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I'm 19 and need to move out of my house, how do I go about finding a place to live?
You determine how much rent you can afford and then check apartment listings like a normal person. Why does your age matter?
I got 8000 saved up but no car and I plan on moving in the city to attend community college and work.
>>17178875
I mention age cause a lot of listing want 21 years older
If you had a tattoo you hated would you get it removed or covered up with another tattoo?
I'd probably just get it covered in big black block
But I would never have a tattoo I hate.
>>17178841
>If you'd be covered in vomit after a party, would you clean it up, or put more vomit on your body?
>What do you girls prefere: A guy with a sixpack but always counting calories, or a guy with abs hard as steal but eating what he wants to with a little bit of fat on his belly ?
>>17178829
A guy who's hygienic, not fat as fatass, and isn't obsessed with the gym to the point where most of his stories have something to do with the gym as if I give a flying fuck.
Wat category does that fit into, honey?
>>17178829
>caring what women want
>>17178873
Stick to his question aspie
I'll be taking an 11 hour trip, traveling from N. Utah, to Saint George, then on to Las Vegas, Las Angeles and finally Huntington Beach California.
I'm originally from Philadelphia, so I know what city driving is like but for the past 3 years, I've barely been down from the mountains, been living in a small town above 7000ft elevation. When I get into LA, Ill be in a town with a greater population than my Entire State. This will also be, by far, the longest trip I've ever taken on a motorcycle.
I'm thinking its best to leave my house at...
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>>17178794
Ahhhh, Los Angeles
the only place I've ever been able to get laid
have fun
you're from philly? yoooo
Where from in philly? I'm from the general hospital/center city area
but good luck on your endeavor man <3 good for you for getting out of this hellish city
>>17178794
>What are the odds my bike gets stolen if i leave it unattended for an hour or two?
98%
>odds of run over
50/50
>odds of traffic
100% whenever the sun is up and when it's down
But you get to legally split lanes in CA so you're gonna have a blast rolling through dead traffic like a boss
How to go FULL asexual?
I had enough of girls desu and I tried with a boy that wasnt no good either.
I just wanna go full asexual i always try not to have feelings toward girls, not to have toughts about pussy.
I try not having toughts about jerkin it.
I always fail. I wanna end it I just dont want to feel sympathy with girls.
Any ways?
There is no way, you're a fucking human being it doesn't work like that
If you're really serious, and not just a whiny bitch seeking attention, talk to a doctor about castration.
>>17178715
You can't turn asexual, but you can just remain abstinent and reject potential mates.
Turn your energy towards something else.
I'd like to get some mental health advice.
I've been formally diagnosed with social anxiety, very likely that I have aspergers, and a strong family history of mental illness (mostly sudden surges of anxiety at around 18).
The anxiety is so bad that I've become agoraphobic, and attempts to find a job/go to college have resulted in me uncontrollably freaking out over dealing with people and changing my lifestyle.
I've gone to therapy, and I've learned how to deal with the thoughts, but residual anxiety and depression after panic attacks makes...
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You should probably get medication and see a therapist. Therapy seems to have kind of worked, so I would say continue it and be totally honest with your therapist. The medication could help the anxiety and panic that you can't work on
Damn, OP, that sucks.
Medication for anxiety is a band-aid solution; it is meant to help you reach a point where you're receptive to therapy. It isn't made to simply cover up the symptoms that result, to allow you to avoid fixing the underlying issues, but that's what a lot of people do.
I'd absolutely suggest getting back into therapy immediately if anxiety is negatively impacting your life. Behavioral therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can work wonders, if you're willing to put in the time and effort to build a good program...
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>>17178711
>Therapy mostly feels like they are just getting me to talk for an hour and then they tell me to go outside.
Then get a better therapist. My rule of thumb: if you're not feeling anything after 6 sessions, switch. You have to have something called "rapport". If you don't feel like they understand and can help you, you might as well go pay a hooker and talk to her for an hour, it'll be cheaper.
Ask about CBT like Bob said, it's a structured approach...
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Texted a really cute girl a year ago ona dating app. At the time we were texting a lot. She gave me her phone number and Facebook name, she said she didnt like the "datingapps chat".After that we were still texting a lot but then she had to do a lot for school so she had less time. Then we stoped texting.
My point is, that a girl doesnt give her full name + phonenumber to a complete stranger so she was interessted. I'm sometimes fantasising about her and me together.
>What do you think are my chances if text her again?
Yeah...
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>>17178500
Nothing to lose. I reconnected with a girl on a dating app after a year once. It didn't go anywhere, but she responded and engaged for a while.
>>17178500
Text her for a bit then ask her out or wait for a local event that interests you both and ask her if she'll be there. If she isn't already going, there's a chance you'll meet up.
Texting a girl too much turns you into their friend. Facebook messaging is even worse because the site reinforces the idea (new message from friend).
I feel like I've just wasted my life doing absolutely nothing. Ever since an early age I've been interested in computers, but the first thing I was ever introduced to was games - and that was my life for so many fucking years, and now it's led to me being here, living at home with my mum, I failed a year at school which I'm redoing now and I've only just started trying during the exam season. I think I will do okay but it'll never be good enough to make up all this time I've wasted will it?
