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>>17179882
>How do you help someone let go?
Someone like this? You don't. You call the police, explain the situation, and let them handle it.

>>17179915
What do you tell the police, though? It seems so insignificant.

>>17179882
The best thing you can do is let them hate you, just be straight forward and let them know that it is over and it doesn't matter what they do. Revenge porn is also illegal in some places, if this is the case let him know you are prepared to press charges.

>>17179871
>Should I smoke (marijuana)

No

no its drug

>>17179872
>>17179873
Why not?

>Militaryfag
>Daydreams about putting a trailer on an empty plot of land
>Canadian cuckwaif
Maybe you should spend your blood money on loftier goals?

But in all seriousness, the best thing you can do is 1) Google new trailer prices in your hometown 2) Call up a few contractors and ask them how much they'll charge to install a trailer and 3) Call up your hometown's building department and ask how much it'll cost to run utility lines to your property, or if you'll need a septic system. There, you now have a solid number to save up for and it'll put your mind at ease.

>>17179865
Get an actual house. Whats the point of a shitty white trash mobile home?

Go to school immediately bro. I've been off active duty about 5 years now, and life has gotten in the way of using my GI Bill, and I have the fully guaranteed school bill. Do it now while you don't have a lot of obligations.

Get a girlfriend.

>>17180045
Yeah not really an option at this point, been single for 2.5 years.

>>17180048
Jerk off your sexual desires away.

Some people are simply unlikable.

>>17179790
you probably smell

>>17179790
>I try to be nice funny and friendly
>I try

Do you like yourself? Would you hang out with you if you had a choice?

>>17179787
If you only lost two years, you did better than most young people today.
You took a lot for granted, but now you don't and you're wiser.
This is pretty much how life goes from here on.

>>17180041
I was massively accomplished by my mid 20's. Master's degree done, high paying professional job, married with 2 kids. I was the shit!
Yea, except that my wife was a horrible person that treated me like shit and I just put up with it like abused slave. All the money I made was spent by her while she cheated on me and I just kept working. I wasted 15 years on that marriage.
Now life is great and I'm older and wiser. I just wish I could go back in time and beat she crap out of myself.

>>17180052
Glad you're good now.

Everything is relative OP, two years is not a lot of time desu, in the end its all in your head. Feeling bad about things won't change anything and you can't go back in time, so just make the best out of what you have left. There's always going to be things that you regret no matter which path in life you take, the difference is if you can carry on or not.

Life finds a way.

If people want to die, let them die. If they find a reason to live, let them live

>>17179792
But is it worth trying to convince someone to go on, because after someone attempts a suicide, they usually still want to die.

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>>17179786

>Should we really discourage people from committing suicide?

Depression is curable. Terminal illnesses aren't.

I neither condone nor discourage suicide, I just do my best to tell the truth and let the reality of the situation represent itself. If the truth is that suicidal feelings could be corrected with medication and therapy I'll say so.

The argument between killing yourself because of a curable illness and an incurable one is vastly different.

I'm 2 years older than this guy, except apparently hes skinnier than me and buys lots of weed and can roll blunts which I cant do. but I have a job /car , a lot bigger and probably stronger. i fucked her last night and came all over her mouth so she kissed him after that. is there some psychological thing I can do to make this feel like I'm cucking the guy

oh and she only started fucking me because she sucked his dick one night and said it was really skinny and short compare to mine and that he came in like a minute. i have his phone number

>>17179726
If she is all those things which I believe and she's taken, what does that make you?

don't stop believing hold on to that feeling.

>>17179672
Find a girl that can't afford a tattoo?

Where the fuck do you live? In my area like 90% of women have no piercings or tattoos.

Pay someone to draw a picture of him and post it on his profile.

>>17179646
>and she thinks it's cute
This is more of the problem than the guy is.

has he offered her the D yet?

>>17179639
why do you think you're important enough to make this stupid thread?

don't answer, it's a rhetorical question.

>>17179639
How did you actually break it off? I'm in a similar situation, I think.

>>17179641
I don't think I'm particularly important. If you think the thread is stupid, please feel free to ignore it.
The real question is: why did you feel the need to comment on it?

well if you were getting an erection from porn its probably not ed.

I've read about performance anxiety and I think it may be that. I'm just curious if anyone could tell me what to do to overcome it. Or even if there's like over the counter shit to take

smoke some weed before sex

citalopram seems to work for me.

I'm drinking escitalopram antidepressants and bromazepam benzos for some 40 days now. Definitely feel a lot better and am more motivated to do shit, talk to people, don't have panic attacks anymore, started going to the gym every other day. How long did you take them? It can be up to 6 weeks before they have an effect and some people need to try different ones if they're not doing anything.

I know two other people who took antidepressants and both will swear that they helped them a lot.

you should definitely weigh the side effects against the pros, since most give you some nasty ones no matter the dosage. if you've ever been suicidal, you'll need to consider getting into (or continuing) therapy just to help record and deal with suicidal thoughts since that's a very common side effect.

otherwise, i can't tell you much since the experience of taking them is usually pretty unique to the individual. they can take a few weeks to months to kick in depending on what you get, so if you start on something and the side effects suck stick it out for a bit until you switch to a new one.

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>>17179596
be truly excellent to yourself everyday!

>>17179596
Just remembering that life isn´t that long, so do whatever you want because the worst thing that could actually happen is death (which you desire in the first place).

Why don't you play a musical instrument? Or write something. Try using that feeling in something artistic

>>17179594

omg this is definitely super serious and deserves special attention.

tell me OP? how long were you dating? four months?

you shave shit and go on about your day.

>>17179595
A long, long time ago.