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I need some help guys. I'm driving back to Boise right now and I have a date as soon as I get in. I had originally planned to go ice skating and then dinner, but I'm going to be getting in to late for ice skating. I need a place that's open until later in the night and that is also 21 and younger. Pic unrelated
>>16932564
Lol, but no thank you.
>>16932564
Wait, of there a professional reenactment, out are you saying I should do one?
Hey /adv/ how do you deal with apathy? For the past year or so I just haven't really cared about anything and nothing really seems fun anymore. Every so often I try and pull out a more positive outlook and better my life but it seems like no matter what I just fall back into this rut
VAPORWAVE MOTHERFUCKER
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrrlxKE9kbk
Do more drugs.
Gf just broke up with me. She said it was weirded and that we should just be friends. She's done this before. We weren't goin out for very long. Really just wanted to get sum. How to get back with her,
>>16932453
>How to get back with her,
Don't.
/thread
>>16932458
>not giving advice on /adv
Never drank this since never bothered to but which one would you advise for someone to try out first?
>>16932425
Just get some medium blend coffee and make it. Experiment with creams and sugars until the taste feels right.
Some people want to get all advanced with their coffee and use a press or a percolator. If you just want to try it, just make some coffee in a coffee maker or go to starbucks and order a medium or blonde if you don't have a coffee maker.
While coffee in a press does taste a bit better, if you're just trying it out, I just drink Folger's medium roast at home to be honest.
>>16932425
drink it with a sitter whom you feel safe with and drink just half a cup at first. see how you feel and drink the second half later.
remember, if anything happens its just the caffeine and it will wear off eventually.
>Dating grill for a few like a month now
>Seems super traditional, still no kiss, but she is just now getting comfortable touching me, hugs etc
>I don't really know where she stands at this point, or if she sees it going anywhere
We went on a double date, with my buddy and his GF. And my buddies GF after the date texted me and said that this girl practically adores me, and it is "really obvious". But I'm not really seeing it.
I think she is leaving the country in a year, so that might be it, I don't know. How do I approach her about this and ask whats up or how she sees me? When I say she is traditional I mean really traditional. I'm 99% sure she is a virgin, at 22. I don't think she is waiting for marriage, since she isn't religious or anything. Just waiting for the right guy or something.
bamp
>>16931951
Talk to her. If you like her, tell her. If you want to know if she likes you, figure out how you feel first and tell her to start the conversation.
> be me 16 yo newfag here
> be a really close friend of this 10/10 thick black chick since 7th grade
> probably her best guy friend
> was at that weird puberty phase with lots of acne and a really fag hair
> always wanted to fuck the brains out of her
> since 9th grade havent talk much cuz we are in different schools
> about a couple weeks ago we started talking...
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>>16931823
underage b& pls
>>16931823
i dunno anon, should you fuck a 10/10 girl?
Kinda need some advice on feelings and relationships.
I live with my girlfriend of 5 years. We love each other. Know everything about each other. She used to go out and have fun with me. We shared the same friend group. Now those friends moved away. She is really busy with school and we don't go out anymore which is fine. we each have our own separate friend group now from university.
I sometimes get bored and go out. My friends like to turn up. So we go to the bar and go on adventures and,shit.
Thing is, I went out last night with my friends.
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I feel bad for saying that stuff and hanging around these girls and having these feelings because I love my girlfriend and I wouldn't want to hurt her. It feels like cheating even though I didn't do anything, honestly though she got fucked up black out drunk before and I'm pretty damn sure cheated on me, but I put it behind me because she was blacked out and the situation kinda wasn't her fault
Pretty much are these normal ads feelings? Probably yes.
Just needed to type it out to chill out. I was panicking a bit.
>New girlfriend
>Had plans to stay overnight in a diff city
>Randomly while making plans the night before
>Says its boring and wants to cancel
>I said okay lets just chill at my place
>She says "I'm going to stay home"
Is this some sort of shit test? How should i react too this.
