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Hey guys I'll keep it short. Shits at home has gotten so bad to the point where its just unfixable. I want to move out problem is I don't know where to start. I'm 19 and have 8000 dollars saved up. I have a job opportunity in the city so I would prefer to move there or near there. I have no car but don't think that would be an issue
TLDR how to find a place to live at age 19
Pretty shitty when I go through every post and try to help out as many ppl as possible but when I stick my hand out no one bothers to help thanks guys
what city do you live in? lets start there
>>17176657
also please provide information regarding your job. hours, benefits or whatever you think is prudent
how do I stop being an insecure judgmental prick
I'm seeing this girl and she is fantastic, literally the girl of my dreams in terms of personality, sex is a ton of fun, I'm attracted to her, she's really kind and cute, has a nice ass, is somewhat submissive, not a degenerate, she's a freaking unicorn
the only problem is I'm too hesitant to make it official/introduce her to my family or friends, because I think they might think shes ugly or that I am settling or that we are just two losers who happened to find each other. idk. its all bullshit...
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Grass is always greener, buddy.
Consider this: most average people have flaws. If women that were model material looks-wise were as common as the average woman I'd tell you yeah, go for it. But chances are you're not going to find that 9-10/10 girl AND be attracted to her personality as much as you are with your average girl.
but you know what? If you can find a person that understands and accepts you, that's the real unicorn, not looks. A woman's looks will fade, but her personality is forever. So, my advice is, don't put so much stock...
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>>17176564
Calm the fuck down, kiddo.
Time will solve everything for you because you're obviously underage.
Once you live on your own you won't give crap to bullshits like that, there are much more things to rather be worried about, like rent, food and your job.
Once you have kids you literary WON'T STOP worrying.
So be the good kid you are and be grateful about being having the most freedom ever possible in your life at the moment. It only downhill from now on.
>>17176564
You learn to love someone as much as you fall in love at first sight stop acting like theres a fairy tale moment just waiting for you.
If you want to be with her make it work learn to love the small things, and realize some things about her will just be the price of admission (Things youll both just have to shrug and accept about each other.)
Chasing that fairy tale romance dragon fucks over more people in the end than anything, its a massive life trap.
Hey /adv/
What martial art can I pick up relatively quickly, so that I'm not such a huge pussy, and can defend myself / my protectorates in a conflict?
Thanks
>>17176509
Gun-fu
Pipe bomb no jutsu
>>17176509
Boxing
How can I stop getting hungry at night and eating a bunch of food?
>>17176494
Sleep.
>>17176494
Brush your teeth and drink a lot of water.
>>17176494
Drink water, even a little sip calms hunger.
In time your body will adjust and you wont even get hungry at night, the time it takes is different for everyone though, generally a few weeks to a few months.
w-what should i say now?
walk me through it. i'm shaking uncontrollably.
Holy shit I burst out laughing in the break room
Tell her how you know her...hope it's not a creepy way you know of her lol
>>17176498
i dont
So I just asked out a girl, she shot me down saying that she is a lesbian,
>inb4 she was just giving me an excuse, she showed me pictures of her kissing her girlfriends and her at pride parades
I don't know what to do anymore, it seems like every woman I"m interested in is unavailable, they either have boyfriends or something else. I'm not a bad looking dude and I have a good personality, I've gotten dates before but it never goes anywhere. I'm 21 years old and to this day I have never had a meaningful relationship,...
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First date at 24. First relationship at 27 (because just about everyone i'd start to take a serious interest in, some crazy shit--like someone would literally die--would happen. Even my girlfriend, she lost her job 2 months before meeting me, and her uncle was diagnosed with cancer 2 weeks after our first date and died like another 2 week later >.>)
It could be worse, and it's never too late.
>>17176485
It's a a numbers game... My advice is don't get focus on one girl or else you lose sight of the other girls that have a thing for you. Seth Rogan had a perfect analogy in 40 Year Old Virgin (watch it!)
Basically, the more women you talk to, the more chances you have in hooking up.
You're 21, and a lot of the girls your age aren't going for a long-term relationship unless you display yourself as someone worth keeping.
Seriously, you're 21! Find some girls on tinder...
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Dude, you're only 21
Just keep doing your thing, someone will come along eventually. Trust me, serious long-term relationships come with a lot of shit, commitment isn't easy.
Just try to enjoy being single while you're still young, attractive, and relevant.
Any tinnitus sufferers here? I've had it very mild for about 8 ears until a few days where it got louder due to acoustic shock. Ive been pretty depressed for the last few says, no appetite, no desire to anything I like to to do, cant even jack off. Tryinf to habituate to a sound level sucks.
>>17176470
Go to a doctor if you haven't already. There are ways to fix this.
>8 ears
I've had it since I was 12, and I'm 26 now. I can't remember what silence sounds like. I'm used to it by now and it's just part of my normal state of being.
So my dad is a total prick, and due to his alcoholic abusive bullshit, my mom and he are now separated which will possibly probably lead to their divorce.
My mom is disabled with several disc's missing out of her spine and can barely move, I'm still working on my GED and my sister is only 11.
