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How do I accept that men truly are capable of genuine romantic love, and that it's merely I who is unlovable, without turning bitter in the process?
You don't have to accept that. I'm here for you as a potential love interest
>>17134192
Are you female? Just realize that men and woman are basically the same and it's only life experience that separates our thoughts and actions.
>>17134192
you don't accept it because this is 2016. anyone that wasn't born before 1990 is a normie.
Hi ladies and gentlemen of /adv/,
I’m a 25 (almost 26) years old guy from a little town in Italy, and I need to make a quick decision regarding a master’s degree.
During my teen years I was a very naughty boy, fucking with drugs, getting flunked at school and shit like that. Fortunately, I got my shit up together for the last year and manage to get the diploma. Thanks to my first gf who supported me through that shit, I even decided to enrol in university, for the only major I was kinda good at: Modern Languages (English and Japanese) (inb4 weeb).
Not...
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>>17134169
(2/2)
Unfortunately, this shit period completely destroyed me psychologically, I still feel like I’ve lost my way, got very depressed, lost interest in all my hobbies, all my old friends aren’t around anymore etc etc. Hell, it’s been a year since I’ve had sex. I seriously wanted to kill myself for letting me come back to this shit hole… it’s now 8 months. The suicidal thoughts have mostly gone away, and I’m slowly trying to get myself back in shape.
But the sense of constant anxiety is...
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bump before bed
bumpino
I am literally never horny, and can't remember being it ever either. I do enjoy sex, but never orgasm. What is wrong with me and how do I fix it, to enjoy sex to the fullest and be less passive?
are you on anti-depressants?
>>17134141
I also have a low libido, the thing that helped for me was the watching/reading (hentai) of some of my fetishes before or with my significant other, this type of thing combined with roleplaying with them has resulted in very pleasurable sex (not only wet because of the lube, I WANTED it)
>>17134147
No, never been, although I have been depressed. I have been on birth control once, but quit after 2 months.
>>17134159
Porn doesn't do anything for me.
is the whole idea of privacy a western social construct?
pic related, took a few creep pics of this milf on weekend, had to be so fucking careful.
>>17134101
Everything is a construct.
Well, just ideas really- but you get the point I hope. Ps: don't be a fucking weirdo.
>>17134101
This isn't advice related. Take your Christmas cake over to >>>/b/
>Pic related as fuck
It's the same anon from before if you remember. I sent that text I wrote up, a little edited. She responds with pic related.
I think this rules out cheating, she also said she is safe and was not assaulted or raped or anything.
That being said, I need I could use some anons to help decipher this shit
She's breaking up with you.
Note: I didn't see the thread yesterday so I have no extra context.
She is breaking up with you because she is unhappy. No, it has nothing to do with you. No, there is nothing you can do about it. Accept it and move on.
>>17134075
>Dear Simon, for reasons I won't tell you I will not interact with you in any way until I see fit.
Man, you are now on relationship holiday. Enjoy. Maybe write back you expect reply until D days and that you still love her no matter what. It seems to me there is nothing more you can do right now. Maybe find new girlfriend?
Never thought i would come here….but i need advice from my fellow normans and neckbeards.
So my wife and i got married last april…she has demonstrated nothing but utter distrust for me over the last 5 months.
My friends own a vape shop (i know i know, kill ourselves) and It's been my main hang-out and my main source of IRL social interaction and entertainment and became the hub of my social life. The Owners and employees would also come to my house frequently to hang out and work on small projects with me.
A young girl entered our friends circle....
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I Always have to make sure that she is "ok" with me doing these things. If i do otherwise, she treats me like shit and curses me out for not being at home and comes up with all sorts of excuses to demand my presence at home. Even with her "Approval" she still makes excuses and blows small problems out of proportion in order to get me to come home.
I've been asking her for months now to go to couples counseling with me, but she refuses.
Her overall excuse was that i didn't care about her feelings when i gave that girl a ride so it's...
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Stop being her bitch man
You can do whatever you want and she cant boss you around
Marriage too soon. Had trust issues while walking down aisle. Unresolved. Will not improve without major work. Also passive aggressive dis associative tendencies. Did not address problem she had promptly. Only months later
I've been told I need to cut my hair short. What style should I go for?
brush your teeth dickhead
just cut all of it very short, uniformly and let it grow, you'll figure out how long you should keep it this way. Because yeah, it's too long now.
And remember that fancy haircuts are for faggots.
>>17133948
Get it cut in a way that it'll grow out in a length and pattern that you like
>>17133969
Describe fancy
I'm in a two year relationship and for the first time I've met someone I want to be with more than I care about this relationship. Should I break up with my partner now to get things moving or do I hold back in case I'm rushing into something I could regret?
I don't even want relationship with them, but I have to have sex with them. I've felt this way strongly for a wee while now and I just feel I'm ready to sacrifice this relationship for it. Am I being crazy?
>>17133941
if your relationship is shit you leave.
god what is wrong with you people.
My relationship is healthy. Until now, I'd never even considered sleeping with anyone else but with this person I feel I just can't get them out my head, like I just need to get them out my system and move on.
>>17133963
>I've met someone I want to be with more than I care about this relationship
>My relationship is healthy
Would I fuck myself over if I got a CS degree?
Are you interested in CS?
