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I have about 3k saved in my bank, what's the best way to invest that?
Silver or gold.
Put it in a savings account or retirement fund.
>>16955464
Don't do this. If you don't know what you're doing speculating on commodities is how you lose your shirt.
>>16955499
This. If you don't know what you're doing, put your money somewhere safe that doesn't require you to micromanage it (investing in fixed income etc.)
I feel like I'm doing a Bad Thing but I don't know why.
Some people just ignite in me this desire to totally eat them alive. It could be a person who won't look me in the eye again after a fight, a person who is dramatically tired all the time, a person who is a big fish in a small pond and doesn't seem aware of it, a person who has prissy habits etc.
I just get this physical anger that makes me want to destroy them. Physically, mentally, I don't care.
I'm not implying I have that ability or I'm a badass. Quite to the...
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Toxoplasmosis
YOu are evil.
iktf anon
> naturally see the flaws in everyone around me
> instinctively drive conversations in directions that help uncover more weaknesses
> sometimes push people's buttons for kicks but sometimes just on accident or compulsively
there's nothing wrong with you you're just an asshole like me. I know I'm an asshole though and try to turn myself off sometimes. I've been this way for years and I don't see it changing. it used to worry me but...
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>Dating girl for around 2-3 years
>We have several break ups but get back together
>Break ups were usually her breaking up with me some were short but a few, 2 in particular, were really bad
>Eventually I break up with her and she gets super pissed
>Spend several months kinda bummed out but overall feeling better
>Get closer to my friends who all admit and explain why they didn't like...
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>>16955360
>She's suddenly super cool with talking to me and thinks the break up(the one from the beginning where she got super pissed) was for the best and that it worked out in the end
>We continue talking and she's more responsive than before and acts like we're best friends
>Eventually I realize she still doesn't talk to me that much outside of when her friends are busy or sleeping
>After...
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>>16955360
>>16955410
You didn't listen to friends and family, so why would you listen to any advice we have to offer? You're never going to get ahead in life because you're too unrealistic, you let things slide, and you allow people to walk all over you.
Block her, delete her and never talk to her again
Worked for me
I'm really really fucking up and in a fucked up situation
Two weeks ago my bf of 3 years broke up with me because he "wasn't feeling it" anymore, which devastated me. That same day I came back to my room sobbing and my roommate (another girl, lesbian) was there for me and comforted me and I guess I just felt vulnerable and in vulnerable state because I just said "fuck it" and we slept together, even though I'm straight and hadnt even been interested in girls before. That entire week we got really "friendly", there are text...
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>>16955292
Why not have both ?
I'd say your boyfriend sucks and your girlfriend is taking advantage of that, and of you.
>>16955292
I'm so sorry to not give advice here anon but this is unbelievably hot.
I like this girl at my school and I want to start talking to her except I have no idea on how to start an actual conversation with her. I want to just go off and ask her name but each time I get the courage to do so I either have no opportunity to do so or something makes me feel like shit and forget the whole thing. How could I start off a conversation with her?
"Ah have nevah done this before, but what's your name? Mine's ___________"
>>16955237
I start it off with a comment or question. Something clever that is around you. talk shit about the lecture or teacher or subject or whatever. Comment on her shoes or style. Compliment it but make a little fun of it at the same time.
Honestly, I'd see if there were any tells of what she is into (music, hobbies, etc.)
Take one of those topics and run with it. If it's still smooth sailing, ask her the classics:
What's your name? What are your passions? Etc.
Then, if all of that was golden, strike while the iron is hot, and ask her out!
Honestly, my best relationships have always stemmed from just going for it!
Good luck, and god speed OP!
I'm not racist personally, yet I can't stop myself from judging every person I meet almost immediately by it. I don't remember how it's developed, but now whenever I'm in a public area and I have nothing in particular to think about, my mind automatically switches to making assumptions based on race. I've stopped going to places like /pol/ or /int/ which would reinforce those thoughts, but these have stuck around and are very difficult to shake off.
Any advice on how to get rid of this? Is it a meditation-type thing?
I've never...
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Youll lose very little by sticking to your own race especially if youre white
>>16955148
>The Game.
>>16955172
In what, dating? I live in the South, every place is incredibly diverse. It's not as if I could pick and choose between homogeneous communities. It's sort of fucking with my mind wherever I go.
>>16955177
It was unintentional, lol.
>recently discovered I am ugly
>realize that I won't be happy until I "prove" to myself that I'm not a complete failure as a man
>part of that requires me to have sex with a lot of high quality women, or just get to the point where they want me and it's obvious
>have gf who is not "high quality"
>love her, but will never shake the feeling that I settled/gave up because I was afraid to try
Anyone...
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Make $$$ bro and get a personality. Beauty/attractiveness is subjective. #first impression
and workout
>>16954862
I feel the same, OP. Except I think I am one step further, I broke up with my gf because I think I need more challenge.
I really want to try this out but im afraid that i will never be able to go back to have normal sex with women.
I also think that it will make relationships far more complicated (pegging, wuts dis?). Like sex with women is okay but i literally cant mastrubate without some extra... fun.
>gayy
nope. I would never be able to have sex with another man or tranny. Theres like a mental barrier in my head. But the idea getting taken by a hot girlll is just too damn good.
wut to do?
>>16954823
youll go back to regular sex when you realize actually getting fucked in the ass is uncomfortable
>>16954823
Hey check it out another gay homophobe>>16954823
>>16954848
>not wanting to get fucked by a dude
>OMG HOMOPHOBE XDDDDDDD
hetrophobe
My girlfriend is 46 years old and still making dumb choices, the current situation is she is in Community College with plans to transfer to a University School to get her actual degree from. She's persuing a Bachelors in Accounting with a minor in International Business and learning French as a foreign language.
We argue almost every day, I tell her shes pursing a garbage degree and to study for a Medical profession job or something worthwhile, i tell her Accountants in Los Angeles where we are from is a $13 to $15 an hour job if she can find one and Accountants...
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>>16954759
The fuck do you care for? Are you paying for it? Not like you are married to her.
Besides, nobody is safe from the ass fucking to come with where AI will be in the next 5 years.
NOBODY.
Everybodies job is at risk. The next big bubble is education. It is going to crash down as nobody will be able to afford it with increasing unemployment and less skilled jobs paying a living wage. Education debt may be partially forgiven or even completely forgiven. Same will be true for extremely expensive...
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>>16954783
... cont
I don't know if you noticed what is going on. Savers are being punished severely all across the world and people that take risks and debt are being rewarded. They are doing everything in their power to keep the consumption engine going but it will come crashing down soon. We are starting to see it already in Europe. They are trying to go to a completely cashless society not because of efficiency and crime, but because of the ability to control peoples money and incur negative interest rate...
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>>16954759
What the fuck do you know? Studying medicine will take years and a shitload of cash which means loading up on more debt than she'll likely shift in the next 10 years. She'd have to work fucking hard and long hours for the next 15 years just to be in an OK position, by which time she'll be at retirement age.
Let her study Accounting and Business Management. It doesn't mean she'll be an accountant--she could find a job in any of hundreds of Finance jobs with such a degree. (e.g. Financial...
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