In other words, things suck right now and they're only going to get suck-ier.
I'm trying to figure out a way to feed us and shit to take some pressure off my mom. I've thought about getting a job at Gamestop or something but I suffer from...
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>>17176455
sell drugs
>>17176455
Honestly.. pic could be related.
Not sure what city you are in near, but petty theft is always an option.
>>17176476
My dad's friends are all police officers. Thats how he gets away with alot of his shit. so, anything illegal ain't gon help me.
Please for the love of God. Teach me how to stop being such a beta faggot, and gain confidence so that I can get a gf. I'm so painfully lonely and I'm sick of feeling this way. My self confidence cannot get any lower! How do I fix this!
>>17176403
>My self confidence cannot get any lower!
That's good. It can only get higher. Build confidence by accomplishing things, as small as they might be. Trying new things, push yourself out of your comfort zone.
It's easy... Simply put, "Do something..."
I have no fucking clue what you look like or what you do but this is what you do... Leave your fucking comfort zone. Put yourself in a position where you will meet people. Join a (co-ed) sport team, a club, or volunteer. Just do something that will allow you to meet people.
Other things to boost confidence... Improve the way you look, seriously. Think of the most alpha people in your life that are getting women (either a celeb, tv characters, etc.), and what do they look like? Chances are, they're fit...
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>>17176403
Honestly practice talking to people especially the gender you're attracted to. With practice you can slowly gain confidence. Also even if you're not confident try to fake it. If you get any positive responses that helps turn false confidence into actual confidence.
sup /adv/ i'm having trouble lasting long enough to satisfy my gf and she's getting pretty upset
any tips on lasting longer in bed?
Lick her pussy
>>17176375
i've tried that she specifically wants me last longer during penetration though because i'm usually only lasting like 2-3 minutes
>>17176367
Cock ring
Destimulating dick gel
Explore what keeps you hard together and experiment
Start using toys for added stimulation and more satisfaction. Maybe you just need a really good kink together.
Im 20 years old.
Frequently when having sex with my girlfriend I'll completely lose my erection.
Im rock hard during foreplay but as soon as I actually start fucking her I go soft.
Anyone else ever have a similar experience to this? What can I do to make sure I stay hard?
>>17176347
probably too much in your head. try to keep up the horniness by being kinky.
Don't fall for the nofap meme. If anything porn is more of a problem than mastubating.
>>17176347
You only like the foreplay, you don't like sex that much.
Either that or you're gay.
I had this one time I think I just got too used to it.
How do I do tgis fractions math problem?
During a 258 mile trip, a car used 10 3/4 gallons of gas. How many miles would we expect the ccar to travel on 1 gallon of gas?
Probably bait since it's really easy math, but miles per gallon= miles travelled divided by gallons of gas used.
Therefore its just 258/10.75 (3/4=.75) which comes out to 24 miles for 1 gallon of gas
>>17176373
How do I divide that though? It has a decimal...
>>17176496
You must be 18 or older to post on this site.
I want to mess around with an overweight, not so great looking 33 year old co-worker but only out of lust.
I don't think I'd ever tell my even my closest friends about it if it happened, so I don't know if I should do it.
I'm a 21 year old virgin but I have a decent face, height, and social skills.. but only in a comfortable setting, which is why I come across so few girls that I can try and date. I have been able to get close with girls but I always manage to sperg it up or more recently ruin it by not knowing how to show my interest in anything other than close friendship.
I feel like I'll meet a girl I'm compatible with eventually, especially when I go to college this September, but I am also really, really horny.
I jerk off at least a few times a day and at work I have a hard time not letting my dick think for me and flirt with this not so bright 33 year old.
Any advice?
Bampu
So I got an odd predicament here ladies and germs. I want to bang one of my best friends' mom. I know it's not right to literally fuck your friends' mom because I wouldn't want the same thing happening to me, but I really have this temptation to. This same friend and I are shipping out to boot camp together and I kind of made this goal in my head to bone his mom before we left. This seems really morally wrong to do, but still so tempting. Should I do it /adv/ or take the high road and not be a blue falcon?
>>17176343
If you know it's not right and morally wrong, then listen to your heart. You know what's right inside, you don't need a bunch of strangers to tell you something that you already know you shouldn't do.
You're under this weird notion that just because you want to bang his mom, it'll happen.
don't do it. would you really want to stick your dick in the same birth canal that your friend came out of?
Every night I go on /adv/ and pretend my problems are more serious than they are because I find the responses amusing and I enjoy the attention
How do I kick this habit?
Stop being a parasite
>>17176285
Go look up the factitious disorders (including the infamous Munchausen's) and see how those patients are helped and rehabilitated: they're addicted to the same thing except they do it with real doctors and psychiatrists.
Basically you have to figure out why you enjoy this and if that drive is natural and healthy, in which case you find another, better way to satisfy it, or unnatural and dangerous, in which case you find a way to suppress or eliminate it.
This is often done with the help of...
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>I pretend my problems are more serious than they are
How are we supposed to know if this is serious, then?
