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How many things should you do when you're meeting up together on a date and the like, and how much should be planned out?
I asked this girl out to watch a movie soon. We've been close for a few months, and in the past month tension only intensified. We went to the cinema before, but that wasn't much of a date and she had her parents pick her up as soon as the movie ended. That was a long time ago, though; I don't think she'll do that again.
Anyway, I'm not sure if I'm doing this right. I'm taking the bike there because it's...
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However much you normally do and/or plan. Dating should just be an extension of your own lifestyle. You can do new or special things if you want but the habits carry. After all, the whole point is to see how your date fits into your life. You should act as typically as possible. You weren't planning on having an entire relationship where you have to act deliberately instead of naturally, right?
Do as much as you do. Plan as much as you plan. Trust me, you know how to have fun. You clearly have a sense of things like boredom and thoughtfulness (like about the weather)....
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>>16953300
Okay, so the amount's no big deal. That makes sense. The 'natural' thing to do isn't exactly easy to think of with the problems I listed, though. What is the natural thing to do, really?
Other than that it's helpful. Thanks.
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If you get a ticket, I know it adds 'points' or something to your license which insurance companies use to hike up your rates, right?
How long until these points go away though, and do insurance companies reduce them down after they go away?
I'm in MI btw. Got a ticket which adds 2 points to my record and I cant take that class to avoid the points because I took it before.
Some infractions come with points, some don't. Check your local laws when it comes to how many points come off per year after the ticket. As for insurance, it's usually for as long as the points are on your license. Your premiums may also never drop back to their original levels.
In your situation, you should consider talking to a traffic law attorney. For only two points, there's probably a way for you to show up in court for the ticket. You can probably negotiate to have the penalty be modified to a higher monetary fine but without points.
I worked as a receptionist for an insurance company and depending it can stick for 3-7 years depending. For example speeding tickets drop in 3 years but heavy infractions like DUI for example will linger for 7 years before the you can legally expunge them. If you really want to tear into this shit I'd look up an "independent insurance broker" in your area and ask them for a free quote, they'll try and hit you with a broker fee if you transfer to them but thats under the condition that they can actually save you money and initiate a change in policy. These...
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read the law u dumbass, it is different state to state. they do expire after a few years.
How do I get rid of a fetish? Is it even wise to do so?
What I have gathered from various articles thus far: bury your fetish, ignore your thoughts, keep yourself busy.
While this isn't something constantly running through my mind, it is something that comes to mind quite often, and it kind of hurts to think about.
The short and thick:
I was raped as a child for years, and have since fetishized the idea of my partner wanting young females (14 & under). Worse still: he does get off on that (more-so 12-14 than younger, but he does still think of younger girls sometimes). Thankfully, there is plenty of loli hentai and other animated characters to imagine (I don't feel comfortable thinking about RL girls--though am unsure whether that's the case with him).
I hate that I like it. It excites me initially, but when I step out of arousal-mode I judge myself.
>pic not really related
Bumping with more Cara
>>16953262
trying a bump again
>>16953262
well your bf is a lucky man.
Girl I've know for a while qt kinda weird, I'm weirder. I don't talk too much, if not at all, in group settings, but a lot when we're alone. Through trials and hardships we finally started dating. It's only been about a week but we barely spend one together or interact in any way. Most of our friends are mutual, but she spends more time with some of them more then me even if she's expressed that she really really like them. I'm somewhat of a beta-fag so I haven't even kissed her much less even hold her hand, just the occasional hug. i...
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No?
>>16953261
how old are you?
So, I'm going on a long ass trip, like extremely long, and I decided to bring my Vita and 3DS, but I don't have a traveling case for my games, and it's too late to buy one, where can I transport them.
>>16953258
anything, you dingus
get a fucking ziploc bag
or, instead of being a god damn manchild, bring some books or your laptop instead
>>16953281
This, if you need to just use your phone to play pokemon on an emulator. Or read. I just finished Dune, was excellent, would recommend.
can something bad happen if you cum balls deep in her mouth?
>>16953255
unless shes alergic to sperm nothing to worry about bruh
Well she can bite off your dick; and I suppose she could choke to death.
But besides that, not really.
>>16953394
I forgot to mention, the chances of either of those things happening are rather slim.
That's kind of obvious but I'm pretty sure if I don't say it I look like an idiot.
How do I trick women into liking me?
Sort out your responsibilities in life, take care of your health and physical appearance, develop a pleasant and confident personality and enjoy a lifestyle which is both open and inviting to other people.
Best trick in the book. Four tips women don't want you to know! (GONE SEXUAL!)
>>16953272
Are you a woman? Will you go out with me?
