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Can I have some of your drugs? Weeds taking too long to be delivered, and your drugs sound much better.
i'm talking about e621
I intend to move to the us in a few years so I want to ask you what use my law degree from another country has in in the US. I speak 4 languages and law is really my passion but I want to move there because I met someone I love and we want to be closer.
Thanks
hate to say it but immigrating into the US unless you have a spouse or family that is already a US citizen is extremely difficult, give this chart a look over for a reality check
to get a work permit you'd need to have an offer of employment from a US employer and he would have to be so desperate to hire you that he's willing to go through the hundreds of thousands of dollars and years of processing it takes to get you in. He would also need to prove that he attempted to get an American for this job but was unable to, its basically impossible.
>>16929109
We're actually getting married soon. We've been together for 3 years long distance. He's been coming to my country and I've been going to the U.S 2x/year.
scots law degrees are not admissible to the bar in most US states if that's what you're asking
Someone help me please, I've been in a fetal position for the past hour crying listening to pseudo 90s music
I'm an isolated college senior, I haven't been at home longer than a couple weeks for longer than 5 years. All my friends graduated and moved on with their lives and forgot about me
I keep getting pumped and dumped my girls on tinder who date me fuck me and never talk to me again
I've been reading the Redpill and /pol/ and I feel like everything I lived has been a lie... That our society has been on a trail of fucked up for so long and I'm just figuring it out
I've been listening to vaporwave music to bring back the 90s nostalgia i had a s a kid and it seriously makes me want to kill myself in a weird way
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yc5Y5ckee8o
I sleep all the time between classes to suppress my depression and my adhd meds. Not a day goes by where I don't think of killing myself. I'd smoke weed and drink my problems away but I don't even have money for that
I feel so alone, my life is moving too fast, I want everything to go back to the way it was when I was a 7 year old kid
Why the fuck did I have to wake up now???
Does life get better in your 30s? Or am I just in store for repeated heartbreak and isolation until the day I die?
it sounds like you need to find some more friends anon, before looking for a girl on tinder. fuck buddies like that aren't gonna help you slow down your life and feel like you're happy with what you're doing. Are you seeing a counselor along with the meds? They can help you better than any of us could
Have you tried to see a therapist?
>>16929104
I've been seeing a therapist for the past 6 months once a week.
I went from being in willful ignorance of my mental issues to now being self-aware and horrified at what I see.
Hey /adv/,
I just got a new job in the city, where i have to walk around a lot. I'm pretty chill with this job, no real complaints, but I did develop some pretty bad blisters due to just walking around in sneakers that were a bit too snug.
Been soaking them shits in Epsom Salt, covering them in padded bandaids, and got most of them to naturally go away. But three of them still remain, and they're on the large side and pretty noticeable without shoes on.
Normally, I'd just keep on with this, but I do have a slight problem.
I'm supposed to go fuck a dude tomorrow morning. This is a guy I regularly have been fucking for 3 years now, fwb title, so we're pretty open about our hanging out sessions being about just fucking.
So, do any of ya'll have over night blister remedies?
I would normally just say fuck it, wear some heels, and just not take them off, but they're pretty full and I don't want them to pop by wearing something that might cause friction.
I guess I also have to note that he's not into feet, or blistering for that matter. It's just more of a self-conscious thing.
Pic related, but not mine.
You look gorgeous
Just go fuck him you skank ;)
>>16929063
>Pic related, but not mine
But thanks, dude.
As a guy, I wouldn't care, and I don't think the vast majority of us would.
If it'd make you feel better, you could casually mention it if you guys are shooting the shit ("It's been a shitty week, I've got these blisters form work..."), but it's really not a big deal.
How do I reconcile the constant urge to be alone with the need for belonging and acceptance? My subconscious is constantly sabotaging my efforts for companionship.
Coming to terms with the fact that you may need to be your own best company, or to find friends that don't mind your occasional absence.
It's not your subconscious sabotaging you, it's who you are. Either deny the urge to be alone, or go with your flow and learn to be happy in isolation if you really find it that difficult to find a balance.
