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>CEO assing me a project for me only, develop something from scratch to a client
>CEO also relies on me to schedule the agenda of external employees so they don't mess up with the client in their respective projects
>Manage this other people like a boss, gain recognition from my manager and coworkers
>All looking fine in life
>The time consuming task it was supervise these other people didn't allow me to develop...
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I'm going to talk to my CEO and tell him about this.
Good idea or bad idea? Perhaps what I should have done in the first place.
>>17132328
Better late than never. It's easier to fess up and get help now than to let things get fucked up even more, for you and your CEO.
Depending on jurisdiction you could also call in sick.
>>17132337
Thanks for replying.
I'd love to and I could do it... but it's sort of a big presentation that I been moving from day to day because I had not much to present (and they know this) so I don't want to leave a weak image. I'd rather go and say to them that I have nothing.
Hey, i was at a doctor yesterday helping my mother get there and i just mentioned to the doctor that I'm physically tired ( and low performance in gym) for no reason several months and he prescribed me Cipralex 10mg.
I've read almost all of the manual and took half of the pill and now I'm something like stoned/distracted and i cant focus, have slight nausea and no appetite. I already cancelled my driving school and I'm not even going to gym, because i would do something crazy there.
Can someone tell me what is going on? Do i have some bad side...
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>>17132283
Hey OP, I was on escitalopram for six years, 20mg.
Diagnosed and medicated for extreme depression and anxiety.
So I don't know why your doctor thought giving you it just because you feel tired. It may be he thought you may have depression. It took me two years to wean myself off it.
With that low of a dosage you wont see any effects kick in until at least two weeks.
>>17132289
>>17132288
Yet i feel like I'm stoned, i feel like i cant even have a normal dialog with a person if you know what i mean/(cant focus), i cooked myself a chicken breast and now i cant force my self to eat it, i usually eat everything and then get some more. Well im not going to eat that drug again for sure, didnt expect this at all. im 23 btw
Seriously considering suicide.
I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years, past 6 months have been extremely rocky and i believe its coming to an end, i have never loved someone so much in my life but she's so unhappy. I cant live with myself knowing i have made the one person in my life who i truely love unhappy. I feel worthless and useless. I dont know what to do.
>>17132264
What is your question?
Stop drinking and tell HER these thoughts and feelings once you sober up in the morning. Are you willing to change? Will YOU still be happy if you do?
>>17132264
Is this the band Messiah?
This guy and his boyfriend are prejudice against drag queens and they often harrass me at the gay bar where I play poker on Friday nights. They said this about me on yelp can I sue them for slander? I never asked to watch them pee or stuck my hands in their pants! They are trying to get me kicked out of the bar with their lies *(pic related)*.
>>17132238
My advice to you is to actually look up what "slander" means.
>>17132242
From a legal standpoint, obviously.
Did you actually do this?
A group of co-workers who don't like me and are compromised of stacies and chads call me a retard or handicapped.
For instance I might be working in their vicinity while assigned to work as part of a team and one of them will cough and say "handicapped". This happens and has happened with enough frequency that there can be no doubt as to their intention. They know me to be a passive individual who retreats from confrontation and so they take advantage of that.
Despite this I've also been asked for math help by a younger manager for a course...
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>>17132215
you go way above these peoples heads and talk to middle management or district/corporate hr. just say its a hostile work environment, and bring up the payroll stuff. this is all pretty unprofessional
>>17132215
Beat the shit out of whoever calls you handicapped. Even if you have no advantage stand up for yourself, seems like those co-workers of yours are stuck in their teenage years
You pray to goddamn aspie jesus that there is a manager high up enough that he has lost all interest in bullying plebians like you and report to him in detail.
If you are in a union or can get into one you can find out if they have a way of helping you. I know my union does, especially so of course if some of your higher ups are involved.
Also, start searching for a new job now. I think you are way beyond the point of no return and the only way to show them, if I am correct, is to transition to a job that is superior to your current one.
My girlfriend's father died yesterday and I'm supposed to see my gf tomorrow. How does one act on this situation, am I supposed to cheer her up, act sad, or act normal? Is it ok to call her as often as I use to or should I give her space?
>>17132206
Comfort her, you fucking autistic mongoloid. Show her sympathy for her loss, and let her know you feel terrible that her grandfather died. Ask if you can do anything to help the family. Show some consideration, you incorrigible fucking dipshit.
>>17132214
Like I said in op her father died not her grandfather. I never met the man or her family, so I don't know what help I can offer.
>>17132206
Your job is to hold her while she empties tears in your shoulder for 12 hours.
Which positions make a girl feel "slutty" during sex? Can you recommend things I should try with my gf? I want to do something that makes her go a little crazy. Sex have been a bit boring lately.
