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I need to get my hands on some adderall or something similar. If I go to the doctor, what can I say to get it prescribed? I constantly lose focus at work and space out.
>>17177769
>I constantly lose focus at work and space out.
>i should take amphetamine
This is quite a leap. How about trying some milder stimulants first?
if you want to get it legally, go to a psychiatrist and get a diagnosis of ADHD.
But rethink your plans, anon. This is not a good idea, and you'll come to realize that 5 or 10 years down the line.
>>17177787
Milder stimulants such as?
Also I don't plan to take them constantly, just for big projects or whatever.
>>17177800
Caffeine, ephedrine, etc.
And few people manage to abuse hardcore stimulants responsibly. They all say the same thing at the start, but we all know how it actually goes.
Anon here asking for any insight on joining the army just for free college is it worth it my girlfriend plans on in listing soon for the free scholarship but there distance the time she's gonna be away and all thought how can i tell her I'm not comfortable with her being gone like that without shitting on her we have been together for 3 years now
>>17177581
Are you asking for her or for you? Who wants to enlist?
>>17177591
She wants to enlist but I don't know what we will do about the distance
>>17177581
Yous should go back to middle school and learn proper sentence structuring and punctuation, before considering college. Your post is illegible.
My boyfriend doesn't have sex with me when I want it. He doesn't have a low libido (I know he jerks it every morning into the sink) he just doesn't want it. I give him a blowjob like once or twice a week (at his request) but haven't had sex for like 2 weeks now. When I ask him to fuck he's usually like nah not today honey, but a few months ago I wasn't able to fuck due to an injury and he was making a huge deal about it how I couldn't please him and he was sexually frustrated. I love him to death and he has a million great qualities, but I'm...
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>>17177573
Here's a wild idea.. tell him?
>>17177590
How do I go about this? I can't think of a way to not make it sound like I'm bitching at him or trying to force him to fuck
He sounds like a bitch who's playing games. If he had the nerve to make a scene out of your injury, you have all the right to tell him you want to get fucked.
What's the best, not-creepy, not-autistic way to show a friend that you are attracted to them?
First find out whether he's attracted to you as well. If not, don't bother bringing it up at all.
>>17177568
So people either are magically attracted to each other from the start or aren't, and if they aren't there's no use for flirting?
>>17177561
One of the normie's way is to get yourself and them drunken and than ask them directly about the subject. If they refuse it, the next day you both can pretend you both were drunk and this never happened.
Do women find it gay, weird, or look down upon men who dye their hair?
some do, some don't
>>17177489
If it's not natural color, yes. Very. Especially if it's bright/neon/vibrantly colored.
I wouldn't mind if it looked natural.
it depends on whether it looks good
if it looks good, who cares?
Are there any substitutes for romantic relationships?
I've tried having good relationships with my family, plenty of great, supportive friendships, constructive hobbies and life goals and a healthy lifestyle, and I've tried getting drunk, and there's still a hole in my heart and I'd like for it to stop being there.
I'm also getting all the sex that I can handle which is literally none.
Why can't you handle sex?
>>17177366
Either it's because I'm a transsexual and it's a matter of dysphoria, maybe one of those times some dude fucked me drunk really did count as rape, maybe my hormones are fucked up to begin with, maybe it's that porn flick I accidentally saw as a toddler, or maybe I'm just naturally asexual.
The fuck if I know. I've just never had a sexual experience that'd have been remarkably positive or pleasant, so every day that I don't get fucked is a small personal victory.
I mean, I guess it'd be fine if I had any interest in sex, I could just masturbate and feel a release and relief and the feelings would go away for a while, but you can't do that with love.
Or can you? Is there a way to masturbate feelings?
my gf was studying with some random guy and apparently kept complaining about her back being sore, he asked if she wanted a massage and she said yeah, he ended up kissing her
she just told me this, and she told me she told him she was taken afterwards and that it couldn't ever happen again.
She told me all this herself through text, and she keeps saying she's crying over this. I haven't said a thing to her but she just assumes I left her and she wants me to take her back.
What do I even do in this situation? I want to take her back because...
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>>17176798
>What do I even do in this situation?
If it was a mistake then she should have no problem cutting contact with this guy for your relationship no ifs, ands, or buts.
If shes not willing or ever goes back on her word then youre being played and its time to move on before she ruins your life.
if he just kissed her and she did not kiss back, she would not be freaking out like this. something more probably happened.
>>17176805
she told him she was shocked for a second and let him for a second but then told him to stop
she's just scared because throughout our relationship I've always told her if anyone cheats on me, like kissing and heavy flirting onwards I'll just leave them, and I've always been adamant about it
