having a huge problem with this chick.
Okay I met her at a bar. My friend introduced me to her and when we were together my friend and her started drinking a lot, then they wanted to take selfies with me so I was in the middle.
We were all huggy and shit while they took pictures, and then the other chick didnt drop her hand from me so we just kinda leaned on each other for a while. then sat at the bar and she was guiding my hand up her thigh.
Then we went out to the parking lot and made out like tons.
Only thing is next time we're all at the bar together she sits kind of at arms length from me at the table. Why do girls do this? She just used me to make out and now its like I don't matter to her??
Help me figure it out. Is she one of those girls that uses guys to hurt them for fun?
I should mention she's like 40 something.
>>16998004
>Is she one of those girls that uses guys to hurt them for fun?
YES. You really think she wants you long term? You are not long term potential to her. She is older... She is looking for something that is not you, maybe a screw every now and then but nothing more.
She wanted you to pursue her. She made out with you to get you interested in her, now she wants to string you a long while you paw at her.
Why do girls do this? Using guys for their own fun without thinking about their feelings?
>>16998004
bump
>>16998077
Ego.
>>16998004
Beware, that's already a hag mate.
>>16998004
You probably just didn't take the chance. Girls don't use guys for a makeout. Maybe she wanted you to fuck her and you didn't read the signs . That's what it sounds like to me anon.
>>16998427
hag?
>>16998429
Girls do use guys for makeout only and absolutely nothing more, it's really common.
But yeah I'd guess either she wants to play with your feelings or she just randomly changed her mind
>>16998429
>Girls don't use guys for a makeout.
What a sexist fucking statement.
Maybe she was drunk and thought it would be comfortable? Then she sobered up and realized you were too clingy? Now she is giving space to make sure you realize that she's not into you? Or maybe she was just friendly and you took it too far!? She didn't want to make you feel shitty, but is trying to make it obvious that she's not into you.
Why is she in the wrong?
Seems like you are the one with the chip on your shoulder.
Most people don't wake up in the morning looking to cause other people pain.
Look within yourself, and then try to understand that people also have their own stories, their own history, that you don't know.
Maybe she isn't a bitch. Maybe she is acting like that because of something that happened to her before, that she is being reminded of, and makes her uncomfortable/sad.
Maybe it isn't about her being a bitch
Maybe it isn't about YOU!
>>16998852
Not at 40. Women that much older don't play that kind of game anymore.
They want sex. Our boy here missed or messed up his chance in some way.
Did you even call her the next day, or shit did you even get her number?
>>16999016
>Maybe it isn't about her being a bitch
>Maybe it isn't about YOU!
The way people treat you is about you, though. The way you treat others always reflects how you feel about them.
The way you treat people IS about you.
The way you treat people is about who you are; your past, your experiences, your rights and your wrongs. Your morals and your expectations.
First and foremost, it is about who YOU are. Secondly, it is about how you feel for someone.
