving birth you probably lost your consciousness for awhile.
>>16933226
dna and blood test
I'm a 20 year old male. I grew up hating life because of overbearing strict Indian parents. We moved around A LOT, and it fucked up my social skills because I didn't have close friends as a child/teen. I couldn't date properly because of my fucking draconian parents. They didn't feed me enough protein because desis tend to overfeed their kids rice and underfeed meat because desis are cheap fucking assholes, and as a result I'm short compared to my peers. They beat me, I'm not talking light spank, I'm talking long-drawn out coat hanger/belt...
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That sucks man. Dont be the failurDelet failure be tha failure
My childhood was full of snitches about me growin up.
When i realized i was being watched. I
Was growin up. Then i becane a drspressed loser,poor,ugly and smelly. Fuck!
4 years after high school. I felt better. I became kinda social. Im still aovially awkward, i dont stay quiet and i dont care. :) it annoying to be a quiet person.
im in my 20.
I dont act but i be real.
The past is the past. Deal with it first, cause the past comrealirst than whats ahead.
Im dealing...
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L........... In my perspective, be aware of snitches. TAKE ACTION!!!!!!!!!!
>>16933225
Everyone lives with their past, Anon. The way I see it, the only thing that's holding you back is the fact that you're over-stressing about yours, thereby letting it dictate the way you live your life now through insecurities and doubt.
>I thought that in high school I'd be normal
>When in high school, I thought college would be my big break
I am fairly sure that you're intelligent enough to understand why that's untrue, and I am also certain that if you can comprehend why change won't come by itself, you also know what you need to do in order to forcefully bring it.
None of us can tell you exactly what to do in order to make your life better/the way you want it to be. That's entirely up to you. But, here's an indisputable truth that we may or may not put as clearly as we should: you are not "damaged for life", you are not "beyond repair", you can get better, you will get better if you make the right steps towards it.
Stop being miserable. Make a tangible plan of how to shape your life according to your understanding of a good one, and start making daily steps towards achieving it. Either that, or keep whining on the Internet to some assholes who do not give a singular fuck about you.
The choice is yours.
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