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>>16925835
fwb is out of the question?
Left a 3yo relationship last year. I loved her a lot, still kinda do, but I just don't think about it and have been looking for new experiences.
Except she was the one with depression and I was the one chosen to go to her house at 16pm to help her out of bed because she wouldn't stop crying for no reason since she had woken up and her parents didn't care and her younger brother was no help.
Basically, I sacrificed a lot for her and she was very insecure and thus...
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>>16925967
I handled it well for awhile and then insecurities and emotions got the best of me, so in heat of passion my anger my have pushed her away further. We are not speaking and she seems to not have any interest in that changing anytime soon. The sex was fantastic though, and I know I was absolutely the best she's had, but even when I would jokingly bring it up when we were still talking she made it seem as if she were uncomfortable.

She also re-befriended the guy she dated all throughout high school/some of college and was later casually fucking before we met. That was kind of the nail in the coffin for me.

Prepare and know the material like the back of your hand.

>>16925747
I just pretend I'm talking to the room.
Like I'm holding a conversation with the air. In the room.

Air likes it when you speak loud and make eye contact with people in it occasionally.

Sounds stupid but I've been told I'm a gifted public speaker despite almost never doing it and being a hardcore introvert.

Final protip don't read out your PowerPoint slides. Explain the slides but don't read them.

>>16925799


Thanks mate gonna try not to be a total sperg. Cheers.

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>>16925743
Bumping for interest.

What do you think 4chan is a place for hackers whut a bunch of free time?
Whatever, this board is for advice, try the board for sorlsafe requests.

Where are you/she located?

>>16925690
Both A and B

>>16925698
>>16925690

At the same time. Offer to take A's virginity in a threesome with B

If you're actually rationalizing this as an A or B situation then you're probably not in a position to bang either.

>>16925651
In what ways did they sabotage your life?

>>16925651
Grow up you ungrateful piece of shit.

>>16925651
My friends dad touched his weiner in first grade and his mom gave him scitzofrenia and he has a 3 inch dick

>>16925600

No idea, I'm still waiting for a girl who would shit on my chest.

>>16925600
1) Mention it to her, the worst she can say is no. If she's a decent person though, she'll at least give it a shot.
2) Assuming she goes for it, google inducing lactation.

>>16925600
"i have a fetish for sucking the milk out of your boobs. would you be cool if we tried to see how we feel about it?"

anything other than a response like this shows that either you are not man enough to be forward and honest with your girlfriend.

or she is not a fun open girl about a legitimate question asked by someone she loves in privacy.

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Bimp

>>16925594
Find shitty things about her. The way she walks, stuff she does, little things about the way she looks, and keep them to yourself. Your perspective of her is probably skewed, and it will stay this way unless you do something about it.

>>16925712
This makes sense but I'm not physically interacting with her often. Most of our communication for a while has been over text/facebook/steam. And trying to look over chatlogs and old photos mostly just gets me nostalgic.

The majority of human beings are females. Go find a new one, preferably IRL.

>>16925559
I live in a small mining town. Population >1500

>>16925564
Move.

>>16925496
The first two years are quite boring. I'd take a look at the third year and fourth year classes, since those will be more specialized to your interests. See if you can sit in on one of them.

>>16925496
If you wish you were just taking a trade or something else. Why the fuck not? There's nothing wrong with taking on a trade. Just really think if that's what you'd rather be doing or if it's something you're just going to because it's "literally anything else" compared to what you're doing to yourself now.
But if it actually sounds attractive to you, why not go for it?

>>16925514
Impossible with my class schedule. Even if i skipped a class to make it in on one, I'd feel super awkward because of the low class sizes in my program's upper year classes.
>>16925536
That is exactly what has been going through my mind. My problem is, I know I can make a ton of money if I finish, and right now I am very deep in debt (shout out to nova scotia). Could I make then money to get out of that with a community college course right now?

Doesn't matter if she's on the pill, always use a condom.

>>16925343

Hey, if you're saying you've had it all along and she got it from you.

Better you find out now than after it makes you infertile.

If you're at all sexually active, it's a good idea to get checked up once or twice a year to be on the safe side anyway.

If you think you got it from her...

This is one of those where there's actually a pretty simple cure you know.

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>>16925343

>the possibility of having an STD fills me with abject disgust and embarrassment

Well, you made a stupid decision, now you're reaping the stupid consequences.

