>>17180952
the people I know who have used Xanax for fun now live in crackhouses in philly and have been raped by black guys at parties.

Hope that helps!

>>17180952
I should add I usually have a fairly consistent amount of anxiety and derealization normally but it's usually managable.

>>17180954
I could imagine. Ive never taken it recreationally.

>>17180943
yes

>>17180964
how so? is it because she's a woman therefore the blame is entirely on me despite her being an asshole in her past with absolutely no regrets?

wow you are really fucking stupid

>conversing with a girl for probably hundreds of hours
>girl doesn't even meet your crazy standards so you resent her
>don't even get basic physical intimacy
>get dumped by her after you travel thousands of miles
>take it so badly you want to die
>STILL being her shoulder to cry on and letting her run riot in your mind

this is...
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Give her time. She'll come back if you were good to her.

Otherwise, it's time to move on.

DON'T meet other people, especially NOT women, it's gonna get worst.

Best you can do is stay alone.

Don't give her time

women are a dime a dozen and functionally the same as any other beyond physical appearance. The girl you lost out on is replaceable.

Pursuing her makes you look weak. Go after other women, and work on your dominance markers.

Usually exes try crawling back after they see you being successful and getting other women; ignore this and push that ex away forever. She's a loser with poor decision-making skills.

>>17181030

If i didn't care abt her, i'd be with other women already.

There are women talking to me and stuff but I just don't feel like going out.

It's just that with her, i don't have to be someone else, i'm myself.

I think it depends on tone more than context. If it doesn't feel cool it's probably not cool. If the roommate being pushed around doesn't feel comfortable with it, it's not cool

Any action becomes a problem when it is non-consensual. People consent to different things. Two people in a bdsm relationship could hit each other heavily and it would be ok as long as it's consensual. Does this hitting looks non-consensual to you? Can you identify other signs of abuse?

>>17180862
Uh, it's me, so yes, I can say it's nonconsensual. I hit him back to "play along" a lot recently, and a couple of times have lashed out more seriously, but I weigh 115 pounds and he weighs 250+ and is much, much stronger than me. He's pretty deaf to complaints too, or telling him to stop. Kinda just does whatever he feels like, and often lately that's hitting me.

I don't know if it's really a problem though or if I'm just being a bitch. It's not like he's...
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Same Bro, it means sex nowadays is not only an activity but also social status. You should try to improve yourself in other ways

>>17180834
Just lie about your sex life like everyone else.

>>17180834
Your friends are all lying. Join in.

see a doctor. It's hard to treat acne that severe with natural or over the counter remedies. Improve your diet if you haven't already, and try not washing your face more than once a day, excessive washing may cause your skin to actually produce more oil.

>>17180809
T 3 mycin find it apply

Yeah have you ever looked into acutane? It's worth it to see a doctor now before you get more scars, I wish I'd gone years ago

>18

Yeah. Adult life is a lot more challenging but can be more rewarding.

>>17180772
next time you're chilling with your friends and work calls, don't answer the fucking phone. and if you are going to answer, be prepared to say that you're out of town and can't make it into work at 7am tomorrow morning

>>17180772
>all of sudden I get a call from work asking me to go in tomorrow at 7:00 in the morning
What's unreasonable about this?

>>17180740
>retarted
Didn't read further

>>17180740
Outlander is a television series. Your gf posting that picture probably has more to do than just the handsome face. She's enamoured with the plot and how the male actor (probably the main male protagonist) interacts with the main female protagonist. They have some really steamy scenes. She probably wishes she was the main character in the series (a time-traveller hooking up with some medieval hottie).

>>17180754
i know. This is ok to have fantasies. I have many sexual fantasies with hot girls myself.

But is it ok to post a picture with a text like that to facebook?

How about threating her with homecooked meal? Talking might not show enough affection but actions speak more than words.

>>17180721

That's a good idea. I'll try that.

My mom wants to go on evening walks with me. I'm not really into that and I don't know what to say when we do. I just feel uncomfortable at the thought of hanging out with my mom. And I really wish I knew why.

