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/adv/ How do you help someone let go? I broke up with my boyfriend and he won't stop calling and texting, and threatening to release pictures and video he took of me without my knowledge. What do I do?
>>17179882
>How do you help someone let go?
Someone like this? You don't. You call the police, explain the situation, and let them handle it.
>>17179915
What do you tell the police, though? It seems so insignificant.
>>17179882
The best thing you can do is let them hate you, just be straight forward and let them know that it is over and it doesn't matter what they do. Revenge porn is also illegal in some places, if this is the case let him know you are prepared to press charges.
Simple question: Should I smoke (marijuana) tonight? Gotta head out like now to get to the store before it closes.
>>17179871
>Should I smoke (marijuana)
No
no its drug
>>17179872
>>17179873
Why not?
Been in the Army for a year now and my contract is a total of 3 and a half years. No problems with it and I find it easy to save money. Have around 10,000 saved up and I'm planning to move back to the land my dad has given me. I plan on getting a temp home (trailer/mobile home) and moving it on my property. I also have been dating a Canadian woman for 2 years and I plan on getting a marriage license so she can live with me when I get out. I don't know if I should go to college with my gi bill right away or just focus on a full time job. Having enough money for a trailer...
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>Militaryfag
>Daydreams about putting a trailer on an empty plot of land
>Canadian cuckwaif
Maybe you should spend your blood money on loftier goals?
But in all seriousness, the best thing you can do is 1) Google new trailer prices in your hometown 2) Call up a few contractors and ask them how much they'll charge to install a trailer and 3) Call up your hometown's building department and ask how much it'll cost to run utility lines to your property, or if...
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>>17179865
Get an actual house. Whats the point of a shitty white trash mobile home?
Go to school immediately bro. I've been off active duty about 5 years now, and life has gotten in the way of using my GI Bill, and I have the fully guaranteed school bill. Do it now while you don't have a lot of obligations.
How do I stop being addicted to prostitutes? I went to a bar with a few co-workers tonight, and had two beers. At that point I was drunk enough to text an asian hooker from backpage, and drove 30 minutes out of my way to her. We fucked for 10 minutes then she jerked me off.
She was pretty attractive but it definitely wasn't worth the $140 I paid. (I also fucked one on Saturday night). I always feel kinda guilty afterwards and like it was a waste of money.
Get a girlfriend.
>>17180045
Yeah not really an option at this point, been single for 2.5 years.
>>17180048
Jerk off your sexual desires away.
Why does nobody fucking like me? I try to be nice funny and friendly with online shut in groups, but i still get singled out and bullied even though others are way more autistic than i am. Just what the fuck dude?
Some people are simply unlikable.
>>17179790
you probably smell
>>17179790
>I try to be nice funny and friendly
>I try
Do you like yourself? Would you hang out with you if you had a choice?
>takes me two years to get on track for my career with a proper job as a young professional
>get a really good gig going for me right now but regret how I went through college
I feel like I failed because I took a lot for granted.
It's like the feeling of cheating, how you only cheat yourself?
>>17179787
If you only lost two years, you did better than most young people today.
You took a lot for granted, but now you don't and you're wiser.
This is pretty much how life goes from here on.
>>17180041
I was massively accomplished by my mid 20's. Master's degree done, high paying professional job, married with 2 kids. I was the shit!
Yea, except that my wife was a horrible person that treated me like shit and I just put up with it like abused slave. All the money I made was spent by her while she cheated on me and I just kept working. I wasted 15 years on that marriage.
Now life is great and I'm older and wiser. I just wish I could go back in time and beat she crap out of myself.
>>17180052
Glad you're good now.
Everything is relative OP, two years is not a lot of time desu, in the end its all in your head. Feeling bad about things won't change anything and you can't go back in time, so just make the best out of what you have left. There's always going to be things that you regret no matter which path in life you take, the difference is if you can carry on or not.
Should we really discourage people from committing suicide? Like the terminally ill and the ones who are endlessly depressed. I'm writing a long ass report on suicide and 4chan has some really interesting perspectives, so please give me some imput
Life finds a way.
If people want to die, let them die. If they find a reason to live, let them live
>>17179792
But is it worth trying to convince someone to go on, because after someone attempts a suicide, they usually still want to die.