I would fucking kill myself cuz that shit hurts. I'm sorry op :(
>>16931356
I would press her to find out what changed.
It could be stupid shit like she got her period or something.
I was linked to my gf's nudes online; it's on some 4chan equivalent of 'kik slut' threads. She denied it initially, but it's clearly her, plus her kik/skype and how "she sends nudes 100%".
I haven't confronted her yet, but what are the odds that it's just harmless fun? Am I a cuck? Should I break up?
You're not a cuck unless she's having sex with people and you know about it.
>>16931291
>shit that did not happen
Hello, adv
Situation:
- fem colleague fond of fire arms, weapon stuff, touring, etc.
- strict restriction on guns in the country, no outdoor shooting
- she is femine, not boyish type
- knowing her objectives i believe that hobbies might be some sort of shell
What should i do?
I donthave any advice but your post reminded me that a cute, quiet girl I went to school with will be representing Australia at the Rio Olympics in shooting. She already won gold at the Commonwealth Games 2 years ago.
This might be mostly the same.
She suddenly turned her mind, just as I figured out what do. Probably I pushed too hard, but she believes that she made first step, which is unacceptable for her
Is it dangerous to travel to South America during this summer because of Zika and all that? Also, is it dangerous for a girl to go volunteer there by herself? My level of Spanish is crappy but enough for simple conversations.
>>16931018
its a great idea if you like the idea of rape and getting executed on tv
>>16931032
Well...
Did I fell in love with a girl in my dreams?
When I was with my now exgirlfriend, in my dreams there a lot a times was her present. But not actually her. She looked different, acted slightly differently but I knew it was her because I loved her.
Now, after a half a year after I lost her, I found a girl to which I'm starting to feel something and again, there is this girl in my dreams which is her but not completely her. It's like my ex's and current girl's best personality trades melted into this character. Later in the past relationship I wanted...
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>>16930835
Need advice with something?
Excellent livejournal post btw
I'm going to a concert on Sunday. the doors open at 6, and there’s one opener. It starts at 8. It's Robert Plant.
When can I expect to go home?
10:30 ~ midnight
Also underage.
>>16930933
OK, thanks.
Started seeing a girl I'm interested in. She's going to be away from now until the end of spring break. About 10 days. We only hung out once before, and I really want to start seeing her a lot more when she gets back. In a case such as this, is it better to text and keep up with her everyday, or keep some sort of distance? And in general, is it better to seem clingy, rather than uninterested in this stage of a potential relationship? BTW she's doing some volunteer thing, not going to some resort or to party or anything.
It's best to make a woman chase you - because one person is always chasing another in relationships and women up til they're about 30 have endless options.
So what I mean by this is grabbing her interest and disappearing, and grabbing it again, and disappearing, constantly leaving her wanting more. When done right this usually makes a woman be super excited to see you. This is what most people mean when they say women like assholes; women don't really like assholes women just want a man who has more going on in his life and really cares about making this...
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>>16954616
appreciate the adv
>Just met, should i seem uninterested?
you just met her, so you occupy about 10 of her brain cells. if you act uninterested at this stage, that will drop to 4.
women crave attention, so let her know that you're thinking about her. If she's volunteering instead of partying during spring break, consider it work, just a quick afternoon message to see that she arrived safely.
play it by ear. she may be very busy, or it might be boring. if she texts, reply quickly as she may be on a short break and only have a moment.
Never...
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So I have a girlfriend and I can't even answer your question. I don't really feel anything. I put an emotional attachment on her just because I need someone. She says she loves me but it doesn't feel real when I say it back. I don't love other women but I just want her around. I love her but I don't feel it. Almost as if I'm forcing myself to love her.
Can anyone explain what this is or what is happening to me? She's my first girlfriend and I've been with her for 4 months.
I also think I'm emotionally attached to her...
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