Im a 19 year old guy falling for my best friend who is a 25 year old woman. Should I pursue it? We're very comfortable together and wouldn't want to ruin one of the best friendships ive ever had.
Is she single? Where/how did you meet?
>>17126203
Shes single and we met through some work we did together.
If she's given you the most obvious signs like
>hanging at your home a lot
>taking you out a lot
>calling/chatting with you a lot
>being physically intimate with you like playfully kissing you on the lips or touching you in a sexual way
Then yeah, sure.
highschool droptout.......how do i succeed??
Succeed at what? What are your goals?
Get your GED
>>17126159
Be lucky.
Going to have a presentasjon about Francisco Franco in Spanish. Any spanish people that think they can help me.. All help is appreciated.
He was a dick
>>17126136
Spanish anon here, what do you wanna know op?
>>17126136
Franco was bad. Now he's dead. That is good.
How do I keep going, knowing that no matter what, someday I, and everyone I know will sink into nothingness?
>>17126108
Because you haven't yet and others already have.
>>17126108
God, I am so here.. I fucking hate it. Not sure what happened to make me start thinking this way all the goddamned time but I hope I can enjoy life again sometime soon
>>17126108
Haha I remember when I was 19...
I hate myself. What practical methods can I implement to change myself?
Pls
Work out do things with friends do something that you would like to start doing
>>17126185
One of my major problems is lack of friends. I and all my childhood friends have a gf, but seek the thrill of doing things with some dudebros that I never got to fully experience that I can't do with my gf.
What's the best way to make new friends? Pretty autistic question, but I've been with my gf so long I'm disconnected from that culture.
>Have friend who really likes one of my other friends
>Today she tells me "He's hanging out with another girl right now and it's making me feel really panicked and is making me doubt everything"
>I say "You're probably just overthinking things, he seems to really like you"
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>>17126082
All girls want is constant validation, not help, not advice. Their egos are too massive to actually take any advice anyway.
Either be like "awww, why cant he just axe u out :O", and play the role of emotional tampon, or stop being friends with chicks.
>>17126160
She actually has pretty bad social anxiety. I guess that explains why she sees everything as a sign that he's not into her.
I guess it isn't her fault she overthinks everything, but goddamn it doesn't make it any less stressful
>>17126166
>She actually has pretty bad social anxiety.
Sounds to me like she just has a bad case of being a teenage girl.
I actually have social anxiety (severe, treatment-resistant, therapy and most medications don't help) and I'm not an idiot. I know anxious feelings are irrational, and I don't expect anyone to humor them. It's unhealthy for both of us.
This behavior absolutely is her fault.
Don't blame character flaws on mental illness, it's...
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How do I stay productive during the summer? And I guess how do I stay productive in general?
At most when the spring semester ends for college I've been able to keep a basic retail job, but my grades have been shit lately and I'd like to be more productive and improve my math/coding skills in addition to having a job. I create a schedule but I end up being unable to follow it. I'm generally really lazy unless I'm given precise instructions and reminded. It's embarrassing, because I don't know how to be self productive and it's most likely...
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>>17126034
Take a summer school class, either in what you need catch-up help in, or in what you might otherwise take in the fall (and transfer the credit).
>>17126034
Go for an internship relevant to your degree/chosen interests.
>>17126105
I have taken a look at summer/online courses. Problem is I live on campus during the fall/spring and over 4 hrs away from campus during the summer. University offers local summer classes, and CC doesn't offer the right courses. Online has maybe one course I could retake, which I'll look into. Thank you.
>>17126292
I have a bad GPA (sub 3.0), which is why I wanna study more during the summer, but I'm restricted money and location wise...
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Am I in the wrong for not liking my brother's friend use my brother's piss for a drug test in order to get ahead in his life?
>>17126031
>pic unrelated
No, it's a matter of opinion really. That being said it is none of your business. The fact that you disapprove just means that you have a fairly stable moral compass, keep holding on to that.