>>16928979
We need to go deeper.
Why do you have the urge to be alone? Or what do you think it may be?
PersonallyPersonally, I believe it's not an "urge" as you mention it and more of a preference, maybe just maybe, you just need to find the right people to hang out with.
So question. We are in a chapter 13 bankruptcy and we want to deposit a large amount without the bank knowing, if we deposit it in the bank, will the other bank tattle on us to our bank?
>>16928958
Yes. Eventually your bankruptcy case manager will find out and seize the funds or any assets you bought with them.
>>16929793
this. its just a question of how long it takes.
the point of bankruptcy protection is to show all of your assets to the government and that it can't possibly match up to the debts owed in a resonable amount of time so that the government works with your debtors
the government gets mad when you lie to them.
whats the money from? whats it for?
Do not put it in a bank!!! You don't get any interest these days anyway. Get a home safe.
My therapist thinks it's bad I prefer masturbation to sex. I don't have a partner, so I'm not neglecting anyone. They want me to stop. I only do it once every couple days. Why do they care so much? What's the big deal?
Probably a personal opinion against it that is interfering with their professionalism.
If it's really only once every couple days then there's absolutely no harm in it. It is possible to get addicted to it but that's not enough to really cause it. If it becomes more than once a day then it's becoming a problem.
Unless your therapy sessions are only a few minutes long, you probably could have found that out from your therapist.
So this is either nofap bait, or you need a new therapist because it sounds like you're incapable of communicating with them. Which is sort of what therapy relies on.
>>16928952
Male or female?
Sup /adv/
Im going to college in a couple of months and I'm gonna get a new computer because mine is old. because I'm a gamer and since I haven't been in the market for like 5 years- Should I get a high end laptop for gaming and work, OR a cheap laptop for work and a nice desktop for games?
Desktop for games, laptop for shool. Nothing else is worth it
>>16928959
Thanks man
>>16928920
Cheap laptop and Good desktop. The trend is moving towards external GPUs so eventually your crappy laptop will be able to run high end games anyways.
It's nearly 2:30 on a weekday that happens to be my birthday, and nobody has wished me a happy birthday on facebook yet. I've triple checked that people can post on timeline, that my birthday is visible, that nothing's hidden or anything. Just everybody's decided not to post anything.
How unreasonable is it for me to crack the shits at people over this, bc I'm pretty mad right now.
Happy birthday you glorious faggot
Happy Birthday
Shit happens man
Hey man, don't let something so small affect you so greatly. Happy birthday, and I hope everything works out!
Newfag here, dunno where else to ask, assumed here 'cus 'Advice' but the was wondering how to show in a reply in my threads that I am the OP? Can't find anything in the Rules or FAQ... Help?
>>16928881
Tripcode is the only provision for this on boards that don't have IDs. Don't worry too much about it.
So what would one do? I see in threads that the op has OP next to his no.
>>16928908
That's just to signify replies to the OP. Click the post number in the OP. Click the post number in mine here. Type some bullshit if you want and hit submit.
Any advice for someone about to start EMT-B classes in hopes of later being a paramedic?
>>16928849
hey OP, I'm an EMT
where do you live and were you hoping to pursue this in a professional or volunteer capacity?
>>16928871
Hi, thanks for responding. I live in Kentucky. Around Lexington.
I'd like to be a professional but might also volunteer with the local fire department on the side.
I'll be doing my EMT class at a local community college.
>>16928893
ok well my experience may not be as relevant to you since I don't know the situation with KY EMS so you should really ask your instructor about that but where I work in NY just outside of NYC your options are to work for a private EMS agency which either do a mix of 911s and medical transports (though with most, but not my company, they wont let you do 911s right away) or agencies that strictly do medical transports only, or working 911s in the city itself under the auspices of the FDNY. Lots of people I work with are volunteer firefighters on the side as well and some even volunteer with volunteer ambulance corps though god only knows why.
Do you have any idea who you want to work for and what the deal is with them? I'd do your research because a lot of professional EMS agencies really do not have their shit together at all and unfortunately treat and pay EMTs like shit.
