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anybody here on antidepressants?
what are you on, and would you recommend it?
>>17149119
When I was a teen I occasionally used marijuana, it helped desu.
>>17149125
i don't think i can get a hold of any right now, unfortunately. i'm canadian so i'm holding out for the legal weed we were promised.
weed would be worth a shot though. cause i know antidepressants are kind of a long term commitment. you have to take them for like a month before you feel anything, and then you pretty much can't stop, and you're stuck with whatever the side effects are for the rest of your life.
My friend has recommended St John's Wort as one of those alternative medicines. Has anyone tried it? Does it work?
Should short guys even bother putting their height on online dating profiles? It just seems like a lose-lose situation.
Not doing it would be the male equivalent of fat girl angles
Yes
But make sure you are awesome and confident
Don't make it a big deal just a fact of life like : I have green eyes. I have black hair. I am short. K!
Why short people should be on online dating sites?
It's like a cow going to a butcher on her own.
I'm doing some research, and I was wondering what you would define as "the career most needed for the positive advancement of the human race." I'm also interested in hearing your criteria of why you chose that specific career.
Drug dealing
Just do your best. Evolution is a very slow, natural process. If you want to advance the human race, try to be inspired and to inspire others. Live your life with passion. If you can succeed in passing on your genetic code, you will have "advanced" the human race. If you fail, your seed wasn't good enough and nothing of value will have been lost. This also serves to advance the human race. If you can manage to contribute in some way to the betterment of mankind before you die, then please do so. However, most humans create far more waste and strain on the planet...
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>>17149072
Farming.
Without them no one else can do shit cuz we'll starve.
I dated this guy. Don't know why, I thought he was cute and funny at first but as I found out stuff about him I was just repelled.
First of all he is fucking fat. I go to the gym every day and he was like ah I'm so happy you have such a fit body the. He spends 4K on food. Who does that????? He doesn't look fat in clothes but when I touched him it felt like a cloud of fat instead of muscle or bones. Disgusting! I want to tell him that he's fucking fat but it would be mean because food is his only happiness in life.
Also the way he acts. I thought...
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>>17149008
also he plays The drums and he is very very very bad at it!!!! But he keeps saying music is all my life and starts telling me about how when you press this it makes this sound and when you hit this is makes that sound. He talks about it for 3 hours poke every day. I'm like why do I care!!!!!!! Do I tell you about 1.25 pound plates ??? No because it's only interesting to the person who does the thing!!!!!!! I play piano for 12 fucking years (he just for 1 year) do I talk about it ???? Noooii
And no...
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>>17149008
Sounds like you two are a match made in heaven. Man, I astound myself, that line has so many layers to it.
Y'all crazy
WHAT DOES THIS MEAN. I LAID OUT ALL MY CARDS. SHE ISN'T RESPONDING. AM I FUCKED. MY ONLY CRIME IS NOT WANTING TO BE LONELY.
It means she's not over her ex and doesn't want to date you? Can you not read or something?
>>17149004
Solutions would help. And could you just turn that sass down to a 4 for me?
>>17149000
Just breathe. Your anxiety can only make things worse. Maybe she will want you, but it sounds like she probably won't, so don't hold your breath. Remove desire and guilt from your mind. Breathe. You are not alone.
So I got asked out today, basically. A new girl started at my regular bar, where I haven't been for a long time. I quickly got in with her because her coworkers all enjoy hanging out with me, and they hadn't seen me, so we were all shooting the shit.
I've only been there about three times while she was bartending, and tonight after I closed out, she asked if I'd be open to getting a drink with her sometime, since she hasn't met any other "guys like me since moving to town." She's cute, but is more thick than my normal type.
There's...
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>>17148922
If you have strict physical standards for dating, and someone doesn't meet them, then obviously you should not date that person.
that poor dog
how does a dog even get that fat?
How can I obtain a rich girlfriend?
I'm now investing thousands of dollars to fix my appearance and I'm now going to the gym.
I am estimating it'll take 3 years for me to reach hodgetwins level.
Anyone have any advice to help me reach my goal?
I think I'll become 9/10 male after a few years.
I have good facial structure, blessed genetics and I'm working on a lot of my flaws.
>>17148783
lol, please be a troll
>>17148785
Please don't come here to troll. Looking for serious replies.
I don't judge people for being prostitutes, or wanting to only date people who they find to be "attractive"
I'm allowed to target rich women, if people are allowed to target attractive people.
Find a girl, and show her a picture of your penis. Girls like that.
How do I get over the fact that my gf was the first person I had sex with, but I was not hers?
>>17148703
You realize only cucks spend unreasonable amounts of time thinking about the guys their girlfriend has fucked before them, right?
>>17148703
>How do I get over the fact that my gf was the first person I had sex with, but I was not hers?
She's not with those other guys, she's with you.
