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If you could tell your
highschool self anything
what one piece of advice would it be
>>17126467
you will never live this again
really think about what you're doing
Fuck more girls.
And start college before ending high school.
>>17126467
nothing. everythings exactly how i like it right now.
I am a 23 year old virgin. All the guys I've been close to tell me they are turned off by my pubic hair. Is pubic hair a big problem? Should I shave to make guys happy ?
Being shaved is the norm and most common preference now. But you can always shave (or trim/groom, there's options in between full bush and bare naked) after you met someone... you are only trying to please one specific person, they could be an exception.
Also I don't know how strongly you feel about this, but if you really hate the look of having none (I know I do), I don't think this is the kind of issue that would be a dealbreaker to most guys if they already got to know you and like you a lot. At the very least it's something you can discuss together....
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Ive never minded the look of pubic hair. Ive never been with someone who doesnt shave though so I dont know if it makes it smell worse.
how are they seeing your pubic hair
Hello all,
I have been obsessed for three days with the idea that I had been raped.
On Friday evening I weng out with a guy I met on Facebook. We drank too much wine and then we decided to go home.
On the road, I don't know why, I suggested that he came to my home.
We sat on my sofa, then he asked me to make a cup of tea.
I was still very drunk but I can remember I was lucid.
Then we kissed each other. He took my shirt off, and he undressed too. We only kept our undies.
He asked me to go to the bed. I agreed and I laid next to him.
Actually...
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You put yourself in a poor position because you were intoxicated, you engaged in the act and didn't object, and you had a friend that bore witness to most of it.
You were not raped, you made a bad decision and now you regret it. Do you honestly want to get somebody locked up because of it?
>>17125374
Beyond that, he was drunk too, so if he did rape you, you also raped him and will have to admit that in court.
I'd like the tape you long and hard is what i think
Mmmm
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I hate the summer. Too hot and too many happy people outside.
I have a thirsty ex who really wants to get in my pants again apparently, which really sucks for him because it's not happening. I'm pretty sure I'm going to reel in this guy to be my fuck buddy, if he's up for it. I'm not trying to fall in love, and I'm certainly not trying to listen to fuck boy tell me how great I am and how I deserve so much. Because he can't give it to me, and I can get it for myself.
Not gonna be a dick just yet, but I'm eventually going to have to. And even if the other dude ends up being a one night stand,...
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I cheated on my ex with her sister and she caught us. It was worth it. That's what she gets for calling me a pussy
My life seems fucking pointless, I want to give it a fucking meaning, even by killing people or punching them in the face for no reason. Gosh seems I'll end up fucking miserable and alone.
So it continues...
>>17110129
Initials...?
Sorry, I had to.
C
I've managed to leave you behind, it been so long I almost thought I'd never get over you. I'm sorry I never said goodbye, I said goodbye to you so many times I almost didn't think it would stick. It's been 6 years since we met and I no longer love you. I know you would only be glad to have me off your case now, I'm sorry I made you the object of my autistic infatuation. I'm so ashamed of myself. I have no longer any idealized memories of our happy days. You refused to call yourself my boyfriend, how could I have ever thought you loved...
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>>17110175
Lol
Hey guys, im a 20yo male. I have a girlfriend for more than a month. I love her but i cant have sex with her. Yesterday she grabbed my dick and it wenr from fully erect to half erect almost immidietaly. I'm a virgin so I think it's because Im just fucking nervous. I want to fuck her badly but I cant. Should I get viagra or do you recommend some "non chemical "way to solve my problem?
>>17130039
This is going to sound cringy as fuck but you have to tell her you are nervous. Get her to do shit with your limp dick thats feels good so you get so horny you forget about being nervous.
>>17130039
Just mess around naked without a boner. If you get chill enough you'll get that boner back. You need to relax, it sounds like anxiety that's killing you.
See if she'll give you a bj when you have a soft dick. Soft-dicked bj's actually feel amazing while you're getting them (pretty much the only good head I get since I'm too big for her mouth and I can never get one for more than 6 seconds without getting hard).
Sit around naked, touch each other, mess around with...
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>>17130039
if its your first time its ok to be nervous. start off with foreplay or something. i'm a virgin too so i dont know much =( . stay away from viagra you're too young for that.
do you lift? lifting helps out with your testosterone. i'v been /fit/ for a year and i'm more hornier then when i didnt lift.
Sooo yeah I have these sudden mood changes and I can go from a good mood making jokes having a good time too this angry anti-social psycho. And when I am home sometimes I get this random burst of energy and anger. I get the urge to punch and shout and so I do and thus my wall is in holes... So any advice
>>17129894
Are you going through puberty, or high on drugs?
If not, go see a shrink, might be BPD.
>>17129968
No drugs , I mean I have tried but not addicted in any way , but you are right on the first I am 15
>>17129894
you are kind of vague, so there isn't much we can say. if its hurting your life consider going to therapy and slowly moving up that laddera s necessary.
if not not negatively impacting your life, consider just trying to reign it in on your own
>BUT HOW
try to catch yourself doing it, and simply make an effort to control those emotions, even if its just an 'act' you eventually make it a habit.
consider picking up a hobby good for anger. you...
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How do you avoid a penis size heiararchy in a gangbang?
Me and some friends wanna fuck this girl but we're secretly nervous about our sizes and how they match up
Sounds pretty gay
Of all the things to be worried about with a gang bang........
>>17129843
Fag.
I was told to expect a call back in 5-10 minutes. It's been an hour
>>17129680
It could one of several reasons:
>something came up
>they're busy
>they forgot
>they don't want to
>>17129689
I know but it doesn't make me feel very good :(
>>17129680
call tomorrow.