>>17126045
An infants idea of morality.
Can someone explain to me since when this became something that people are expected to do??
I recently got a cut and the lady asked me if I wanted to pay the exact amount from my debit card when I handed it to her. I thought it was a strange question, but I told her yes, paid for my haircut and went on my way. On the way home I decided that she must have been asking for a tip.
Now, I never once gave a tip for a haircut. It seems like a strange thing to do. But I did go online when I got home and apparently that's something people do.
Keep in mind,...
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>>17126024
I used to tip a guy I went to see all the time, but randoms I've never sat in their chair before no.
but it makes sense they want a tip I guess waiters have been getting tips for years.
>>17126024
Where do you live? In north America it's expected to tip your hairdresser literally everywhere.
>>17126043
Northeastern United States. I've never tipped anyone for a haircut or heard of anyone doing it until the other day.
Me and my gf has had sex 5 times and I never been able to make her orgasm. She told me her last partner made her orgasm multiple times so I feel like shit. Any advice on what I should do?
read some guides on oral sex mabye?
>>17126041
I give her oral often when we have sex ,but still no orgasm
Ask her for advice, not us.
Femanon here i have a guy friend who is ugly and when i say this i mean like 2/10 and he always whines about how other guys getting hotties and he do not know whats problem with him why he cannot get girls how i most politely convey him that THIS is the problem
Pic not related
Well one way to get him to stop complaining would be to fuck him.
>>17126012
Believe me anon, because i give a fuck about your opinion
What are the best drugs?
Just got my first contact, so the world is my oyster. Have tried weed, which was alright. What's the next step?
>>17125954
The next step would be for you to stop.
>>17125954
Cocaine my dude
Just keep it at weed, don't do hard drugs.
I will greentext the most part of the story until I get to the point of yesterday
>met a girl in octomber 2015
>liked her, she liked me, things evolved from there
>i kinda bitched out first, went all jokes and shit then suddenly stopped when i realised I like her a lot
>fast forward some weeks, have sex.
>next day she "brokes up with me" (never been officially together)
>she doesnt...
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>>17125947
OP I'm in a nearly identical situation, except the toxic girl is moving and I have a ship date already planned for the Navy. Push these toxic people out of your life, and forget about them entirely. She seems like the type to dwell on past relationships, the type to not forget and not forgive. These are toxic people that thrive on making others feel the same pain they feel. What I recommend you do is learn from this and push them away ASAP, don't talk to them, don't buy anything from them and don't...
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The problem is that I cant get out that easily. Jokingly, last night I mentioned blocking her again. She fucking freaked out and said "no one blocks me" (i was like, bitch, i do) and then she mentioned she will show up at my place if I block her (we live like 2 mins apart).
How the fuck I tell her to GTFO for ever? I really really like the idea(just the idea) of her, she's a nice person, cute and all but fuck, I am all messed up and she's not. I want her to dissapear but she keeps pushing.
>>17126030
Have you tried just straight up telling her that you don't want to continue this anymore? Sometimes you need to be blunt and to the point with people for them to understand.
So having never used anything like that I split 54mg and took it (I know it's not recommended).
After an hour or more and feeling nothing, took another one.
Am I going to die in few hours?
>>17125936
No lol
You're supposed to take those anally
>>17125936
>I split 54mg and took it
So you took half of one pill, then took the other half, or you took two? In any case, you won't die. Worst case scenario you will have an elevated heart rate for a few hours, feel sweaty and nervous, and have a hard time sleeping. Perhaps some nausea.
I assume the reason you couldn't feel it is because that formulation is designed for extended release or something... designed to extend effects and reduce abuse potential.
When you don't have the brains where do you go? A part of me wants to go into tech but even that seems like a stretch for me at this point.
>>17125924
Go do something with your hands. Like construcion work or something
Security guard, literally getting paid to do nothing.