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So I've seen this music videoclip yesterday where there was these ducks at the toy shop and there were two special ducks who liked each other. One day, the one duck got taken away and the other one went on the search for him. He always snuck into plumber's case and he took him to different ducks each time but she still couldn't find pablo and the other ducks weren't like him at all.
He died in the end.
Does anyone know the link to the youtube video?
pls help
anyone?
>>17136694
Thats sad
Are these signal that my Gf's mom wants to fuck me? Ever since I moved in, she has been wearing some really rights shorts that are always stuck between her cheeks, it's obvious that she doesn't wear any panties, and doesn't wear any bra either, usually when I'm around her, her nipples start to poke out, she constantly makes eye contact with me, and bends over in front of me, all the time, not so long ago, my gf went to meet up with her dad at a restaurant and I stayed home alone with her mom, I sat in the garage chilling, and soon her mom comes in the...
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What do you WANT to do?
>>17136745
I want to fuck, she's hot!
>>17136681
Meanwhile in another thread
>I think my daughters bf has the hots for me
>keeps staring at my ass
>rubbing his junk on me
>I swear to god I can't even ask him for help around the house without him sniffing my ass
It's hot where we live so i usually dress light because it's my own home and this doesn't seem to be helping
Hey /adv/ I need help
My girlfriend dumped me last friday after I got jealous of her talking to her ex boyfriend. She dumped me and said it was because she couldn't take me being jealous anymore and therefore I felt guilty all weekend. This confused me as she always got jealous too. And id deal with it. Anyways, she told me not to talk to her until Monday therefore making me feel lonlier and shittier about myself. But hopeful I could fix it. Then come Monday we talked face to face. And I find out she actually left me because for like a week now she felt something...
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>>17136650
Don't fuck crazy pussy
>>17136650
Just the same as you believe that this guy will hurt her after cheating on her previously, you have to realise that you'd be doing the same by taking her back.
Use this time to get over her and don't bother taking her back. You want to be her rebound twice?
Take care of yourself, she's making poor decisions with her life- don't do the same with yours.
Jesus Christ, just get over it. Stop all contact with her, immerse yourself into hobbies and work and you'll stop caring at some point.
Keeping in touch with her and eventually accepting her back will only lead to more pain for you. People can change, but they very rarely do so. VERY rarely.
Also have some dignity.
Hey /adv/
I wanted to know if a councelor could really advise a client to stop communicating with a rape victim. It doesn't seem ethical to me.
I ask because a friend of mine was in a ldr with a guy from SMU Dallas. She lives in Austin about 4 hours away. She was raped and immediately told her boyfriend about what had happened. The guy stopped communication with her immediately even though she offered to give him criminal case number and the contact for the police officer who took the report. This happened during SMU's annual Rape Awareness month
Found...
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>Found out weeks later that the guy had been advised by a counselor
How did you even find that out and how can you be so sure?
op here.
Mutual friend informed victim that the boyfriend had been advised by his counselor at SMU to not communicate with her.
Victim and I called the head of the SMU counseling department to verify. They stated that though they could not discuss the details of the boyfriend's counseling sessions they did verify that they felt it best for their student to not communicate with the victim
Well this can go 2 ways:
1. The counsellor misunderstood that her boyfriend was involved in the rape somehow and has advised him not to speak to her for legal reasons
2. The boyfriend revealed in the counselling sessions that he had nothing nice to say about the whole situation and the counsellor thought it best to tell him to cut contact rather than have him go back and start shit with her - I mean, she was willing to give him her criminal case number? So he doesn't believe her? Not very nice of him, is it?
At any rate, what do you think would...
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I have alot of old hoodies and shorts that dont fit anymore. Is there a good place to dump these or should I trash them?
>>17136598
Lose some weight.
>>17136603
The stuff I have is to short because I had no idea how clothing was supposed to fit at the time. Working on the weight as well
Bumping with more Shabani
I have issues with hand flapping (used to do it as a child all the time, but now as an 18 yo adult I do it only when I'm alone listening to music. Or when I'm alone and excited.)
I also used to bang my head against the wall as an infant. In addition, I used to act like I was a cat (meowing a lot).
Is this a problem? I've never really seeked help from psychiatrists etc. with this because muh parents r like, "lol it'll go away when you get older"
>>17136594
Sounds like you're stimming. Maybe you're mildly autistic?
>>17136858
I apologize for coming off as such. My baby sibling does similar things when he is excited/happy/upset and I personally suspect he may be autistic--actually autistic, not whatever derogatory term it's come to mean on here--although my parents say otherwise.
OP could be autistic or maybe just quirky.
>>17136866
I have adhd and it influences me to do the first action that comes to mind, whatever the fuck it is. I ignore it really well when I'm not in at home, and when I'm around anyone else, but when I'm alone, I just go with it.
It's not the same thing, I'm sure, but I say it to point out that it could be something else.. Maybe?
I also have an autistic little brother as well as two other little brothers who may or may not be as well.
I figure I post this here too in case there's additional advuce.
>Tfw trap bf just broke up with me an hour and a half ago
The same one thst I lost my virginity to and kiss virginity. First relationship. Everything
>>>/r9k/28512327
>>17136553
What is your question?
