>>17132862
What about trying to confess your feelings (about upgrading fuck buddy to gf) to her instead typing here?

In worst case scenario you will be friendzoned or learn the truth.

You took on the feminine role in your arrangement. She talks to you about getting fucked in the ass, and you tell her you want to cuddle.

>>17132898
I did ask her of course where we're going with this, without giving too much away that I have feelings for her, she said she doesn't want to commit to anything and I'm confident she is not seeing other guys.

I think she is just crazy.

>>17132842
If the situation is as bad as you say then you're at the point where it is fair game to involve the police.

The moment he/she went after your education or career prospects, this kind of behavior shifts right into 'harassment' territory.

Talk to a lawyer or legal official about the potentiality of getting a restraining order on them

he is obsessed with you, do what the user before me wrote

if you are not able to get a restraining order, hire someone to kick hiss ass

Sociopaths have a great difficulty conceptualizing that their actions have consequences. If you do come into contact with one slowly cut off contact and become distant, do not tell them why and do not confront them. If they ask just say you have been busy and didn't want to bother them with your drama. I would suggest never outing them, it can make things escalate quickly.

Just use their nature to your advantage and seem boring as possible, they are in the business of avoiding boredom in anyway possible.

Then don't. There are plenty of other guys out there.

>>17132833
Assuming you are fit girl from bigger city, you just need to create tinder account to start. Also imho 25 is ideal time to jump into serious dating game.

why have you never had a boyfriend?

Sprechst du Deutsch?

>>17132801
>How should I prepare?
Gehen sie ficki ficki?

>>17132817
Ja, ich bewerbe mir bei einem Studium auf Deutsch.

>>17132782
Always follow when successful people. If you expand your job radius to more than just your hometown, then your chances of getting a better paying job you enjoy increase dramatically.

Don't move for a girl you've been with a month.

Try LDR if you really wanna make it work and can see yourself moving in with her in a year or two. If you're close enough to visit weekly, this is viable.

Breaking up is also viable. There won't be seriously hurt feelings because one of you is moving, so you'll leave things amicably. Because she's out of town you'll move on comparatively quickly.

How easy is it to meet people? Realistically, will you find someone as good as her again? Do you want a long term future with...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>17132843
Thinking about it purely as a professional and finacial choice is a new way to look at it for me. Thank you very much for your opinion.

>>17132767
heh if you have the money go on a trip

>>17132767
But an onahole/fleshlight and sharpen those masturbatory skills.

>>17132774
What are fun things to do on trips?

>>17132810
I would have gotten one a long time ago but I still live my parents

Was head over heels infatuated with a girl for a long. She hates me. Finally something snapped and now i just feel discomfort at the thought of her. Except, apparently, for when i'm blind stinking drunk.

>>17132764
>Who are they?
No one anymore.

>What's your situation?
?

> How do you feel about them and what's happening?
She was completely my type appearance wise, know nothing about her personality, i wanted to know her but not anymore.

>How do you think they feel?
Obviously she does not care as she was to stupid to read even a single message i sent her.

She's younger than me, but doesn't look it; she's tall, slim, long fair hair, a real tomboy. She's clumsy and quiet, keeps herself to herself all the time but she's actually really funny, talented and I could listen to her speak forever, she has a hilarious rural accent in my country.

She rejected me before after I kind of fucked up asking her out due to spaghetti. Two weeks ago, she appeoaches me, tells me she "likes me quite a lot" and shit, but she looks nervous and I told her we can just take things one step at a time - get to know each other better and stuff. She's like "Haha, yeah, few skeletons in the closet and all that jazz".

She acts really weird around me from then on, running away from me in public and refusing to spend any time with me 1 on 1, but texting me deep stuff, deeper than I really know how to deal with.

We talk over the weekend a bit, then I see her on the Monday and it's like I grew a third eye or some shit. She acts really strange, i sit next to her during a class, but then she runs straight out, acting irritable and talking to her friend and staying well away from me.

