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>Ex and friend really like each other
>No romantic feelings toward her anymore so I tell them I'm cool with it if they start seeing each other
>Feeling fine about it until "things" start happening about them
>Realize even though I just see her as a friend, I see her as an insanely attractive friend
>My shitty feelings are based off petty jealousy due to physical attraction
They make each other really...
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As someone who is dead inside, my advice is to estrange yourself completely or kill yourself.
You're a human, eventually your emotions will get the better of you.
>>17150512
Me and him have been friends for years though. Idk if I can just throw that away.
>>17150420
Maybe you should avoid them for a while.
I (openly) supported Trump. I told my friends about it and have had many debates about it, too. They're "disappointed" in me but respect my decision since it is informed. However, I'm afraid if he does win and ends up being a bad president, they'll blame me since I voted for him and disown me as a friend. Plus, most of my friends are Hispanic and they indeed believe Trump is racist.
Is there any way I can convincingly disavow him while still secretly supporting him? Or extricating myself from this social conundrum I've created?
>>17150359
Two of my good friends are not voting for Trump, I am voting for Trump. They know this and don't hold it against me. Politics should not get in the way of true friendships. I know a few mexicans supporting Trump.
Also, Trump is not racist. Nobody can prove he is. Because he's not.
I am also disappointed in you and I don't respect your decision.
Don't vote for him, then. Hilary will make a mediocre president. Hopefully the next election will have better choices.
Hi /adv/
I have big areolas, is that even attractive?
>>17149837
To some people they are, to some they aren't.
If your whole breast is areola you may have a problem.
yeah. depends on the person .but you cant please everbody.so dont worry about it
>>17149837
not really, but it's not that bad really
at least it's not as bad as captcha making me click through 10 images of rivers and then telling me I mistyped the captcha
I'm a 28 year old male. People my age are either buying a house, getting married or having kids. Is that the ultimate goal in life?
Not at all man. Im 28 phd student with no gf and dont even care. Life is good and i very much enjoy what im doing wirh my life. After a year or so i will probably thru hike the AT and just do whatever the fuck i want. Do whatever you want in life op. Fuck everyone else
>>17149647
Nope, it's the ultimate goal for femmist society, where you can serve an used slut to be her beta provider.
>>17149647
Breeding and multiplying is the sovereign goal of a species
And securing a good enviroment for your offspring is the next goal
So yeah
why woman get so furious when you say you want to have sex with them?
if i want to have sex with a pretty woman im a fucking pervert, and so is everyone else. why did we condition our woman to think that wanting to fuck someone is perverted
Gotta treat them like a friend before you treat them like a lover. Make sure they know you value them as a person instead of just a hot body.
>>17149398
/thread
>>17149398
but why? i mean if sex comes next after breathing eating and shitting i don't see why you have to "befriend" someone to do it
also you straight up dodged my question, which i know is a hard one but i wanna see if there is an actual smart person that can answer this
What would you say to your ex to get back togwther
>you can lie
>i hurted her
>i lied to her
>she's angry at me
or else
>>17149179
Nothing because I'm not a faggot like you and I actually have options.
>>17149179
M******?
![male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/9vDN3sM.jpg "male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg")
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>>17148541
Can girls tell the difference between confident and arrogant?
Almost-bf suddenly started being online on facebook all the time, before didn't really use it. I asked if he was talking to this one girl that I was kind of suspicious before but he said no, he doesn't talk to anyone on there. Now here is where it gets weird; since this started a couple of days ago he started showing on my phone as a new messenger user. Why download the app if he doesn't talk to anyone? I asked and he said "no i don't have that, who needs that shit on their phone" and still he shows up there.
Lying?
Guys,
Why do you ask girls in these threads for advice when there's a clear difference in what girls say they want and what they actually respond to?
If I somehow end up re-entering society and meeting girls again before killing myself, I should absolutely 100% never reveal that i've had these years of neetism, right? I shouldn't acknowledge it to anyone whatsoever, not even myself at this point?
>>17151491
If we are talking about getting one night pussy, no. You want to look like as much pussy magnet as possible. And even then you will fail :-)
If we are talking about getting future wife, lies told at start of dating will only screw you in the long run. The best strategy is to avoid bad questions, but being honest is a big plus in any serious relationship.
>Just don't reveal everything bad about you on first date.
>years of neetism
I'm not sure what that even means.
>>17151553
Thanks for the input
>>17151560
High school education, never had normal job, fuckall social experience and virginal at 23, living in grandparent's house wasting every day
Is faking a pregnancy illegal?
without asking money and stuff
In california
No, unless you use it to get something, ie., money, from Uncle Sam or another person.
If you fake it to get out of work, expect to be fired.
If you fake it to get love, expect to get disliked.
It's a generally poor idea. What were you planning to do?
>>17151454
> faking a pregnancy illegal
If we are talking about telling lies to your surroundings, it isn't illegal, but sure is immoral.