Regardless of whether her test results come back positive or negative you need to go get checked. A high percentage of people who have STD's don't even know it, so you need to get checked.

If after you get checked and treated you don't feel like coping with another situation like this,...
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>>16925338
Don't develop long-time crushes or put all of your eggs in one basket. Try to talk to as many girls as you are able to, even if you're not really interested

Whenever I catch myself liking a girl, I find a way to talk to her before I start catching feelings. This is just so that I won't really be too put off if she rejects me. I'd recommend doing that in the future in order to avoid this sort of emotional recoil.

>>16925338
My only advice is to move past it and to learn from it. You know what happened, so now you have to adapt to your new situation and overcome your own feelings and become a stronger individual.

thats great anon!

now you can let other women into your life now (i had a long time crush, shut every woman out because i wanted this one girl)

think of a crush like a job. let's say you apply for a job. only one job. you don't want to be too hopeful with that one job, because you would be gutted if they don't hire you. so instead, what you do now is you apply for many jobs. you meet many women. and now, when the time is right, and the jobs give you an offer, you'll have options. you won't feel like shit for that one job rejecting you,...
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shoot up your school.

but really, is op afraid of a girl? she's picking on you because you look weak and incapable. maybe you actually are. just ignore it really. if it gets real bad then you can do something about it. maybe talk to someone else about it and see if you can get anyone on your side.

talk to her in a respectful way. never raise your voice to an unreasonable volume.

many liberal minded college kids are so far to the left that it hurts everyone. this is just something our society has made. you cant say one opinion to someone without them crying that their feelings are hurt.

we live in a world of victimhood. dont give her that attention she wants. dont make it seem like youre the one at fault. hopefully by acting like a sweet young man people will notice how idiotic of a person she is.

this is how i completely rekt a far left muslim girl...
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>>16925336
>I don't even want revenge I just want her to stop

Don't associate with her.

If she comes around you, walk the other direction.

If she says something to you, don't answer.

If she, or anyone else physically attacks you, you kick the shit out of them.

Don't let the shiny, technologically advanced skin of our society trick you from the fact that we are animals, and in the animal kingdom if you are not a predator you are prey.

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Basically, get to know them through friends. Then, try and spark conversation with something broad and generally easy to talk about, "What's your theory on Trump". If you're looking more into asking them out, same as above, just bring convo into asking them to a movie or something, "Hey, we should continue this conversation over coffee some time."

Scoot up next to her and ask her if she wants to get coffee sometime
Worked well enough the 5th time I tried it

>>16925287
Step 1: Take a piece of red construction paper and cut a heart out of it.

Step 2: Attach a red string and a message that says, "PICK ME UP AND BRING ME TO MY OWNER".

Step 3: Throw it at a girl you like and pretend to "reel" her in.

If this doesn't work for you, throw an autistic fit in public. Make sure to be so loud that the cops haul you to a psych ward.

>>16925238

whatever your hobby is.

>BUT ANON IM BORING

time to explore

>>16925238
I hit the video juegos in times like these.
Idk what's on Netflix, I'm net savvy enough to steal specific movies. Last one I got was Hellraiser 2.

You could read I guess. I tend to save books for work though.

>>16925238
Wank it like a monkey

>>16925231

stop worrying about being good or great. focus on getting done. greatness comes along hte way. it develops. but you actually gotta do it. and finishing something is a good indicator.

start small. wanna be a godo artist? sit down and write a one issue comic. then draw all of it. its finished. your done.

now plan a six issue mini series. plan to do one issue every two month to be done in a year (but each little issue finished will feel like another victory)

>>16925231
1. pick one thing

2. make a schedule of when to do this thing

3. Stick to this schedule, dont over work or underwork at it

4. Slowly increase time you spend in hobby over a large amount of time

5. Set small, attainable goals towards that hobby

6. continue on until hobby is mastered and or set into daily life

it's the motivation-discipline dilemma. simple answer is get both. people who love running still run even when they don't really feel like it. people who are in marriages don't love each other as much as they did when they started but that doesn't mean it has to end in divorce.

it's a pretty common thing for this generation. instant gratification, failure to delay rewards, "do what you love" mentality that looks down on exerting effort, accepting mediocrity, you get the idea. it might be connected to you being spoiled in some way. maybe...
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