>>17136567
How do I get over this shit? More importantly how is it even possible to find someone like that again? I got real lucky this time. I just feel like horseshit
Yeah, that really sucks op. It's not too uncommon though. Really, just stick in there and try to distract yourself. things will settle how they need to
I'll go straight to the point:
Do women enjoy having "orbiters" because it increase their sexual pleasure with the guy that actually fucks them?
it makes you feel desireable and wanted, which boosts confidence, which boosts assertivenes and libido, which makes for pretty great sex. so, actually, yes.
>>17136541
fucking whores. elliot rodger did nothing wrong
>>17136543
atta boy
hi /adv/...
i seriously need help here. i try to make it simple.
im 20 years old now and in uni me and my gf are together since last year in high school that's 2 years we planned to go to the same uni together but that didn't work out soo we end up in 2 different unis and we are like 26 hours drive away from each other the thing is i dont know what im doing we rarely see each other and and im devoted to the relationship and she is too i can tell you countless stories how i acted like a pussy and turned girls down but recently like i said i dont know what im doing...
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>>17136536
Hi man. There is no correct answer here but in my opinion you should sacrifice your studies for her.
I'm telling you this because I'm older than you and I know for sure there's nothing more important than women. If you are succesful in your career but don't have sex and love, you are going to regret not going with her when you had the chance.
>>17136536
Why not just break up? Apparently there are plenty of women available to you
>>17136542
ahh that's really rock bottom i dont have any serious job that can take care of her or future surprises
thanks senpai
I had problems with my gf before, even went to a psychologist (that psychologist was a little bit weird), she told me that my gf was a manipulative person.
Lately I've been sick, like really bad diarrhea that doesn't allow me to go out of my house (that's what the medic told me). It's dangerous to go outside without a bathroom near in the condition I am right now.
Problem is, I can't go places with her too. And everytime this happens she starts messaging/saying "Oh, it would be so good if you were here because this is so great"...
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Idk. Maybe it depends on how many times you've stood her up. If she got angry the first few times then something.
Son, first of all, eat some rice and drink water.
And yeah, she is manipulating you. She was guilt tripping you. Break up with her asap.
Sorry for your troubles.
What a bitch she is supose to suport you get rid off her
My grandma died last night at 4:50 am fuck :(
>>17136493
Condolences OP.
hang in there
>>17136493
Sorry to hear man
What a shame.
Idk what to do my gf was beat by her ex repeatedly and she feels scared to open up to me because of that and I honestly just want revenge on him but I don't know how
Pic related
How is pic related?
Are you like 13?
Boy looks young. Perfect age to start HRT.
I'll try to put this into a simple timeline:
>known girl since 2014, loose hookups since
>this year, in january, she meets a guy at the beach
>gets enamored with him
>around february/march we start getting to know each other better
>all while she's still casually seeing the other guy
>things get intense, lots of words exchanged
>eventually we...
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Break it off, save the trouble
Probably not ready/old enough to settle down
Probably has messed around with this dude already
Probably will stay on your mind even if she chooses you
>Probably
You won't break it off though because boys are retards for girls up til they are 25 or 30. My suggestion is to make it clear what you want (assuming you want to be with her) and have her make a choice.
Not worth it. Let it go.
Ironically, when you do let it go, she'll probably be more interested.
Also, she probably also slept with the other guy
Try to stop caring about her, be glad for the sex and cuddlan, as long as it's on the table but start to look for some other girl that actually wants to be serious.
Sometimes I think that being with my ex is the best that happened in my life. She was cute and I loved the energy she had, but she didn't love me. She is the only person I have had sex with. I feel lonely now and crippled and think everyday about her, even tho it has been 6 months since we stopped seeing each other and we only dated two months. I have no friends and I can't enjoy life sometimes because I have too high standards for my grades in uni. I feel like in a prison, and my anxiety and shyness doesn't help either.
Pic unrelated.
How old are you?
I also have new feelings I never felt. I miss her in a companion way but I also have a lot of lust and it is difficult to deal with it.
>>17136459
24
>>17136461
I know this is hard. I feel similar (recently dumped, small social circle, not much distraction). Do you miss this girl, or do you miss the feeling she gave you? This is an important distiction. When I separated the feelings of caring for the wellbeing of this girl from the feelings she gave me I realized I mostly missed what she gave me, and I realized that I could get this feeling from somebody else as well (and I did).
Regarding your lack of friends, has this always been this way?
How do I become more interesting? I'm good at the short term...aka making friends quickly. But, when it comes to the long term, people seem to lose interest and slowly stop talking.
I'm not sure why it happens, and I'm talking about people I'm just friends with. There's not much to do around where I live, and most of my friends live a good +30min away from me...so it's not like I can just call them up and go to a movie.
Idk it's super frustrating because this happens far to often. Where people slowly stop talking to me and I don't know why.
Be a good listener, know when to interject in between their monologues. Find out what they like, consider trying it with them, it'll either end with: you liking it and being able to talk about it with them; or failing and them being grateful you gave it a shot and try something else either they or you like.
In the end friendship is just experiences that break up the mundane, either through conversation or physical activity.
Also, you'll have to remember that even if you try your best to be a good friend, not everyone is gonna become a close and best friend. This could be for a myriad of reasons, but ultimately it happens, don't let it get ya down.
>>17136441
Get the fuck off of 4chan, go out and do something worth talking about.
Not even trolling. People likely get tired of you because all you ever talk about is various forms of media you consume all day.