If you want an untouched virgin who waits in an ivory tower for you to come bless her with the gift of your dick move to an amish village or bum-fuck middle east.
If relocating to either of those areas is a problem for you then you're just going to have to suck it up. Let me give you a little heads up,...
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>>17148747
I'm making a huge effort to not be a whiny bitch, but this advice did really help.
So, the last 3 days has been crushing to me, the girl I've been with for 6 years told me she didn't want me anymore.
Sucks right? Well on top of that she stayed the night at the dudes house I was told not to worry about.
I'm only 23, so she was my highschool sweetheart, so this blows. She was everything to me, and now, unexpectedly it's all gone.
The amount of thoughts that have been thru my head, suicide, suck it up and move on, and many other things. But he thing with that is, I like to keep to myself, like I'm sure is the same...
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Shit sux, you'll move on, almost everyone goes through this man. Sorry,
>>17148685
Look man if she can do that to a guy then you dont want that in your life
Hurts like hell doesn't it? Dont worry it will go away
You deserve a better girl
God speed anon
Destroy her dont blame the guy this is your womans fault for being a whore make sure she knows what kind of a woman she is
>decide to finally learn how to become good with women
>go to downtown club
>get rejected 6 times
>quit and leave
>try again next day, this time for the entire night
>rejected and flat out dismissed throughout the entire night
>get used to buy drinks for people
>try again the next night, another club
>same...
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It's just gonna get harder by the minute unless you become a high status man, you can thank the current downfall of the west for it.
>>17148587
Don't just try, fail and repeat, that's not going to get you anywhere. Analyze how you act and what mistakes you're making. If you're getting rejected everything you're obviously doing something wrong.
That being said, clubs are a very superficial environment and is not at all the best way to meet women unless you're really charming and/or attractive. Try some other arenas and you might have better luck.
>>17148594
so should i keep going at it?
> become a high status man
thats what im trying to do
I have a question for the cigarette smokers. I've been an occasional smoker for a little over a year now, I'll at times smoke a pack a week and at my peak a little more than that, but I've come to the conclusion that the high you get from nicotine just isn't good or strong enough to make it worth either the money or the health hazards. I'm a big drinker (some would say an alcoholic) so I understand the need for a high to cope with things, but I really don't see how cigarettes satisfy that need. So why do you do it? Is it just the addiction?
>>17148577
I do them very occasionally like make twice a week sometimes. Peaking being about 3 times a day, low being not at all for weeks.
The low cost and heavy nicotine buzz is what keeps me coming back. They also motivate me
Plus smoking after sex/in the shower is great
Got a friend who got hooked on after 23 years of not smoking
Says its addictive and that's it really
Other reasoning mostly covers adiction up
>>17148577
I was a heavy heavy smoker for 10++ years (ten years plus some relapses). It started with some pleasure (not the nicotine high in particular, because that's gone within a few weeks of regular daily smoking), some camaraderie, some breaks in my day.
Was all about the addiction for the next decade.
Most of the positive sensations serious smokers past the nicotine-rush stage say they associate with smoking (relaxation, feeling of satisfaction, etc) are just describing relief from nicotine withdrawal...
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>>17148543
Try not having standards up your ass
But you more or less want a fuck slave?
Why not just go on tinder and fuck when you want without having anybody in yiur personal space and shit?
>>17148543
If you were hot yourself you could just pick.... but then again you're in 4chan.
Pic with timestamp pls?
>>17148550
I'm socially awkward and scared of people. Especially men for some reason.
He should make ME the fuck slave...
Also he loves me and we can play elf games together
What's the fastest, least painful way to commit suicide if you can't afford a gun?
>>17148532
Getting drunk and then jumping off a building or bridge.
>>17148532
The least painful isn't the fastest. At least not without a gun or heavy machinery/helpers.
But some word of advice from someone who's been there:
What's the rush?
Sooner or later you're gonna die anyway. Might as well make the most of it and try. Any good moment is worth it.
Also you know yourself that you can't trust your head.
>>17148532
You're body is designed to survive. As quickly as pain travels to the brain, do you really think there is any painless way to commit suicide?
What's the best way to get put into a mental ward without hurting yourself or anyone else?
>>17148406
... you can voluntarily admit yourself to them.
>>17148433
Will they take me? Will they actually keep me there? Does it count as a medical emergency, can I get time off work without being fired for it?
>>17148444
If you're actually messed up then yes.
Is "talented/smart but lazy" a real thing, or something people say as a platitude?
My professor say it. My friends say it. My parents say it. "You've got so much promise. You're incredibly talented you just need discipline and focus."
I'm not trying to be a special snowflake or anything but yeah
Platitude.
>>17148379
Its a nice way of saying youre fucking up but think you can do better. Is it true? Not really. I cant tell you the number of people who are "im secretely a genius im just lazy and about to fail college"
>>17148379
well I mean you used the word platitude so you're either smart, an autist, or both.
