I knew someone like this and when they came clean no one cared. We didn't find it amusing and we thought nothing less because it's hard to think about nothing.

I'd recommend doing it sooner than later, probably best if you do it individually instead of everyone at once. You don't want this to escalate too far as someday everyone may want to meet up and you don't want to miss that or cause drama.

Women won't even let faggots congratulations without inserting themselves into the group. What the fuck is your problem with male only spaces?

Well, the shame and regret are there for a reason.
>embrace them fully
>learn from them so you won't repeat
>move the fuck on

>>17125341
I've learned what I did was wrong and immature but I'm still beat up because she was exactly my type. She was tall, graceful and had beautiful pale blue eyes. I'm aware this isn't love but she made me realize what I like in women. And now I don't even think the majority of women come close to her and if they do they wouldn't go for me.

Tell me what you did that was "acting like 17" so I can avoid doing it

As suspected noone here cares. In reality why would strangers care.
I've got my answer, thank you for helping me.

Well, I think the first thing you need to do is release all of that energy you're killing yourself trying to hold back. You probably don't even notice how tense you are at this point. Usually the best way to do this is to exhaust yourself physically. A lot of people run, but that might be a problem with your ankle. You could still lift, or do body weight exercises though. Physical activities allow you to translate that emotional stress and pressure into physical energy.

Once you're so tired that you can't move, then you should eat and meditate for...
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>>17125354
Just as your emotional and physical stress is driving you to irrationality, so it's happening with your mother and father.

I'm not sure what's going on between your parents, but it sounds like your mother really needs you right now. She needs her child to be there, to tell her that she's loved, and that she always will be.

It's not easy to be strong, it's never easy. That's why we respect the strong. You need to be strong right now though. If not for yourself, for...
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>>17125313
Try having sex ?

>>17125319
Can't have premarriage sex.. Religion..

>>17125313
Know her interests and hobbies.

>>17125229

hard to say from one photo but thank for actually posting it instead of expecting us to be psychic to figure it out.

ultimately oyu arent bad looking. at all. im jealous for the most part, though i consider myself to be attractive when i put the effort in.

if you arent wokring out start. if you are, keep it up. even if its infrequent, a little progressi s better than no progress. if you can wokr out two shitty wokrouts a week thats still better than none at all, and your body will improve more than...
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lose the facial hair and cut your hair shorter imo

>>17125229
shave, lose the beanie and long hair, never wear a wife beater again

I think whatever the doctors said.

>>17125235
They've said several different things now and the treatments for them haven't worked. The doctors in her country aren't necessarily U.S. standard.

>>17125243
well then I don't know, I'm not a doctor so I'm even less qualified than them

I can't get to sleep
I think about the implications
Of diving in too deep
And possibly the complications

Especially at night
I worry over situations
That I know I'll be alright
It's just overkill

Day after day it reappears
Night after night my heartbeat shows the fear
Ghosts appear and fade away
It's my theme song for having too much on my mind to sleep.

Dreamers
They never learn
They never learn
Beyond the point
Of no return
Of no return

And it's too late
The damage is done
The damage is done

This goes
Beyond me
Beyond you
The white room
By window
Where the sun goes
Through

We are
Just happy to serve
Just happy to serve
You

If I have the space of half a day,
I'm ashamed of half the things I say.
I'm ashamed to have turned out this way,
and I desire to make amends.

But it don't make no difference, now,
and no-one's listening, anyhow,
and lists of sins and solemn vows
don't make you any friends.

There's an old trick played,
when the light and the wine conspire
to make me think I'm fine.
I'm not, but I have got half a mind
to maybe get there, yet.

When the sky goes pink in Paris, France,
do you think of the...
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>>17125147

sounds to me like you are over thinking. wait it out until a serious step comes up. in this instance its when she says 'anon are you my boyfriend' or something similar. until then you are just getting to know each other. yes shes into you and you are aware and she might feel betrayed, but you are not a bad person for not immediately committing to someone you are just starting to get to know.

if you arent really itno her already id guess you wont be. generally distance makes the heart grow fonder....
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>>17125166
but i feel like i can't just be into someone i've only known for two weeks

>>17125179

cool, so maybe just read my post again cuz my advice IS applicable to waht you just said.

https://autohotkey.com/

>>17125163
I know how to do it, but thanks. I'm asking if it's considered cheating? I'm getting mixed responses by different people. I personally don't see it as cheating.