Doggystyle (pulling her hair helps, taking hold of her neck, too); there's also a position where she's on her back and you put her legs up against your torso; doing it from behind while she lies on her stomach is pretty great in that sense too
Experience: my girlfriend likes to have the most sluttiest sex ever
>>17132159
Put a finger in her ass
>>17132164
Am female and can confirm this. These positions make it go in really deep. You can start exploring little kinky things like spanking, tying her wrists, making her beg, doing it somewhere you could get caught, etc. But definitely discuss all of that with her first.
If anyone can tell me what the fuck happened, it would be great.
>play LoL
>have team on skype
>add random to skype for a game
>sometimes we speak, mostly not
>have boyfriend (everyone knows him)
This random starts acting weird. One day he is telling me he hates my boyfriend and wants to get with me then the very next day he is talking about how he scored himself a girlfriend. We all congratulated him but he kept acting weird with me. He sometimes insulted me, throwing sly digs about everything from my boyfriend's name to my clothing.
I eventually deleted him because shit got creepy and he had a meltdown over it.
He keeps trying to add me under different names to abuse me.
Do people really get this upset if you delete them from your contacts?
Did I do something socially unacceptable that I am unaware of?
>>17132106
>2016
>Still playing League of Faggots.
>>17132106
he's buthurt and mad at the world, you're just an avenue for the expression of that anger.
also the LOL community is fucking toxic and I'm not even a little surprised by this faggotry
a random creep is acting like a creep. not a big mystery here. some people are just fucking psycho. you don't have to do anything to them for them to be psycho, because they're psycho.
My girlfriend is on the larger side, she is around 210lbs at 5'7". She also has Keratosis Pilaris which makes some of her skin look and feel rough (pic related).
I'm not a model myself, but I'm am in decent shape and I think I look overall pretty good. My weak points are my hair and my style (which she has influenced and made better)
My girlfriend will not go on runs with me, or try exercise at all. I have tried to spin it in so many ways and she just won't do it. She has started losing weight when she got on the pill, so now she thinks...
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Why did you date her if she is fat?
Did you think her fat would melt off when she changed her relationship status?
you can't inception a girl into taking better care of herself. you can accept her, or begin plotting an escape from this relationship. don't date someone you want to fix. you figuring out ways for her to "fix" herself is not going to be fun for you or her.
no. being fat is one thing
not even trying to improve yourself is another.
not wanting to do things for stupid bullshit reasons is also a big red flag.
she has no motivation to change so she won't and anything short of you leaving (and maybe not even that) is going to change that.
Is there such a thing as being too self aware?
No, that's just bullshit /r9k/ tells you to try to make themselves feel superior to "normies".
>>17132083
I'm not trying to come across as a dick or anything, just wondering if there can be too much conscious thought
What is that even supposed to mean?
How do I stop video game addiction? How do I stop playing vid games? It's ruining my life.
Literally stop.
Give your consoles to a trusted family member. Tell them to keep it away from you for X amount of time.
Put all your computer games on a flash drive. Give that to a family member also. Now uninstall those games from your comp, knowing you have a backup.
Slice your genitals with a razor blade each time you play a video game
so i'm a 20 yo virgin and i really wanna get fucked. how do i find guys that'll want to have sex with me?
>>17132001
grinder.
>>17132005
i'm a girl
Hmm your a girl u asked you'll probably get fucked I'm a male who is a 20 year old virgin you'll have better luck than me
Any tips on easy to do knots and how to introduce it during sex? My partner has expressed interest in bondage and other elements of BDSM.
All the advice I can get is good.
this one is great.
>>17131994
Google "BDSM for Beginners". There are plenty of sites with info and advice.
>>17131994
Start with chain or other metal restraints
and my parents still fucking complain, I worked until 11pm today and when i got home all of my fucking clothes were outside on the driveway after walking and hour and a half from work to home and its just because i had a fucking sock laying on the floor in my fucking room, then i go to make myself something to eat in peace because i dont like eating outside and i got a fucking 30 minute lecture about eating during my break even though i dont fucking want to and instead i eat a little snack my parents also take fucking half the money that i work for and I cant do shit about it....
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>>17131971
Work more, save up, move out. You wanna be a big boy, you gotta make big boy choices
>>17131971
Sounds like your parents are right cunts.
Move in with friends and offer some part of the money you earn, if it's that bad. Emancipate yourself from your parents, otherwise you're just bitching about living in a household with expectations.
You should do a better job cooking your parents' meals
so like i made a tinder a few days ago
got rid of it
about 5 guys texting me every now and then
i just wanna be friends with them
rarely talk to my boyfriend and vice versa
hes too much of a pussy to leave
whats up with this
>>17131962
Sounds like you're just looking for attention and validation
If you're unhappy with the BF, leave him
>>17131964
i have validation, just looking for a quality conversation and quality time with a guy that is worth my time because my personality is amazing and i dont want to waste it
>>17131962
gr8 b8
