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Ladies and gay males of /adv/ please pick your ideal mate.
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>Liking estrogen fueled numales
>>16996632
Why is that a problem? At a certain point it's just drugs that increase the size of overly muscular humans.
This is my wife going through a castle in Huy Belgium. I shot lots of photos through out and was told at the end of the tour not to take photos. Should I have listened? Should I have asked questions? Why aren't photographers allowed to take pictures on certain historical sites?
>>16995705
Several reasons for not allowing photos. The most likely are
1. Flash photos can damage fragile paintings, fabrics or wall hangings
2. The site has an exclusive official photographer.
3. They want you to buy postcards in the gift shop
4. And just what is gained by a photo of your wife in a particular spot - proof to you that you actually were there and it wasn't a hallucination?
>>16995705
more of your wife dude
That's actually a pet peeve of mine. I cannot stand that contradiction. You can take a picture of the Mona Lisa but not this castle. I usually try to sneek pictures anyway.
Hey /adv/,
Being bedbound pretty much sucks for things to do so I'm here to offer life advice to you all.
Little background:
> 28/f/uk
> ex mathematics teacher
> final stage bronchonial cancer
Feel free to ask for advice on anything. Tits or gtfo requests will be ignored.
Im sorry OP,
I dont really have questions, I feel upset now I've been reading this..
Cancer is a motherfucker. Why haven't we cured that shit yet?
>>16995584
I am very sorry to hear that this has happened to you. If you don't mind me asking, how are you coping with the idea that you are going to die pretty soon? I have run into a crisis in my life where i'm confronting that i'll have to die someday and its haunting me and taking over my life. I'm scared of dying.
If it makes you feel better I have had some experiences happen in my life that i'm pretty sure were super natural. So maybe there is another side.
i dont want to do it for petty reasons, but i really want to break up my sister's relationship. her boyfriend's 19, she's nearly 22. she mentioned beating him up once at a gig which i kind of let slide but today she told me she punches him in the face and he flinches when she gets close to him sometimes. i can't stop thinking about it i feel all fucked up inside, i don't know the guy well but i feel so sorry for him and want him to get away from my sister. i think he really likes her though.
so what do i do? approach him? approach her? i have mentioned...
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If you're able to then you should talk to your sister about this. She should know that violence like that is extremely bad in any relationship. If you can convince her this is wrong it will make all the difference in her future relationships and her life.
I have doubts she will listen to you though and if she doesn't then you go talk to the boyfriend. Because if she listens to you and STILL wants to hit him and finds this behavior ok then that will give you more incentive to talk to the BF and save him.
Some people will disagree with me and say let...
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I'm thinking talk to him. Say she hits him regularly and logically he's going to hit her back at some point, then it's over for him probably. What kind of way is that to live, flinching and shit.
i'm the most lost i've been in a while
my ex and my best friend secretly fucked multiple times behind my back. i'v been together with her for a year.
her reasoning is i had been cold to her because apparently i was treating her like shit and being cold not responsive to her. she thought i was about to break up with her
i wasn't. i was just depressed
they saw 4 times in 3 week period. i've read their chat logs. they conversed that they what they were doing was horrible and expressed regret and hatred towards themselves
she...
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Why is it that I only feel sexual pleasure when I've taken research chemicals (nBOMe series)? I have a vagina by the way.
Why do you take research chemicals?
Was this always like this?
What pharmacological effect does those chemicals have on normal people?
Post pic of vag for scientific purposes.
Maybe you're aroused by science. Try masturbating in a lab coat, see if that helps.
one of two reasons
1. Your body has become dependent on the chemicals to help you feel pleasurable sexual stimulation
or
2. Your body is getting a chemical (or producing a chemical reaction) that it normally couldn't produce on it's own due to your own hormone imbalances or what have you.
To get more specific, you may want to break it down into different factors.
Is it a matter of physical, mental, or emotional pleasure?
Do you not feel pleasure from penetration or touch?
Do you not feel pleasure from the idea of having sex or the scenarios you've been involved in?
Do you not feel comfortable with the partner you're with?
Determine what reactions the chemical that you're using causes and try to learn about how that affects the human mind. I'm not a scientist.
How have your relationships started?
Does there need to be a special moment?
A magical date?
Or do you just spend enough time together doing everyday shit that you just get addicted to each other?
From my experience it started from casual talking and having one thing in common. I talked to her like a normal human being and we just hit it off.
The start of a relationship is as overrated as virginity
>>16994574
So you just started having interesting conversations and then sex happened? There must be a few few steps in between.
People who used to be addicted to video games, but are now living fun/interesting lives - can you tell me how you did it?
I stopped playing video games. Like, I just didn't do it anymore.
Now I play games on my ipad sometimes, and that's fine.
I used to be addicted to MMORPGs and other games but now all I do is work, study and sometimes watch tv with my wife or get dragged out on trips
I was happier before
>>16990464
there comes a time when men need to stop consuming and start creating.
i played video games and watched TV up until about 8th grade. then i started writing my own TV shows nd designing my own games and such.
you dont have to be successful or do it as anything more than a hobby, but man feels unfulfilled when hes not creating. its hwy society exists.
Have you ever ignored a person you had crush on? Why?
only done it a few time but it's mainly cause the girl shows her true colors.
Last girl I was talking to had a huge princess complex. We're almost 30 and she's still pulling that shit.
instantly stopped caring. She now does everything in her power to fish for validation and to see if I'm paying attention to her
Because I'm fat, ugly and she deserved better.
>>16988524
because after the first date I realized she was not what I pictured.
they're always better from a distance
I really need some help right. I've been clean for 9 months. I thought I'd gotten past the hard part a while ago, but christ do I want to relapse right now. What the fuck should I do?
