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So, I've bought this used Phone from a stranger, but the same day he sold me the Phone I noticed the audio jack was broken after I told him the problem and asking if I could just give him the phone back he disappeared and blocked me on whatsapp. As far as I know he looked like it was in desperate need of money, so would it make me an asshole if I ask the police helping me to get him to refund me or leaving him this victory would make me a cuck?
>>17147276
Congratulations on buying (probably stolen) shit phone. Telling cops increase chance of them confiscating your device.
>>17147303
So they won't help me even if I show them the proofs that the guy sold me the Phone?
>>17147314
Most likely they will look up it's IMEI and if it is registered as stolen you won't see your device ever again.
> won't help me
With what? You bought phone from stranger. It isn't shop with guaranteed 30 days refund thing. It is stranger lol. This is just bad trade, you wasn't scammed at all. You agreed to it.
Just lost my virginity last night. Problem is, I literally went for like 20+ minutes and wasn't able to cum. After that, a handjob, and her trying to finish me off with a blowjob I still wasn't able to cum.
She told me it's not unusual for the first few times. Is this true? I've never had an issue not being able to cum before...and I feel bad for not being able to.
>>17147171
Probably just performance anxiety
>>17147171
>Is this true?
Yes.
>I feel bad for not being able to.
Not really a helpful state of mind, but understandable. On the positive side she sounds like she's not put out about it and that there's the possibility it will happen again. Try to relax and enjoy being with her.
>>17147171
>She told me it's not unusual for the first few times. Is this true?
Since Internet and easy access to porn was invented, sadly yes.
It was very VERY unusual when I was younger though....
>Be me, with gf for nearly a month (been in longer ones before) but things feel special
>One month passes and then "something happens at work" that sends her over the edge and can't talk to me for one day due to emotional stress which she can not talk about
>Nearly a week passes, no response or anything, I text her once a day and I guess she just ignored it
>Responds back on the 6th day and apologizes and basically says she can't handle a relationship
>I ask her if there's someone else or something and she says she would never do that she's just in a bad place
>I offer to help &/or wait and she says really rudely that she wants me to move on
>I flip and say she's been treating me like shit and no person deserves this and cut contact
I still don't know anything and can't stop thinking about it, and I really want to talk to her soon to find out if she's alright and shit. It's been two days and I had sex with someone on tinder out of sadness and anger but it didn't help at all.
What do I do? What would you do?
I need help.
Oh and she said she can't handle a relationship at all
Damaged people have this something that somehow makes you feel more for them. I know, because I ended up marrying one. I'm too far down the road, and I sort of ended up in a place that's not as bad as the first couple of months were (not to mention I'm commited).
It really is a rough ride, and I suggest you just get out while you can. Basically, this is the tip of the iceberg - If this shit happens after a month, imagine what it'll be after six months or a year. Find a woman who makes your life easy. Passion will die out after some time, issues not so much.
>>17147135
I think it's just that I don't have any closure outside of her not cheating on me and not being physically hurt.
If I knew what the fuck was going on, maybe I could move on easier.
convince me not to text the guy who broke my heart because i need closure
He's probably as shit as Popplio's design
>>17147073
he really was but i still miss him. guess i don't #lovemyself
>>17147077
you'll probably feel worse afterwards
Hello 4chan, im new here, and already have question:
Where do you find new music?
Spotify doesn't work in Russia and i am too lazy to turn on VPN
SoundCloud doesn't have got many tracks
The only ting i found is yandex radio, but it isnt very good.
And service must be free, because i dont have got many money.
Why i added tracer photoshoped by me? I dont fucking know.
I can't even begin to understand your problem. There are thousands upon thousands of websites where you can get music.
>>17146967
I know, but i need alternative to spotify, where i can listen track online before downloading
>>17146952
YouTube related videos
Nobody fucking told me that porn was going to fuck with my ability to get an erection.