>>17179786
>Should we really discourage people from committing suicide?
Depression is curable. Terminal illnesses aren't.
I neither condone nor discourage suicide, I just do my best to tell the truth and let the reality of the situation represent itself. If the truth is that suicidal feelings could be corrected with medication and therapy I'll say so.
The argument between killing yourself because of a curable illness and an incurable one is vastly different.
how do I accept that my ex of three years is a total slut and get rid of this golden image I have of her.. she dumped me for another guy but now I'm fucking her on the side and she's fucking the guy right now , I mean his dick is way smaller than mine. but im still triggered by this. opinion??? and I've fucked her more times /came in all her holes than anyone else could even catch up to, but still..
I'm 2 years older than this guy, except apparently hes skinnier than me and buys lots of weed and can roll blunts which I cant do. but I have a job /car , a lot bigger and probably stronger. i fucked her last night and came all over her mouth so she kissed him after that. is there some psychological thing I can do to make this feel like I'm cucking the guy
oh and she only started fucking me because she sucked his dick one night and said it was really skinny and short compare to mine and that he came in like a minute. i have his phone number
>>17179726
If she is all those things which I believe and she's taken, what does that make you?
I can't stand women with tattoos and piercings, but almost all of them get them now. Getting hard to find a new gf. What should I do?
don't stop believing hold on to that feeling.
>>17179672
Find a girl that can't afford a tattoo?
Where the fuck do you live? In my area like 90% of women have no piercings or tattoos.
This old creepy dude keeps drawing pictures of my gf on Facebook and she thinks it's cute. What do I do?
Pay someone to draw a picture of him and post it on his profile.
>>17179646
>and she thinks it's cute
This is more of the problem than the guy is.
has he offered her the D yet?
I just got out of a relationship of 7 years.
Ask me anything
>>17179639
why do you think you're important enough to make this stupid thread?
don't answer, it's a rhetorical question.
>>17179639
How did you actually break it off? I'm in a similar situation, I think.
>>17179641
I don't think I'm particularly important. If you think the thread is stupid, please feel free to ignore it.
The real question is: why did you feel the need to comment on it?
I don't know if I should see a doctor or not but I'm 20 and can't maintain an erection during sex. I find my girlfriend completely attractive and I still cant I don't know if it's psychological or if I have real ed or something. I've been off porn for weeks now and I still feel like that hasn't done the trick
well if you were getting an erection from porn its probably not ed.
I've read about performance anxiety and I think it may be that. I'm just curious if anyone could tell me what to do to overcome it. Or even if there's like over the counter shit to take
smoke some weed before sex
I was prescribed antidepressants several years ago and i took them without any real changes.
I believe the stresses and pressure I was under at the time is what caused my severe anxiety and overall emotional breakdown.
I'm considering trying them again but i'm not sure if I should or not.
Does anyone here have any experience with antidepressants?
citalopram seems to work for me.
I'm drinking escitalopram antidepressants and bromazepam benzos for some 40 days now. Definitely feel a lot better and am more motivated to do shit, talk to people, don't have panic attacks anymore, started going to the gym every other day. How long did you take them? It can be up to 6 weeks before they have an effect and some people need to try different ones if they're not doing anything.
I know two other people who took antidepressants and both will swear that they helped them a lot.
you should definitely weigh the side effects against the pros, since most give you some nasty ones no matter the dosage. if you've ever been suicidal, you'll need to consider getting into (or continuing) therapy just to help record and deal with suicidal thoughts since that's a very common side effect.
otherwise, i can't tell you much since the experience of taking them is usually pretty unique to the individual. they can take a few weeks to months to kick in depending on what you get, so if you start on something and the side effects suck stick it...
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Any tips on how to not want to kill yourself?
>>17179596
be truly excellent to yourself everyday!
>>17179596
Just remembering that life isn´t that long, so do whatever you want because the worst thing that could actually happen is death (which you desire in the first place).
Why don't you play a musical instrument? Or write something. Try using that feeling in something artistic
I am going to fall apart. What do I do to put a human being together?
>>17179594
omg this is definitely super serious and deserves special attention.
tell me OP? how long were you dating? four months?
you shave shit and go on about your day.
>>17179595
A long, long time ago.
