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Lets call her gem. Gem is an escort which i know about and doesnt have sex. But she lies about where she goes, what she might be agreeing to thats extra. When i know shes lieing she sticks to her lie and yells at me having alot of agression towards me. She will yell, cuss, threaten to not come back staying with the guy, and ect. I always tell her i just want the truth i wont be mad or agree i will actually be happy just knowing she tells me everything and is honest. It gives me closure and she states she hates what she does and has to turn off her emotions and be numb to it...
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>escort
>doesn't have sex
bahahahaha
I refuse to help you from a moral standpoint.
You are dating a prostitute who is having sex with other men on the regular and has clear deep-seeded emotional issues that derive from such a lifestyle.
I can't in good conscious give you any advice because you shouldn't be with this woman.
You know that. I know that. She knows that.
I refuse to feed your delusions. You know you need to leave her, but you are too weak.
You deserve to suffer for your weakness as you aren't willing to make any effort to improve. You merely want to...
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How do you find someone you can talk/explain/vent to when you have no friends and no family?
My best friend was the only person I could talk to freely without a filter and he killed himself, so I'm feeling really alone and I know it's getting worse. I'm feeling depressed more and more often and I afraid of being so depressed I kill myself.
>>16954527
you can talk to me if you want
Go to /soc before when I felt really alone i found plenty of people there to chat with.
I am also willing to listen and give some wisdom. I know what it feels like to have nobody to talk to when you really needed it.
So the girl I've been talking to for quite some time told me that I tend to bring out the worst in her. I've been told this all of my life and I seem to make people negative. My only problem is that I'm brutally honest to the point of rudeness, I'm also incredibly realistic and don't live in a dream world.
I'm quite literally a "Debbie Downer", but for some reason people flock to me and I have no problem meeting people or socializing.
What the hell do I do?
>I'm brutally honest to the point of rudeness, I'm also incredibly realistic and don't live in a dream world
Maybe you should consider the idea that you aren't as realistic as you think and should learn to shut the fuck up or make a joke instead of point out some edgy truth.
>>16954547
>>16954541
I'm confused about what you're getting at. People like to hear certain things, I don't say those things because it plays up their ego, instead give them an honest opinion and explain my thoughts, usually to their disdain. That's what I'm talking about Idk what kind of "edgy truths" you're talking about.
I mean "Hey, I just drew this picture(that obviously looks like complete shit), what do you think...
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Hello there,
As my name indicates I'm just a random broke guy and I'm here to ask if anyone knows a legit way to earn some money on the web through a website. Captchas / wtvs . Legit only, please.
P.S: I'm in Europe, I'm not sure how much relevant this is
P.S2: Pic unrelated
>>16954519
https://www.mturk.com/mturk/welcome
Can't get any more legit than Amazon.
>>16954553
>>16954553 I've actually found that one, I am currently waiting for the approval of the account. Thank you kind sir/mam
What do I say to a girl at a first date when she asks about college/job (25 and never had either)?
I'm also way fatter than I look on the tinder photo and I'm shy so I was thinking should I smoke weed or drink something before we meet?
you're fucked OP, sorry
here's the solution:
>get liposuction
>practice acting confident
>lie about having a job
I didn´t go to college, I learned *insert here* in high school and I focused on *insert here* (but be honest with what you focused on or are good at)
As for jobs, again truth. Searching for something that will interest me and will be sufficient or searching for something until I decide the best carreer path....
If you don´t want a job/career, I don´t have an advice - not a good way to live, not a good thing to tell...
Anyway, just be honest, but try not to seem like a slacker/leecher. Be honest and act on what you say afterwards...
>>16954489
How much fatter is way fatter? because thats not fair to the girl if your like 30 pounds or noticeibly larger then the picture, think of it from her perspective she might be trying for a relationship while your lying and trying to fuck her. Doesn't sound like a good thing to do if your a decent human being, if not then fuck it go for it
Next week I'll be hanging out with a chick I like. I suggested we get lunch and then hang out for a bit afterwards. I also suggested meeting her cats because she showed me pics of them once.
She's a vegan, so we're going to a vegan restaurant. (Which is hella expensive $14 for vegan spaghetti!) Its just the 2 of us, she didn't ask whether anyone else would be with us and its an expensive restaurant. We also might end up at her house afterwards.
It's a date isn't it? If not how can i turn it into one on the day?
Why wouldn't it be a date?
>>16954461
This, explain anon
I think the clearer question is what her feelings are toward lunch and toward you in general. I don't know yet. There's no way to tell from the details of a meal that hasn't happened yet. What I do know is that you can joke, tease and ultimately flirt while you're together. If she jokes and teases and--most importantly--flirts back, she's probably trying to get to know you better in a romantic sort of way.
my fucking bruh no there's in the house, so, let his car over there, out of the house; what i suppose to do? i wanna be fun !!!
>>16954385
Thanks for your post.
The next time we need more gibberish we'll be sure to get back to you.
>>16954385
What the fuck did you intend to convey you illiterate?
>ex-gf insists on me to come and live with her in uk.
>she randomly dumps me without any explanation via facebook which angers me, but i stay calm
>i have to reorganise everything, lost money on tickets and can't get back things i've sold
>week later she asks if we could "leave things as they are, and maybe come back to it someday", to which i disagree
>next day messages me (on facebook) that it she thought...
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>Instead, i keep on clashing with the question "why?
Stop that and move on. Sometimes its not worth it. Good thing she was just your gf, and not your wife of 20 years who you have 2 kids with.
You got off easy man, just let it go
She's convinced herself she is right because the alternative is to confront the truth and admit she fucked up. Her ego cannot handle that.
