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>don't talk to anyone and keep to myself
>people think I'm a weirdo sperg school shooter in the making, get "talked to" by officials about how I need to improve
>talk to other people and try to be confident
>make other people visibly uncomfortable, girls in particular show fearful body language and a subdued desire to just run away
cool tumblr post
>>17132579
You sound like you a 15 year old asspie with no concept of normal, human interaction. It's cool thogh, just watch another episode of justice league, you'll grow up in a flash.
>>17132629
>15 year old
>watching justice league
it came out in 2001
24 year old male.
Went to the gas station the other day, was high as a bitch. Eyes redder than the devils dick.
There was this really cute girl working who complimented me on my shirt, it was of george bush sucking blood out of the statue of liberty. I was gonna go with the "Oh the guy who drew this pic actually drew batman" but I didn't want to sound like a fucking nerd, so my high ass says "Yeah I actually got this from goodwill"
So now I just look like a scrub but the girl was laughing anyways, she was super cute.
But...
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1. No
2. Yes , but you can wait for her to end her shift and ask her out
3. I dont think so
>there was a man in the store with a tear drop tattoo signifying he had either killed somebody or saw someone die.
lol just how white are you?
>First of all, did I already fuck up?
no
>Second of all, is it appropriate to ask girls out at their work place?
no
>Third of all, I have some coupons for this gas station, am I gonna look like more of a scrub if I use these?
yes
>>17132575
By the time she ends her shift i'll be working 3rd shift, the gas station is usually dead-ish at this time of night, its a town of about 60,000 and i was in there at 8:30 on a friday, wasn't super busy at all
Ok I need some advice.
I live in middle east, Iraq to be exact.
Needless to say the security in here is non existent.
I live with my family and my uncle lives next door, with the two houses connected.
The situation is like this
a few months ago a woman in her late thirties, came to my uncle house after his wife died, requesting some money as a charity in the name of his late wife.
His daughter was home with my mother, and invited her in and somehow managed to walk away with 200$.
After asking around no such charity even the place she described didn't...
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>>17132531
Yes.
>>17132561
I took a few precautions as well.
I wore a baseball cap, came out from my uncle house when I kicked her I said, "Thank you for caring about the orphans, please leave now we have nothing to give you"
In a firm rude way.
Though my family fucked it up by shouting my name.
I suspect she's in some gang watching the house to rob it.
the family is worried that they might retaliate.
Is there bases for their worries?
>>17132561
Could have been better way to do it?
How can I help my gf gain self-esteem?
>>17132490
Post something of her. What's the issue she struggles with?
>>17132513
She has quite a few issues, to be honest. She thinks she's stupid, incapable and ugly. She's incredibly shy and feels like she never has anything worth saying. She doesn't have the confidence to make a lot of decisions and usually panics until someone else makes the decision for her. She can see that these are problems and that they make her unhappy, but she doesn't think it's worth trying to face them. She cares a lot about other people's wellbeing, but doesn't bother about her...
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>>17132582
Dunno, man. If that's her outlook on life it probably means you're a 3-4/10 because she feels that's appropriate for a dumb, ugly puppy like her. If she finds out she's a hot genius she may very well dump your ass.
Just stick with being nice to her, and tell her she's a demon in the sack.
Guys, I just realized something.
I am one of those people that constantly try to get compliments, to impress and to make others think I'm good at something. I have this inmature, undesirable, very primitive need for attention. I'm not sure where it's coming from, but it's been creeping on me for some time now. I will break up with girls because they don't meet my quota, I will constantly try to get validation out of people
And the worst thing: Since I think I was secretly conscious about what I was doing, I was doing it in the most subtle,...
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I would very much appreciate any input on how to detect where it's coming from and grow out of this inmature, undesirable trait and become a proper, confident, complete person.
>>17132489
Does it directly affect your professional life?
>>17132498
It very well could affect it. In very subtle, yet real ways, this need for attention could shine through my persona, and make me fundamentally unlikeable. Which is an undesirable route to take when you're trying to fit in, become your coworker's mate, and just retain your position, you know, just do good in it.
My boyfriend doesnt seem to want to talk to me anymore. Before anyone says it, no I dont think hes cheating on me because he is a shut in who doesn't seem to be interested in people in general.
If it was always like this then I would understand, but for the first few months we were constantly skyping, he was staying up late to talk to me and we would talk about anything and everything. We're ldr but we've seen eachother quite a bit and he spent a few weeks with me recently.
Its like he isnt interested, everytime we talk it feels forced and I'm starting to give up.
I dont know what I can do to try to better the situation.
I've tried talking to him about it, he doesnt seem to think its a problem and puts it back onto me for not coming up with conversation topics. Its almost as if hes gotten too comfortable with me and no longer goes out of his way to talk. Our conversations are basically "what are you up to, cool, I'm going such and such, how was your day?, im going to go play a game now'
He is always playing games, which is fine with me but he doesnt tell me hes going to, so im waiting by my phone for a text message back for an hour.
I just dont know what to do anymore, its to the point that I no longer try to put aside time for skype calls because hes too busy on games, and I dont want to take his mic away while hes raiding or whatever.
Anyone have any adivce that isnt 'dump him!'.
I want to try all possible options before ending something I've commited to because I do love him.
>boyfriend
This is an internet thing right? You have never met in real life?
>>17132488
>We're ldr but we've seen eachother quite a bit and he spent a few weeks with me recentl
Long distance relationships aren't actual relationships, they're just a way to pass time before finding a real connection with someone.
He seems to have known that, why didn't you?
I was over ar my boyfriend's place and he let me borrow his PC while he was doing something. I was looking up stuff for one of my classes so I opened up his downloads folder and I found porn. Lots of porn. I then checked his browsing history and found shitload of porn sites that he visited almost everyday. I have talked to him about it but since we don't live together and can't have sex regularly I kinda understood and told him it was okay. But I just can't stop thinking about it. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him for some reason? He...
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>He faps because he gets horny
>implying you aren't fucking the horny out of him
>implying you have to have sex to get him off
So why aren't you on his dick right now? No need to fap if he's empty.
Either you handle it or he does.
Porn = fantasy
You = the real thing
men are such pigs
ugh
I'm about to buy a BMW M4 but is it worth driving it in the winter?
Any advice?
Why wouldn't it be?
>buying any "luxury" vehicle
HAHAHAHAHA
>>17132702
This. Such an incredible waste of money that serves no purpose other than dickwaving.
>mfw people go into debt for this shit
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I'm a Canadian about to travel to the USA by car in a few weeks.
I'm going from Alberta through Idaho, and going to end up in Portland for a week vacation.
Last year I was arrested(bench warrant) because I didn't pay my "driving without insurance" fine, my friends came and paid it and I was in and out in 8 hours.
I have zero criminal record, but I was still technically "arrested".
Will this be a problem when I cross the border?
What do I say when they ask me if I've ever been arrested?
Also, if you...
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>>17132430
If you've been arrested you have a criminal record.
A record doesn't just mean convicted of a crime it means all information pertaining to you in the criminal justice system.
So if you were taken into custody, even without charges, you have to put in an application to Parole Board of Canada to have that information removed.
What to do? Well that's on you. If you say you don't have a criminal record, and you get flagged, you could be arrested again. If you say you do, you could...
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best to give them a call for some solid facts.
