Well, start with taking everything extremely personal. Today i blushed HARD because a teacher told one of the guys in the class i work with that some of the little girls a few classes below are crushing on him. In front of everybody... I was so embarassed for the teacher and the guy that i went red like a tomato. And then i was so embarassed that i was embarassed by this that i couldn't stop blushin. Fml

>>16931851
I blush non stop literally my face is red and hot the second I have any type of interaction so no I can't justify this thread fuck you

;)

>>16931727

You dont need books to kill yourself.

Just Bing it.

http://letmebingthatforyou.com/?q=How%20to%20kill%20myself

>>16931729
just don't
>>16931733
srsly? who uses bing? plus i'm too much of a pussy to actually do it

>>16931727

books wont do you much good, the fact that you insist on short ones shows you dont take any of it seriously enough.

the biggest and greatest tip you will get is to go outside and talk to people

>BUT ANON YOU CANT JUST WALK UP TO PEOPLE AND TALK TO THEM

you can, its totally legal. i do this every day somewhere or another.

go to a bookstore and wait in your favorite aisle. wait til someone (Anyone, not just a pretty girl) comes up to look for a book. ask...
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>>16931709

if you arent doing guided meditation, you probably arent meditating very well at all, so much as sitting there and thinking about what you are stressing about.

each person is different so try different things. take a yoga class if you arent. im not gonna recommend pillates or a harder workout cuz tbqh they ultimately add more stress to my life whereas yoga was soft and just kind of relaxing.

as for acne, stressing about it will make it worse. try accutane. pic related is me. yeh? taking the pill...
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>>16931740
>psychologist and psychiatrist if a therapist recommends them
what kind of therapist? I'm not sure exactly which profession is the first port of call

>try accutane
I have, 3 times! - 6 months at age 17, 6 months at 22, and 4 months at 25. Each time it worked for 1-2 years but it keeps coming back. I'm 30 now and my acne is only mild, but it's cystic and painful. On the third course I had a bad reaction so had to stop early. I'm...
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>>16931832

idk mate, im not a puss. just go to google and type in 'therapists in XX' wherein XX is your general location. read what you find and book an appointment.a 'genera' therapist should be fine, just someone who listens to peoples problems and helps them.

yeah 4th course sounds pretty intense. the best i can recommend (and sorry if you heard this before) is retin-A in the morning applied to the face. its literally just accutane applied to the face so it doesnt effect your liver (but it...
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She's the cashier? Then do it.

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>>16931668

>im thinking of awkwardly just passing my number to her and expecting her to understand the context.

why tho? who cares if her family is there, if they are close enough to work together they are close enough to watch a charming young lad ask her on a date.

>>16931685
Yeah it also makes you seem sleazy and belittles her

>>16931638

>depression

if real, seek therapy. if you're just sad and calling it depression, its important to develop your own comforts. the biggest comfort is knowing the endgame.

imagine if they never told you when graduation was. imagine if you just went to school and you never knew when it was going to end or when you were going to change grades, and it was all random. that sucks right?

the best way is to know what the endgame is, waht you got left to do, and then...
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It's hard, but simple, cliché things like "thinking about what matters to you" do help. I stay away from trying to think "positive" because that is just the child's escape from sadness.

As hippy as it sounds, from another who endures waves of depression, things related to zen, ying-yang, duality, etc tend to make the depression much more manageable. Understanding that good and bad are necessary, one cannot exist without the other, and that sad times just make you appreciate the good times even more.

When you're in the darkness,...
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>>16931654
Nah, i'm legitly endangered. Therapy since one year and recently off of ssri's. Now i feel like i have no security net when demanding times hit me.
I thinn your advice is great anon. Problem is that i don't even know what my endgame is, or how to find out

If you study 24/7 and get no where what are you actually doing? I mean are you comprehending anything you're reading, and how are you writing down explanations for things in your notebook if you don't understand them.

Maybe you've missed some fundamentals and instead of going back to it you're just staring at the new stuff trying to make sense of it?

Do simple things like take a break and go for a walk to start freeing your mind and improving your mental health, it'll improve your intelligence too (if that isn't obvious).

>>16931631

>i study 24/7
>have a gf

pick one.

>how likely are retail jobs not dead-end

retail jobs may promote you to a store manager. which is slightly better but not by much. if being smart isnt in the stars, then pick a less intense but still useful degree.

becoming an accountant isnt abstract or hard. i do all the accounting for my office and i suck at math. sure being a REAL Accountant is more than...
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You sound a lot like me OP, doing math/econ and having a bit of trouble but liking philosophy and knowing there's no real usefulness in that degree. What exactly would you planning to do with your math/econ degree anyway?

