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Couriers still haven't delivered my fucking package.
>tried 2 weeks ago at home address, but dumbass driver leaves no card
>seller gave me the wrong tracking number so I have no idea until next thursday
>talk with seller, they apologise and make arrangements for monday
>courier calls in the afternoon telling me the post office to collect from
>I ALREADY KNEW, I WANTED DELIVERY
>ask...
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first world problems
they cause frustration
forget starvation
in nations abroad
>>16930626
The situation would've been avoided if you were at home dumbass.
>>16930837
I was, according to the tracking number it was attempted at 6 in the evening, and now support is telling me they never even tried.
Please help guys,,, if I sleep alone I get nasty nightmares.
The same nightmare everytime
really fucked up stuff, 'flashbacks'
Been happening for a month now, also been feeling sick and throwing up all the time.
I lost so much weight my wedding ring and clothes don't fit. All of it is muscle.
In a month I went from being in great shape and looking amazing to looking like I just got out of a concentration camp
I can't keep food down. I always feel tired. I've stopped sleeping because of the nightmare.
This is too much for this site. If it's really affecting your life this badly, talk to a counceler/therapist. If i may ask, what goes on in this dream? It may be something you need to confront. You mentioned your weding ring, have you told your SO?
>>16930633
>. If i may ask, what goes on in this dream? It may be something you need to confront.
I know I made a thread and all but I don't really like talking about it... I'm awake now, dream time is over, don't want to dwell
> You mentioned your weding ring, have you told your SO?
No, divorced
>>16930625
bump
Anyone here know about cocks? Due to my foreskin being robbed from me, I stretched my dickhole a few weeks ago and it won't heal.
Please help. Going to a doctor in real life would require walking around with pants on, which would probably make my condition even worse.
I assume the solution will probably end up being a drug that can prevent erections during sleep, since I think this is the main thing preventing my dick from healing. Anyone know the best thing to take to do this?
There's also the possibility of a product that could moisturize my urethra,...
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>>16930606
Why are anime posters who come to /adv/ the worst?
dude idk but You really should call a doctor or an ambulance at least.
Wrap your dong in something comfortable enough so you wont get friction and fucking go to the ER. If you let it be you will get an infection in there and things will get worse.
Also sauce on image plox.
>>16931620
Yeah, I think I gotta see a doctor. I've seen some other people say that erection-preventing drugs require prescriptions. And the urethra is self-lubricating, so it's probably self-moisturizing as well.
Got any ideas of what I should wrap it in? I ordered some 100% silk boxers but that probably isn't enough to guarantee protection. I guess I'll buy a condom and use that.
Pic is Elen from the Futabu anime. Shoulda read the filename!
There is a cute girl at school at school and she happens to be the best student in our grade and i'm talking like all A+'s she her tits are kind of mid sized which look really good tighter shirts which she does not wear often how do I get her to like me?
>>16930602
>in our grade
Kill yourself.
>>16930602
Stop staring at her chest and talk to her.
I have taken into account that multiple individuals have stated that I take offense too easily. Obviously, if more than one person has said this to me it is true. One of my problems is realizing that I do this, and coming up with a way to catch myself. I think I know why I do this, but that doesn't matter. What would you say that I do to catch myself? Usually, I notice what I did was a mistake and need to catch myself faster.
Just stop being such an easily mad jew faggot
>>16930591
How do I stop being mad, a jew, and a faggot?
>>16930587
encourage your friends to insult your sissy sensitive ass more often.
My girlfriend self harms.
I thought she was past it already but she's done it again and I just don't know what to do. There are cuts on both her arms and legs.
Advice, please? She suffers from (diagnosed) depression and anxiety. She's not on medication currently but has been in the past.
I've never dealt with this before and frankly I just don't know what to do. I love her very much and day to day struggles I can deal with but this is beyond me.
>>16930586
Criticize something she is good at. Let her prove that she is good at said thing. Keep giving encouragement on that thing. Let her show her "worth"
>>16930589
She doesn't have any hobbies etc aside from reading. I don't know what I could criticise that she could prove in that manner.
I do my best to encourage her and make her aware of her qualities, to give her self worth, but from personal experience I know its something only she can fix. Still, I want nothing more than to help.
>>16930598
What does she read? Oh, you can help. The problem is that you have to make it seem like she is helping herself.
Do you tell your parents that you love them and things like that? As a guy, 24 years old I'm still kind of embarrassed to say it. Is that normal? I mean I'm sure they know I love them as I often visit and make gifts.
Never be embarrassed to say I love you to your family, especially your parents. 24 year old male here as well, I tell my parents that after every phone conversation and whenever appropriate. You never know when it's gonna be the last time.
To my mother very rarely, even less often to my father. But they are both old so I tell them to take care because they gotta see me do X.
>>16930580
I tell my parents after every phone call and whenever I am leaving.
Dad had cancer 3 years ago, and I guess that I started thinking that, if something happened to them, I wanted "Love you" to be the last thing we said to each other.
