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Why do we need to make large groups? I hate groups i get angry at groups, i fucking hate having to interact with groups.
Worst of all is that you must be in a group to be socially fullfiled, a loner only gets some rare chances and i don't get those chances
Why does it have like that?
You want friends? You need to fit into a group
You want to have companionship? You need a group
Everything requires you to have a group
kill yourself, you'd sound like you would fit in with that group.
>>16957676
>I hate
>I fucking hate
>worst of all
You seriously think negativity is going to you anywhere on what you want in life? You're going to end up that old cliche pissed off little man with scowl on his face if you don't change your outlook on life and social groups
No, being a loner is like freedom. I go out alone and meet friends there. I can do whatever I want, say whatever I want, leave whenever I want.
Feeling like you always have to be in a group is like slavery.
If you don't like it, free yourself.
I have some tossed salads and scrambled eggs. What should I do with them?
Get some ham.
Choke
Throw them away.
Go eat a burrito.
I have an ugly face but a handsome boy likes me however I feel completely unworthy of being with him and like an embarrassment. What are my options here other than to run and hide and never come out
>>16957657
Grow up and stop thinking people care so much about your looks.
I've seen ugly dudes with hot girlfriends and vice versa, you know why? Cause they don't act like children thinking everything is about their insecurities
>>16957678
>you know why?
Money
Everyone???
Why am I most unhappy on days when I have neither work or school? I feel so restless and directionless. How do I relax and enjoy myself on weekends?
because on those days you are the chooser of how you spend your time and you inevitably choose poorly.
basically you're a born subservient who is unable to direct himself productively.
>>16957632
get a hobby so you have something to look foward to. >>16957812
this basically.
>>16957812
This.
Nothing wrong with it though, you just need to find things to follow.
TLDR: wrote about how I felt last night, alot was about my ex, should I send it?
>be in odd mood, decide to write was I was thinking
>think about bad break up I had with ex
>write everything about leading up to us breaking up
>we broke up months ago
>5 pages(typed) later finish
>its not a fuck you letter to her or anything
> dont feel closure from the...
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No, it would probably just reopen old wounds for her if it's been months. Leave her be.
Anyone else think otherwise?
>burn
How do I look /adv/? Am 18 years old and I feel like I still look like a fucking 14 year old.
No matter how much I got to the gym and eat, my limbs are still so bony and disproportionate to my head.
Pics of me now in my room:
http://imgur.com/a/ntKfg
What can I do to make myself nicer looking?
you're adorable
>>16957601
Just keep lifting man. Haircut and facial hair might help you look older too.
>>16957601
You have awesome hair :)
Can you grow a beard?
Sup /adv/, just want some quick tips... on my job scenario.
Basically, my job is not the norm. My boss is an eccentric character, and the work environment is just weird. I won't disclose what industry I am a part of, but it has to do with that. It's not exactly hostile, and there is NO pressure at all, but it's unprofessional in many ways. However, that is not the problem here.
The problem is that I don't care at all about the work I'm doing. It started as an internship, so I went in knowing this was an experiment for me. I wasn't...
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Mention that you are unhappy with the kind of work you are doing. If they are a good company and value you. They will shift your work to make you happy.
>>16957568
Quit before you can or you'll end up like pic related
>>16957691
>If they are a good company and value you. They will shift your work to make you happy.
They wouldn't care. They'd just want me out of there then.
>>16957710
It's already gotten there, but I've managed to learn enough to get by / make sure no one finds out I'm still learning.
I have really bad self steem problems because i used to be really fat and ugly, found /fit/ a couple years ago and i've lost 65 lbs, as well as improving many other aspects of my life and physical appearance
However as i've noticed i'm a quite good looking guy (or so i've been told, a lot) as well as i'm quite tall (6'4'') and fit, so i get attention from really good looking women, however my instincts and my low self steem push me instantly into a friendlike position
I can easily talk to women, there is no problem in that,...
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>>16957548
She wants your peepee bro. Want me to compose a text message for you?
>>16957548
Who is this semen demon?
>>16957604
Julie.
I don't know if anybody saw my last thread about how I skipped school for an entire year to do absolutely nothing while my dad paid for my rent thinking I was going to college.
