Prob some repressed urges anon. My gf has a low lobeto too, pretty normal for most women compared to men. My adv would be to get a pocket pussy to take ur frustration out on- if she reacts bad if she finds it just say u got it as a tool to cobtrol yourself and stay loyal because you love her or whatever and dont want to cheat or pressure her into more sex (which is a natural pussy deturant) visit the jp board and look for the onahole thread.

Its just a dream, honestly.

I had a dream where I thought I was a grasshopper, for some reason.

>>17139737
Gay for grasshoppers

No, somtines it can take upto 3 months. Just keep applying elsewhere if you're anxious and in need of a job.

the interview went really well though and they made themselves out like they really wanted to hire me.

so i should just forget about them? i've also been applying elsewhere, i just want to know where i stand in the process...

>>17139716
Give them at least another week.

And then don't ask about the application. Find a more subtle way to remind them of your existence.

For example, find a newspaper clipping or online item relevant to something you and they talked about in your interview and send it - "I saw this and remembered that you spoke of your interest in the subject when we met two weeks ago."

You're probably not looking for the right women. Also, why do you think they cheated on you?

Stop hanging with a bunch of liberals.
Be moderate.

>>17139638
21 here, never had gf, but I think the reason they are cheating on you because they are horny at that age and don't want something serious, also that age 18-25 are vulnerable

If shes cheating on her bf with you. What makes you think she wouldn't do the exact same with you and the next guy? If she's dating you and in a relationship, who's to say she wont date someone else while in a relationship with you?

Tell her to make a choice, you don't want to be her plan B boyfriend, (unless you are into cuck).

>>17139635

>I know that its not my fault if we have sex or something like that.

Sure it is, it's your choice.

Don't go to her place. Tell her that if she wants a chance with you, she needs to be single. You don't want to talk about this stuff behind her boyfriend's back.

But you really can't trust her, as the other poster said. If she ends up being your girlfriend, it won't be long before she gets "confused" about another guy and...
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>not your fault if you have sex
Well, it will definitely be partially your fault. Don't be a dick, don't date her until she is single.

>>17139525
I don't even understand the first bit.
But maybe invest it in something unless you have something more urgent. Like the need of a car or something.
Don't just piss it all away.

Just piss it all away.

Get out of Sweden and live somewhere else

Invest the rest of the money

>>17139474
It isn't wrong, but it is dangerously illegal. Make sure she is down as fuck, not some nice girl who'll cry to daddy when you don't want to be her bf or a cold bitch who will gladly ruin your life forever because you made her mad once. It's a tightrope you'll be walking, and honestly the more fucked up this girl's past is (in terms of partying, sex, and older boys) the safer you'll be.

>>17139474
>Is this wrong?
No
i'm also 19, have been texting with a 13yo, tomorrow we're supposed to meet for the first time, she lives 2 hours away
also she has BPD so i'll probably die tomorrow

>>17139485
>>17139480
Although I know anything sexual is entirely illegal at this point, that's not something I'm interested in anyway at this point, I can tell she's 'immature'. However, is it illegal to just /be/ in a 'relationship' with someone underage?

Who the fuck on /adv/ is gonna know about apple seed cyanide content? If you want attention this badly just start cutting yourself like a normal angst teen.

>>17139401
This. Google it.

>>17139396
Lol, your stomach will rupture before you eat enough seeds.

>>17139355
You're, what we in the business call, a beta cuck provider.

>>17139355
>You're, what we in the business call, a beta cuck provider.

Pretty wrong with that one; there's a big difference between putting up with shit cause you can't get any better and having patience because you're fucking someone 11 years younger than you.

Why are you not answering is the question

Yes. "Oops, thought I had replied". Or dont even address it.

>>17139332
>Oops, thought I had replied
dont EVER do this, its fucking retarded. dont even mention it.

>>17139291
You probably have some sort of mental issue. I'm not saying that as an insult, but its very likely. Maybe you have some sort of social anxiety, or depression. I'd suggest going to a doctor, finding out whats wrong with you, and if need be, get some medication. Nothing I say will magically heal your mental issues.