>>16954286
>why would somebody betray me like that
She sounds like a lunatic
>I keep on hoping she would finally say "listen, i fucked up, i'm sorry"
She won't, she's a fucking lunatic.
Sorry I know it's hard, but its best to just let it go. You'll never get what you want from someone like her.
Oh, by the way, she totally did mean to send her friend after you. They always do.
I need help folks.
I'm an 18 year old kissless Virgin. 6 ft, ~172lbs and I'm a 6/10 at the best of times. I have the self confidence of a depressed 13 year old and would like to unfuck my life.
Also ama because why not.
>>16954284
Why haven't you shut the up? Why do you think we care? Why haven't you chugged a gallon of bleach so we don't have to deal with your retardation?
>>16954298
Lol. Watch you don't cut yourself on that edge there ace.
>>16954312
>Implying I'm edgy
Seriously, why haven't you killed yourself yet? Why do you think we care that you're an 18 year old virgin? Shut the fuck up.
My gf when i met her was saying she is asexual and thought bj is disgusting. Now she loves sucking my dick and recently started to swallow. We have sex everytime we meet. When we fuck she told me that she want to try threesome or fucking a other guy but its only when we have sex. I really want her to dress slutty put make up on, go clubbing, make up with some guys etc. I would love to see her acting dumb and submissive to other cocks.
I appreciate any advice and ill answer questions that bother you
> Why?
I just love the idea of making her slutty cute girl and its my fetish.
>Inb4 find already slutty girl
NOPE i love her in every way and i know she has that inner slut in her she just need some courage etc
>>16954278
Is the aim to have her eventually cheat on you?
>>16954458
yup yup
main thing i want is make her to be obsessed with sex. Not with sex with me, but generally. Im not into cuckold but i just love slutty girls, Im not turned on by any of this cuck humiliation shit but hotwife is pretty nice and I would love to know that she made out with some random guy. I dont feel worried about of her having sex with someone else and YEP it turns me on. Its because Im really fucking turned on by girls who are addicted to sex and cant live day withoout it
How does a young gay twink get a sugar daddy without getting raped/murdered/kidnapped? Is there a site for that kind of thing? Also am I cute enough for that shit? Pic is me.
Yeah you are, and no there is not. Up to you if it's worth the risk.
>>16954240
110% luck.
I'd reccomend you not trying to seek it out because it's an unfulfilling lifestyle and you're very likely to get preyed on in the process.
>>16954240
I work with a gay twink with daddy issues too. At least my other gay/bi friend gossiped that to me after work once. I work fashion retail at the mall atm. He got two cars (one got wrecked) and a place to sleep out of it. I think you just hang out in the gay parts of town. All the gay guys I know live in thd gay part of town and go out to the gay spots in that part of town. Too bad I'm not gay and don't gossip that much at work or I could tell you more.
This is kind of a stupid question, but here goes.
I'm sick with the flu and mucus keeps dripping all over my pillow and shit, and it wakes me up and is generally disgusting.
I usually sleep on my side, but tonight I'll prop my head up with pillows as apparently that helps more.
My main question is what can I do about the mucus getting everywhere? I'm genuinely considering trying to find a makeshift bib or something, or just accepting I'm going to be coated in snot when I wake up.
Any ideas?
Put towel on pillow
Also, it's not a matter of blowing my nose. I've been blowing my nose nearly nonstop and yet my nose is always 100% plugged. Can't breathe though my nose at all.
>>16954234
I guess, I just roll around a lot when I sleep and I know I'll feel it dripping down my face and wake up from the cold, wet feeling.
I'm not sure what to live for anymore. I've taken a lot of self-reflection lately, sorted out most of my negative ways of thinking (and matured over the past few years quite a bit) and I've come to find that before, I was living through the eyes of others. I would live for power, to prove people wrong, to prove myself wrong; I was living just to please everyone else around me except for myself.
Now that I've sorted through so much of the bull shit, it feels like there's nothing left. I'm not sure what to do. I feel free but empty. It's...
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plz respond.
So explore.
>>16954441
I guess part of my problem is I have a bit of nihilism going on. I feel like everything is pointless. I want purpose though. I want purpose and meaning in my life. I guess part of that is I don't care to help others though through basic charity (as shitty as that sounds), due to complicated views I have in regards to humanity. But I still want to do something to help, just not through basic charity work.
I just feel like all my old values were corrupt and now I can't seem to know how to start building...
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Should I text a girl I had sex with but don't want anything further with or is it better to ghost? She's kind of in my circle of friends and lives in my neighborhood. I feel bad ghosting on her; she's nice and all that and she's asked me to text her but I think it might send the wrong message. We hook up on some weekends when all my friends go out but other than that, we don't talk during the week and she's asked me why.
I would just tell her that you've started seeing someone and it's getting serious. No one likes getting ghosted, I'd rather someone tell me a white lie rather than leave me hanging with no closure.
What are some good ways to alienate someone from their group of friends, make them feel strange and unwanted, and ultimately drive them into a spiral of low self-esteem, social isolation, and depression?
Before you ask, yes this person absolutely deserves it.
Someone is doing this to me right now. Unbeknownst to me I got on the wrong side of a local little drug kingpin and ever since he's been doing all this:
- When I am in a club, he makes a big show of leaving (with his pussy posse in tow)
- He's been telling everyone that I'm insane (even though he's a convicted felon and I'm a stay-at-home mom)
- He's been getting his cronies to act like they like me and then dump me in the most humiliating way.
I know someone who deserves this, too. So I'm interested in knowing how.
bump for interest