However any psychical and or physical damages you may cause can be sued.
>short answer
no
And now anon, why do you want to do such a thing? Because it sounds like stupid idea.
>>17151497
I'm doing it to hurt a guy who forced me in sex without protection i went through some serious shit and I want him to experience the fear >>17151501
..
right so.. first we need to go a year back in time to where it all started.. (abit of a long story) gonna write the short version first though
i live a place where we are alot of young people living together in a big building we are ten induviduals with one person rooms.
and there is this girl that i live in the same building as that ive been fooling around with but she's got a boyfriend and theres feelings involved, now i honestly dont want to be her boyfriend but i also dont want to be without her or be with other people.. so idk wtf to do
right so here's the longer version, so she moves in and there is instant chemestry, we hit it off and find eachother atractive bla bla.. one day when we're talking she tells me that she's got a boyfriend and at first its a bummer ofc. but i dont think more of it, i just think that w/e then i'll just get a cool aquiantance instead.
So, 3 days ago I met this qt 3.14 at a school event, I straight approached her and asked her number, while telling her she was beautiful; but she felt rather cold and extremely shy, then 2 days ago I asked her number and she finally gave it to me. Now I've been sending her dank memes but she only responded me once. What am I doing wrong ? Am I rushing things ? >pic related, her
Bumping
>>17151233
Shes just not interested dude, move on
don't send memes
Why the fuck all those angry abusive bitches get devoted naive boyfriends who love them to death and i'm stuck alone?
Where do they get those naive dumbfucks who are gonna literally die for them?
Shit, does it actually work like if you're very affectionate and open you can be very bitch???
Those genuinely nice guys don't even have dignity to stop this abuse.
>Gotta have a self-esteem boost from this and realise that a ton of girls are worse girlfriends than me and stop thinking that all I do is hurting people. (Even if...
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>>17151226
It's because they're pretty and you're not.
>>17151239
Lol, good try, anon, i don't have a troubled self-esteem about looks nor bad looks.
The ones who behave like trash are kinda average.
9/10 10/10 girls have style and try to maintain public image.
God, do girls hunt young and unexperienced guys and brainwash them that they are a match made in heaven?
Then they marry and a guy drinks himself to death and the girl takes all his property?
Is it viable to just leave everything behind if you don't have a single cent saved and you are an idiot that know nothing about life?
Consider the following situation: I almost hate every single moment except when I sleep in this fucking house with my so called family, I've been looking for a job for the past 3 years, I have gone to countless interviews, and nothing, its like I'm defective or something, I just don't know anymore... I finished high-school, I tried uni 1 year and failed misserably.. maybe I'll go back I don't know, but I don't...
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this may seem a bit on the romantic side, but why not try to hitchhike cross country for inspiration? Panhandle or get money from the senpai and campout most nights. you seem to not want to do anything else and it's summer so it will be nice weather.
>>17151281
Actually I'm on the other side, winter is coming
>get money from the senpai
what do you mean by this?
where do you live? how much money atm (if any)?
So I was with this guy he raped me without protection but I was too sub to do anything about it and he kinda rejected me I'm scared of STD and pregnancy got panic attacks
here's the revenge plan
i wanna tell him I'm pregnant and i want to keep the baby and then just block him from everywhere
any ideas to add? other scenarios?
>>17151139
tell the police.. that would be real revenge.
>>17151139
bait?
>>17151139
>this guy he raped me without protection
>he kinda rejected me
What? Did you ask him to be your boyfriend afterwards?
>any ideas to add? other scenarios?
How about call the police?
Let's say I'm tired of being a "nu-male" like 4chan describes. What do I do?
>inb4 go to the gym
Well I tried doing that while I was a web developer but those two worlds just don't mesh. If you are trying to become an alpha male, that is inherently at odds with the working culture (and what's expected of you) as a developer.
What jobs do 4channers do? Since you guys are obviously all so macho male, tell me, what do you do? Salesmen? Estate agents? Professional bodybuilders?
>>17151126
I don't frequent 4chan very often, and when I do it is mainly in here.
A sales job is actually a good way to build character and train your communication skills. I worked for a call center when I was a teenager, and although the job sucked by then, I wouldn't trade it for anything to this day.
- Macho is subjective. People that believes that getting a girlfriend and hitting the gym, will solve their problems are usually wrong. Which is why they come crawling back to this board some time...
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>>17151134
Fair enough.
I think the problem is I'm horrendously fucking insecure - I've had my confidence blown apart by 4chan, by all the talk of being a "c.u.c.k.", how feminist and liberals are destroying the world and traditional masculine values, etc.
I used to be happy with myself and the idea of being a web developer (before I actually became one, that is). 4chan and my insecurities then made me hesitant about taking that developer job, and then I eventually quit, I guess out of my own...
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>>17151175
Alpha males in the military get cucked all the time. Being alpha doesn't protect you from infidelity