If they don't pick up or call back after they don't pick up, assume they are not into you.
For anyone who might need it I have something for you. If you want your girl back go listen to November Rain by Gn'R. If you don't like Axl's voice which I know a lot of people don't, go read the lyrics. Barring you having fucked her sister or killed her dog, this song applies to your situation. At the beginning of the song he says "Nothing lasts forever, and we both know hearts can change, and it's hard to hold a candle in the cold November rain."
This is your breakup. Shit changes. People have different feelings.
He goes on to say "Everybody needs some time on their own, everybody needs some time all alone"
This can best be described as a no contact period between you and this person. You need to find yourself, and come to terms with being alone. Be comfortable with it.
Near the end of the song we get to ".. When your fear subsides, and shadows still remain, I know that you can love me when there's noone else to blame."
"so nevermind the darkness, we still can find a way, nothing lasts forever.. Even cold November rain. "
So to conclude, we've gone from coming to terms with it being over, realizing that time to yourself is important, and then resolution. This song is nearly self aware in the sense that the song sounds like it is going to end multiple times. Once we get to the end we reach resolution and whatever that entails in your situation.
Just some food for thought, hope someone sees the same meaning behind it that I do.
>Guns and Roses
You need to be over 18 to post here.
axl rose beat the shit out of his girlfriend tho
>>17129631
19 in reality, 16 at heart. Wouldn't have it any other way
So I have an attention problem, when I have to study or do some sort of work which I do not enjoy that my my attention span drop's REALLY low. I get distracted very easy and by literally everything. I really hate this since it causes me problems and delays me a lot. Any advice on what to do
> Pic is not related
You and I are in the same boat. I went to a neurologist and psychoneurologist and underwent some extensive testing to help diagnose wtf is wrong. Put me on meds that help a great deal, but are nowhere near enough. I'd suggest looking into extensive testing or you and I might just be lazy people of the smartphone world lol.
Object meditation
5 minutes daily
And when you get more advanced
add a 45 minute session at night
Concentration goes up
>>17129751
What exactly do you mean by mediation
Can mold/mildrew from wet towels kill you/make you sick?
Share room with friend, he has the air conditioning on 24/7 which is fine by me..
Recently its started leaking water, its above my friends bed so he pulled his bed a bit from the wall and jammed towels inbetween where the watee leaks from.
It only leaks sometimes, and even then it can be pouring out or just dripping a bit. I've tried to get someone to fix it but thats another story.
Anyway I come back from class and I noticed a really strong milldrew/mold smell.
I go to the side of the bed and...
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>>17129447
mold is serious shit, it can cause huge troubles with your breathing even psychosis in some cases
>>17129450
Would it be a problem if im sleeping in a room with it overnight? Seriously have no place to put them without friend or i getting in to massive shit for being dumbasses
>>17129447
Wash those towels immediately.
Fix the damn thing!
>meet bf through tinder around june 2015
>right off the bat, he tells me about death of his last girlfriend ("lydia") and how "it's been 2 years now"
>confirmed that death of his gf is real, just so there's no confusion
>there were some hard times because of this, but he's so amazing and considerate that it was worth it
>around his birthday, mentions to me how lydia "died right before his birthday" (his birthday is on remembrance day; yeah i know, what a coincidence...) and that "would mark 2 years since she died"
>think i must've misunderstood him somehow the first time he told me it's been "2 years", and keep this anniversary date in mind
>last night he texts me crying
>apparently at 1:14 am today, "it would be 2 years since lydia's death"
i'm not sure what's going on. i thought that when we met, its already been 2 years since her death... then on his birthday, it was apparently 2 years... and now today marks 2 years?
today he posted a facebook post on his wall about her death, which i haven't seen him done since i've got with him. i'm guessing this date must be right?
this kind of disturbs me on a couple levels... first i feel like a dick. had i known it's been only a year since her death, i would've stressed to him that he's definitely not ready for a relationship, and i definitely wouldn't have been comfortable being with him then. in fact, i had already been stressing that to him when we first got together knowing it was only 2 years, but he insisted on continuing to meet me.
but i also feel like he's stuck in this perpetual feeling that it's been 2 years... what if in a few more months, it's the 2 year anniversary of her death again?
i don't know how to bring this up without risking like i'm ignorant to his feelings... he is extremely sensitive about this topic obviously.
Dude sounds like a bona fide nutcase. I would move on
Would you be sensitive to it if it happened to you?
If yes try to understand him
I bet it hurts like hell and its noteasy for him
Also 2 years thing, if you have a thing for lets say 1.8 years its 2 years even tho its anniversary is in 2 months
>>17129432
uh, dumbass, he's been saying it's been 2 years for 11months now, including on each of the following dates:
June 2015
November 2015
May 2016
Can anyone translate this? I'm curious what it says but i'm not able to translate it on the image based translation apps i've tried. Thanks in advance!
Try /int/. It looks like Thai.
>>17129382
Good idea, thanks.
>>17129375
It says "OP is a faggot"
I took a bunch of adderall last night for the first time, about 11 hours ago.
I wanted to do it again tonight because I'm off work, but I feel tired, nauseous and can't sleep, and the idea of needing to take more to get the same effect sounds really shitty.
Give me some advice, /adv/. When the stars align and I get two days off in a row, I need to cram them full of fun.
>>17129367
Educate yourself before you wreck yourself.
https://www.erowid.org/chemicals/amphetamines/
>>17129367
Wait people actually abuse adderall?... Why? The side effects are terrible
>>17129459
Idk man I used to be somewhat heavy into it and it was pretty great, got the best grades I've ever gotten and more work done on personal projects than ever, all while still having time to just vibe to my favorite music and analyze the fuck out of it.