We have lunch that day, but although she's friendly, she doesn't sit with us - doesn't even have lunch with us - she sits on the other side of the room with her headphones on. She stays in her room after that, doesn't text me back until really late, then when I see her the next day she is refusing to even look at me. Her friend tells me she's annoyed I want to take things slow, so I tell her that we can go out, then she legit runs away from me, locks herself in her room, refuses to speak to me, tells me we should "stay friends" and then refuses to even look at me the next day. I go home, sad, pass a letter under her door telling her I understand and we can just be friends. I ask her friend how she is, I get texts from my friend in reply, she's like "I'm sorry it happened this way" - "nothing ever actually happened nothing lost nothing to get over"

Carbs aren't your problem. Reduce the amount of sugar in your diet and run every day for the 2 hours you've got

>>17132761
stop wanting to suprise her. do it for yourself.
7 weeks is not much. depending on your metabolism you'll probably only lose 3kg at max within that time.
just start hitting the gym and get a new haircut

Has she seen pictures of you? There isn't that much you can do in seven weeks. You could get a haircut. Bare minimum get some fucking deodorant.

>>17132698
this doesnt make any sense

you had a break that was years long?

did you fug other people

what world do you live in?

>>17132698
>better myself so I could marry him one day
That's where you fucked up. Everyone says that marriage made them happier, and for a lot of successful marriages, that's true. What people don't realize is that those successful marriages were because the people were much happier than the average person before they married.

Point is, you probably won't have a happy marriage. You need to make sure you're happy on your own first, and if your goal is to better...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>17132876
all of this

awesome thread faggot

if she's an emo you should go for it because she will fall for the guy that talks to her at one point. Emos are lonely people and if you think you are better than him which is probably the case, go talk to her but when he's not here and you will take his place soon.

>>17132695
>He's a complete whitetrash dumb ass
Maybe he's a good person and doesn't judge people for their idiosyncrasies.

Also:
>Where's his pants down
>Where's
Are you sure *he's* the dumbass?

>Should I step in and so something/try to stop this
Why would you do something? What is there to stop?

>am I just worrying about fucking nothing?
I'm not sure what you're worrying about. Two people you don't know are talking to each other?

>>17132665
you're just a regular attention whore.

File: 1355497428161.jpg (3 KB, 124x124) Image search: [Google]

3 KB, 124x124

>believe crazypants offshoot of Hinduism-for-white-people
>"Is something wrong with me?"

>>17132665
>I'm mostly stuck in feelings of separation.
what did you mean by this?

bumping for confusion

>>17132655
Ohh i feel ya. 4 year relationship and some days i just see a cute girl and can only think of having rough sex with her. Like a primal urge to just fuckkk

>>17132738

But you've never acted on it? I just get so frustrated with how easy it is now with Tinder and the like. I could probably bone someone tonight if I put forth the effort. I just don't really know if it's worth it.

File: 10250327_997403576963371_1366839733084037130_n.jpg (12 KB, 225x225) Image search: [Google]

12 KB, 225x225

>>17132640
isn't very appreciative of me. Not in the "Stacy" pretty bitch sense, but in the sense that she's a self centered millenial and can't take it upon herself to comprimise. Her family is running our major relationship decisions and its getting worse. I wanted to attend her Dr. appointment with her today and I wasn't allowed because her mother decided she didn't want me there. She has Lymes disease and I spend a lot of my time trying to keep her eating the right foods for her diets...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

File: 10314750_150212208689087_4584757819741562113_n.jpg (26 KB, 540x359) Image search: [Google]

26 KB, 540x359

>>17132645
The most major one was I had to bury the hatchet on a debacle where they thought my GF got bed bugs (they were rampant in ohio at the time) I am from a notoriously low income area although I only moved there a few yrs ago. The parents immediately assumed I was the culprit and treated me like utter shit. They had this huge panic (her mom is an anxiety ridden co-dependant so ye.txt) and fingers were not so subtly pointed. I tried to ignore her parents but they were so belligerent. They wound my GF into a huge anxious...
Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

File: 1456362777468.jpg (88 KB, 424x514) Image search: [Google]

88 KB, 424x514

>>17132656
I go home and steam on this for a few days. This is just one infuriating instance of dealing with her fucked in the head parents. They aren't evil people but they have really a really fucked up morality about them. They're kind and generous but they're so fickle and snobby. Just think your average middle class church going family.

You did the right thing

>>17132614
39.5 degrees? She's freezing to death

also you did do the right thing. You can actually go to jail for YEARS if don't do anything and she dies.
If she breaks up with you who cares

>>17132623

39.5 celsius

File: image.jpg (180 KB, 1920x1080) Image search: [Google]

180 KB, 1920x1080

>2 months

Give it a decade. Having trust broken is deep wound.

>>17132601
After over a year i still feel pure unadulterated hatred for my ex

I did forgive her once, she took everything for granted and lied about everything until i snapped at her

Find peace for yourself, she deserves none