>>17139296
This mainly.

I sense some kind of social anxiety aswell. Try being yourself (and by being yourself I mean really being yourself and not catering to others wants and needs), see how it works out.
Just as I told another anon on a different topic: the only way to make sure at least some people like you is to be yourself, you might just encounter someone who has the same insecurities as you with whom you'll be able to share something which you might even enjoy.

Long story short: NO ONE is "mentally...
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>>17139296
>>17139304

What the hell, I 'm not OP but if I lack confidence and have low self esteem I have mental issues?

>>17139304
I very often catered to what others wanted. I don' t mind helping most of times. Should I continue when it doesn't bother me?
I have this girl who needs help for work,and I don't mind helping her at all even of thats for hours.

There is more to her decision than your outbreak. If she was truly frightened/upset over what you did, she wouldn't want to continue being friends following the break-up. She's using that as a convenient excuse to do what she's been considering doing for a while now.

>>17139258
Hi buddy,

I recently went through the (almost) same thing. I have very deep emotional issues when it comes to trust and commitment. I've been dating this girl for about five months and last week I had a terrible psychotic outbreak just like you because I was afraid she would cheat on me with customers from the bar where she was planning on working nightshifts. I ended up telling her that I had no problem with her taking the job as long as she guaranteed to be fine with the fact that if I found out that...
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>>17139279
>I'd savagely murder her and the guy whom she cheated on me with, and then proceed to cut them into pieces in order to make sure their families would never hear from them again.
Jesus christ, dude.

>>17139207
More people speak Chinese, learn the most popular variant.

>>17139207
Chinese is way more useful, but depends of why do you want to learn new language.

If you're a weeb, Japanese is the way to go I suppose, but career wise Chinese. That was my line of reasoning when I was deciding between these two and picked the latter.

>>17139207
"Better" depends on your motivation for wanting to learn a new language to begin with. If it's because for business or to make yourself more valuable, Chinese - though it's hard as shit to learn. Probably one of the hardest languages to get down unless you grew up with it.

No reason to learn Japanese over Chinese unless it's your passion or if there's a practical reason in your life to do so.

>>17139113
Saying goodby to your sponsors might be a good start.

>>17139155
Been clean for a long time. Today was a special kind of horrible, so idgaf.

>>17139113
>Is there a point to trying to start again?
I'd say yes. I know it sounds ridiculous but there is always a chance that things will get better (although sometimes they actually get worse, but that's another story).
>How would I go about it?
Whatever you decide to do you will need money, so looking for a job might be a good idea.

>>17139048
How far did you get into your programming classes before you stopped?

I have crohns and a sevre anxiety disorder I know that feel. It's hard in society now a days to find the right fit for you when standards are so high for min wage jobs. Maybe look into careers you can do remotely.

>>17139048
I personally think that the answer to the question you're asking lies within yourself. Do you actually enjoy programming on a personal level ? Is it any fun to you ? Do you find yourself feeling happy after a session of intense programming ? If you answered yes to any of these questions just do it, man. Do whatever makes you happy on the inside (and stop caring about what OTHERS want YOU to do, that's YOUR decision). You've somehow been handed some sort of "second chance" at like so do me...
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>>17139034
If you're talking about a party where people are drinking they probably aren't going to notice that you've repeated something more than once, if it's interesting just do it. The reason other guys are getting sex is because they are actively looking for sex while you're probably too consumed with your insecurities to bother chatting up a girl or two.

Take a drink, relax, if they don't find what you say interesting they won't remember and you can basically restart the convo anytime.

>>17139034
I'm hearing three things :
1. Social anxiety : always try to remind yourself that other people are human beings too. They do not "know something you don't", they also have their fears, their worries. If you often find yourself impressed by pretty girls, always keep it in the back of your mind that somewhere, somehow there's been (or is, or will be) a guy who's fed up with her shit. She's human, just like you, no need to freak out other than fear of abandonment (which once it's...
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>>17139045
Ill try.