I’ve been seeing a girl for a few months after me and a friend moved to a different state for work. We spend most weekends together alternating between her place a few hours away and my flat.
My problem is she seems really obsessed with a ‘celebrity’, an old sports star guy. She has a big poster of him in her bedroom and little toy figurines of him and others, and when I first saw the poster I laughed and said he looked like me (beard, clothes etc) and she said he didn’t.
A few days ago we talked about sexual fantasys and she kept giggling and not answering. So...
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Bump?
Lmao your girl wants you to dress up as some iteration of Mick Foley and fuck her? That's not normal. I'd leave her before you catch feelings, and then you'll be in way over your head. Girls have these strange and powerful methods to keep guys around, but they only work if you care for them.
>>16930985
I really don't want to break up with her. I mean I don't think she's doing this Mankind thing to 'keep me around' either. I think it's her fetish
I might have to pull out of college, or at least one class.
I'm not going to say what class (It's 4 units), but let's say it's killing me because I don't understand it at all (Ironically, it was my major because I thought it was easier than expected, seeing as I use technology everyday).
I'm afraid if I do, then I have to pay back my tuition for that class (I'm a BOG/FinAid student, but I barely know the system other than hooray, free class unless idiotic).
On the other hand, my GPA is shit at this moment, so I need to...
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Drop that one class, see how you go for the rest of the semester, and then decide if you want to keep going or drop out then.
>>16930528
Alright, I will. I hope, though, I don't have to spend any more money of just dropping it. This is apparently the last day to qualify for fee refunds and drop without notation.
I don't know if that helps.
>>16930536
Go for it then. Don't drop out on a whim though
If I told a girl I like, to listen to this song? I get a feeling she might get the idea that I like her through this approach. What do you guys/girls think? Yay or nay?
Dreaming by Mac Demarco
>>16930445
Good song. I sent it to one I like didn't have bad effects desu but that's because we send each other music.
It depends on her personality. If you feel she'll like it and take the message positively then go ahead. Not the best of advice but that's all I havem
>>16930445
Why are you sending messages in code? Why not just talk to the girl?
>>16930721
Maybe because he doesn't live in america and exposing his feelings out of the blue is considered extremely creepy where he lives
Is it worth to save the money you have for the future e.g. buying a house, quicker to get richer since you have the foundation.
Or should I use the money to have travel experience around the world? Then after that save money?
I am always in a low mood. Sometimes a good mood but majority its low. At 20 years of age, I feel that sometimes its just over (been feeling like that for 5 years now). Its difficult to find good, close friends. I have a job but its a dead end retail. Its very difficult to meet new people after university, as I am in my 2nd year approaching the final...
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if you mean US dollars, saving is a bad idea right now. the dollar is expanding again soon, meaning a dollar will soon be worth 50 cents. or in other words practically everything will cost twice as much. other currencies are tied to the dollar, so that's not a stable investment either.
>>16930514
>own town
When you're surrounded by many other people in a legitimately different culture and not a nigger clusterfuck it's different
I've been told I'm do not look bad, but my sense of fashion is horrible and the essence of dadcore, should I give up and dress in a way I really don't like or stick with it and stay a powerful wizard?
Do you care? Does your style of dress hold you back?
If yes, see /fa/. If not, take no action.
It's not hard to look nice, and in my opinion, it means everything from getting the jobs you want to getting the girls you want. It's worth putting in a small investment.
>>16930430
/fa/ are so fucking retarded. They just dress like hipsters. I know as I had a thread there asking about fashion, they just linked Asians wearing weird ass clothes and said try a thrift shop.
>>16930437
I've only asked them for hair advice, but I can see that. Maybe there was already a thread so they were fucked with you? I could see it going either way. There are lots of good resources online for OP regardless. Doesn't have to be 4chan.
I like a girl
She doesn't sit near me in class, always busy when leaving class she takes off and I can't catch up with her.
How can I create a situation where I can talk to her and ask her out ?
please
Sounds like she doesn't want to be spoken to. Move on.
>>16930404
intercept her and say hey hows the class going or some other shit you make up, sit between her and the door to get there in time, it will be awkward but thats what you have to do
Anyone got any advice on managing stress? I've been struggling to deal with it over the past few months and am looking for something new to try (that doesn't involve drinking/smoking)
>>16930379
Sex
>>16930379
Exercise.
When I'm really stressed, before going to sleep I go swim for an hour. When I get back home I am drained and I feel like all the bottled frustration disappeared.
>>16930389
As stupid as this might be, I hadn't considered this (I'm active but don't work out). Might do a few laps in the morning when the pool opens.
Why would people fake a relatio ship? What benefits do they have from doing so? How far would you even go with that and how can you tell if somebody is faking a relationship with you?
>>16930338
It's one of those things you have to take case by case.
Ask yourself what could they gain from having a fake relationship?
>>16930338
I don't think a guy could to be honest.
They just are not suited to multi task. a woman could however
>>16930364
women usually fake relationships for money or social status. men fake for sex or boredom.
