>have bf >sleep with him maybe three nights a week >almost 100% of the nights that I sleep over, he does this:
>wait until I fall asleep >rub my sensitive spots for until I wake up >pleasure me without touching himself until I get off >tell me to say something >I say it >he proceeds with dicking Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
A. he wants to make sure you are enjoying it B. he wants it to be a more connected experience, he wants more emotional involvement from you C. he wants his ego stroked a bit
I've had sex with girls and I couldn't get into it because I couldn't tell if they were enjoying it as well or not some girls just lie there making no indication they are into it, and so you stop and they complain "I was really enjoying that" and you think "so why didn't you... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16937365 >Does he get off on it? Is he asking permission? probably both, is it that big of a deal? if he likes it and you sound like you're enjoying it why not just go with it? sounds like you're asking for attention more than advice.
Bf has one and it makes sex better and makes him laster longer. It makes it look bigger from my experience. But get a high quality one the cheap ones hurt.
I apologize if this topic isn't safe for work. I won't be posting any nsfw images. The porn boards are also not the best places for discussion or advice.
Is there a healthy and relatively normal way to give up certain fetishes? I have a few that make me feel like crap whenever I watch some porn with them in it. And not in that way which makes submissive people feel lovely. Just like crap.
So I'm wondering if I can give up these fetishes that I see as damaging in my life, without doing further damage. There are all sorts of resources on the internet... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16936847 only if you stopped for a prolonged period. Like 20 years ? accelerated regeneration, immunity to disease. 40 years ? super speed. 60 years ? control of elements and gravity.
>>16936847 I stopped for a month and I did get looks from women. I guess it makes you seek out women's attention more, but for me it did not get me into a relationship so I fapped.
I've just gone official with a girl I'm seeing long distance, we're about 500 miles apart til after summer, after that we'll be on different continents for another year until she moves to my country. She is really great for me and I'm willing to make it work even when she's across the atlantic and have like 1 visit every couple of months MAX.
I guess what I want here are people with experience from this where it worked out and you lived happily ever after so I don't have to doubt my decision to be with her and invest myself more and more in this
>>16935767 LDRs aren't real relationships. They're placeholders between in person relationships. Enjoy being an emotional tampon while she rides the cock carousel.
>>16935786 She's not like that, she was a virgin before she was with me and she's a true introvert, hates parties and loves staying inside reading. Honestly not worried at all she would cheat on me. I see her about every 2-3 weeks now since it's only two train rides away and it's the best each time, how is it not a real relationship?
LDRs are 100x harder than normal relationships. I'm in one at the moment and it's pretty painful at times. But mine has no end in sight yet, and I'm discovering sides of my bf's I'm not terribly happy with. Sorry this is not a happy ending, just wanted to say they can work and I wish you success in yours!
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God. Blessed are those who are... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
> find girl on okc with 95% match > fits perfectly, similar interests great chemistry > meet her, get along really great > but she seems to be at least chubby, cant say how much exactly, give her the benefit of the doubt > things escalate over the course of a few dates > well we fuck and she is quite a lot too heavy. cant even fuck her doggystyle because there is so much fat on her ass.
If... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16939935 This. Seriously you fucked up by fucking her already. If you come forth its gonna be a shit show. If you go dark itll probably be fine if you have no other connection s with her.
The first time I had sex came down to two things, 1- being completely oblivious to her interest (so I never tried and never looked desperate) and 2- being a genuinely chill and kind person. With that second part I don't mean being a white knight or Nice Guy. I mean that she saw me hanging out with my friend after school, he hurt himself so I made sure he was alright. That's it. Thirty seconds to show that I'm not a weird loner and that I act like a decent human being. I know that the really hot girls might be looking for a lot more stuff but she was good looking... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Swinging from man to man and receiving constant attention and offers of a relationship, women will never be lonely.
True, despairing loneliness or unrequited love will never be experienced by a woman-that is the exclusive domain of man. When was the last time you heard a woman complaining about being single?
>>16931043 My friend, who does your bitterness hurt most? Yourself.
It's like you're eating poison every day hoping the other person will die. They do not feel your contempt, hatred, or anger in the slightest. They are not pleasant feelings, yet you force yourself into such misery everyday. They live their lives oblivious to your scorn, while you seethe with anger and disillusionment. It's a hopeless struggle and you will be the loser.
