>>17143522

stop thinking about relationships the way you do, cuz at the moment you treat them like a hard to find appliance. you shouldnt be aiming for a gf. you should be aiming to find someone you have a good connection with. and in this day, specifically with your context, saying 'gf' doesn't imply that anymore.

advice

>dont just hit on a woman

its no secret that women are the ones who are approached, and they make decisions on which men to keep in their...
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>>17143548

>only ever use dating apps as a supplement to your real life dating.

dating apps are toxic. consider the following
>people use dating apps because they arent having much luck in real life
>they go to a dating app where they are introduced to an entire smorgasbord of men who want nothing more than to bang and/or date them
>after just one day they will have seen everyone in their area
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>>17143552
>but anon, how do i use it as a supplement to an existing dating life if i dont have a dating life.

effort. lots and lots of effort. and also, doing what you like. going out is in no way restricted to bars and clubs, though if that is what you enjoy, by all means, go to bars and clubs.

the truest way to find chemistry is to experience your life in the most enjoyable way, and see how you match with the people who come into it. interacting with someone in a casual way shows...
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GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN
DONT STICK IT IN CRAZY, LAD

>>17143527
Been with her for 3 years, that's not really an easy option

>>17143532

>ive been with her for 3 years so even if i wanted to break up wtih her its nearly impossible

except no its not. its so fucking dumb when people say this shit. unless you are married or have a kid its not 'not really an easy option'

>>17143489
I would never trust that person as other men or other women are complete users who are selfish narcasists who believe they are so different that it won't happen to them. They will not be a faithful partner, I know they will show you their best behavior but these are the types that believe when times are tough, it's time to seek outside the relationship.

I almost fucked a married women before. They have an open marriage (which doesn't make it okay either) and I still felt like I would be ruining the idea of what a marriage was suppose to be. Plus the whole karma thing, if I did it it would seem like something that would bite me in the ass later in life; ie if I got married it could happen to me.

So I think for a person to willingly sleep with a married person shows they have no morals or standards. Which speaks a lot about the kind of person they are. There could be an exception like if they had absolutely no idea...
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>>17143489

it depends on the circumstances i think. ive fucked married men before (faggot here). its not my job to fix their relationsihp or anything, if hes going to get sex and i find him hot it might as well be with me, yeh?

in termso f me getting married, im very open relationship oriented so its inconsequential.

>>17143486

Tell him you retard.

>>17143492
This

>>17143492
but then i might seem clingy and i know he doesn't like clingy people

The feeling doesn't go away.
But overtime with meeting more people and distracting yourself you will miss her less.

Probably.
Hang in there, bud.

Oh man, you'll miss her. You'll miss the shit out of her whenever you'll go. It'll hurt, and it'll take some time. But it will all be fine in time.

Trust me, the sooner you stop thinking about her the better. Embrace the fact that she's not coming back. Detach yourself from whatever physical links you have to her, pictures, gifts...it will all just make the process longer and more painful, trust me. I know it's hard to do, but you should do it.

I was there. I thought it would never be ok again. Here I am now, better than before....
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It's been three months for me, some days I wake up with a horrible, heavy feeling in my chest and I just can't make it out of bed.
Some days I feel alright but she's always on my mind, like every third thought that crosses my mind is about her. I can't help it.
She's driving me crazy. A part of me wish that I had never met her, another part is beyond grateful.
I know there's plenty of fish in the sea, I know that she wasn't perfect. I've tried to be reasonable, I've tried to look at all her flaws, but it just doesn't...
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why the fuck are you asking me, am I your boyfriend?

I'm not a fucking mind reader, so I can't know what he considers to be feminine. So get the fuck off my board and ask HIM.

>>17143333
Your boyfriend is complaining to you that you're not feminine enough?
sounds like a control freak.

Suggest he find a MtF to fuck? those are usually more feminine.

>>17143333

He probably wishes you had a nice feminine cock like all the traps on /b/.

>>17143332
Good night that conversation looks like boring and dull collided.

>How would you like to watch some Netflix with me inside you?

>>17143332
Ask her what show she watches. Lie to her and tell her you watch the same show. Tell her you both should meet at your place and watch the show together.

>>17143332
>Have you watched -insert movie she probably hasn't watched, something like Tremors, Akira, etc.-
If she replies she hasn't, say
>wanna watch it with me, then?

wait, why did you feel the need to break up with her?

why couldn't you just keep it a secret like the rest of us

>>17143328

I feel like a fucking scumbag for cheating on her and I just couldn't be around her without feeling like a complete cunt.

She's a fucking great girl and I just couldn't believe that I'd do that to her.

>>17143336
obviously she's not that great if you felt the need to fuck someone else. Maybe if she actually fulfilled your sexual needs you wouldn't have been compelled to use mind altering drugs to get yourself in a position where you could get them met.

You're better off without her honestly, she was just weighing you down.

my opinion is that this didn't deserve a thread

merica?

gun

yuro?

krav maga

>>17143271
Bragpost. Still I have a question. Your wife's kids or your kids.

>>17143267
unless you did it purposely i guess you should stop worrying about it
it can happen man

>>17143267

People do dumb things constantly. Once in awhile it leads to a preventable accident and youre a piece of shit for doing something so dumb.

Because everyone does dumb shit so frequently, really, you're just the victim of a bad cosmic dice roll. Sorry pal.

Anyways, guilt is natural, it'll go away, don't get PTSD over this.

>>17143290
It wasn't on purpose. I just wasn't paying attention when I should have been. I feel awful.

Bumpybump

>>17143195
Plenty of people do. If you're not a 'real alcoholic' of the type AA describes, some basic effort should be enough. If you're a social drinker, I'd suggest spending less time doing things where you drink, maybe pick up a new hobby or separate set of friends. If you tend to drink and isolate, make an effort to spend more time with friends. Better diet and more exercise and time with driends always helps improve mood if you drink when depressed, and a regular mediation practice will help keep...
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>>17143226
Well the ironic part is that I have plenty of hobbies and friends. I just systematically destroy my liver and job opportunities. I mean I personally get creeped out by straight edge folk, and my biggest fear is having to live straight edge. I just seem to be a cunt with no discipline for substance abuse.

I don't think it's unethical but I think if losing your virginity is that important you can do it for free at a bar.

no lol
no but its the easy way
condom

>>17143131
>V card
Don't go out like that. My friend did that. It's so unsatisfying. He couldnt even nut. Find someone to love OP. Find someone to actually enjoy your first time with. If all Youre looking for from sex is the physical pleasure, then I can tell you an escort will not give you that. You'll be too nervous, anxious and feel out of place to be able to enjoy it. Again, my friend couldn't even climax. He is a confident person too, his escort was hot and they did...
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>>17143119
You're not alone. Every morning I wake up wondering why I'm still alive.

number 3 reporting for duty

im not even depressed nor happy, its just neutral as fuck
i have no feelings

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>>17143069
omg you are so hot

Sorry dude, looks like rosacea. Especially if you have the facial flushing tendency.

>>17143027
Have you come to him with these reasons and communicated effectively with him about what you don't like about your relationship?

Sounds like you're boyfriend has depression.

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How is the sex?

Could he be a good father to your children?