I'm 21, what the fuck do I do?
>>17146609
Stop watching porn
Nobody told you to watch porn multiple times a day either.
What kind of replies were you expecting? Obviously just stop watching.
>>17146656
I didn't. I don't. I did like 2-3 times a week.
>have bf
He's a skeleton, dorky, and a gentleman
>finally have sex for first time
>my vagina doesn't feel right afterwards
It feels slightly irritated but nothing alarming. I told him, it felt weird.
>next morning, the irritation is stronger
>next day, holy shit. My vagina does not feel normal.
>go to health department. Ask for help.
>nurses give me std tests
>it's the clap
>cry in front of stranger nurses
>call him, tell him.
>he says he hasn't had sex in 2 years
>break up with him because he might be a slut guy
>3 years later, we start talking again
>he says I gave him the clap but he's ok with that because he still likes me
I haven't talked or texted him since. I'm livid and hurt.
What the fuck do I do with this guy?
Never talk to him again. He fucking gave you the clap and didn't own up to it. What an asshole.
>>17146558
Gonorrhea is one of those infections that can be present without symptoms (I think it's generally more common for women to not have symptoms than men, but it can occur that way for both sexes).
If you are a virgin, it is unlikely that he got it from you.
It is, however, very possible for him to have had an infection for two years after he last had sex without knowing it if he wasn't tested. This is one of the reasons that I always get tested after I break up with someone before I have sex with someone new.
Oh, and forgot to answer this, since it's your actual question here.
>>17146558
>What the fuck do I do with this guy?
He hasn't been in your life for three years? Sounds like you don't need to do anything with him, you can keep him out of your life if that's what you want to do.
Otherwise I would tell him that he can go fuck himself with that bullshit.
Is it possible to learn to like sex if you don't?
>>17146299
how can you not like sex? isnt it the same as saying "i dont feel pain, how do i feel pain". maybe you are not having sex properly.
>>17146305
I just don't get which part is supposed to be the part that I like. I like the attention and affection guys give while trying to groom me for sex but the act itself still feels like eating foam peanuts.
>>17146299
do you masturbate at all? Do you watch porn, fantasize about anything?
How do you get a boyfriend when you're gay? Casual sex is easier than I'd even care for, but it seems like making a guy stick around for a first dare is next to impossible.
How do you get someone to want a relationship with you?
>>17146178
In the straight world there are those of both sexes who go to bars and pick someone up for a one night stand, and there are people who look for more meaningful ongoing romantic relationships.
And here's the point - they are generally not the same people. The casual sexers all hang out in certain places and the serious romancers are all somewhere else.
If as a gay man you do all your cruising among casual sexers, then casual sexers are all that you're going to meet. The trick is to figure out where the other sort of gay guys are. They ARE out there, but someplace else from where you've been looking.
>>17146538
Like where?
I don't have any of this "gaydar" thing, I have literally absolutely no natural instinct on who's gay or not. As a matter of fact I am the worst person at detecting LGBT people that I know. I'm 100% wrong, every time.
I can't just hit on the cute cashier at the grocery store, I'll get my teeth punched in.
>>17146565
Have you tried gay dating sites?
How do I develop assertiveness and strong will? I feel like I'm a pushover, nervous over nothing, and very mentally fragile. What do?
Pic unrelated.
same
>>17145846
Practice saying NO and standing up for yourself, OP! You DO have the right to your opinions, plans, and to be yourself. Self-esteem is a big part of this...develop the ability to challenge your own preconceptions (Is that person REALLY any better than I am? Their opinion more valid? Their needs more important?) and then challenge others' in constructive ways. Even small steps towards not accepting status quo (or worse, abuse) can go a long way! Strive to strike a balance so that you can appropriately deal with others--neither as a doormat nor as a bully. GL!
>>17146857
Thanks anon, it helps. Thing is, I think I don't even have will of my own..
