Every single damn time I try to date a guy, this happens:
>meet guy >think he's attractive >guy invites me on date >have great time talking to him >second date >guy starts getting close, maybe makes a move to kiss me >panic mode engage >secretly want to run away, don't touch me, get away type-stuff Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Every single damn time I try to date a girl, this happens:
>meet girl >think she's attractive >I invite her on date >have great time talking to her >second date >Have another great time chatting and getting to know each other >two more dates later >she suddenly becomes "busy" every time I propose to date >she stopped being attracted to me, whenever I try to take things slow they just leave and go hunt for dick from someone else
See what's wrong here? Maybe it just takes more time with you to get comfortable around guys. The problem is though that guys don't want to take it slow because most women act like sluts so lots of guys take the hint and try to get into your pants asap.
You just have to wait it out until you find a guy who's also willing to not jump the gun or just get over your autistic panic mode.
There's this barrista at the Starbucks where I go almost every day (since it's between my house and where I work) who's always really chatty and flirty with me. Seems like a wonderful person; sweet, funny, just the right level of nerdy. Unfortunately, this barrista is also spherical and makes the floor shake by walking.
A couple weeks ago, I started chatting with somebody on tinder who seemed pretty cute, but whose only had face shots (no body shots). We hit seem to really hit it off.
I found out these two are the same person. The reason for the... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
If you found someone you really love and want to be with that person forever, would you share all your secrets no matter how ugly they are?
I have very ugly secrets that I don't want anyone to know. History related to sex, plastic surgery.
I am sure that telling my partner at this point would cause all trust to be lost and lead to breaking up. I am sure sharing these things would have had very negative impacts in the beginning too.
Basically no good would come out of sharing my secrets, do you think I should have still been honest?
No, why would you tell anyone, that's yours. Unless they're going to find out otherwise or its part of a larger story I never tell anyone anything I regret or am embarrassed by.
how many people are actually together forever? and i mean in a realistic way. you'er what, 12? (but no really, 25?) what makes you think you are honestly going to be with them forever.
never assume that. its stupid. you havent known them that long, what 6 months?
if the secret is cheating they deserve to know, but if its just that you are a pedophile, keep it to yourself.
i dont share my secrets. why would they need to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
What's it called when you only care about yourself? I don't mean in a narcissistic way, just that I'm the only one who's going to get me through my life, so forming connections is stupid. Introverted I guess?
How does a short chubby dude with a (at best) 7/10 face, no sexual experience and very basic social skills lose his virginity before the end of highschool in June?
you have til September to start losing weight. you could healthily lose 20 pounds, give or take. you can obviously lose omre wieght after that, but start now so you make a better first impression at college.
has anyone ever worked in a gas station before? what's it like? pros, cons, general advice? i applied to one recently and i'm trying to weigh my options here
I had a friend who worked at a service station midway through high school and a year or two after it, he seemed to really like it. Plenty of downtime, so he'd dick around on his laptop or read, then occasionally help someone. I think he had to change tires once in a while.
>have low life friend from the bronx who I catch up with every now and then >is a pretty big dog to me but stopped speaking to him to 12 months but recently started speaking to him again >I progressed and went to uni and he still does nothing with his life >went to movies last night with him and on the drive home he started making started making belittling comment such as : why are you at uni? why would you even do that? thats so stupid Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Describe your ideal mate, then describe yourself. I'll go first. >introverted >passonate about science >dependable and organized >thin, wiry build >glasses Me >shy and quiet >kind and considerate >a wide variety of interests and always wanting to learn more >red hair Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
If I'm wanting to do something every day to become extremely proficient at it, how many hours a day is ideal to spend on said thing?
I was going to shoot for 3 hours but I don't know if that's too much or unrealistic.
I'm wanting to become more proficient at math and basically go through the entire catalog of math options availible at Khan Academy so that I can place into really high level math courses for college. As it stands I currently suck ass at math and placed into the second lowest course offered at my college. A lot of pre reqs require... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Silly question honestly. It's entirely dependent on the person. The best answer for you is to stop thinking about it and just do it. Set up something reasonable. I'd say you need an hour minimum a day, and deviate once you know how much you need. Don't start off trying to jog a year of material into 2 days.
You're not going to benefit from it. You're going to quickly forget everything you memorized. You're going to not retain nearly as much. Take it slower if you have to.
Especially with something like math, take it in steps and give... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
depends what you are doing. stephen king insists you have to write or read for 4 hours a day to be any good at it.
as far as math goes, take the classes, and learn. then go an extra half hour to reaffirm everything in your mind. but if therei s a course you dont need to do anything more than get an A to get good at it.
>what was it like losing your virginity? >did you want to? >do you regret it?
I had a two drinks with my friend as usual. End up in his bed, massaging me, taking off my clothes one by one. I've always wished for a husband. I think I messed it up.
I dont remember. Or the next time, or the time after that. I'm terrified of physical touch so I ended up being totally blackout drunk the entire time. Yes Yes
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Avoid asking these common questions: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >Is my body part big/small enough? >Am I short/tall enough? >Would you date a virgin? ><Random insecurity> Some do, some don't. Preferences... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Well, after laying off dating for over half a year, I started dating again. It wasn't going to work out - and I think we both sensed it. She was moving to another state for grad school, and I'm going to be moving to SF for work.
My priorities are to find a job first and foremost. Girls, should I have fought harder for this? I mean, we both liked each other, but the stresses from being preoccupied with work and grad school would have been too much.
I'm not so sure this belongs here although I can't think of another board to ask this to and like hell I'm turning to Yahoo answers or something of the sort. >So As a college student with plenty of homework piling up after working on a play I have begun to nap more frequently. And at times I fall asleep quite quickly and think nothing of the matter when I wake. However on some occasions I fall asleep a little slower. And during these times I approach rapid eye movement at an easy pace and I notice that when I have some kind... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16996514 There is a TED talks about sleeping and why it is important, here it is, just the bits about why it's important that we sleep. Something to do with having to restore energy and brain function after hours of working. I believe the 'fun' starts at 5:00 >https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWULB9Aoopc
If lucid dreaming is hogwash, then only those who have experienced it claim that it exists. Like those weirdos who claim they can think themselves into orgasm. And... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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