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So I have hard lumps in my neck about the size of the red in the picture on both sides of my neck (but not symmetrical). I'm convinced its lymphoma or something but my doctor said these lumps are normal.
So do people here have lumps in their neck similar to the related pic? Should I go back to a different doctor?
it's probably nothing but getting another opinion from a different doctor or specialist never hurts if you can afford it. Even if you can't financially afford it right now the debt would be worth the peace of mind.
>>17141390
if he said they're normal, did he say what they are? Are you feeling your lymph nodes?
>>17141397
>debt
how much do you think this exam is going to cost him?
>>17141390
Lymph nodes, OP.
As you get older, these can burn out and "die," although it's not a big deal. They just get hard and kinda sit there.
If your doctor is sure they're okay, it's not that big of a deal.
You can always go to another doctor, but you'll probably be told the same thing. Unless there are symptoms to go along with it, stop worrying.
Just got a new match on Tinder, tell me what to say to her.
Tinder Girl: "ohmy god im so boredddd"
Pic slightly related, girl looks like this but with braces.
>>17141324
Just be blunt about your intentions on wanting to fuck, and get it over with.
>>17141324
I don't get it, man. How many matches do you have and why?
>So am I
>tell me a joke
Is there any way to fuck up killing yourself by cutting your arms open? I plan to be drunk, so that's going to make the wounds bleed longer, so I'd be guaranteed to bleed out?
Just blow those brains out, much safer.
>can't get gun
Guarantee you can afford/get a cartridge, or better yet, a shell. Get a box of shells, pvc pipe, make zip gun, eat zip gun.
Less than 20$ and fool proof
40999
Don't cut your lower arms, cut the crook of your elbow where the arteries converge
Cutting the lower arms has only a like 30% succes rate
But if you are considering such an ineffective way of killing yourself, you should think long and hard about not doing it. If you really really wanted to die, you would jump in fronm a bridge or a tall building
>>17141004
I'm in Europe. Scandinavian nanny state, living in a suburb area so no hunting guns. Already got a mental record so I couldn't even get a lisence for one, either.
>Ex girlfriend and friend have been seeing each other for a few weeks now.
>They legitimately like each other so I try to be supportive of it
>Found out they're fucking
>Feelings for her are gone, but still find her insanely attractive and can't contain my jealousy in that regard
>Happens with pretty literally every ex I have
I care about them being happy, so I'm trying to be the bigger person,...
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Entitled to what? I don't get it.
I don't know the back story, but seeing the girl you were with in a relationship get together with a friend isn't something you feel great over, that is normal. I don't know the time frame, but it's a bit scummy of your so called friend to start dating your ex.
>>17140973
I said it was perfectly ok though. He does make her very happy and that's more important to me than this petty jealousy
>>17141001
How long has it been since you guys broke up?
This is why I don't understand situations like this. When breaking up with a partner, you should always have a clean break, having them be around in your life like this only creates trouble, you say that what you are feeling is petty, but it's a justified feeling man.
Your issue is that you pretended to be fine with something that you clearly are not with. This doesn't mean that you should get in the way of them being together, but it should...
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So I went on a date the other night. The girl was on her phone the whole time and I could tell the date was going poorly. I didn't want to see this girl again. So I told her we were going to split the check. She protested and said she didn't bring any money (probably a lie. everyone has a bank card) So when the waitress came around, I left enough money to cover my half and walked out.
What are your guys thoughts on this? It felt pretty damn good to do.
>>17140323
This is bait, but sure, whatever.
>>17140323
10/10
That sounds amazing
>>17140323
it's perfectly acceptable.
>have crush on female friend from college
>she doesn't seem to notice
>have all courses together now, inseparable at college
>we go attend a few classical concerts together, she put a lot of effort on makeup and outfit
>she starts being more touchy feely
>a few weeks ago half-jokingly tell her I'd love to cook for her
>Today she asks "Hey, when...
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>>17140201
invite her over for pasta with red wine id say. its traditionally cheesy romantic without being TOO Cheesy.
movie on the couch if you have one. if not she will understand why bed is the option if she chooses to sdtay. id kiss her and cuddle with her but maybe save sex for the next date.
>>17140226
Unfortunately, I don't have a couch, so my bed is really the only option.
>id kiss her and cuddle with her but maybe save sex for the next date.
She's a virgin, so sex is not gonna happen anyway. I don't want to scare her off by being too forward, but I can assume she's romantically interested, because she's willing to come over to my place?
>>17140262
absolutely yeah. worse case scenario she just says
>oh sorry anon i only see you as a friend
better to find out imo. a little pasta, a little wine, a little movie and some softcore action awaits.
So my now ex-girlfriend is 26, I'm 28. She got pregnant and I begged her to keep it, she said ok and then suddenly at 5 weeks she said something was terribly wrong and that she was getting an abortion. I demanded to see the sonogram but she hadn't had one taken she just knew. So I marched her ass down to PP ( anti abortion clinic here) and they said her baby was fine.
She said she didnt care, I broke up with her and she got it anyways. Our mutual friend who is a nurse watched over her and just called me to say it's done and there was something terribly wrong...
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>>17138851
It's your fault for going to an anti-abortion clinic, faggot, your believes are bad and you should feel bad.
She was probably lying and so was your friend. Never trust the baby killers
>>17138854
Beliefs*
I think you went too far and she probably won't take you back, she now knows how crazy you are.
L,
I thought of you while making breakfast this morning. It ruined the entire rest of my day.
-C
dear life, fuck you and your twist plot of shittieness (spellcheck<-) i will be forced to work hours i dont want to work i will miss my entire summer and i will be stuck inside all day long thanks to this shit. i have no family and no friends and now i will not even get to play online with my crew because they work am shift. i will be completely alone. i give up!
