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>drank a lot last night
>met cool girl
>spent all night drinking and fucking her
>3 hours of sleep
>masturbating all day thinking about last night
>she wants to go to a concert tonight and meet up
im like so damn tired and spent. should i muster up any energy i might have a go? or just stay in and not give a fuck. i already said id go last but now im just meek
wat do
>>16936390
Literally not a single damn person can tell you what you want, and you should also be proud about that fact.
>>16936400
yeah youre right. like really i just wanna stay in and be chilling. but i been on this whole "you were a loser in highschool and if you dont party your ass off in your 20s your gunna lose those too" thing going on
for me its a whole dont waste whats left of your youth vs fuck man im just hungover
/adv/ I fucked up recently and insulted a couple of people I deeply respect (its also worth noting that the incident wasn't necessarily my fault(also don't ask what happened for the relevant parties maybe reading this). That's beside the point though, because they've forgiven me as long as I fix some minor damages. The problem though is I can't let go of the guilty thoughts /adv/, I get in a cycle of getting bad (mostly guilty) thoughts stuck in my head and they never get out and this time its really bad.
How do I purge my mind of this painful...
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Maybe you should feel guilty.
Man up and tell the details or stfu
>>16936354
Drown your sorrows in a lake, while wearing cinder block shoes.
So I've been talking with a girl for the past year or so, and we love each other very much. The kicker here is that she's already in a relationship with someone else. The dude she's with is someone I've known longer than her and we do stuff as a group with some others all the time.
It started out as some innocent thing where we would just click during conversations until eventually she started telling me some very personal stuff about herself and admitted some of her feelings towards me. I initially kind of denied her a bit, but then reciprocated after...
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Had something like this at my last job. The girl and I bonded alot, but I started ignoring her when she asked to kiss me. I just didn't have a good feeling about it.
Within a short amount of time, she moved onto the next coworker who fell for her and moved in with him.
I don't regret my decision, since she ended up being a compulsive liar and a leech.
Move on and find a girl who won't go behind your back, instead of fixing the relationship or breaking up.
She's using you as an emotion crutch.
Slowly stop talking to her and find a new person.
I'll try to keep things short, but I have depression and have for the last month have noticed myself becoming more and more paranoid of others, particularly peers or those in positions of power. For example, one of the things I'm paranoid over:
I haven't been able to go to class because I feel like because of my past interactions with my profs, they don't want me in their class, and like classmates hate me and don't think I deserve to be there.
Lately it has been even difficult to ride the bus on my own, and I start panic if someone sits down...
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Talk to the psychiatrist. You won't be a "waste of their time", but even if you're afraid they'll think you are, you lose nothing from it.
>>16936262
There truly isn't much you can do by yourself. Seeing a therapist is really your best option. Don't think you're "not worth their time", they are paid to help, it's their job.
Hello &adv.
I always feel like I must do two things at the same time or I should do nothing. This also means I also have a very short attention span but I'm able to focus sometimes (ex. when programming I'm able to do it for a long period of time without discriting).
I know this is an issue, should I get help for it or just accept it as part of my life?
>>16936206
No idea how to help with that but it sounds intrusive, you should try to find help on other sites or google because that could interfere with your work.
what you lack and need to solve it is planning. the more autistic the better. once you have that you're golden.
remember. SMART.
So I'll be going to the prom with this girl, and I just want to know what I should expect. We're not dating at the moment, but I know she likes me. I've never been to a school dance before, what's it like? I'm mostly just concerned with what activities there will be to do there, I'm not a good dancer by any means and I want her to have a good time.
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>>16935847
18 fgt
At what point should we stop looking into others and decide things for ourselves?
Anxieties about doing the wrong choices spring up, but the crave of affirmation on an action from someone else is becoming intrusive
When can I say I'm qualified to answer things? All my life I've been taught that I know nothing, and I know I know nothing. When the fuck will I begin to know something?
If you are being taught that you know nothing and are actually believing that, then yes you do know nothing. The point of when you start confiding in yourself and telling yourself that you do know more than you might think thats when you will start to allow yourself to know more and learn more. if being qualified to answer things is really so important to you then let yourself flourish in knowledge, read books and gather information and just allow yourself to hold that information in order to be able to spread knowledge
What >>16935755 said - eventually you will just know. When you know, you KNOW. Trust me.
Hello /adv/, this may sound like something a 12 year old would say, but it's actually a serious problem.