Well I told my dad. He was pissed, rightfully so. I do not feel relief. I feel the biggest shame. I now know why seppuku is commited. He brought up how I lied to his face about going to school last semester, he talked about the sacrifices he is making, sending me $1,100 a month to live.
Like that other guy said last thread, I don't even deserve to kill myself because that would...
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>>16957392
>I'm going to school this semester and taking a fuckload of classes to catch up and graduate at the same time
good but remember it's not better if you fuck up by overloading yourself
>but I don't think anything I do would ever make right the fact that I lied to my dad for a year.
absolutely right, so why not stop hating yourself for it. Get a nice degree, get a nice income and try to pay your old man back one day.
>>16957400
I told him I will pay him back, but he said he didn't want that. He wouldn't even let me pay for my own rent, even after I lied to him for a whole year.
I don't deserve these parents. But I guess it's probably annoying to hear me shit on myself especially since I did all this knowingly. Thanks for the advice.
>>16957400
>pay your old man back
This. Later on, granted, but definitely this.
Do I need a fuckboy haircut to touch a female? After careful observation it seems like the one universal common factor to male non-virgins.
no, you don't it'll help with certain types of girls, but i feel like someone who browses 4chan isn't encountering very many of those girls.
the friend of mine who gets laid the most has a shaved head at only 23. he's also brown and a bit chubby.
have a car, have a job, don't be grotesquely fat or smelly, and know how to talk. everything else is whatever.
What does your haircut look like now? How old are you?
>>16957383
heyo, 19 y/o brown slightly chubby male here.
Girls seem to only enjoy my company when we're working together on class projects. How do I make them interested in me beyond just being an acquaintance in passing?
Hey, /adv/. I am a 23 year old male. I have my Florida EMT and NREMT License. I live in Fort Myers, FL. I feel like I should start looking for jobs in other cities as there is really nothing here in my city. What type of funds will I need to activly move for a job? Is it best to just apply for other cities and towns and wait for something to pop or move and get a shit job and hope for the best? I have no ties to where I live. Just left my long term relationship. It was messy and I no longer have friends because I stupidly spent all my time with her. I don't know what to...
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Bump? Anything?
Bump. Any advice?
help me
i feel like i'm not ready to take up to my responsibilities
i'm a 24 years old 6/10 guy.medical intern.scared of fucking up with people lives even after passing my hardest rotations with good grades.
i easily speak to lot of girls about casual stuff but i'll lose my mind if i want to ask a girl out or tell her i have feels for her
generally i'm stuck in my life.can't feel a thing.scared to do a new thing.fucking hate my limits.just want to see the other side
>>16956984
travel
or just read more fiction
>>16957650
too scared to lose my job.also i never traveled alone before.will it boost my confidence?
how's reading gonna help me?
Travel. Just talk to people around you. U will eventyally find something new ti be confident.
Reading: to me. Reading is more of finding what you like. I read non fiction in DIY
How 2 smoke copious amounts of marijuana every day without getting depressed?
Having something else in your life besides pot is a huge help. I'd recommend exercising regularly and also trying to eat healthier as well.
>>16956112
>SMONK WEEDS EACH DAY ITS FUN
Why do it if it makes you depressed? Isn't taking drugs meant to be enjoyable - otherwise what's the point? Unless you have a contractual obligation whereby you have to get stoned every day or make a $100,000 forfiture payment, why keep doing something when you don't like it?
>>16956175
Because I am deathly afraid of boredom
There're two women in my life, and it stopped being fun and become too taxing on me to keep up.
Now I must choose one and I want your opinion on which one.
Me
>22
Girl 1
>34
>average face
>great body
>above average ass
>modest in bed
>absolutely lovely as a person and really cares about me (isn't into me because of money or...
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Anyone?
this is straight up Triss v Yen
>>16955322
>Triss v Yen
Google shows Witcher 3, but I'm not into vidya anymore.
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>>16954265
https://soundcloud.com/safespacesally/safe-space-sally-be-yourself
Remember it'll be alright lads
Bitches don't mean nada
Do girls really care about muscles?
>>16954296
Stop bitch worship
