Sounds like you want to do it but are afraid of social repercussions, being alone, and hurting your gf's feeling. You seem like a good dude and nice people feel conflicted about this stuff

You don't need a reason to end it, if a relationship isn't vibing with you anymore than that's enough, but doing what you want is seen as selfish and rude so it's harder to just act on your emotions, you know?

How old are you OP?

>>16996011
I'm 22, and it's not like it's my first relationship.
I feel pressured to at least keep it going until I move away, which I know is selfish. It's not like I can't stand being with her, we always have fun together.
However there are frequent arguments, she can get pissed just from me saying something the wrong way. Tbh, she just seems kind of immature. She's pretty conservative, but a bit dirty in the bedroom. I was her first time, but before me she had dated a guy 10 years older...
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>>16996022
Hey OP, was having the same ruminations as you. Broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. I figured that if I'd been thinking about it that many times, it would have been unfair to continue the relationship and string her along. She was also in a place of her life where she needs to do something and I'm more established and looking to travel, so there was that too (she's 20, I'm 26).

Basically, I'd get it out of the way as soon as you can. I had to wait until the end of a holiday we'd...
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>>16995928
Yes, go to the police.

Luckily from the sound of it, it was probably their first time trying to rob someone like that.

>>16995935
They seemed to be intoxicated, since it was hard to understand what they were saying and they reeked of alcohol. Since i'm almost sure I would of gotten shanked if they were "pros".

>>16995939
Believe it or not, most people aren't willing to severely hurt someone (and risk killing them) for an unknown amount of money. Honestly if they were "pros", they wouldn't do it during the day either way, let alone targeting 2 people.

If you do go to the police, include that they seemed to be intoxicated.

I can't help you OP but I'm just bumping because I'm in the same boat.

I've worn down what discipline I had to the point where even being productive for half an hour a day is an immense struggle.

>>16995846
Same boat here,

Its hard but most important part is yourself.

There are audio books about this or other informatioin. Altouh i havent had the disicpline to do it ;p

>>16995846
I built discipline by hating myself.

I switched over to math late in the game and got really tired of being in school at 25. So I put it on hold and now I am in the goddamn Navy.

Bretty cool

>>16995739
How do you like the Navy? Could an ex-stoner get in? I heard they pretty much turn down anyone who has smoked more than once.

>>16995836

It's pretty cool so far can't beat the benefits and traveland all that shit. Sure you can as long as you don't have that shit on your criminal record. Just tell em yoube never done the stuff

She's your ex. Why are you even still talking to her? You owe her nothing. You're done with her. She doesn't need to be in your life. Tell her to fuck off and never talk to you again.

Stop being a pussy ass bitch and drop her like you should've done before.

>>16995595
Yeah man, you're fucking right. I stopped talking to her when we broke up but she talked to me and we agreed to be friends, since that's what we really liked.

I never expected her to flirt again with me, I clearly said "friends" and she agreed. Or even use me for something as big as this.

Thank you, i'll do that, luckily nothing bad happened, so i'm not responsible of anything. But I don't want something else to happen, this girl is acting weird.

>>16995586
You probably ae an asshole. Most of us are at one time or another. But not for this.

She used you. If you want to be generous you can choose to think that she felt you were still friends and this was just a small favor. Or you can be annoyed.

Still, though, in the cosmic scale of Things To Be Pissed Off About, this ranks pretty low. Just write it off as her being her usual self and have nothing more to do with her.

>>16995506
You could talk to the teacher? Explain what happened. That's the only option you really have.

>>16995535
Yeah, I sent her an e-mail. Waiting back now. I'm just bitter because I did so much work and it was all for nothing I guess.

>>16995506
feel so sorry for u :( <3

Ummm you can talk to the teacher and say that you'd like to have something like a second chance

>>16995486
Nothing wrong with that PC in your pic, though it would be much better for gaming with a 4GB 970 instead of a 2GB 960.
Also skip the gaming keyboard and gaming mouse, get a proper keyboard and mouse, I suggest a logitech mx800 combo.

>>16995486
And if you don't want to build your own, try pccasegear.com and have a look at the systems on there - they're about the best value you'll find for your dollar in a prebuilt in australia.

>>16995537
Thanks but its ok. I'm really interested in learning about my machine and the PC hardware biz in general.

Hmm, how did you get into it yourself?

