just date her, you might find you like her

>>17183466
If you don't love them- don't bother. You'll hurt everyone involved.
There's nothing wrong with having standards, if you're not happy with the person you're seeing- keep looking until you are.

You need to realize that there are more people out there for you and her. You could go for it, but it sounds like you're pretty convinced you're not really into it, and that's fine.

But do yourself the favor and go meet more people, you totally deserve to be stoked about whoever you're with.

What's the problem? Is she cute? Is she smart? Does she have a decent job? Is she responsible?

If you're getting cold feet because you just don't want to commit, grow up.

>>17183476
I hate to say this, but, she's my first girlfriend. I really don't know if this is going too fast or what.

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>>17183440
Is there a serious flaw somewhere deep in your relationship? Is there some life goal that being attached will hinder completely? What have you been waiting to do, that you think this commitment will prevent you from accomplishing?

You need to seek, ask, and answer these sorts of questions before you go making a hasty decision. You need to sit down with yo girl if there is anything like this going on and get real. Don't take the cunt's way out by doing some fade-away shit, and contriving bullshit...
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Ask her. She's the only one who knows.

>>17183434
she said it was weird because it was deep and meaningful.

>>17183429
Maybe she meant "weird" as in unusual. That makes the most sense to me.

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JOYOFSATAN COM -- IS THE SOLUTION!

>>17183436
chakras have nothing to do with satan, get a better pic.

>>17183428
Nah no kiss is better than a forced kiss. More importantly is if she knew it was a date. If you just asked her to hang out, chances are you were just hanging out, especially if you weren't flirty and mostly talking.

^^^cont.^^^


>My trust and faith in people is shattered. I'm not one to be dependent on people in any way, but I am pretty fucking alone right now. I dread coming home from work now. This place doesn't feel like 'home' anymore.

>I've literally only been going out just to get drunk and fuck girls I meet off of OKC. However, I don't want to do this anymore. I don't want to invest myself in anything that intimate right now. It's too painful and I just need a friend.

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bruhhh.

get a job or something.. find people through there??

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>>17183560

>my relationship is miserable because my girlfriend sucks

>worrying about the state of my miserable relationship being jeopardized by a trip to her parents' house.

Dump. Her.

>>17183437
I don't want to break up quite yet sorry I miswrote that. But its getting to that point and if she is hiding this from me then I think I will have to, but how can I continue working at the same place with her.

Bump. Also I made a mistake in the OP i don't quite want to break up yet.

>>17183376
Yeah. Twice in fact. It sucks, but the first time is the worst. Just work out a bunch, find a hobby, and keep on keepin on. Someone better will come along. IMO It's one of those things where every person should go through it at least once in their life. People can be sleazebags, and the more experienced you are with them, the better off you'll be.

>>17183376
just found out 2 months ago this give i've been with for a year cheated on me with a guy (was a close friend) i've known for 10 years.

it's the most devastating thing someone has ever done to me. i've been beat up, called racists shit, ostracized, etc.. but never a betrayal like this.

i lost my shit when i found out, went into a deep depression and got completely wasted on a substance binge for 2 weeks

where am I now??

well my friend group/relationship is kinda fucked....
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>>17183376
>>17183622
my current situation
>>17183427

It is but that is definitely a beta move.

>>17183357
This poster is "right", even if he's got no clue if what he's talking about.

The better thing to do is to just do the thing you miss. Ignite a conversation that will lead to you guys talking like you used to.

This is the same as guys asking /adv about whether they should tell a girl that they like her. Unfortunetaly /adv is a bunch of clueless idiots for the most part, so it ends in bickering between "yes" and "no", when the obvious answer is don't tell her - SHOW HER

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>>17183380
Thanks familia. Gonna just try to get a convo going instead of being a beta about it. Even though she does like the fact that I'm sensitive and shit.

Life might suck but beats not existing. Find something you might like a lot but can be completely useless and hold it. Drugs are not allowed though.

>>17183295

Alcohol

Mix it up.

Unless you were born rich, you need income to survive.

Do what you can with what you have.

>look at me i'm depressed, i take meme drugs so i can sleep, it's like a trophy in form of chemicals

Don't take them. Find a way to avoid drugs.

>>17183271
But they really seem to help.

>>17183251
It might help if you give some sort of information about her (what you do with her, her hobbies, her personality... shit like that).

You'll want to give her something that'll make her remember you everytime she looks at it. Something that she can show her friends and make them jealous. Something that she'd identify her own personality with, which shows you actually know her and care about her.

Picture in a nice and reasonably small frame. It sentimental, reminds her of you and all sorts of other shit like that.

Why bother?

You might as well buy a meal for a homeless person.

She probably won't care about the gift anyway.

>>17183223
Boyfriend's dad is a deadbeat who smokes a ton of weed, even in the house, and drinks alcohol. Mother is a high pitched bitchy person who flip flops between supporting my boyfriend and being downright cruel to him. He has siblings but they never get asked to do chores. they are just under his age so it's not like they are babies.

Why? Why becoming more hostile?

You and his family different races or classes?

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>>17183223

>Why? Why becoming more hostile?

Because people are fucked up. There is no rhyme or reason to it.

Your boyfriend's parents are a couple of dysfunctional twats. End of story. Figuring out WHY they are won't change anything.

Either accept what they are and continue your relationship with him or don't.

One bump

Pros: independence
Cons: money, you probably won't be any more sociable than you would at home

An LDR at your age is bound to fail.

>>17183332
This^^^^^

>>17183157
Are you fat or ugly?

>>17183157
Why are you upset and depressed? Is it because you're a virgin?

>>17183157

>easy mode
>""""depressed""""

I don't have a pepe this smug

>>17183114
its normal. alcohol is depressant. i always feels this way the day after drinking.

>>17183123
But I feel it right now. I just stopped drinking recently.

>>17183128
When was the last time you drank? After a binging weekend I can be depressed for the whole week.