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Ask a guy who has literally tripled his kill count in the past year anything. A bit of background info:
>have high school sweetheart
>pick a specific university just for her
>she is planning on joining me there in a year
>remain faithful all year, despite the opportunities in residence
>she moves there with me
>dumps me almost immediately as school year begins
>tfw...
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>>16998860
>literally tripled his kill count in the past year
0x3 is still 0 OP
>>36650575
Its come in cycles for me. Ive had relationships that have lasted a month or so before I got bored and wanted to whore it up again. At least now I know what kind of personality traits I look for in a girl because Ive sampled so many
How do you not feel bad about hurting girls' feelings when you dump them?
That's always the hardest part for me. Makes me feel bad to make them cry.
serious question :(
>>16998529
Yes
serious answer :(
>>16998539
this is not good.
now what? suicide?
>>16998529
are you transgender?
>anon and girl been together for 6 years
>1 daughter
>i am 20 she's 21
>She left to work on a different province which is really far but good pay.
>Anon is now paranoid
>she's been there for a year now. ( We used to have sex a lot when she goes home/before she left. )
OP here, But now we only go for a round. and i really have this gut shit that she's dating / seeing anyone.
Where's the cheating evidence?
Sounds like you dont have evidence. Dont confront her unless you have solid evidence.
So I live in a pretty dangerous city, the crime is extremely high here and there are a lot of gangs roaming the streets. A year ago my friend was gunned down in the streets who was a comic book nerd, he was in my club and seeing his mother cry really set me off. I saw a homeless man being beaten and defended him/scared off the guys. Yesterday, my girlfriends moms car was stolen and I went to look for it. These prostitutes almost got in a car accident with me because they were speeding with their lights off. We found the van filled with junk and wood. We knew it was the drug...
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There's really only one answer dude.
>>16998320
If only I had bullet proof armor and a mask. If only.
Literally become pic related. Be the actual Punisher. Get big and learn how to shoot a gun. Clean the streets of the filth and scum.
Girlfriend left me because I kept on getting this gut feeling she had cheated on me. Every time I brought it up to her she'd start crying. I never caught her in the act. Once we broke up she never talked to me again, it's been 5 months. We dated for over a year.
Do you people think she cheated on me?
lol no
>>16998289
Come on, why was she crying then? Why won't she ever talk to me again?
Dumbass
No one will believe me but I'm gonna have sex with a married woman very soon. I have to confess here because I can't keep it in me and need advice.
>>16998261
>No one will believe me but I'm gonna have sex with a married woman very soon.
Why will no one believe you? Married women cheat all the time, as do married men.
>>16998261
You are a peice of human filth and should kill yourself for not being alpha enough to find a single woman.
Hopefully the husband comes home and shoots you both.
You are honestly whats wrong with society, on teir with rapists and pedos
>>16998279
>You are honestly whats wrong with society, on teir with rapists and pedos
You're dumb. She's an adult, so is he. You don't know if the husband is already cheating or not.
If she wants to cheat, she's in a shitty relationship that had nothing to do with OP.
It was already shitty before OP, it will be shitty after OP.
Guys, I slept with a girl on the weekend, no condom, I didn't cum, and she has an irregular period. Last time she had it was like middle of last month.
How fucked am I? I'm sweating fucking bullets over here.
1/10
Beside the obvious "You should use contraception", I'd say you need to chill out and just wait. She could get the morning after pill. It's not as efficient after a few days, but it could still work. It is possible to get a girl pregnant without cumming. I do think it's more rare.
With irregular periods, it's hard to know when your danger zone is. It happens 14 days before her next period, and you don't know when that is.
You fucked up the second you touched her pussy with your dick without a condom . You won't know, have fun worrying about it until then ;)
How to you broach the subject of height with a guy you met online?
I'm 5'6". The guy I'm into is Chinese. I don't want to meet him in person before he is aware of my height - his wouldn't be a deal breaker for me unless he is like 5'3", which I highly doubt from his pics. He lives 20 minutes away, so I feel like it's going to happen soon.
I had a guy I was madly in love with online refuse to meet me because I was taller than him. Another guy I met online and met (flew 5 hrs) lied about his height, ended up being as tall as me, and made things hella awkward.
So sick of Asian guys being uncomfortable / lying about their heights. :(
Stop talking to manlets.
It's that simple.
>>16998163
How do I know if he is a manlet? I would guess from his pic he is somewhere between 5'5 - 5'10, but I don't feel awkward being like "hey... How tall are you?" And explaining how I'm tall for a girl.
>>16998156
>Meeting a guy online
That was your first mistake, why don't you go out and be social and meet people you don't have to make physical guesses and estimations about. If you want to know how tall they are, ask them. If you're tired of dating Asian guys, don't date Asian guys,
>I am not obese
>yet
>sleep schedule is out of wack
>don't know when or if hungry
>eat because I have to
How do you fix sleep schedule? Without relying on pills? I have tried music/tea but that just keep me awake..