Anyway as for your class my advice is just to read the book, study hard, and try not to stress too much. I was working when I went through EMS school so it was difficult for me to really put in the hours to get the knowledge locked in, rather than just know enough to get by which was unfortunate but I made it through. All you need to do is commit yourself to the end and you'll make it, its really not that hard, and I've been told that NY's test is one of the most difficult.
Btw you say you want to be a medic, that's great, but I would advise against going to medic school until you have atleast a year as a 911 EMT but ideally closer to 3. ALS is nothing without a solid foundation of BLS.
If you had any specific questions please ask.
I don't get it anons, I need somebody more experienced than I am to help me with this.
>There's literally no reason to be attracted to her
>She's mildly attractive, not exactly what I look for though.
>Pretty stupid if you ask me
>Stuck up and hangs out with Chad Thundercocks (Excuse my r9k speech)
>Very flirtatious, always touching me, resting her head on my arm, etc.
Why do I like her? Why do I crave attention? There are so many other women I wish I could have but for some reason I like her the most, and I do not know why. Can somebody shed light upon this?
Congratulations. You're human.
>>16928850
If it means I will feel anxious because of stupid shit like this, I do not want to be human.
>>16928852
Alright.
How do I get out of the cycle of fapping/drinking and abstaining? I usually go ~5 days without indulging in either, and then I cave in to one or usually both. This has been going on for years
>>16928837
I think that it helps to reason out the pros and cons ahead of time and then remind yourself of all the reasons it would be good to continue abstaining when you're considering relapsing. Also, writing and signing a contract with yourself and hanging it somewhere you will see every day is helpful as is using a calendar/journal to track your progress.
>>16928837
find something that makes you obsessed that isn't those things. here's the protip: you have to try it first. everything is completely different when you do it than when you think about it. I have had so many experiences where after trying something, I never thought of it the same, and it continued to be different the more I indulged.
try something, even if you're not that excited about it. just see if you like it even a little. then keep doing it or see where it leads you, maybe to doing something else and maybe you might love that. experiment. have fun!
>>16928911
True. I've observed that in my own life, where I'll build up a clear mental picture of what I expect something to be and then when I actually experience it first-hand it reveals itself to be completely different than my preconceptions. Thanks. I'll keep that in mind
I don't know how to respond to teasing? I'm the oldest in my family so no one ever teased me.
I'm confused by how this guy acts towards me.
>barely say anything
>"Shut up Anon you're so annoying"
>me: "oh okay"
Sometimes I think of something clever to say but most of the time I don't.
I think he's kidding but he can keep a pretty straight face.
If I really am annoying what should I do about it? Just not talk at all?
>>16928792
If he keeps doing this, just stop talking to him. Either this guy just can't get along with you for some reason or he doesn't know how to tone down his teasing when the situation calls for it.
Socially awkward guy here. Girls have done this to me before. Did they like me?
>>16929957
They might've liked you, they might've just been bitches. Either way, those kind of girls aren't your type.
>Date girl on and off for year and a half
>She said it wasn't going to work and ended it for good a few weeks ago
>Still have some feelings
>We both go to a smaller uni
>Have a lecture together
>See her on campus sometimes
>Lots of mutual friends who still hang out with her
>Some of my closer friends still hang out with her even though they've known me longer
>Hear her name mentioned daily in passing
>See her face daily
>Every time either of this happens I get really angry/depressed
How the fuck do I get over her? She's deeply integrated into my social circle and I'm reminded of her constantly. This would be so much easier if we went to separate unis or had fewer mutual friends.
>Pic related, me when I see her/hear about her
Date another girl, see if she get jealous
This may seem like it's going against everything your emotions are telling you, but try to find another girl for the time being. I know you may not be in the mood for it, but a good way to rid yourself of the old burden is to work on another hope of a relationship or something more casual. This brings the feeling of power back to you that every human needs.
>>16928915
>>16929018
I would like to find a new girl, but it's easier said than done. I have pretty much no game and I'm not super attractive, plus my ex was really hot so my standards are gonna be higher.