She once planned a trip to Hawaii with just me and her. I felt really weirded out by it, so I was able to convince her to bring her god daughter along who is closer to her age. I don't wanna do vacations with just my mom, it's weird isn't it? Isn't it weird?

>>17180780
Go on a walk with her. Dont go for the activity/food/event, go for the people.

>>17180648
She's probably not into you and won't ever be into you. So tell me, did you like her because she's pretty? Did you even know her? Do you like her now because she's pretty? That's not the basis for a relationship, if you're actually serious about her you're going to have to break up with your girlfriend first, give her a chance to find someone who deserves her.

>>17180654
Well, she used to like me back then.
And while she is 'pretty', that has very little bearing on my situation. I know plenty of 'pretty' people.

As for my own odds, there's no reason she wouldn't be into me. I'm very good looking, wealthy, and charismatic.

To clarify, I have no interest in 'hitting it and quitting it' with this girl. I'm interesting in getting to know her and deciding how I want to proceed from there.

Marry both

Instead of cutting your hair you should cut your fat. A haircut won't boost your appearance nearly as much as losing some weight and getting rid of that mess on your face will.

Your hair, even the pubes on your face, are way too long. Trim all of that shit. In fact, you should probably get rid of the facial hair altogether if you're not going to put daily effort into it.

And like the other anon said, losing a few pounds would make much more difference than your pubeface.

skin fade on the sides, lose a little length on top, invest in some pomade to style it. and tweeze your eyebrows. they're almost touching. i'd also take some length off the beard if it were me but i'd never tell another man what to do with his bear.

Anyone**

I practiced meditation and self-hypnosis and eventually figured out that everything we do is just a function of willpower. If you're jumping from one New Age thing to another, then you're looking for a magic fix that doesn't exist. I can guarantee that you're not taking your medical treatment seriously and skipping on medication.

>Decided to fix 1 of 20 typos
lol

>>17180616
I am taking my medical treatment very seriously I am just having a very bad streak the past couple months I am stuck in a rutt. I have been having non stop bad luck. While I am calm because I have been meditating I am hiding from the reality of my current situation with my business I work hard and have done everything possible but there is no market for it in my area. I do not have the health to currently work for someone else and I am moving out with my husband in six months. I feel like there is something else...
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Yes, they can and a lot of the time will look at your Facebook. Make your shit private or quit being an edgy sperglord.

>>17180591

Maybe, maybe not.

As someone who employed people in retail for a while 5 years ago, I can tell you that I never bothered with their Facebook profiles. I didn't have time. Work was too busy, and I really didn't care.

But, I'll tell you I lost out on jobs for just having alcohol in pictures, or references to alcohol, when I was over 21 and that was perfectly legal. I didn't find out until after the fact. I cleaned up my act on social media and it seemed to help.

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Try not being a spergy pile of shit on a platform where real-life people can see it.

While you're at it, don't do it anonymously, either.

You're going to look back on these days and cringe.

>>17180586
Have a tickle fight maybe? Seriously, try it.

Just tell her that peoples sense of humor are different and that she really shouldn't worry about it.
It's the same as having different favorite bands, films etc.

Her making you laugh isn't even what she is supposed to do as a girlfriend. A lot of men, me included, typically fake laugh at a girlfriends jokes because we like them and don't want to offend them.

It doesn't mean a thing.

>>17180586

tell her you find her funny but you're indulgent and kind of a narcissist when it comes to humor so you don't always laugh at other people's jokes. you know it's a flaw, but you don't want her to stop cracking jokes because you really do enjoy them.

it's a reassurance-self-deprecation-reassurance sandwich. works on girls everytime.

She doesn't have to keep people whose morals she doesn't agree with in her life. You've shown her your true colours, and she doesn't like those true colours. To be honest, you've probably fucked up the friendship.

>but I'm going through a tough time in my life
Oh bawwwwww

>>17180558

Alright, fuck the excuses, this is what I want. Is that enough honesty?

>>17180556

I mean, hypothetically, if I really did end this, is it salvageable? I know I can't give all of the details but she's not the only person in my life who never saw me becoming this guy. Is there any chance of proving this is unique?