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/adv/, i need advice
im currently into this fetish called financial domination (findom) but im looking to quit it
its taking far too much of a toll on me mentally and as much as i love doing it its becoming far too blown out of proportion. i am currently with this chick IRL and its nice and all but its too much at this point
has anyone here ever been into it but quit? how did you do it? if its too difficult to quit how do i at least keep it to a minimum?
>>17154988
>how do i quit
by not setting up back ups like
>how do i keep it to a minimum
if you cant quit than you cant control it. so quit.
>but how
take any reference you have to it in your history, book marks, etc. and delete it. look for an extension that will let you block certain search terms. put anything related to findom on it.
kick the girl out.
>>17154999
i have already blocked it on my browser and such but when i am feeling horny i just find a way around it you know? its when im turned on its a problem!
i know it may not sound sane but you know how you sometimes think with the dick? its like that
>>17155009
idk if oyu pay women on line, but if you do, delete all your accoutns at these places, get rid of your paypal / easy payment methods etc.
as for the blocks, set it up with a password, and either type something random or ask a friend to type it in for you.
find a friend who you can share this problem with and let him know whenever you get the urge.
kick her out.
Hi, I'm going to be applying for some internships but the problem is I have zero work experience at all, except outside of one small job.
What should I be putting on my resume?
>>17154967
say you would do ANYTHING to get it
Put your education and that one small job on your resume.
>>17154967
say you are applying for starbucks, or dunkin donuts, and they say 'we are looking for someone with 1 year barista experience.
go to the 'volunteer' part of your resume, and write in that you worked as a barista for 2 years worth of charity dinners for the local fire house while in highschool.
if they do call you in for an interview, go online and google 'barista training video' and you'll find lots of resources to see how the machines work. memorize the name of two...
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I want to keep wearing converse to work. What can I say to my boss to let me carry on wearing them? If i need a doctors note what do i say to the doc? I work in IT, I drive alot. Please help
Learn to play by the rules. There's no real reason why you can because they're uncomfortable as fuck.
Why do you want to wear them?
>>17154928
-Comfortable to me
-Best shoes to drive in imho
-Cool factor 9000
t-he people that make the rules are corrupt, we bend over enough as it is
I should add that they do dress smart but have no insides, I don't wanna be like that
Is there any reason for why I should not register to vote? I'm 23, not registered to vote, all my Facebook friends and IRL friends are suddenly passionate political activists pushing their agenda when asked, and I'm over here extremely apathetic about politics. I never had any interest in registering to vote, because nothing about it really appeals to me. I honestly have yet to notice any major difference in my life between all the presidents I've lived through. My daily life is more affected by if I do well in college, or if I get to work on time, than who's...
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>>17154866
No one will care and it doesn't matter if you specifically don't vote, so don't and don't bring it up in conversation.
>>17154878
I actually never do bring it up. If someone specifically asked me if I was registered to vote or not, I wouldn't lie, I'd say I wasn't. But other than that, I never say it. I don't preach how I'm not, or advertise how I'm not. I always avoid talks about politics, never actively, just naturally due to apathy. So it never really comes up unless I'm directly asked, which has happened, of course.
>>17154866
Just don't vote. You're not obligated to vote. It's not really big deal at all, and it's no one's business. Those men and women also fought and die for your right not to vote too you know.
Also if you're so concern about other aggressive idiots bothering you because you don't vote, don't bring it up. Also don't be around them too if you want to go that far.
Is there any sport where it's a plus to be short? Is there literally any upside or silver lining to being a manlet?
Jockey. The shorter and skinnier the better
>>17154699
Depending on your position, American football. Most good running backs are under 6 feet tall.
They are also beasts that can bench a lot more than they weight though.
>>17154699
Gymnastics.
What makes women cheat?
They can't help themselves because they're a woman?
They lack respect for their partners?
>>17154445
BBD
Bigger Better Deal
Women lack a moral compass
Same thing that makes men cheat.
Would any of you guys date a cam girl? If no, why not?
I'm a cam girl and I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of nice guys because of it.
if you wanted a nice guy you should have chosen a different profession.
It's frowned upon
>>17154436
Post link to your cam.
Hello /adv/,
I have a girlfriend significantly older than myself (I am 24 and she is 28). I know she is very happy with me and I am very happy with her. She trusts me and I trust her. However, knowing her story and considering that she is quite a bit older than me I know she has had many boyfriends in the past. I am younger and fairly quiet so I have seen my fair share of ladies but never had a serious relationship. Now that I know her story it is very difficult for me to get past the fact that she has been with many other man before me. I know and I am convinced that...
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>>17154391
Refocus, OP! She's with YOU now, and that's a choice she has made. She must see something in you then, right?! Maybe you should ask her just what that is and listen...take stock in yourself and what positive things you bring to the relationship and remember what she brings as well. Don't even dwell on the rest--everyone has dated someone else at some point unless they're completely shut in, after all, right?! FYI: 4 years difference once you're both adults is not all that big...
Hope...
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>>17154391
>significantly older
>4 years difference
4 years doesn't mean shit. The only issue is that you're still learning to be an adult while she's a full-fledged adult. The age difference will become insignificant if you spend some more time together.
>>17154391
>significantly older
You don't even know what that phrase means and you don't sound 24 at all.
I’ve been seeing this girl for about 2 months now and she’s fantastic. However, she wants an open relationship and for some reason I can’t accept this. I want to be able to, and I’ve told her this, but mentally I’m not okay with it. She uses the Osho quote to explain how it should be, which I’ll paraphrase, “If you a love a flower, don’t pick it but be with it. Because if you pick it, it will die”. I would love to get behind this idea and be okay with it, but I honestly can’t. There’s a part of me that wants her exclusively, yet I wouldn’t mind after...
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>>17154313
There was a thread yesterday where the OPS (male) gf roughly 6 years was going away for the summer. She suggested making the relationship open. He broke up with her on the spot.
That's a 6 year relationship, where he loved his gf, where everything was fine. It was the correct decision to make. Afterwards, she kept trying to call and text him. But he ignored her.
That's what you have to do. Unless you're into open relationships, which you're not. Any time a girl suggests this, it's...
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>>17154313
There is no such thing as a legit open relationship. She's either using you for your dick or your money. Or she has found a better guy and you are being slowly replaced.
End it.
>>17154357
Would there be another reason why she would want an open relationship beyond cheating or wanting to fuck someone else? I would love to hear a counter argument from someone in an open relationship or has experienced one. Is there a way to just explain to her why I wouldn't want her to whore around? She really doesn't seem like the person to do it and her track record doesn't really make her out to be a cheater. Then again, I could be totally wrong and she could have been lying the whole time. I'll...
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Quit begging for attention you supreme faggot
>>17154230
Most everyone's a waste of oxygen, m8, why not live and see if you feel different some day or do something you enjoy doing?
Unless you believe in reincarnation you will never have the chance at life again. Life is short, I don't understand the logic in leaving early.
>>17154230
if you base humanity and your worthiness to live on whether or not you 'waste' oxygen, think about what it would mean to not be a waste of oxygen, and put that into effect.
habitat for humanity is always looking. or you can go feed some people in africa.
worst case scenario, you die helping people.
Even if I eat healthy, exercise, take Prozac and go to therapy I'm still so tired all the time
how do I acquire more energy?
Not being a whiny faggot might be a good start.
You might have a thyroid issue, see an endocrinologist to confirm, if you can.
>>17154178
Cut back on simple sugars, make sure that you're sleeping at a sensible hour and well, plus make sure to get some sun, OP! You'd be surprised how this might affect your mood and energy! I hope this helps! GL!
