Stop huffing the tumblr

You should see yourself as a bad, dominant girl who can do what she wants with her body. I would recommend listening to the song "Everybody Loves Me" - by OneRepublic.

If you have watched Skins (great british comedy drama) you could take example from the character Effy within it, as she is a strong sexual character.

>>17147758
I want my body to be held and cuddled and never have to touch penis. But you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want a boyfriend you're going to have to fuck.

>>17147724
This is easy, you say:

I can't help you in this matter because conflict of interest.
This is legal, elegant and true way how to not tell her anything and still give out a "reason" why don't you answer.

>>17147749
How is that elegant?
I'd like to avoid indirectly telling her that I am in love with her. She's smart enough to figure it out.
If you're saying because of her fiancée: My loyalties lie with her and she knows that.

Apart from that I really do want to help her. I just don't want to sway her the wrong way out of ego or because I ignore the right answer, which just happens to align with my self-interest.

Perhaps I really should just say fuck it and be as honest as possible...

>>17147811
You are biased.
How can you think you can think straight when the person you are making decisions about is your "secret love"?

And even if she figure out, that isn't anything bad at all.

Trying to be as honest as possible will lead you to taking care of kid which isn't yours.

>conflict of interest
is your best bet.

>>17147660

Are you black?

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She's afraid of losing you.

>>17147671
im 26 ffs, shes going to lose me regardless

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Tragic

Are you still dating the little sister?

You don't need her permission to end the affair, just cut communication when you ship out. If she brings up leaving her husband for you again reject it out of hand and drop a "I thought you were smart enough to know what this was" on her.

Yes, the age gap, that's the issue.

>>17147591
baka anon

>>17147598
But it's not that big of a gap...only 6 years

>>17147585
Obviously college. Even when you fail, you will still have some fun experiences and possibly friends.

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Anon you might as well go to college, you don't seem very late in registering and you could get a job after a couple of years to at least a
have some money. If that, you'll be fine.

>>17147585
>ve been a NEET for two years after high school but I can't live like this forever
Says who?

You are lucky to have your phone/laptop nearby.

>>17147536
call an emergency line..

>>17147536
Call 911, or whatever the emergency services phone number is where you live.

>>17147532
Just embrace the change. Don't be scared that things are going to change, a monotonous life is not what you want. I used to be scared of change to until I learned to embrace chaos and uncertainty

>>17147532
Also how do you power up?

hey man I'm with you. I've been on and off trying to power up for a few years now but eventually cracking under the fear of my own raw potential.

I think it is important we find and surround ourselves with people that want us to power up, not people that "don't care you're awesome how you are"

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>>17147524
She sounds trashy. So unless you're trashy too it doesn't matter.

>>17147530
I may be trashy, but she actually isn't. I know her very well... we basically met at 12, and now we're 25. I took her virginity and this guy is the second one she's ever had (100% sure that's true), while I have a little bit more of experience.

I think she may actually love me, while I'm a pretty broken fucked up piece of shit.

>>17147542
She has a bf and is talking to her ex about hanging out with the ex(you), that's trashy.

Sounds like your better of without...he had his chance
Did any of the emails admit his faults or show remorse?
If so could this be a trick?
Ive been without my dad for about 4 years and although i know he misses me...i know my life is simpler without him in it...its hard to not feel sad or guilty but its risk over reward...

>>17147472
All cliches aside, your father loves you and probably didn't know better. Get him back into your life. How is he going to harras a grown self-sufficient man anyway like you're fearing. If you cut him of you're going to regret it big fucking time, maybe not this year, maybe not until long after he's dead, but you will.

>>17147517
He just sends short "happy birthday", "merry christmas" emails a few times a year. In the beginning he sent emails saying how sad he was that I wouldn't contact him, but there was never any sign he feels bad about his own behavior. He was honestly surprised I was upset about how I was treated. He thinks he's the world's greatest dad.

He didn't send an email on my birthday this year. Every year I get it and get so angry at him when I read it. I should have been happy,...
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>>17147465
> I'm agnostic
You can be at peace anon, there is no god on 4chan, only sometimes minor evil.

>occasional joint and LSD
hmmm
>$600 in cocaine
hmmmmm
See pic related and maybe read
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cocaine_dependence

You seems like just another user who might end up as homeless. Now you must make a resolve: Do you want to become homeless anon?

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>>17147486
I've been talking to my family about my addiction, and my mom has been really supportive. She paid me to flush the last of my coke down the toilet, and deleted my dealer(s) from my phone. I refuse to go to treatment for it because I know I can get through it, but I just want advice on how to cope with withdrawals. Specifically, the last time I used was about 4 hours ago, and I'm getting really shakey. I can't get it off my mind. As for reading, I don't really know of any good books, and with a...
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>>17147465
speaking from someone who actually HAS adult ADHD/ADD
go seek some help for yourself for addiction to the coke.
you need a job. because you need the routine most people adhd are lazy fucks
i survived adhd the old fashioned way without drugs at all thats another avenue for you go cold turkey or you will be chasing the first hit you will never get again.

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>>17147413
Hi there Mr. Crocker.

>>17147413
yeah man just download grindr or stop at your local "bar"

Dude of course fairies don't exist, just ask the superhumans at the secret Guardian organization, they know everything.

>>17147393
Paleo? Why?

>>17147397
Because I tried it and feel better than I ever have in my life? Basically.

I'm not strict paleo but if I'm asking for advise you guys need a starting point.

>>17147402
Ok. try an avocado with an ear of corn, spinach, and broccoli with watermelon for desert.

Did this happened at your house?

>>17147389
At her place

>>17147385
Get morning after pill, crush it up in some water and OJ, and drug the cunt.

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We all have demons.

Just be yourself :^)

>>17147338
Haha, sounds like he'd end up in jail.