I really want to start making an impact but...
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Dude you're still really young, how can you give up now if you haven't really started anything? There's always time and opportunities but you have to do it now and live your life how you really want! If you don't do anything you'll really regret it, and if you don't get to where you really wanted to get then you'll be happy that you tried. Just go on its Never too late!
dw i was 21 when i reached the same conclusion
just quit games now and find something good to do. especially if you go to college, i wasted my whole university experience playing games rather than banging girls
>>17178491
19, holy shit you've got the rest of your god damn life to be miserable. Life has this weird way of working out, I didn't fall into a 'proper' job until I was 30, until that point I was fucking around with drugs, alcohol, taking low paid shitty jobs living with mates and having a pretty sweet time.... some shit times too but man, chill out, things happen if you let them. Quit worrying about this stuff.
I was given a a number by a female on a dating site. She told me to text her. I texted her within 24 hours of getting her number. She gets back to me 4 days later. I imagine if she wasn't interested at all she wouldn't even bother. If she was busy it takes 1 minute to get back to someone.
What is your guys/ladies opinions on this?
The real question is how didn't you lose interest after 4 days?
>>17178494
I went on a few dates last week. None of them really worked out. I'm keeping my options open.
I haven't had a gf in 5 years.
>>17178455
>I'm playing games
>she's playing games too
Sounds like a match made in heaven.
So Im working in some position in some company. This company was looking for a position in office 2 months ago. They choose me like instatly I walked in that office. They tell me I will start that position in 2 months because they need to find compensation on my last position. I was like ok fair enough. 2 months later (now) I was corious about my first day and they tell me I can join in 3 months(?!?) because there is lots of work on my current position. This company have a very bad name for workers and nobody stays here more than a half of the year. How can I fuck with them...
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Useless answer but is there nothing you can whistle blow about? Fight Club it and smash your face up infront of boss and then run out making it appear that he has done it!
>>17178377
>implying that will really work
>>17178377
not really... :/ I have start some discreditation back then (like real CIA vs. Cuba style) and it didnt help
tl;dr What is the best carpet cleaning product available in England?
Hello /adv/,
I don't often post on here but I'm in some fairly dire straits. Now to filter out anyone who may actually waste their time trying to help me I am specifically looking for an English product to clean my carpet, as that is where I will be ordering from and live. Basically guys, I had a pretty rough night with Stella and at about 8 cans I fucking bitched out and pretty much projectiled on my way to the bathroom.. It went on the doors, the walls and the carpet.. now the doors...
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Seriously, it's not as bad as I'm making out but point me in the right direction here!
8 beer? I think a 90lb girl could have handled it better
>>17178505
>8 cans.. I used to sink 12 before even getting a decent head on
All I want is to watch my qt gf get fucked by another man. I brought it up to her once while drunk and several times after and she has made it clear it does not interest her. What can I do to convince her to try it? Since she has said this I have become obsessed and can only get off to hotwife porn. What can I do to get her tro try it? ethical/coercive grey areas welcome
>>17178300
This is probably bait, but there is nothing you can so. She will probably become unhappy and break up with you if you keep asking. I know that would be a deal breaker for me if I were her.
>>17178300
fuck off you weirdo degenerate cunt
>>17178309
Thanks for the genuine response. Not baiting. This is kind of an obsession honestly. I can't see myself being happy the way things are.
I keep waking up with numb/tingling hands and it hurts to even try to make a fist. Is this carpal tunnel? What should I do?
It probably isn't carpal tunnel, it probably has a more fundamental problem to do with circulation. If your family has a history of heart or blood pressure problems, it might be worth getting a checkup.
>>17178285
heh well that's scary since i'm pretty fat
only 23 though
>>17178298
easy way to tell. Do you have strong erections?
Whats the worst that could possibly happen to a Young male if he stops fapping for months on end?
I have stopped it because I consider it inmoral;my doctor says i will have health and mental problems.
Was he exaggerating? Its like not extreme "sexual repression" will turn me into a pervert or a killer,right?
>>17178239
no, but it'll turn you into a sissy, cuck faggot.
What's your game like though? you get many girls?
>>17178239
i was the same way
not fapping makes you bust really fast
but if you meet a nice girl OP make sure you fap everyday
so you are atleast a gentlemen about ur shit
u kno???
like fapping makes it longer for you to bust
so atleast do that
>>17178249
>game
I do not understand this term.
>many
If i was so inmoral as to accept promiscuity I would merely rape, since,as i said, I would be devoid of any Ethics.
Hey
Talk to a friend daily on Skype for hours but it's kind of getting a bit much. He always starts the convo so it's not like I can just not speak and have some quiet.
How do I stop speaking to him without hurting his feelings or looking like an ass or that there's a problem?
Kind of want to go off the radar so he gets bored and starts messaging someone else instead and doesn't even realise that we've stopped talking
Set your status as offline.
>>17178214
>>17178227
he'll know something's up because it's an abrupt change to something he's been used to.
What I'd do is hang up his call when he calls you then IM him saying that you're feeling shitty and want to just chill and watch a movie. set all your shit to offline and chill out.
