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I've been contemplating applying for disability for years due to my mental illness conditions. Every time I do manage to get a job, I only last a week because my mental conditions make it impossible for me to interact with society. Just going to the store to get groceries is a difficult task for me.
I have felt ashamed all these years about my mental illness conditions, which is why I have never applied for disability, but I'm at a point financially where if I don't at least try to get it, I'll be homeless within 6 months.
this is why i support euthanasia.
>>16939916
I have to honestly admit, my entire life, death has seemed inviting, because my life long daily misery would be relieved.
However I keep hanging there, not sure why though. It's doesn't make sense to keep hanging in there, but I do anyway. Maybe one day I won't.
Those benefits are there for individuals like yourself, go ahead and apply. You will need to supply your professional, psychiatric evaluation, and in all likelihood you'll have to hire a service to push your case through. Try to have your psychiatrist's facility process your claim, or some other agency; whatever you do, don't go it by yourself.
A friend of mine texted me while I was out of town saying that she spotted my boyfriend at a club feeling up some girl. I wanted to believe her because she's never lied to me but I also wanted to check with him. When I returned, I asked him what he did while I was gone and he said he went out with some friends. I asked if he was with any girls and he bluntly said that he hooked up with someone while I was gone. He doesn't see it as a big deal but I'm scared and confused. For the record, we don't have an open relationship and he knows that I've been cheated...
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look on the bright side, at least his honesty policy is airtight.
keep him.
>>16939584
You have to break,up with him, of course. You're in shock right now because he's not acting like it was a secret. It's incredibly bold, but not unexpected. Some people like to test the waters like pieces of shit. You just need to rely on your friends right now and lose contact with him.
>>16939584
The unfortunate truth: he probably isn't thinking it's a big deal because he wants to break it off.
Get rid of him, he sounds like a shitty dude.
If I compensate my habit of daily cannabis smoking with increased daily studying and exercise, does that make it more okay?
all things in moderation
lol no. weedsmokers are usually the biggest failures. by smoking you're already a statistic.
>>16939559
Moderation of amount or frequency?
I never had a job.
I want to be an office worker.
The idea of the job seems to be pleasant. Just sit in front of the computer the whole day doing repetitive work in an office in a tall building.
So my first question is what exactly do office workers do in their computers?
The second: what skills do employers seek from appliers?
Third question: if I ever apply to one of those jobs, with what kind of clothing do I go to the job interview?
I know the paying must not be high and I'll spend the whole day in an office but the idea seems...
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What should i major in for a decent paying (50000 - 70000 year) job in an office
>>16939448
Thanks for trying to derail my thread.
IT help desk
I've tried to challenge myself to not watch porn and fap for the whole week. I've learn something for this entire week of not watching porn and fapping so I decided to share with you guys.
The whole week of no porn and fap made me feel more energize and more vitality. At my job, I have everything done quicker. I also have improve my self-respect and confident, I had normal conversation and not the usual creepy attitude, with my female co-worker. I even got compliments from them. Overall, I've improve a lot just by not watching porn and fap. However, I failed...
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G fricken g m8
>>16939348
I know what you mean. I hate porn, I hate having filthy thoughts about anyone, but especially people I know, and I hate the feeling of wasting time. I sometimes jerk off for four hours at a time. I'm worried I might be giving myself erectile dysfunction. I want to try and get with this girl I like, but I want to get my mind clean first.
I only "no porn for a week" when I need to prove to myself that I have self control. I never found any other benefits. Longest streak was a couple days under a month.
Anyone want to share their records?
ITT Ask a guy dating 3 girls while they are aware of each other anything.
Why the fuck you lyin'?
do you suspect any of them are doing it in secret hopes of changing the relationship to something more long term?
and do you believe that if you found out that was the case, you'd be obligated to break up with the ones that thought that way?
Do these girls have low self esteem
Help me, /adv/.
I'm 19 and currently a full-time student in university and I applied for a job a few weeks ago. Because of the sudden increase in work for uni, I couldn't do a learning module for me to work on. I got kicked out of the job because of that, and my dad was the one to get me the job in the first place.
So, /adv/, tell me. Why is it so hard to balance school and work?
It's not if you don't take on too much and know how to manage your time.
Stop gaming.
>>16939022
Was it a full time job? Honestly, it was one module, man. It's the middle of March. What could have possibly been so important at school that you couldn't have put it off for work?
Does this thing look inflamed?
>>16938609
Is it tender to the touch or sore? Is the skin raised?
looks like there's some puss there. consider this>>16938661
>>16938661
It doesn't feel unusual when touched or rubbed normally, stings a bit if I press down.
The skin isn't raised save for the scab. I taped it shut with a bandaid like ten days ago and it's been under that ever since. It only came off tonight.
So lately me and my girlfriend of 6 years have been thinking of ways to spice up our sex life , we thought of the usual things like role play etc but nothing really seemed to jump out and seem interesting. This past Thursday we were at a friend's house having a couple drinks and they were very open to us when we spoke of spicing up our sex life and they told us they were swingers , we knew them too well to even dream of swinging with them but it planted a seem in my girlfriends head and she suggested Saturday after dinner to head to a swingers club (wasn't much of a club just a house) we walked in to this place and instantly I hated it , everybody in there was old and they all zoned straight on to my girl 28yo btw still as beautiful as she was at 22. I told her I didn't like it and wanted to leave but she suggested we stay awhile , not even twenty minutes after she told me to stay I left...alone , she ran out after me but still wanted me to come back in , I told her no , she left and I found out just now that she had planned to meet an older gentleman from there tonight , she said that it's kinda a sugar daddy type thing that he just wants to pay for dinner and a kiss nothing more , she said that if he enjoys himself he'd give me some extra cash and it could become a regular thing , should I let her go? It's nothing below the belt as far as I know and we need extra cash , she said it would be fun but I just don't know if I'm comfortable with this happening , any advice or any of you guys in the same boat? All advice appreciated
>>16938604
>should i accept the cucking and pretend its ok if i get money
I feel bad for you man. Drop her.
>>16938604
>>16938604
Needing money and spicing up your sex life are two different things. If you're not into it then it's not spicing up your sex life. Do not prostitute your girl.
tl;dr - this is a cheating post
My wife(I'm 27, she's 28) has over the last year developed a severe and mysterious nerve condition, and about 6 months ago she just quit her job and has been under the care of a doctor almost all of the time.
We don't sleep together any more for weeks at a time because she's either at the hospital or, when she feels like she needs to come home for me or her or why ever she tries that sometimes, it just ends up being a heart breaking experience where if I touch her it hurts. I've had to go to the bathroom...
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You're selfish. Plain and simple.
See a therapist to learn to cope with your wife's illness.
Also possibly relevant,
the other woman knows the full story. my wife obviously doesn't. This situation seems awful and inescapable and irreparable and I would probably just kill myself if there wasn't hope for my wife to recover.
For a start stop being such a co-dependant baby. Why not stay at the hospital with your wife? Why not go out with friends? Why not start some project or pick up another hobby?
Shit nigga, you have all the time in the world and you cry about my feels and go waste time with some old hag.
She probably feels as shitty as you do. Go support your wife.