>>16931624
Following up, my elder sister asked if I was going to beat my wife and kids like that when I was older. She sarcastically that I was going to make a great news for the police. Saying that she felt bad for my future wife and kids.

I punched a fridge like a fucking idiot and now I hurt myself.

I need to know what to do in this kind of situation. Please help you guys.

Get away from them.

>>16931640
We all live together in one cramped house.

So anyway, I work for this consulting firm and have begun chatting with this really cute girl who just got hired on as an admin assistant. For the first few weeks she was somewhat stuck up and would always talk about her "fiancé" and how she was in love with him and the whole nine. Starting this last Monday she finally began really indulging me with how she does not know if she wants to go along with this whole marriage thing (they've only dated for a year and she just turned 22 on Saturday). She told me how her and this fiancé got in a huge fight and that she...
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So anyway this last week she's been IM-ing me on business Skype and sending me emails with either really serious discussions or asking me to go and grab a drink with her and her friends. She then asked me a bunch of times when we should hang out. She is well aware that I have a girlfriend as well and we talk about how my girlfriend would rip me to pieces and can be very controlling and not open minded like her fiancé.

We have an extremely flirtatious relationship and are always complimenting each other and looking at each other and will talk all day and night if...
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BTW I really like the new captcha system. Like I said been several years since I've been on this site. Thanks for anyone who can help.

bamp

>>16931568
ahhahahah

>>16931568
Does pic related apply to when you are soft or hard? I get that when I'm soft but not hard. I still have to manually roll the skin back though when hard and it stays right behind the head like touching the bacK of it, if I pull it back all the way and let go it goes back to the same position. Do I have phimosis?

>>16931507

Because your router isn't allowing it to connect to the DHCP server on the router (due to the MAC address filter) it doesn't have an IP address.

Honestly your router is doing the right thing. More importantly, I would make sure the admin account to the router isn't the default manufacturer password and the Wi-Fi password is very, very strong - possibly changed weekly since you're getting bruteforced.

Look into DHCP, the OSI Model, etc. It'll help explain in more detail what...
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>>16931538

it was already connected to it days before when i noticed and enabled mac adress filter

ok ill change the password now

anything else? cant i do something with its mac adress?

>>16931581

you've filtered out the MAC address which is the best thing you can do atm. Do you know who/what is trying to connect?

>>16931490
it will slow you down but doesnt have to stop you. so stop asking

>>16931639
nice

final bumpington

>>16931454
If they're a Freudian psychologist they'll try to ask you questions that you don't like answering and try to get you to confess to having been raped by your father.

The more defensive you are the more they will persist, so the best thing to do is right off the bat let them know that you weren't raped by your father.

Your school might be different, but I went to my school's counselor about depression. There was walk ins on Mondays and I finally went a couple weeks ago. I was generally asked why I went in, she made sure I wasn't in danger of killing myself, and then we talked about my options since this isn't really something that is solved in a few visits. I don't want to talk to my mom about it and get health insurance from her, so I'll be paying per session. I haven't started those sessions yet.

It's not bad OP, you should go, especially if it's free

>>16931479
They're not allowed to tell your parents right?

>>16931406
your boyfriend seems pretty normal. Dreams are weird. Freud was a quack and psychology is a pseudoscience.

You're jealous of the relationship a man has with his mother? It's his mother for christ's sake.

Fuck, I would get super annoyed when my parents picked me up late from school, also. Especially in a time pre cell phones, you just sit there feeling like a fucking chump.

Sleeping in bed with your parents until you're in high school is weird, though, but he stopped that.

Dreams mean nothing, I had a dream, last week, about making out with the grown up version of a girl in my second grade class. I don't give a shit about her and haven't thought about her ever. Where did my brain get that? Who the fuck knows.

Calm down, stop being a judgmental...
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>>16931475
He only stopped because she got married and her new husband found that really weird. After that, my boyfriend has really hated his step father. The step dad is really nice, but my bf feels like he took his mom away from him, He's 19, I think he's too old to be thinking that stuff. I don't know, man. I'm not being judgmental, I just feel like he has repressed issues.

why so mad?

>>16931370
If by trap, you mean its a trans girl, just treat her like any other girl and she'll love it.

If you mean a twink or really feminine guy, I can't help.

>>16931363
>Honestly don't know what to do with this info
uh, hire a guy to follow your wife silly. I did and got the evidence I needed the first day. The only reason you wouldn't want to know for sure is you don't want to know and have no intention on leaving

>>16931385
Hire a detective to confirm what you already know. Also call a lawyer to see how fucked you are, and to tell you what to do or not do so you can be less fucked.

Sorry man, that really sucks.

>>16931409
Yea, that was one of my thoughts. Thanks for your time anon