Tfw this site disregards insomnia entirely..
My solution has always just been to not eat unless I'm hungry. If that means I only eat once that day, then so be it.
>>16998119
How..? I mean how do you supress the headaches..?
Can a 26-27 year old guy going to college do well socially? Like developing friends or dating women?
>>16998091
Does anyone else have personal experience with this?
26 is not old dude. Plenty of people your age and up in school.
But I'd just like to add that despite the early 20 year-olds and their youthfulness they aren't all making friends or even socializing that much.
I'm 20 years old and a few months ago I had an abortion on Valentines Day. I would have kept it but my SO didn't want it so I did what I thought was best. We're in a LDR at the moment. It all happened so quick and ever since then I've been an emotional wreck. I can't talk to my boyfriend about this since he pretty much lacks empathy and just doesn't understand why I could be upset about it, I get why though. I'm not doing great in college anymore and I just feel so alone. At the time of the abortion I was in his city and before I left I tried...
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A therapist? They exist to help people in rough times (including me).
Therapist for sure. You are not alone.
You're going to help an emotional wreck because you got and abortion and your pregnancy hormones are still in your system. This is experience is traumatic enough to some people and still being loaded on the hormones doesn't help. You need to seek help, but most of all you need to either get rid of the boyfriend or fix the relationship but to keep it sounds like a very toxic relationship. I mean really what would happen if it happened again? You chose that time not to abort? I'm sorry if i sound conflicted or mean but i truly am sorry for your lose but honestly...
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having a huge problem with this chick.
Okay I met her at a bar. My friend introduced me to her and when we were together my friend and her started drinking a lot, then they wanted to take selfies with me so I was in the middle.
We were all huggy and shit while they took pictures, and then the other chick didnt drop her hand from me so we just kinda leaned on each other for a while. then sat at the bar and she was guiding my hand up her thigh.
Then we went out to the parking lot and made out like tons.
Only thing is next time we're all at the bar together she sits kind of at arms length from me at the table. Why do girls do this? She just used me to make out and now its like I don't matter to her??
Help me figure it out. Is she one of those girls that uses guys to hurt them for fun?
I should mention she's like 40 something.
>>16998004
>Is she one of those girls that uses guys to hurt them for fun?
YES. You really think she wants you long term? You are not long term potential to her. She is older... She is looking for something that is not you, maybe a screw every now and then but nothing more.
She wanted you to pursue her. She made out with you to get you interested in her, now she wants to string you a long while you paw at her.
Why do girls do this? Using guys for their own fun without thinking about their feelings?
I have a habit, or in some manner, an addiction, to cocoa beans. I've used it on and off for years as an anxiolytic and painkiller, and this utility is partly what drives the attachment.
Phenylethylamine is likely the primary desired component, theobromine and flavonols likely have a passive secondary effect with cAMP, blood flow, etc. It changes how my memory is processed, augments creativity, makes me stronger, and narrows, or bends the mind such that certain tasks are performed far more efficiently and with a better result. And of course, it must be dualistic,...
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tl;dr
Have my trigeminal nerve root trapped between a blood vessel and a muscle, causes a lot of pain sometimes, causes pain all the time. Years of this have caused an anxiety response to the things that can cause pain or be functionally crippling. Cacao has been a good tool, but I can't solve my core problems, and I'm sick of a lot of its unwanted aspects.
Can't do it, not even if sober. Maybe something else might provide the means to finally understand.
Bump.
Wait what
You can get high off cocao beans or something?
That's fuckin wack man
Also get some fucking surgery for the trapped nerve and get addiction treatment for the cacao if that's an issue as well. Don't look for a substitute for the thing you're addicted to, look for a method to cut out the addiction from your life.
My older sister who I live with ( she is 27) came home way too early and caught me trying to swallow a ton of her pills. I was too weak while throwing up to really stop her or get a word in soo she called 911 and I was taken to a hospital. The doctors thinks I tried to kill myself and soo does she but I'm insosoting it was an accident. This isn't fair. Why'd she do this? She didn't have to call 911 ...
Don't do that.
>>16997913
Do what? Try to not get myslef deemed suicidal? I don't want that. All she does is emabras me when she thinks she's "helping me"
>>16997919
I meant don't take her meds. You're probably going to be sectioned soon, assuming you're in the ER. It won't be much fun but be patient and focus on getting better.
What's the most decent way to commit suicide? A good person would never want to hurt loved ones, and so they would have to make it look like an accident, but what kind of accident? It couldn't involve anyone else - no stepping in front of a motor vehicle or train, nothing that would curse someone else's life. Any ideas? I'm open for suggestions.
Best way to commit suicide while being kind and considerate to your loved ones is the long game. Takes a lot of patience but if you just wait long enough you will have died.
Simple! Easy! :)
>>16997910
Thanks homie, but I'm in a bit of a rush.
I thought there would be more thoughtful, caring anons on 4chan willing to help a bro out. Alas.
