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Normally don't turn to the internet for this type of advice but might as well give it a go as my friends aren't really offered any other advice. Me and my co-worker have known each other for a couple years now. We have been great friends for most of this time are into the same shit and shes a sexy as hell 9/10, but for the past couple months we have gotten a bit more flirty and started hanging out a lot more outside of work. There has been nights we're we have both been drunk and alone at my place that I believe if I had been more forceful something would've...
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Adults have conversations and talk about these things. GL
>>16959760
So you're saying I should drop my feelings onto her next time we are in a 'date-like' scenario?
>>16959763
I'm saying you can live in the unknown or start w conversation.
>what does she look for in relationships?
>what do you look for in relationships?
>what about work? If together could you maintain professionalism at work?
Then all the cards are on the table and you both make informed choices.
Just started a porn tumblr with my real e.mail address. Has tumblr gone ahead and mailed all my Gmail contacts saying "anonymous is now on tumblr"?
Probably not. But nice to see I'm not the only one paranoid about this kind of stuff.
You're pretty retarded for using your real adress though.
yep, it's over. There's no turning back now.
>>16959747
well of course there is. I can delete the blog. It only has one fairly innocuous post so far.
>>16959746
The option in settings is default to on, but it makes it seem like it's a passive thing.
But then looking at the friend finder, you're basically uploading your whole address book to tumblr. So tumblr probably has a record of my e.mail.
Think I'll delete and restart. Not like I'm ashamed of being into porn but this gmail goes...
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I've been single over 18 months now. Not one woman has really caught my eye over that time, and the longer I stay single the less and less I can imagine someone coming along that would make me want to break out of that. It's like my interest in women has just fallen away. Is this normal?
You gay
>>16959748
Fuck, I wish. I'm sure it'd be easier to get laid.
Why would your interest be up if you aren't meeting women you are attracted to? See what happens when you meet someone attractive.
Can a person who watch anime and play videogames be also a very sociable and attractive one? is it worth stopping watching anime and do more sociable things and just watchi movies/documentaries like a normal person? etc?
>>16959707
Boxxy is one counter example.
Also sorry for bad english, it's something i'm trying to learn.
I know lots and lots, but they tend to be lessed focused on their hobbies (don't measure quantity of games, titles, sometimes play/watch only mainstream)
Behaving like a normal person didn't work for me, gave up games and anime - got depressed almost suicidal.
Hello, help me to find a perfect phone for myself. Dont really care about specs except 128 sd card is a MUST, also ~200 euros for a price. So far i found galaxy J5 and xcover3 , leaning towads xcover3 for its a bit smaller. Anyone with expertise, please give me guidance.
pic not related(random shit)
>>16959700
xcovers are garbage, i have to use one for work.
i use a huawei p8 lite for my personal, it was cheap and is pretty quick, reliable, and has a hella decent battery life. have had absolutely no issues with it
from experience and other people its pretty hit and miss when it comes to samsungs and their build quality and reliability, so id recommend avoiding them, ESPECIALLY the lower spec ones.
but yeah as someone who chews through phones because of my line of work, huawei have been the best all rounders
Was that a baby/small child?
Fuckin hogs man
>>16959700
>Fuckin hogs man
Fuckin more like third world country.
Any wild animal would tear a human baby apart. What you see is the result of either carelessness, lack of birth control, a bad medical system or a combination of the whole thing.
Look at that place, absolutely filthy and disgusting...people have time to bust out their phones to record at least!
Hi. Does anyone know how to deal with blacking out? It ranges from completely fainting and dropping on the floor, to sometimes where my brain just sort of 'shuts off' and everything turns to black and comes back on again. At first I thought it was stress, so I took leave from my day job for a bit, but it still persists. I'm really worried and I don't want to tell people about this yet because they'd get really worried.
>>16959698
go to the doctor
blacking out has a massive amount of various unrelated causes, 4chan will not help you
go to the doctor
but make sure you're eating decent regular meals and drinking too much water to start with
>>16959698
Please see a doctor as soon as possible
I shouldn't have to upturn my whole life just to get some pussy when every normie out there does it effortlessly. What gives? Am I naturally repulsive to women? I'm not even ugly or fat.
The problem is that you're not a normie. Get off your high horse, if you want to get laid, then you're going to have to make a change.
>>16959662
You have the same problem as me: you're not interesting. Not even remotely.
>>16959761
normies are not interesting either though. and nor do normies get pussy effortlessly. Everyone struggles to an extent to get pussy unless they are a model or rich as fuck. normies are just more willing to approach women and are more social. im friends with normies in uni and they are boring as fuck.
Hey /adv/. I kept in touch with a high school teacher. I tend to email him once every 3 weeks or 6 weeks, and he tends to reply every 3 - 4 weeks.
Should I lose contact with him? It has been so long since he taught me and sometimes I don't know if he only kept in touch with me as he thinks that it is rude to not reply. I've met people who are "nice" to me when they are actually saying stuff about me behind my back.