So I have a problem with my FWB/guy I'm currently seeing (don't know how to define the relationship, we sleep together often but recently started going out on dates). He's 10 years older and told me he has quite a bit of experience, while I'm SUPER inexperienced, which he's aware of.
We started sleeping together very quickly, I told him that I was very inexperienced the first night. He didn't seem to mind, and it went well. The second time he wanted to try anal, and I told him it was a bit too quick for me. I'm still very new to having... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
But we do date. We go out to dinner, see movies, have long snuggle-sessions on the couch etc. He calls me often and has said he's never had sex with someone he wasn't into. We don't see anyone else.
Anyway, where I live, people don't get in relationships BEFORE they've had sex. Most people sleep together for 4-5 months at least before starting to discuss entering a relationship.
I fucking love my life, except for the lack of sex. Im 22 and in the last 4 years went from being the biggest nerd, to being the most confident, social and likeable person. I can meet and speak to women easily, even throw in some sexual tension and flirting. But at the end of the day I don't go in for the kill and become friendzoned. Just today a girl phoned me, begged me to go out for a drink, just to end up bitching about her boyfriend breaking up with her and how horny she is, but then continue to tell me I am too deep in the friendzone for her to have sex with me.
Basically... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16937162 Girls asking me for my number / reason for not "pulling in" proves different. Half the time the reason I don't pull in, is me being too affraid or not being in the mood for it (drunk/tired/irritated)
I've been seeing someone since the last quarter of 2015 and I'm madly in love with her. She just got out of two really bad break-ups, back to back, and isn't really into the idea of a relationship right now. She knows how I feel about her and knows that I want to be with her, but is still into me in spite of this (this almost never happens). We go out with each other a lot, have many of the same interests, talk to each other every day for hours at a time, and have unbelievable sex. Even though she's really depressed and self-conscious about herself, I reassure... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
It sounds like you're well on your way to becoming a cuck.
Listen, you're putting way more effort into this than you should. This is going nowhere good. Even if you don't want to admit it, she's using you in a subconscious (or conscious, you never know) manner.
If you two are having this great "relationship", but she's too afraid or hung up on someone to give this a shot, than it's time to take a step back. You can't be on two different levels, and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16936472 I don't see how I'm on my way to becoming a cuck, though I know that's a popular word these days. I don't care if how I'm going about all this doesn't necessarily benefit me the most in the end, I believe everyone should do what makes them happiest, including her. Obviously I want to be with her, but I'm one person among billions and life isn't really about what I want.
I don't think she's going to leave for anyone else, she tells me that I'm the only guy she's comfortable with and I'm inclined to believe her. If she did hook up with another guy, I'd be pretty upset and feel a little betrayed, but it wouldn't bother me for long. Call it beta or whatever, but she's still single at this point and can see whoever she wants, whether I like it or not. I shouldn't have to force her into anything she doesn't want to do.
There's something to your idea, but I feel like stepping back would be too soon at this point. We're both really stressed with school and life and general, and we benefit from each other's company to various degrees. Also, I don't think we've known each other long enough for her to really feel like she's missing out on anything yet.
Is life really as difficult as it seems? I see people around me going to very competitive universities and having great bodies and good jobs and when they talk they seem so sure of themselves and it all seems so foreign like they can only do all that because they're better than me in every way and I could never achieve that. I think I'm incompetent. Am I really or am I just kind of a pussy? How can I do these things too?
How do people live interesting lives? like they seem to do barely any work and shit just comes to them? is it that they literally follow their dreams and that they take opportunity instead of being hesitant? is it that they just do their thing and dont try to be interesting and by doing that they live an interesting life cuz they dont give a fuck? Im sick of living a life i hate. Any one here live a life they love and feel fufilled?
I do, but that's only because I'm still in college and not currently working. The jury is still out on whether or not I will end up living a life that keeps me happy long-term, but I am pretty focused on making it work, so I'd like to say I will.
I don't think that's the norm desu. Some just continue the path the someone wiser/richer set out for them but some do take advantage of every opportunity they have.
It's really a fear of failure and/or inadequacy that stops us from doing what we want(within reason) hence the no gf problem. The failed uni stories. The dead end job complaints.
Ultimately it's a matter of isolation and execution. Compartmentalize your fears and look at what you want vs what you can do and execute the most effective plan you can based on what you deem most important(i.e.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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