>>17133876
Yes
Money is good but you're going to be fucking miserable, according to my CS friends.
I was gonna do CS too but did Environmental Science instead, now I'm a park ranger in a national park and I just drive around in a jeep with the cool wind in my hair and giving people warnings, $60k a year. Couldn't imagine sitting in a chair for 8 hours straight busting my head.
>be me
>attractive guy (not to sound like a douche, but girls make it obvious with their signals and behavior around me)
>see this 10/10 goddess waiting in line at college shop
>she is giving me all the signals. "accidental" touches, looks at me like a lot, playing with hair, etc. it is fucking obvious she thinks i am a qt and wants me to initiate the conversation.
>i don't do shit
>to...
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>>17133754
You're bored with life and realize that you'll never be long teem good wnough for her, and you won't get anything from the relationship except fleeting ecstasy.
>>17133766
Does this ever go away? I hate it but can't escape this feeling.
>>17133828
maybe, if you find a chick that actually likes you.
try "dating down" you may be attractive physically but emotionally your like a 6. so find a girl who is like a 6 physically but attractive emotionally.
or you live with the self loathing. its what i do.
Me and my soon to be wife have been together for close to four years. I'm aware that many dynamics in a relationship can change, especially romantic ones. We've gone from always kissing, holding hands and generally being demonstrative. We had sex EVERY night. Literally. Nowadays, we never even touch each other, we kiss MAYBE once a day. On a good day. We haven't had sex in over a month. Is she losing interest in me, or is this normal. Experiences and comments welcome. Pic related, I play the drums.
>>17133748
She's fucking the neighbor or someone at work - get out while you still can KEK
>>17133748
Well golly, have you considered talking to hear about it?
> dearest wife, i feel like our relationship is less physically affectionate now. I miss that, how could i help rekindle the spark?
>>17133748
Relationships comes with phases.
The hot love sex phase lasts (according to unreliable sources) around 1 year.
You two getting married can mean she (or you) no longer consider the need to pursue the relationship and consider it 100% for sure -> getting lazy.
It is up to you both if you want to fall into boring stereotype of every day life or you two will do something about it. There are tons of materials on every good web portal, just look into category for women. Do the articles tell the truth?...
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I need to lose much weight in an unreasonable anount of time.
Does bullemia work?
I'm a man
The way your metabolism works, eating at a controlled very regimented diet is always better than trying to eat noting at all.
But I guess you could always Christen Bale it (he a genetic freak and has an absurd and very malleable body type though), but there's no guarantee it will work.
http://www.mensfitness.com/life/entertainment/13-extreme-celebrity-fitness-transformations-0/slide/8
>>17133662
One of the fastest method of losing body weight is to not eat. But this will switch in your body "starvation mode" on and it will be very unpleasant. You will lose muscles first, probably your teeth will go worse with hair and other symptoms will show up as well.
There are even more dangerous ways *cought DNP cought*, but don't even thing about it anon.
Why do you need such a act anon?
DNP ALL THE WAY BROTHER
Couple days ago my mom found my porn.
I whent for a shower and forgot to close my laptop.
I have a large collection of maxhardcore, piss and hardcore gangbangs, inerracial shit and puke porn.
I know she went trough my porn collection.
While in the shower she screamed and knocked on the shower door. As I enterd my room, the door was open and it was cristal clear to me. Some hardcore gangbang scene was playing on the screen.
My mom has not spoken with me ever since. There is a akwerd silence when I enter the living room and every time I ask something she just...
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This thread looks promising.
She'll get over it.
>>17133610
Just tell her your friend was using it and he left. He left it on to make you look like a pervert.
What's the best way to open up your significant other to polygamy?
I've had affairs for a while now but they kinda make me feel like a dirtbag.
I couldn't care less if my significant other had some side action but she's the extremely emotionally clingy type who has her claws wrapped around me.
That being said I would never consider leaving her or telling her of my infidelities, I just don't believe she could handle that and she certainly wouldn't deserve going through that emotional turmoil. She is also perfect wife and grow...
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>>17133440
Either people are open to the idea, or they're not. You can't force them to change their mind.
>>17133512
This. There is no way to "open a person up" to something like this. You're wired for it or you aren't, and most people aren't.
>>17133440
you should break up with your girl friend if you are cheating on her, you feel like a dirtbag because you are acting like one. find a girl who is into polygamy or open relationships, then have all the open sex you want.
I've been with a girl 6 years now. I was planning on proposing to her soon. I had not cheated on her during our relationship. She was always open to me flirting with girls as she thought it was healthy. Last Saturday I got drunk and kissed a girl. 3 second kiss...no one really noticed. I never got her number and was not planning on pursuing her. Since I wanted our relationship to be honest and open I decided to tell her what happened. I told her Monday night and she FLIPPED THE FUCK OUT. It seemed like she was having a nervous breakdown. She started referencing some past...
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Well... technically you cheated. If she takes you back she's never going to trust you to flirt with other girls again.
Let her cool off and give her space while she decides how she feels about your fuck up.
I don't know, I'm pretty suspicious of people who don't mind flirting and stuff. I guess she was only pretending to be a "cool girl".
>>17133383
Was she actually okay with you flirting with other girls? Maybe she only said she was because she was afraid of losing you if she seemed too controlling. Then you kissing another person crossed the line.