>>17125137
Anyone else know?

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>>17125089
>Walking up and talking to them will force spaghetti to fall.
That's how you learn.
To change you must exit your comfort zone over and over and over again until you feel comfortable in what you once saw as uncomfortable.
Wise words indeed that I have not lived up to myself but that's how it goes.
You need to live and learn and over time the experience just falls into place, like a missing puzzle piece.
Trust.

Join a club, hobby, or whatever you're interested in and use that as a starting point to get to used to being around others. By having an activity that you all have in common, you'll always have something to talk about and eventually be able to talk about other stuff. As long as you force yourself to try and socialize you'll eventually get better at it.

There is a lot to be be said about spreading your bare ass cheeks wide and asking your friend to pound the hold hard as he can.

Read and learn something new. Perhaps with dealing with emotions. You would be surprised with how much you can fix yourself with a little bit of self study.

>>17125097
Any books you can recommend?

>>17125088
Look you fuck your just hiding behind the pills as an excuse for being a shit person who does want to work on themselves.

Work out a lot.

Run a lot.

Do things you like

Do things you don't like and control yourself.
interact with people.

Watch how much of a bitch you are when your about to blow up at a 7 ft tall giga nigga. Try taking your anger out on that dude.

If you can't then it's not a medical thing is about yourself as a person.

No autist stops...
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>>17125020
Whats your name?

>>17125026
anon

>>17125032
Just tell me is it Alex?

>>17125008
Nope you've already lost her.

See she's not the only one

She's a giant cunt for kissing her ex

Her bitching about your hobbies is bs

She has segregated you and is feasting on your cash and social life.
Look bro your a gopher trying to date a puma it isn't going to work

You let her get away with to much shit.

Talks to ex ( dumped)

She kisses ex ( dumped)

She bitches about hobbies (dumped)

Lies about pregnancy ( dumped)

I...
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>>17125008
don't be a cuck mate. theres plenty of other chicks out there like her. You sound young. Cheaters don't change and if she is kissing an ex boyfriend now, she'll be fucking your neighbor while your at work 5 years from now and the kids are at school in the house that you paid for in the bed that you bought. Seriously, have some self respect and punt that bitch to the curb

>>17125008
>The truth is that I think I will never find someone so beautiful and addicted to sex like her

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It doesnt matter about her physical appearance. If you feel she is too good for you because of her looks, that won't help you in the long run.

As you type this out, conflicted, just know this, she IS fucking him. She will NOT stop fucking him. When she dumps you in a few months,...
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YOU think you can get away with it. Everyone else begs to differ...
Start with showering once a day and brush teeth twice a day. Wear clean/fresh socks and underwear daily.

>>17124997
If you want to become something. You have to surround yourself with things that you want to be. Be around well dressed, hygienic people. Put soap and multiple toothbrushes in the bathroom you use most to poop and pee. The best way to become hygienic is to be around an individual that is hygienic. They rub of on you with habits and techniques.

>>17125027
That's actually what inspired this thread. My best friend has been living in my apartment this week and his hygiene is impeccable.

Made me jealous (and actually try to keep up with him).

I'm in the same boat you are so I'm probably not someone who should be giving an answer.

But if you don't put in all that work then things will only stay as they are.

I'm a weak person and my odds aren't good, but even if it all ends up horribly I'd rather be able to look back on a life with experiences with other people than a life spent alone.

But to be honest, yeah, I don't know how other people do it.

>>17124973

>is it really worth it

define 'worth it'. it depends. not all relationships are created equal. all relationships end, but if you can go in knowing that then you can enjoy what happens while it happens.

>the massive amounts of wokr is needed just to get into one let alone maintain it

nope. in my opinion if you have to put in any serious 'work' into starting one, then its not worth it. you are manufacturing a relationship....
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>>17124973
you gotta find a girl who is also a social recluse so you dont have to change your whole personality. Finding them is difficult, look through local facebook groups thats how i found my boyfriend I was happy to find someone as socially inept as me. Dating sites are a bit risky because there are some crazy people on there use them as a last resort.