>>16927637
in general most people know the slight hint, when you offer somebody a peppermint gum. you could try this a few times.

but the best solution is and will always be: the truth. it might hurt her a bit, but in the end she will be glad that a loving person sad her that and not her friends or the boss.

if your relationship is really that good as you said, then this little 'embarrassment' will make it even stronger.
if she is a slit and you a player, this will end how it have to end.

>>16927664
I don't know if offering her Orbit all the time will make any kind of significant improvement in the short term, but maybe she'll get the hint eventually and start brushing more. Thanks for the advice.

>>16927637
Kiss her, then use your tongue on her teeth and tell her in a funny way:"you didnt brush your teeth today haha".
Then it's safe to assume you'll never have to worry about this again.

>>16927458
It can be done for a while, if you live very frugally, but you may find the penny-pinching too soul-destroying to be worth it.

You'll have a better chance if you work like hell for about a year, save every penny, and build up a nest egg to draw on along with your PT earnings.

Totally wouldn't do it in the current climes, famdabbydozy. Far too many places pulling part-time work put you on a zero-hour contract these days, and if they can't do that they'd like as not peg you onto a part time slot with less hours than you want. Hold onto that fulltime if you've got it.

>>16927458

You'd really be living on tbe edge of sustainability. It's kind of a gamble. If anything goes wrong, any unforseen circumstances, you could really feel how bad it is to live right on the edge.

I've actually considered how viable it is to be homeless for a while while doing something part time, but with no intention of giving up my ability to shower or anything like that. I don't know how to parse that. Maybe just have a gym membership and live out of a car for a little while. But then...
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>>16927437
Anon, it is normal.
You cared about your ex, you felt strongly for her and you had a strong bond with her.
It is fine to still think of her.
I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 years ago and I'm happy with my new relationship, but sometimes I still get the urge to ask him how he's doing, or talk to him about the new video of our favourite youtuber, or about some book I've read. It will never go away totally, at least to me. The bond we had was strong and I doubt that time can make me forget...
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>>16928420
Pretty much this. When a bond is extremely strong like that, it leaves a scar. The scar can heal itself with time and will. Just let it happen.

I feel like shit for not talking to my ex. She has a boyfriend now but for some reason she wants to still talk to me. It's sad that I don't share the same feelings. I pretty much ignore her. But things happen.

>>16927330
Why cant you socialize ?
Whats making you anxious?

I'm afraid of people thinking I'm a complete weirdo. - ;3

Another fact is that some people say that I have a completely different sense of humor.. - ;3

>can't afford driving school
>expects to get a car when you get a license

see the disconnect?

>>16927290
Find a friend or neighbor who drives. Do a barter deal - you'll do X for him/her if they take you practice driving for an hour.

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>>16927290
How do you even fail a basic drivers test? Literally, stop here, turn there, parallel park and it's over. If you can't do this at 23, that's a really big problem

Friends?

Do you even know what autism actually is? Because i think, youre just a retard, thats all.

>>16927283
Any health assessment, mental or physical, has to be extensive and ongoing to be comprehensive. If you demand a one-shot cheap diagnosis, you're going to get what amounts to a rough guess. Either care enough to commit to a full series of tests, whatever the cost, or don't bother asking.

>>16927203

>put on acts
>people don't like it

Maybe your problem is that you're a fucking tryhard? I'm a dick to everyone I meet, and I've still cobbled together a group of 5-10 lifelong friends post-uni.

Being yourself only works as a long-term action. If you keep having new personas, no one is going to stick around to find out which one is real.

>>16927203
>I tend to be unpleasant to people.
>They tend to be unpleasant back.

Can YOU see a connection there?

>>16927203
Start by not being an idiot. Calm the fuck down and just chill out. Learn to relax and shut the fuck up from time to time. I know many people that just won't stop talking and say random shit to see if people like them. Improve your voice aswell. People with annoying voices tend to be unpopular.

>>16927200
Most of the time people talk about other people and things that are going on in their lives. If you don't spend a lot of time interacting with people who all know each other then you'll have little to say.

The best solution is to just try and spend as much time as possible with people and try not to worry about being boring. After time you'll be able to join in the conversations more easily.

Get podcasts and radio to listen to. No the ones with like, a "concept", but the ones who are pure conversational. Things like Opie & Anthony and WTF podcast.

Pay attention to how they change from one subject to another, how they keep the flow of the conversation alive, etc.

>How can I fix this? How can I become the guy that always have something to say?

Have a lot of different experiences, create some hobbies, stuff like that. That way you'll always have something to add.