>>16995433
Hmm he might just be into being dominated, maybe try and dig in that direction a bit further. But you're right he could also be bi or gay, try testing the waters about whether he's thought about being with a guy ever.

He's not gay. Most men enjoy prostate stimulation, despite it being taboo.

Get a realdoe. It's a strapless strap-on that you hold in your pussy, looks pretty realistic. Only issue is that once you're well-lubricated, it gets harder to hold in, and if you enjoy it too much you can accidentally push it out. Still, it's good for the futa illusion.

A lot of guys are into futa, and into having their prostates stimulated. I wouldn't be too worried about it unless he starts asking you to dress like a man during sex, or only puts it in your butt.

>>16995367
Check if you have any other symptoms of type 2 diabetes, even if you aren't fat.

>>16995367
Not a medfag but drink only water,a sweet drink can make you more thrsty

>>16995367 let me make this clear, you need to give some head and swallow every last drop. That'll do it.

Bumping for someone similar to OP

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OP here, bumping with planes.

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~Tower please respond~ I don't have many airplane jokes.

It is completely reasonable to be upset about this. Dump him. You did the wrong thing though. Fess up and then dump him. This relationship isnt healthy on both sides.

Usually when men take up jacking off instead of sex it's one of these reasons:

You aren't attractive to him any more, and he doesn't have a desire to have sex

He feels like you with hold sex or reward him with sex so he'd rather just jack off

Hes unhappy with the relationship and is staying with you because you love him and he knows it but he doesn't love you.

Instead of breaking up, try to be as sexy as possible and get him riled up, try lingerie and shit like that. Just remind him how good and ready you are, and he will...
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>>16995279
Agreed. You shouldn't have snooped, and he shouldn't have cheated. Neither side has clean hands anymore, but that means this relationship has gone mutually toxic. I am sorry, but for both your sakes, it is time to end it.

It is good that you understand your mistake, though. Learn from it, and resolve to do things more cleanly next time.

Eat a lot of garlic.

>>16995202
Make the girls laugh at the expense of someone weaker than you.

there are a few Alpha traits you have to be aware of. Alpha males have presents. This doesn't mean being huge or anything. You just have to walk like you're the shit and talk like what you have to say matters. They are also dominant. You have to take control of situations. No beating around the bush, directness is key to being alpha.

Well, if this advice doesn't fall on deaf ears it could help. However, it most likely will.

The steps to problem solving are thus:
1. Identify the problem
2. Determine solution for the problem
3. Develop a plan to enact the solution

You need to get your life together, and if being a whore is going to help you do that, then by all means sell that pussy.
However, if you're just using this as a stall for yourself to build your confidence while you wallow in pity because your "love" left you. Then you're better off being homeless;...
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Have you asked your parents for help? I don't think they'd want to see their kid turn to prostitution.

>>16995189
>>super hot med student wants me
>>super critical of this cause i'm not that hot but he convinces me to purely depend on him and fall in love
>>move in quit my job at his insistence

Posted all the red flags that you missed lady...
Bitch there's a reason I avoid hot girls that are interested in me. That's a red flag right there. A fucking trap if I ever saw one.

Secondly, the whole...
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Cmon faggots, don't abandon me

>The next day i got my ass dumped, i took on drinking, for 2 weeks in such manner that my hands fucking shake if I don't drink at least 3-4 beers / night. My life was a hell for 2 weeks, skipped all the classes, i looked like a homeless person for 1 week and half
what
>basic dumped beta faggot stuff.
no, it's really not. what the fuck is wrong with you?

I developed feelings for her m8...it sucks. I took drinking as self-medication, did not helped much.

More information on the gym i go to.

It literally is 3 minutes away walking, right in front of my apartment.

The gym offers a very wide range of tools and has many rows of treadmills and other cardiovascular related machines.

There is a section dedicated to weight lifting ranging from a bench press and lat pull down all the good upper body related machines are there to work with.

I have been using the leg-press at a high intensity after every 400 calories i burn to make sure my legs are spent for the day.

i usually spend only about 50 to 60...
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It's not just about the calories, the the kind of food you're eating and its effects on your blood sugar levels also affect your weight loss. If you're eating simple carbohydrates like bread and potato, you need to replace them with veggies like broccoli, asparagus and anything else with fiber. Fruits should also be kept to the minimum.

So basically, avoid carbs and anything else that spikes your sugar blood levels and your body will use fatty tissue as energy

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>>16995145
Will try adjusting to this from now on, this sounds like solid advice thanks.