My grandma is 95 years old and she's getting a bit senile, which makes it VERY boring to visit her and talk to her. For the past year, the three or so times I visited I had to explain what I was studying and how it was going, every single time. She talks for hours and hours on end with a slow voice and to be fair I really don't like visiting her. My dad tells me I have to visit her before she dies, and I know he's right but I don't really know...
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>>16935670
Just engage her in conversation on her terms. No matter what senile shit comes out of her mouth take it seriously, ask critical questions, and see how far down the rabbit hole you can go in an hour or two.
>>16935699
So I should view it as mining?
Before a date, do you jerk off and release so you don't get too horny or is that bad advice?
>>16935553
Bad advice. Your horniness is what leads you to take risks that lead to sex. Without it, you're a very nice beta that no woman wants to fuck.
It releases endorpants that will make u seem like a more chilled /layedback dude, increasse ur stamina by abit. And i have no idea why that would turn you on more, if anything it will make u less horny.
Hi /adv/ I've recently begun suffering from dermatitis patches on my body and forehead. I've visited a doctor and was given some 1% hydrocortisone as a remedy. I tried it and my patches cleared within a week. However, a few days after I stopped using the steroid cream the patches on my forehead have returned. I've tried using moisturisers but to no avail and I don't wish to continue using topical steroids for long period on what may simply be a simple bacterial infection. Would a combination of a topical antibiotic like pic related and moisturiser be my best...
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>>16935520
Sounds very much like atopic dermatitis.
Have you been more stressed lately, sleeping less or changed your diet?
>>16935520
You'd be just as well off using an anti-bacterial soap to wash your face and changing your pillow case regularly, and wearing a night cap that you wash frequently. Also, if you're wearing any hats that go over your forehead, look at the materials they're made of and try something else, or line them with a hypoallergenic liner that you can wash.
In a anonymous clipboard I read two comments: 1th wanted to support anonymous activists. 2nd said he wan´t, if he get fair gamed. I say: They can´t technical fair gaming ALL ANONYMOUS. Already a few people can rent a whole house. If you are in a group it gives safety. But not if your allways just with one or two of your friends. There are a lot of opportunities. Manage your live, than manage the fight. For 25.000 bugs you can get a account by one of the big swiss banks. I say make your own bank, if you thrust some who has a account, good. But anybody MUST have a account. In...
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>>16935501
learn to americano amigo!
I don't know of any big swiss bank which will store 25 insects for you, my third world friend.
>tfw I will outlive my mom and my dogs
Why do people have to die?
They don't. We simply don't have the technology yet to slow or stop aging.
Bc people die
Okay 4chan I need advice to help conceal my identity on my little adventure. I need to know what type of cloths I need to wear to keep me hidden in the dark. How would I hide my face from any unsespected secretly cameras. And what you think is the best time in the night I should go to get the panties
>>16935336
You should be wearing panties from previous thefts. And nothing else.
This is basic stuff, get it together.
>>16935336
Where do you live where people still hang their clothes on a clothesline?
I have some deep-seated issues with obsession over physical appearance, mostly my own.
I quite literally fawn over the way I look and am always trying to catch a glimpse of myself or check how I'm looking whenever I can. It borderlines on being a serious issue I think.
Is this something worth seeking help for or is it just something I have to try and change within myself?
>>16935330
Is it negatively impacting your life in any way or the lives of those around? If yes, yes, if not then just keep doing what you do, Narcissus
>>16935330
It's completsly normal. At some point, other things will be more important. Especially after you've settled down.
Even if you do't settle down, that just means you have important business to take care of on a daily basis later in life. The problem with obsessing over your own looks is that they fade, and aren't intrisically that important after a certain period of time.
I have this thing with a girl and she had a bad eating disorder years ago. She put weight back on but the psychological aspects are still there. She talks to someone to help with her problems but I'm not sure it's really helping. Anybody have any experience with this, or could put me in the right direction?
You should try to talk to her bc you seem like you care for her a lot and often knowing someone cares and loves you really, really help. I went through a similar problem, the perspective of the girl and having someone close to you, having someone to talk to personally, having some understand is one of the best therapies out there. Treat her like a normal gal. Don't make it awkward by constantly bringing up her ed, but make her happy, or find stuff that makes her smile, bc a good mentality=better chance of recovering. Tell her good, positive things and really, legitimately mean them.