And, in general, ask people...
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>>16927200
/r/theredpill has a good guide on holding conversations in the sidebar. Once you get a feel for how to get people talking and branch discussions into different topics it just comes down to dealing with the anxiety and just talking to people without thinking about it too much

You're acting like a girl. It's always the girls who flake out and never talk to a guy again, even when they were interested.

>>16927131
You're horny and you did a stupid horny thing, so what.
What is she supposed to do with the dick pic, hunt you down?
Just relax, you got off and that's it. Chat with her sporadically for a few days and then forget about it, as she surely will.

>>16927134
But I don't know if I'm interested in anything to be honest. I'm not interested in a relationship. Then again she is a really cool chick that is nice to talk to and didn't find the thought of flirting and sexting with me completely disgusting.

>>16927128
Ignore the cunt. You don't need people like this in your life m8. Don't get physical unless he starts something.

>>16928203
Thanks for the reply.Appreciate it.
That's what Im planning to do.
Not even gonna bother with snitching on him bout drugs and shit. I just want to forget about this faggot and I hope he finds something else to do so he stops bothering me.

>drugs made a person a retard
Last name Shit Sherlock, first name No

>>16927099
Keep your options open. There needs to be a clear distinction between your life and hers, otherwise, she will end up defining you and vice versa. This is bad fucking news.

If the main problem is, is that you feel too attached to her, go out and start doing other things, try new hobbies, meet new people, develop personal skills. This way you're doing things for yourself and building on an already stable base. If you spend all the time worrying about these problems etc, it's going to collect into some massive storm-drain of shit.

If you feel like you want to see more of her, just say, but understand why you want to see her. Don't let anyone define you, ever. Don't get too attached to anyone, ever.

See her more, message her. Being attached is not bad unless it's controlling or you're unable to do anything as an individual too. I'm completely attached to my boyfriend he means the world to me, we fell in love hard and fast too, and I know I'm obsessed, though I think it's balanced when we see each other more, as it's comforting and reassuring to feel that loved

>>16927130
>keep your options open

I'm not trying to start a new relationship

How do you know you have bipolar if you don't have a diagnosis? You sound like an attention whore to me and you should probably fuck off to tumblr.

>>16927374
Spoken to a psychiatrist before who gave me a definite diagnosis. NHS cut the service before I could get any further funding/support for it, so I was left in limbo.

Great advice, though, friend.

>>16927043

If you can't medicate or control your mood swings you should do what is best for your boyfriend, honestly leaving your field of work to be prescribed meds doesnt sound like the end of the world, it could mean a happy life for you and your partner. The alternative is to keep your job and potentially lose the love of your life, money isnt everything, friend.

I don't know how to solve your problem

Just sharing that I'm 17 yo and never had a girlfriend
The worst part is that there are some girls interested in me, but I don't know exactly how to catch them.

Anyway, good luck!

>>16927031
Go out more with your friends to bigger cities. Just go out doing whatever you want with your friends and eventually you will stumble upon many females. Then you can take care of it from there.
Youknow, like asking for numbers and dating them and falling in love. Then you're done.

>pro tip; girls like guys who have good jobs and can take care of her while you take care of yourself

The answer is to go to bars or various events held for singles, which you'll have to look around to find but they do exist. Make sure to have or pretend to have lots of friends.

When you do talk, talk casually for a while. You'll need be prepared to spend at least half an hour just chit-chatting before you can bring up getting their number so you can hang out some time. Modern women are deathly afraid of commitment, so you have to use the phrase "hang out at [place]" or "go to [place]". Do not say "go out" or "date"....
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>>16926965
self bump

>should I DUDE WEED LMAO for something that is completely unrelated?
Just kill yourself.

If you don't want your brain to get messed up, don't use a drug that affects your brain. There's many different treatments available and you're probably going to have to try a bunch of them because nobody knows what causes your condition.

A lot of assholes will tell you that weed is a wonder drug that can cure any malady, but the truth is it isn't, but it would have a stronger placebo effect than something that didn't get you high.

Todas as línguas latinas são parecidas.
Há uma grande semelhança principalmente entre o português e o espanhol. Então, se você é capaz de entender isso, provavelmente você sabe ler em espanhol.
Mas isso não quer dizer que você saiba falar.
Eu sei ler em inglês mas não sei falar, são habilidades diferentes.
Se eles vão avaliar sua proficiência na língua oralmente, é melhor você focar apenas nisso.

>>16927057
They don't care about your Spanish proficiency. People who don't speak Spanish at all can go on the trip.