>>16959657
Unless something unsavory is happening, I don't see why you should worry. I've kept in contact with mentors from up to a decade ago, just chatting about what's new in fields of study, but maybe arts are different than if this is a math teacher.
Still, unless there's something bad happening keeping a strong network is fine.
>>16959657
Teacher (not yours) here
We enjoy hearing from former students, and I've had a few continue writing (infrequently but regularly) for years.
That said, we generally expect you to move along with your life and fade out of ours, with no regrets.
So keep up the occasional writing as long as you enjoy it, and stop when it begins to feel like a chore.
>>16959680
>from up to a decade ago
Wow that is so long.
How do I become more motivated /adv/
I'm falling behind in assessments for a diploma and I just can't seem to actually get around to the work constantly distracting myself, even now by posting this kind of.
How do I bring myself become more naturally motivated and prevent procratination?
>>16959649
Do you want to fail? Do you want to be a failure? That thought alone should be enough to motivate you.
>>16959649
Really try to make your future seem more important to you. Think not in the present but ever onward into that bright future! Also don't do drugs
there was someone on here last night who said they took 6000mg of some painkiller and a lot of us were pleading with him/her to go to hospital. If you're okay please let us know
>>16959606
>If you're okay please let us know
I wish I had a friend like you anon. Caring for the well being of an anon like that.
im bumping out of concern, please see this anon from last night
I've been wondering, too.
Tbh, I think that anon will survive it--my concern was liver damage or such that is long lasting and not immediately seen.
My boyfriend slept in the same bed with his 'lesbian' best friend last night after clubbing (it was his friends birthday). Thoughts?
>>16959462
Not a big deal.
They're not sexually attracted to eachother.
(Assuming you're a woman)- it's like sleeping in bed with a gal pal or your brother or something. You're not sexually attracted to the body next to you, and there's no action, so it's not a big deal.
>>16959462
Shit happens. Did they slept in their clothes, like two drunken farts that have celebrated too much and just passed out? Did they plan the sleepover and bring pjs? Where were they? Party house, back home... why couldn't both of them just get to their own places?
I luv that album font feel jelly I cuddled at the mental hospital simply becuz I was freezing my ass off I'm a heterosexual lady & it was pragmatic not arousing
Saw many women growing old single without children and miserable. Giving birth to a child you want (when your parents/friends help you raising it) drastically changes everything though.
/adv/ which is creepier: having a one-night stand with a normal stranger (maybe paying him for unprotected sex) or asking an acquaintance/friend? Guaranteeing that there would be no responsibility from the male side?
>>16959438
Uhhh the premise itself is the creepy thing. You want to circumvent a sperm bank and just personally jack someone's semen to create a child (potentially without their knowledge).
You are fucking creepy yourself and I'm god damn terrified for the next guy you sleep with.
>>16959438
An anonymous one night stand far away from where you live. With a guy you're really physically attracted to.
>>16959444
We'll if you don't want kids don't stick it in there. Simple as that and nothing to be terrified about.
As the title says, I want to ask out a girl, but I've got some bad depression. I'd obviously tell her about it, but I think that if I told her about it and later asked her to be my gf, I would be lowering my chances. My friend thinks I should talk to her about it and ask her after she's had some time to think about it, so that she's not being blindsided.
What do? I'm not even sure how to talk about it with someone like this
>>16959391
Depression is not first date conversational material. It's not even second date material. If you're still depressed by the THIRD date, it's some problem beyond basic human interaction that more basic human interaction can't help. Have you ever made a date with a psychological therapist?
If she won't accept you for you then you shouldn't want to be with her
>>16959412
If it matters, we've hung out regularly for the past couple weeks, and probably hanging out tomorrow. It's not really aiding her out, I suppose I meant asking her to be my girlfriend. I actually felt pretty happy when we started hanging out and going places, but I recently had a bit of a crash and have felt like utter shit for the last couple days. I've gone to the school's walk in counselor, and I'm just waiting for the referral paperwork to go through so I can hopefully start regular sessions....
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so I was masturbating for 3 hours today and afterwards when I went to the bathroom my vision went fuzzy and my balance was screwed up. I've already masturbated once or twice this morning if that has anything to do with it. What gives?
>>16959355
You stood up too quickly.
>>16959360
It didn't feel the same as that though
your blood was trying to go back to your head.
Also, perhaps you were focused on a single entity, and you're trying to refocus?
I think i'm addicted to pornography. I watch or read some from of pornography or erotica every day multiple times a day. Often i don't even masturbate or when i do i don't enjoy it. I have found myself watching porn in public, at work, and in rooms full of people. Luckily i am careful enough to not get caught. I dont want my life ruined by porn. Pic semi-related.
What do?
Pick up a hobby.
Find tv shows you like, books, games, anything.
If that doesn't work after a while, see a therapist.
I'm a chic with the same problem man it sux I look at it 4 hourz everyday I luv gay porn & I'm a sex addict 2 with Chlamydia & gonnoreah I don't have advice just wanna let u kno u ain't alone man :/
>>16959483
you type like a retard.