So I really fucked up /adv/. I'm now the asshole who my friend's fiancee cheated with. Apparently they haven't done anything sexual in like a year, and the day it happened she was talking about being suicidal. Since that day she's been talking about how happy she is so I can't really say I regret it exactly. She practically hopped on my dick, and who am I to deny a beautiful woman what she wants. I didn't intend for this shit to happen, but I can't really undo what I did. She keeps wanting to do more with me. So my question is this. How the fuck do I manage this situation without ruining my friend's relationship because I fucked things up? I know that I should put a stop to it, but the girl's unstable as hell and I don't know how that would go.
Duuuuudeee noooo
Well you've both already ruined the relationship so the only thing to do is fess up. If you really care about your friend you wouldn't want him with this woman anyway. Odds are you'll be able to screw the chick with his blessing and guiltlessly afterward. But you probably won't get as much excitement as you are now. The longer you go without telling him the less likely you can keep your friendship. And it always comes out eventually. Better tell him before she does cause when she does your friend will think you're a rapist.
>>17145607
>Apparently they haven't done anything sexual in like a year
>day it happened she was talking about being suicidal
>she looks happy
>she came onto me!
You're a piece of shit. You're going to make up any amount of excuses just so you can do what you're going to do anyways. Why even make a thread about this? To brag?
Fuck off OP.
19 m, kinda fat but have an attractive face. I've been reading a lot of this red pill stuff and they never seem to clarify this. Does it only work for thin/fit men? I'm working on losing the fat currently, but a recent spike in testosterone made me horny and curious if this works for all men. I want to lose my virginity & randomly fuck and move from woman to woman like pic related.
Is it possible? If so, how do i do it?
>>17144713
>Does it only work for thin/fit men?
It doesn't work for anyone. The red pill is poison.
>>17144713
You would have to be autistic to write that much garbage, there's no way it's real, OP.
>>17144831
There is more evidence aside from this photo. It definitely seems like emotionally manipulating women by using sexual strategy works if you do it right.
My cats been
>purring meowing nonstop
>extremely affectionate
>displaying burrowing behaviour (a drawer, I emptied it and filled it with towels for her)
>puked this morning
This had been going on for 3-4 days (minus the vomit)
>>17143727
Oops, I meant nesting behaviour. I thought she was pregnant but wouldn't she have had kitten/s by now?
>>17143727
Bump for my cat.
Well, its humping season for female cats right now so that may be what your experiencing. My cat usually goes apeshitbananas this time a year and she screams and meows all the time and she rubs herself against the furniture
I dont know about the puking though but maybe thats whats going on
Any tips, advice and stories to share? Questions to ask?
>got her number
>see each other next week
>text sometimes
>wondering if should work sex into the conversation
Things like jokes or teasing and such. Thing is I've been told not to do it by some (because we never saw each other face to face) and been told by others to do it.
So I don't know if I should, and what i should say. Any examples? (I work best with examples to set a tone for me).
Any good bios?
24, matches with a 18 year old a few miles away
Pretty young
Just got out of a long reationship
What should I say
I wanna hug and get a blow job and maybe ice cream
You know what to do.
I'll start ,
>i'm so lonely and just want someone to talk to that i pay a cam girl to text me good morning , Have a nice day at work , and good night. Along with weekly skype calls. where she has a store list for what to buy that week.(Food ect) i just want someone to care and i'm okay with this being as good as a relationship i'll
ever get.
>feel lonely in romantic/relationship way
>think to myself that I probably could and should do something to change that
>remember all the failure and rejection, and how nobody would ever want to be with me
>still feel lonely, but also resignation
God damn I have a massive crush on this girl, but I am far too scare to tell her that I like her. We have been hanging out together for a while now, most recently yesterday. I tried to muster up the courage to tell her that I like her, and that I would like for us to have a relationship, but I failed.
What the hell should I do?
>>17139118
just ask her, the answer is always gonna be no if you don't.
