>>16960360
Don't. Embrace it.

>>16960360
Sublimation

>>16960360
Baby steps. Build a habit of not fapping until you literally feel like your head is going to explode from a headache and your balls are just collapsing upon itself. Try to not browse porn when you're bored and pick up a new hobby like drawing to fill the empty spot on that fap schedule.

Sleeping on it is also a viable tactic when the urge is not too taxing

>>16960348
Move on.

>>16960348
The worst pain one can handle.

>>16960331
Masterbate until 90% of women are completely uninteresting next to your fantasies.

>>16960331
Chances are that you are giving off desperation signals.

Here's how to stop:

Stop looking for a girlfriend. Start looking for friends of any gender. Do things, join clubs, hang out with co-workers. Forget about romance for a while and just enjoy a social life.

You'll relax, and being relaxed and more natural, you'll stand a good chance of attracting the attention of one of your friends-who-happens-to-be-female.

>>16960534
I will try this. It's very difficult though because I don't really like hanging out with guys. Somehow the conversations always end up going to who fucked what last night and obviously I can't contribute.

Be happy for him. Jesus.

If it was a passing comment, just be happy for him and get over it.

If it's something he brings up constantly, he's being a prick, and you should tell him that his tendency to brag bothers you.

>>16960327
this... thanks

>>16960257
this is bait. It would be plausible if you were asking this in person, OP, but you typed this all out coherently on a message board. No one as internet savvy as you is that clueless about sex. Try again with something more believable.

>>16960272
OP here.

Not bait. MY girl just informed me that her last menstrual period was yesterday btw. And the pill I made her drink is Ferrous Fumarate.

>>16960257
Are you like eleven years old? Because the lack of sexual education and knowledge that you're displaying really can't be comfortably explained in any other way.

you might as well do it and get used to the drama because you're the kind of person who destroys everyone who has the misfortune to get involved with you.

>>16960237
>Daddy


Glad to hear you're being a good girl, princess.

>>16960237
>bi or pansexual
go back to tumblr

Pick things you're interested in and stick at them. Make it a goal to try something new every week or every other week until you find something you genuinely enjoy, but don't get discouraged if it takes a while. Sometimes (especially when you get older) you have to work at your interests.

Im not a girl but I stopped playing vidya and watching anime several years ago to focus on my career. I got into guns and competitions as well as went back to boxing. Read on the side and tinker with electronics/computers. Think arduino and bash.

Still no gf though but these things help pass the time and provide a wide variety of goals that I can work on.

Do it like this Jim Carrey movie 'Yes man' and just say yes to every opportunity that unfolds to you. No matter if it sounds stupid at first, just give it a try with no exceptions!

I'm not sure how it works for other people, but for me, I love me because I'm greatly loved. My husband, my dog, my bff, my parents, my family.

But that comes with its own pitfalls--like people pleasing.

Start with a dog. The love they give makes the world bloom.

I love me cause I've learned things I like about myself.

It's so easy to focus on the negatives and things you hate about yourself. For example, completing a piece of art I always thinks it looks awful, but I also realize I spent a lot of time working on it. First thing I do is show it to a friend who I know will give me positive feedback.

Obviously you can't do the same thing in every situation but if you are sitting there thinking "I'm so stupid" there could be something to counter that (ex. you're really good at carpentry...
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Loving yourself is coming to terms with your flaws, and becoming something you are proud of, while living without regrets.

>>16960165
What number would have been acceptable?

Honestly unless you're hanging around church girls, 7 is a pretty average number for a 20year old.

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>>16960165
OP
She can still count them on her fingers
If it's like 13+ by 20 she's used goods

Don't fuss over it

The results of progressivism and feminism.
You're so afraid of hurting feefees that you mentally become an eunuch. But your dick disagrees.
I don't know what to tell you because the same thing happened to me. Even though rationally I know it's stupid and wrong, when I find a woman sexually attractive I feel like expressing it would be wrong. It's fucked up.

>>16960144
Do women ever feel this way?

>>16960189
I don't know. While female sexuality is more celebrated in this feminist era, slut shaming still exists.

She came clean and it was only kissing which is good...

But she crosses a bunch of boundaries willingly, she's still very much responsible for what happened.

I'd say stay with her with the condition that she drops clubbing/drinking without you...and that's only if you really want to forgive her. If you don't even give a shit, it might be a good hint that it's already over.

If it doesn't bother you then it's not an issue. Don't let other people tell you how to feel about it.

>>16960139
It's not that I don't give a shit I think it's that I immediately knew it was out of character for her. She also said she wouldn't be clubbing or drinking without me in part of her first text so I mean that's good.

It's not necessarily bad to have a gap that shows you went out and experienced life.

Cons: it fucking sucks to get back into the groove of school. Your classmates tend to be younger (sucks in a number of ways, annoying shits).
Pros: I'm glad I took a long break. I'm more confident, more comfortable.

Make sure you have relationships with people who will write recommendations. Let them know what you are thinking and that you'll hit them up later for letters. They will need examples of your work and a resume to be able to recommend you a few years from now.

>>16960088
As I was writing my post I began to feel pretty confident that the gap is the way to go.

I already have 3 or 4 contacts at university and a lab I worked at who I'm sure would be willing to provide recommendations. I'll talk to them.

Thanks for the reply. How long did you take out and what did you do?

>>16960123
I was ill and then started at the bottom. By the time I was ready to go forward, it had been 7 years. If I can explain that...you'll be good. And having good mentors made it easy--on my own, I wrote a paper and presented at a conference, then sent my updated resume and work to my mentors and started moving forward. The hard part after all these years is motivation. I work, I have a family, and writing falls to the side.

Alternatively: painless suicide methods? Quick and easy, preferably

Bump
From the view of a not depressed person, who has a pretty good life.
Life is not worth it.

>>16960059
No, it wouldn't be painful. Morphine is a strong pain medication which is depresses breathing. You will fall asleep and stop breathing.

>>16960087
An alternative would be an insulin overdose. With an high enough dosage you will fall into a cetoacedotic coma and then die. Insulin is also very difficult to be proven in your blood circulation by a coroner.

It is normal. When you're horny you want to fuck anything you're sexually attracted to, even that girl you don't actually like, but since she's available and tells you she is, you'll just do it because yolo.
Since you're asking this, I assume you're quite young, so be careful. Don't do anything you'll regret later. If you feel disgusted after having fapped to her, maybe you'll just act out of horniness rather than actually liking her.
Although it will also be an experience, so you can also do it and have fun.
Just be careful.

>>16960082
I also think deep down I'd rather be in a relationship than just have sex. And this girl is a bit on the wacky side and I wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with her. However, she is pretty forward about sex with me. I am just wondering if I should dive in head first despite knowing what I really want, or should I avoid this all together?

Use a condom. Don't trust that she's on bc

Have you tried bringing it up with the manager?

>>16960061
hes incomptent as fuck and hes sleeping right now.

literally has me working the entire day by myself in the store and gets mad when everything isnt finished.

>>16960050
Don't even confont the manager, just show your evidence directly to the owner.