Don't do it
>>16997563
But what if I REALLY want to?
>>16997595
Hmm that's a tough one....don't?
Why waste 9 months if sobriety and climbing the ladder to just hope off it. Seems like an arrogant choice to me.
Not really in need of advice here, but in the last two days I've seen two girls (each about and 8-8.5) giving me "the look." Both times they were in a setting that is not appropriate to hit on women, at work and then at the grocery store, respectively.
I guess what I'm asking is, is there such a thing as an "inappropriate" place to flirt with women, or is that just social conditioning? Also, is a bar the only place where I can meet and talk to new girls, because it seems like most places are considered inappropriate?
>>16997495
they aren't inappropriate. whats happening is a combination of three things
1) you are afraid to hit on a woman, afraid of rejection
2) she is obviously there for a reason, and the fear of (1) is doubled when you think of getting in the way of that
3) some girls rant about being hit on in certain places saying its inappropriate, and you took that to heart.
so lets deconstruct this
>you are afraid to hit on a woman, afraid of rejection
dont be....
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>>16997560
Thanks. That was the kind of answer I was looking for. To be honest, I've never actually approached a girl/asked a girl out due to these "blocks" that society puts on men.
One thing to note though, the instance where I saw the girl at work, I was the employee and she was a customer. I've thought about asking my boss if this is ok or not before, but I was kind of unsure about it. A lot of cute girls come in and out of my work, and I still get that regret of not speaking to them, even though...
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>>16997634
>society puts on men
society doesn't. you put it on yourself here mate. yes women complain and rant, but that doesnt mean they put a block. you arent goign to suddenly be the only man flirting with women. you will be one of the many. these men didnt say 'fuck you society'. they realized there was no society blocking them.
as far as work goes, its generally against company policy to ask out, but not to accept if you have been asked out. where do you work?...
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First things first I love my gf I'll make that clear. I've been with her for over a year and have not had a fight or argument. Our sex life is amazing, we tell each other everything when we are stressed out, or upset about anything. She is kind, funny, smart. We like so many of the same things, think the same way. Literally the best thing that I can say has every happened to me. I've been so lucky to have been her sweetheart. I'm nothing special, to be honest I'm kinda clinical about life, and she's managed to form this one tender light of hope...
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The grass isn't greener if that's what you're thinking
>>16997436
This. OP, you're literally asking for a relationship with an incompatible bitch who will argue with you all the time. What even.
>>16997436
This, me and I'm sure many guys wish We had it as easy as you OP
I'm dating someone who a little chubby and ugly.
She's the one who wanted to go out with me, and I don't have any plan so I just went with it. I found her adorable when asking me out, she's still adorable in the way that she's doing everything to please me, and I notice it and I love it.
I'm so doing my best at ignoring that fact to see the more beautiful aspect of her person, but I don't like it. She's cool, she's a little unconfident about it and I will never embarrass her on that but yet... My mind always goes back to that...
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She loves you, she takes care of you and that's makinging you love her.
You're golden OP.
Looks fade, every beautiful girl becomes an old crone. Let it go. Besides, you aren't getting attention from better looking girls are you? No, you're not as handsome as you thought. And that's ok.
This is why people say lower your expectations. enjoy what you have.
>>16997276
I don't feel like the problem is already dealt with, but you're quite right.
But I am well more liked by girls than she is with guys, she even admitted that some girls spoke about me before she knew me. So you were wrong about that.
I guess she deserves a try but I know that I'm more severe with her because she's ugly, if her personality isn't perfect i'll just be a total bitch about it. I know it, I don't even pretend to hide it.
Some couples are each others stylists. Maybe if you start asking her opinions on your visage, she will do the same, giving you possibility of hinting on some changes. The trick is being sensitive enough (not an ass or a jerk) about it.
Most people aren´t really ugly, just unkept or without sense of style. Change of haircut or a makeup choice with some new clothes really might do the trick ;)
(If the hints don´t work, you can try giving her a makeover gift coupon or something)
Anyway she seems like a lovely girl, try working it out. It´s hard to find someone good.
Posting some advice for women because apparently being a decent human being is too hard.
"Hurr durr why wont he talk to me"
"Hurr durr why does he like her over me"
"Hurr durr bla bla bla"
You only need to follow these simple rules
1) Don't do fucking drugs and if you do do fucking drugs keep that shit quite or something
2) Don't dress like a complete slut, honestly what the fuck is wrong with you? I get some nice clothes and shit but girls are taking this shit way too far
3) Don't talk/hang out with niggers,...
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Have you considered helping organize a TrumpYouth chapter in your city?
>>16997179
>CATER TO MY PREFERENCES WOMEN
is this thread supposed to be ironic?
>>16997364
>Implying there are not already tons of kids who want to create/join "TrumpYouth"
WEW
How do I start having sexual fantasies about ACTUAL SEX and nor just the weirdest fucking nonsexual shit?
Try it and if it doesn´t work, who cares. It´s fantasies.
Problem would be if you weren´t able to have actual sex.
after a dry spell these thoughts come naturally to me. ive been fantasizing about a petite 42 year old lately that i seen in the grocery store.
>>16997029
>Try it and if it doesn´t work, who cares. It´s fantasies.
I want to be strangled to death by an uncontrollably sobbing Adam Driver.
I can't tolerate sex at all. I thought I'd start with masturbating and figuring how to have happy thoughts about sex but It has turned out to be harder than I thought.
Do ladies find this hairstyle attractive?
or this one
Jesus christ...
no. thisa one