>>16953276
You're on 4chan. Of course I'm not a woman.
Hello's
So I need some quick advice on how I am spending my money.
First of all I would like to say, that I am not broke and not in any kind of debt.
HOWEVER
I use A LOT of money on random stuff, which I feel the need to buy.. Gaming gear, food, clothes and just random stuff I guess..
Some time after buying these things, I kinda realize I actually didn't need it for shit...
So my question is:
How do I stop spending money on random stuff, and save it for greater things later in life?
Thanks.
Think about whether or not the thing you want to buy is something you need.
Evaluate whether or not the thing you want to buy is something you'll want in the long-run, or just an easy answer for a quick fix.
Often times we buy things to feel as though our efforts in life are being rewarded.
Remember:
You are not your possessions.
You are your actions.
Only carry cash, like $40 and don't buy shit you don't need.
If you really want to dive into it write down all of your expenses in a log and guilt trip yourself as the numbers unfold.
>>16953256
This.
Only spend cash. Then you can watch the dosh slip right through your fingers.
girl from highschool 3 years ago adds me on facebook. does that mean she wants the penor?
>>16953208
1) what was the nature of your relationship at the time
2) did she send you any opening messages?
3) how many people is she currently adding?
>>16953208
no, just means she's interested in you and possibly wants your pen.
chat with her. see how she's doing. see what she wants. catch up. meet up. do it dawg
>>16953210
1 - we never talked. i shouldve added that in the op.
2 - no message
3 - nobody else currently
Is it okay to admit you're a bad person?
I'm manipulative, hurt people, scam, cheat, steal and lie.
>>16953189
It's OK to admit it, as long as you intend to do something about it.
that's just fine.
>>16953192
I don't, though.
I've tried being the good guy but I just get stomped on and end up as the one being used.
There are also just so many more opportunities when you don't care.
I applied for a job at my local cinema after I saw a notice requesting a part-time worker.
This seems perfect for me. I have an avid interest in all things multimedia, a college degree in film+television production, and have attended this cinema over 100 times in 2012-2013.
I'm in crisis-mode at this time in life. Totally broke, don't have one Euro. I'm not receiving state benefits. My family, relatives, and friends have outcast me. I need a fucking job in short. I've applied to all the local shops without success, but this seems it's gotta...
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Here's the email.
All the info stated is true.
>>16953186
>Here's the email.
Don't tell a potential employer you're broke.
>would prefer
No potential employer cares about what you prefer. You need them more than they need you.
Just list your qualifications; don't talk about how you feel you'd be a good fit for the job. That's for them to decide.
Hope this helps
>>16953186
>level 7 bachelor's degree
what the fuck is this? yuropoor education is weird.
How do you ask people out for a sober night out?
Invite them to an activity that does not go well with alcohol. Anything involving physical activity for example.
You make and present plans which don't involve alcohol.
You start by not inviting anyone of English/Irish/Scots extraction, as everything revolves round booze.
I want to fuck my uncles wife. She is 20 years older than me. How do I do it?
>>16953162
You don't. Cūcking your uncle is a really shitty move.
>>16953164
What if my uncle is an ass?
>>16953168
Then you don't want to put your cock in contact with anything your uncle's has touched.
So I currently, and always, have had the problem of only being sexually excited by the idea of fucking my friends. So I was really turned on by one girl, and we eventually started dating and I had to think of my other female friends to enjoy the sex. Ended up breaking up with her because I felt guilty thinking that way.
How to fix this? I want to stay attracted to one girl, or not fetishize my friends.
Help plz
You just haven't met the girl that is so amazing you think of only her when you fuck yet
>>16953147
Are your "friends" taken or have they declared you off limits because you're a guy friend?
I need help, /adv/
>ask guy if he would want to hook up again
>he says yes
>yay.jpg
>week later try to arrange meet up
>"have to work"
>try again week later
>"sorry have plans"
>wait two wks, message to try again
>wtf no response
>send irritated...
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It sounds like he's trying to avoid confrontation with someone who acts like a nutter.
Seriously you sound a little disturbed in the head. Normal people would have just read between the lines and moved on somewhere between "have to work" and "sorry have plans."
>>16953150
Since when has wanting a straight answer meant that person is a nutter?
I'm rather going to ask you: who are you to perpetuate the bullshit idea that you can't tell things as they are? Why do you think it's good to live in a society where people have to say bullshit like "I have to work" instead of saying "Sorry, I don't feel like it"?
It's so fucking aggravating. I've got a pussy girlfriend who can't make her stupid mind up about our relationship...
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>>16953163
Confirmed for bullet dodged. Smart man.