I hope I feel better soon. This surgery knocked me back and I'm in so much pain and need so much help but people don't understand. I know they don't really give a fuck but it would be nice if someone I cared about gave me a hand with it all. It's too much
>>17134036
Lb?
She is showing me all of the signs of liking me; holding my hand a few times like the picture while we are laying down, hugging me while I run my hands through her hair, leaning her head into me, complimenting me constantly, never ending eye contact when we speak and stupid smiles the entire time we speak, and lighting up completely when we are near each other.
But she has a boyfriend, and I know it's not a perfect relationship. I have a feeling that they lack intimacy, as they have been together since they were kids and she is now an 8/10 and he is a 4/10.
Are...
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Even if she was interested, why would you want to be with a girl who'll do this shit with another guy while in a relationship?
Go for it, make a move. Worst case is that she grows a conscience and stays with the other guy out of guilt.
>>17142431
I think you're a cunt. Don't even think about going down that road m8. That's pretty much cheating, all you need to do is guide her to a bed and that will be it.
Don't even consider it, sheay dump her current bf to be with you but she will just cheat and dump you as well.
They're what we call sluts
There's this girl who's still in high school (she's 18) and I just graduated.
She's super cute and she's with an ugly fat boy and it makes me sick. How do I steal her away? We have little to no contact, idk how to get started
Keep morals out of this pls thanx
>implying you are superior to an ugly fat boy
>>17142410
kek, that 'ugly fat boy' is a million times better than you can ever hope to be
You get her by being better than her ugly fat boy. I bet you can't do that.
Alright /adv/,
So here's my dilemma, this girl has been causing me problems(ie making fun of me and photo shopping pictures.) To resolve this issue I've decided on calling her father and telling him about my troubles, to give him incentive to actually have a talk with her I'll let him know about the nudes his princes likes to share. Cause no one wants to raise a bully/slut.
with that I hope to at least confirm his suspicions and give him a persinal reason to yell at her.
>but
here is where you come in
by...
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Yes, it would be social suicide. Also what makes you think her father will care or do anything? Why don't you just grow up?
>>17142360
I'd care if my daughter was a whore.
>>17142378
That's nice, but you're not her father. Grow up.
How do i handle this? He does try to play not too loud, but he gets lost in play. I'm tired of telling him to be silent and to keep it down. It's exhausting for everyone. Do i have to take him and run errands everytime my
husband has to sleep during the day?
Put a loud fan in the bedroom. It'll drown out the noise very well
T. Someone who often works nights and lives right beside an incredibly loud intersection
Well thats what you get for having kids, they are a burden and you dont seem happy about it
To answer your question
Its hard and time consuming to talke kids out until they are old enough to be by themselves
If you got cash soundproofing is great too
>>17142480
Neat idea! Thanks, anon.
Do you think i shoyld also suggest that he wears earplugs? Can you even sleep with them in? I'm going to try and be out of the house as much as possible, but i can't be away ALL the time...
>Finished semester
>Prof said we can hand in assignment after semester/exams
>Waited around a week after exams before I start
>Parents found out
>Got angry and say that I will get zero as I will hand it in so late
>Explain how some of my friends finished their exams a day ago and how the professor is ok with us handing in our assignment after exam
>They are...
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>>17142015
Why are your parents bitching? You are a grown ass man in college. It's not like it's highschool where they have authority.
>>17142015
Check if the fan works.
>>17142068
Exactly! Plus two of my friends are doing it at the same time as me. I started at the same time as them.
My parents tend to think of me as immature for my age (and maybe they are right).
Alright I need some help, I'm drunk and thinking of her. I want so hard to message her and tell her that I don't hate her, but I know that is not good idea. I do plan on eventually telling her that I don't hate her and I know that I was in the wrong for rushing things in our relationship, because we were friends for years before I fucked things up between us. The way I figure we were friends before we got intimate and we can be friends afterwards, I am just unsure of how long I should wait after being told that she didn't feel a connection between us and...
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What I've always done, and desu it doesn't always work but I'm pretty heartless is not message them at all
Then they will really miss you
I did this to 3 exs and I got all 3 to text first
I should also add to the fact that ever since she rejected me that I am in a period of self discovery, and I truly want to know myself before I even consider being in a relationship or even talking to another female again.
>>17141919
Thanks dude, it's been a week and it is killing me that I haven't talked to or heard from her.
Does anyone here feel like they've figured their life out?
What do you do, and how did you come to do it? Did you go to college? How long did it take you? How'd you find a job afterwards if so?
I'm 23 and will graduate college next year, but I've done nothing but work in some designer retail places. I am really scared that I'll never take the next step.
>>17141706
Military here, getting out in a few months. All I want is to enjoy life how I want. Fuck college, fuck climbing the ladder, fuck it all. Why the competition in life? Who cares if you're making more than a hundred grand, is it worth missing those birthdays, get togethers, deaths? Not in my eyes, lad.
OP, you and me may be close of age, but our experience differ. What are you scared of? Are you afraid of others thinking ill of you? Fuck them, live life how you want. I'm 24 and I'd rather work...
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>>17141706
kinda yeah. i have two options in front of me, and i like both equally. i can pursue both. and if i dont go 'legit' in one field i do have the other as my back up thats pretty guaranteed at this point.
dont worry abotu that 'next step'. you're graduating. you'll go somewhere other than where you are at the very least.
>>17141761
>dont worry abotu that 'next step'. you're graduating. you'll go somewhere other than where you are at the very least.
Well, the next step is getting a good job. Problem is that I don't know how to get from point A to B I guess.
>>17141758
I feel you brother. I'm scared of making ends meat. I don't need lavish shit. I want to be able to live cheaply, have a job I enjoy, and save up money...
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